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Violent trans rights protest in Manchester.

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GreenFriedTomato · 02/07/2025 17:42

This happened 2 weeks ago but I only found out about it when Mr.Menno uploaded a video yesterday.
A few local YouTubers were there and got plenty of footage. Notably they were all quite shocked at how aggressive the TRA's were. Well the ones who weren't familiar with the way they operate.
They didn't just stick to marching through the streets. They invaded the Arndale Centre and marched shouting and swearing while rather bemused looking people were shopping and trying to enjoy their day.
Things turned violent as usual. Two young lesbians got punched and dragged to the floor.
I've linked to a video by Billy Moore who generally goes around filming the city and talking to homeless people and so on. It's quite long but the trans stuff starts around the 15 minute.mark if anyone's interested.

So ironic to see allies bleating on about how trans are the most marginalised and vulnerable and have had their dignity and rights taken away, while the delicate flowers are being filmed acting violently and attacking women (and men).

But carry on lads. People need to see more of this.

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MoodyAndBlue · 04/07/2025 14:54

GarlicMetre · 03/07/2025 21:43

She pushed that bloke forwards because he was pushing her from in front. She was getting shoved back onto some other hefty protesters, who were trying to push back at her. TLDR: she was being sandwiched so tried to push the front guy out of the way.

They were grabbing at both the women. You can just see it at the sides of the frame.

But why did they even get in amongst them? Surely they could have just filmed from the side.

MoodyAndBlue · 04/07/2025 14:39

WomenShouldStillWinWomensSportsIsBack · 03/07/2025 18:07

I'm afraid I disagree. When I meet my numerous trans friends/relatives to speak to them, they're lovely and considerate, but then I see the misinformation and inflammatory shit they're posting and sharing on Facebook and realise that's only part of the story, to the point that I don't really want to see them anymore because of the amount of petrol-filled grenades they chuck out on social media with the assumption that everyone they know agrees with them.
I have come to realise that friendship with them is conditional on being inside the rightthink.
Maybe there are these mythical quiet trans people out there who are accomplished critical thinkers who can see the problems with TRA ideology but stay silent, but my friends/relatives are fairly quiet and unassuming in person largely due to massive social anxiety issues and autism stopping them saying or doing out loud a lot of what they feel safe to say or do online. That doesn't mean they don't agree with the TRAs, support them, send them money or perpetuate their lies.

They are not ' mythical' I know quite a number of trans people and none of them are like these people that are being described.

MoodyAndBlue · 04/07/2025 14:35

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 03/07/2025 19:18

As far as I know, no trans person I have met has been involved in physical violence - but shouting "bigot" and trying to impose their rules have been a common factor, even with those who have been prepared to have some debate with me.

I know very different people to you then and I'm sorry you have unpleasant people in your life. If you take any group of group of people though there will always be the unpleasant ones, racists etc etc. There are plenty of white people who are racist and bigoted, doesn't mean I am just because I'm white. You could literally apply it to just about any group in society and there will always be the trouble makers, football hooligans for example. So many many different examples and they shouldn't mean everyone else is tarred with the same brush

spannasaurus · 04/07/2025 13:57

MoodyAndBlue · 04/07/2025 13:51

Why were the two lesbians going to the front and getting in the crowd when they clearly didn't agree with the protest. One had a body cam on. It's almost like looking for trouble. Seems weird to mr

They weren't getting in the crowd. The crowd surrounded them. It's a common TRA tactic, surround and kettle people them complain about them being violent and invading TRA space.

MoodyAndBlue · 04/07/2025 13:51

Why were the two lesbians going to the front and getting in the crowd when they clearly didn't agree with the protest. One had a body cam on. It's almost like looking for trouble. Seems weird to mr

RedToothBrush · 04/07/2025 13:29

Diverze · 04/07/2025 13:16

We have had this conversation before as well on here.
Trans people by and large are not "lying" in their heads. The vast majority believe sincerely that they have the soul or essence of the sex that their body is not.

You might think this is a mental disorder, an abberation, brainwashing, a cult, you might disagree with their thoughts and feelings.

But the vast majority of trans people (especially the young, vulnerable ones) are not deliberately lying when they say that they believe they are the other gender.

Whats going on in their heads is irrelevant, if they know they are trans because if they do, they know their gender identity isn't the same as their birth sex and the law has been clear about this.

They therefore make a clear choice to ignore the law.

Diverze · 04/07/2025 13:16

Grammarnut · 04/07/2025 13:09

All trans people are lying, though. They are pretending to be members of the opposite sex and invading the opposite sex spaces etc.This causes women (including TiF) great harm. And women at LWS or other meetings, demos or rallies do not behave in an aggressive manner in any way at all. Unlike TRAs.
Interesting to watch was the number of allies being asked what rights trans people had lost, and not being able to answer except 'all of them' or 'lots of them'. Since no rights have been lost at all this was very instructive - groupthink and indoctrination.

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We have had this conversation before as well on here.
Trans people by and large are not "lying" in their heads. The vast majority believe sincerely that they have the soul or essence of the sex that their body is not.

You might think this is a mental disorder, an abberation, brainwashing, a cult, you might disagree with their thoughts and feelings.

But the vast majority of trans people (especially the young, vulnerable ones) are not deliberately lying when they say that they believe they are the other gender.

Grammarnut · 04/07/2025 13:09

Diverze · 04/07/2025 07:47

That is exactly how what you wrote is interpreted grammatically. You wrote

"Allies (claim) trans are the most marginalised and vulnerable .....while the delicate flowers are on film acting violently and attacking women (and men)".

So whether it was your intent or not, you made no distinction between trans people and TRAs and did in fact in what you wrote, blame trans people for the actions of TRAs.

All trans people are lying, though. They are pretending to be members of the opposite sex and invading the opposite sex spaces etc.This causes women (including TiF) great harm. And women at LWS or other meetings, demos or rallies do not behave in an aggressive manner in any way at all. Unlike TRAs.
Interesting to watch was the number of allies being asked what rights trans people had lost, and not being able to answer except 'all of them' or 'lots of them'. Since no rights have been lost at all this was very instructive - groupthink and indoctrination.

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 04/07/2025 13:04

GreenFriedTomato · 04/07/2025 08:25

Exactly. There is a youtuber from Nottingham who was invited by LWS to view and film their event. They wanted it to be recorded and engage with him. He really didn't have a clue and ended up approaching the TRA side by mistake.
As soon as they realised he wasn't one of them (he wasn't against either, he was completely neutral as he didn't even know anything about either protest - just that it was 'something about rights') they turned against him and got incredibly violent. The police attended.
The women never behave in this way

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It was even more ironic than that. From what the Nottingham YouTuber said about who invited him, it sounded like it was the TRA women at Nottingham Women's Aid (?) who contacted him out of the blue, suggesting that he come along to film them protesting the LWS event.

I am happy to be corrected but that is what I took from what the Nottingham YouTuber said.

I also find it very hard to imagine that LWS invited him to record the event. LWS events are set up to be live-streamed by KJK, direct to YouTube with one camera and direct to Twitter/X with another camera. They do not need to invite independent YouTubers to record the events on their behalf, although they do sometimes turn up.

Whatever, as PP have mentioned, the main things of note here are not how random YouTubers and sometimes "auditors" conduct themselves at events but

  • how those who are being filmed react (comparing women's rights activists to TRAs) and
  • the fact that otherwise there would be no public record at all or only a mainstream media propaganda version.

The "Laughing Auditor" has been wrongly criticised for seeking out "click bait" after he accidentally stumbled across the protest outside the building where the Lesbian Project was being launched. That was an unexpected baptism of fire for him and he has subsequently attended events where he expects to film more Men in Frocks Behaving Exceptionally Badly.

I honestly do not understand why the YouTubers and "auditors" are being blamed for the bad behaviour of people who have a habit of launching unprovoked attacks on women and innocent bystanders.

The YouTubers go all around the country filming and talking to random people on the streets without incident. It is no wonder that they are shocked when confronted with the naked aggression, harassment, obstruction and unhinged behaviour of TRAs.

IMHO at least part of the reason for TRAs behaving so badly at these events is that TRAs have taken over Anarchist and Antifa groups while "Anti-Racism" groups that are a front for the SWP have taken both them and free-floating TRAs under their wing.

Hence the paranoia, mask-wearing, self-righteous omnicause sloganeering (eg. Free Palestine and Trans Liberation in the same breath); mainly male crowds with a smattering of female Anarchist "cis allies" promoting "sex work" alongside representatives of "inclusive intersectional feminist" rape crisis services for "all women"; "Anti-Racist" groups organising the protests against the protests against "Drag Queen Story Hour" events, etc. etc.

There is a lot of fighting talk along with the usual suicide scare-mongering and genocide hyperbole in polemics published under the rubrics of "Tranarchy", "Trans Anarchism", "Trans Anarcho-Communism", etc. It is possible that the minority of those attending TRA rallies and protests who are violent, paranoid and obstructive might be driven as much by extremist political indoctrination as wrong-sex hormones and/or mental instability.

TheOtherRaven · 04/07/2025 11:28

Quite. This is NAMALTing.

It's like 'oh but you can't keep men out of women's toilets because what if you accidentally questioned some poor woman who looks a bit masculine' which is trying to manipulate women for men's benefit by leveraging their concern for other women and desire to be nice.

Fuck this. Fuck it completely.

At this point the TQ movement had less blotted their copybook than peed on it and set it on fire. Any bridge building with women is now going to have to come entirely from this apparently vast population of women-friendly reasonable TQ people.

But I repeat, again, all the TQ people I know, who are not peeing everywhere and screaming obscenities at random shoppers for no apparent reason, all absolutely believe in the entitlements, the harm, the violence, the primacy, they are cheering it on. It IS in their name. This is what the TQ movement is.

akkakk · 04/07/2025 09:25

Diverze · 04/07/2025 07:47

That is exactly how what you wrote is interpreted grammatically. You wrote

"Allies (claim) trans are the most marginalised and vulnerable .....while the delicate flowers are on film acting violently and attacking women (and men)".

So whether it was your intent or not, you made no distinction between trans people and TRAs and did in fact in what you wrote, blame trans people for the actions of TRAs.

So - are you saying that TRAs and trans people are two completely separate groups? If so it might be the first time in history that advocacy for a group has come only from those not in that group…

if not (and we know there is overlap) then it is valid to say that many TRAs are also in the trans group…

the irony being pointed out that there is a claim being made in video that trans people are ‘delicate flowers’ while at a protest where they are clearly showing anything but!

this is yet another issue to be challenged - the deliberate lies to distort the truth… on the one hand make loud claims of minority (accurate) / vulnerability (while physically and verbally attacking others including death threats) / ‘literally suicidal’ (despite literally not being suicidal!) / oppressed (while being the oppressor)… while on the other hand every action showing the absolute opposite

as others have said - if this is not the habit of trans people then where are those criticising it?

as a man I am happy to stand up and say not in my name - they may be men, but they don’t speak for all men, nor is what they do something of which any man would be proud

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 04/07/2025 08:53

RedToothBrush · 04/07/2025 06:09

They end up antagonising the situation though. They aren't neutral bystanders. They have a firm agenda and a vested reason to want aggro. It gives them a career. So yes they are part of the problem because they are making a career out of it.

We live in an age of mobile phones. If something happens then there's footage that can be used. It's much less confrontational and if it's coming from those affected it's not adding this element of professional YouTuber looking for drama.

YouTubers could use this. They don't because they want to be the one with the insight, exclusive or scoop. And that's where it goes wrong.

And their in lies a lot of the problem. They aren't neutral observers. They benefit from sensationalism. Many have very clear agendas. And that raises questions about the information they give you.

It's fuelling problems and they become part of that problem as a result.

It creates situations which are being manipulated to cause disorder.

Agree. These YouTubers are an embarrassment.

GreenFriedTomato · 04/07/2025 08:25

Exactly. There is a youtuber from Nottingham who was invited by LWS to view and film their event. They wanted it to be recorded and engage with him. He really didn't have a clue and ended up approaching the TRA side by mistake.
As soon as they realised he wasn't one of them (he wasn't against either, he was completely neutral as he didn't even know anything about either protest - just that it was 'something about rights') they turned against him and got incredibly violent. The police attended.
The women never behave in this way

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Helleofabore · 04/07/2025 08:18

RedToothBrush · 04/07/2025 08:08

I think we should discuss these points cos it's relevant and I do see obvious issues starting to arise. The 'both sides' argument raises its ugly head unfortunately.

The ones who simply record the event giving commentary as they go, seem inevitably to be provocative just by being there.

This is the sense I get tbh. The people there can hear the editorial line straight away.

Position in the crowds is also another issue. Having a camera up close is different from filming from a wider angle. Regardless of intention it can create a sense of intimidation.

I think we are going to get more issues with this in future on a range of issues.

I think we are getting a range of issues now. I agree.

However, there really is a difference between someone who is standing back but using zoom functions and recording and someone who is in people’s personal space. Those who are deliberately up close can be said to be there provoking reaction vs those who are recording but are then brigaded.

In saying all that though, again the differences in reaction when one of these auditors is close up to the women who are there to listen and speak about women’s rights still don’t react in the same way as those aggressive protestors. The difference is remarkable. And it is consistent.

GreenFriedTomato · 04/07/2025 08:16

@Helleofabore that is pretty much what I wanted/have been trying to say but you have put it clearly. Thank you

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RedToothBrush · 04/07/2025 08:08

Helleofabore · 04/07/2025 07:58

I have mixed feelings about the auditing / citizen journalist community. However, since the protest in front of the Victorian State Parliament House, I do have an appreciation for some of them.

The footage collected by Rukshan was vital in understanding what happened that day. There was not enough footage taken by others to give the depth of understanding. There was no news service coverage. And other people’s footage was fine to see perspective from some vantage points but they were static and not moving around the area.

From watching his footage, he only interacted with people who knew him. But he documented the day, as a whole, better than anyone else.

Same as the guy who audited the NZ rally and had the camera that is very high up as well as at least one other camera.

Whereas The Laughing Auditor does seem to interact with people and it has to be said that some of this interaction could be provocative. However, on the other hand, in the footage he collects it does seem that those who are acting reasonably are not the ones who are antagonised by his presence and questions. Of course, I also don’t think he or anyone should be distracting police with unnecessary questions in those situations. It seems some of the auditors are there to get footage of police negligence. I think there are some auditors who use this provoking style.

The ones who simply record the event giving commentary as they go, seem inevitably to be provocative just by being there. Just recording the group with no other interaction is met with aggression. People at women’s events protesting don’t want to have their actions recorded, they are the ones blocking cameras or knocking them out of hands or trying to chase anyone with a camera away.

It is significant that I have never seen the women attending to listen or speak react in this way. If someone is recording them they might move away, if they ask the women provocative questions they might get humorous comebacks as answers or calm and considered answers. They don’t get aggressive behaviour from the women from what I have seen.

What these auditors do however is provide a continuous stream of footage, usually live streamed. And they are not participating otherwise so they are flexible in where they go. Their objective is to record any controversy as it is happening so of course, if there is any they will find it. (Even if the controversy is showing the aggressive tactics of those supposedly ‘peaceful’ protestors.).

Often these uncut streams are vital to understanding the truth in a situation. Obviously that is their purpose. Piecing together various other footage to establish what has happened is also useful but is time consuming and anyone doing that kind of aggregation takes time before it can be released. And even then need, that needs to be verified too. Often using auditor live streams to do so.

I think we should discuss these points cos it's relevant and I do see obvious issues starting to arise. The 'both sides' argument raises its ugly head unfortunately.

The ones who simply record the event giving commentary as they go, seem inevitably to be provocative just by being there.

This is the sense I get tbh. The people there can hear the editorial line straight away.

Position in the crowds is also another issue. Having a camera up close is different from filming from a wider angle. Regardless of intention it can create a sense of intimidation.

I think we are going to get more issues with this in future on a range of issues.

GreenFriedTomato · 04/07/2025 08:06

The woman in the video was clearly including her fellow protestors in this 'vulnerable marginalised ' group..After spending hours marching with them while they pushed and shoved and attacked people..That was the irony.

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GreenFriedTomato · 04/07/2025 08:02

Diverze · 04/07/2025 07:47

That is exactly how what you wrote is interpreted grammatically. You wrote

"Allies (claim) trans are the most marginalised and vulnerable .....while the delicate flowers are on film acting violently and attacking women (and men)".

So whether it was your intent or not, you made no distinction between trans people and TRAs and did in fact in what you wrote, blame trans people for the actions of TRAs.

Well I clearly was referring to the irony of the allies claim that trans are the most vulnerable while the trans in the video stood metres away from them* *were acting violently. And I stand by what I said about them not being the most vulnerable group.

I did actually clarify that shortly after you posted.

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Helleofabore · 04/07/2025 07:58

I have mixed feelings about the auditing / citizen journalist community. However, since the protest in front of the Victorian State Parliament House, I do have an appreciation for some of them.

The footage collected by Rukshan was vital in understanding what happened that day. There was not enough footage taken by others to give the depth of understanding. There was no news service coverage. And other people’s footage was fine to see perspective from some vantage points but they were static and not moving around the area.

From watching his footage, he only interacted with people who knew him. But he documented the day, as a whole, better than anyone else.

Same as the guy who audited the NZ rally and had the camera that is very high up as well as at least one other camera.

Whereas The Laughing Auditor does seem to interact with people and it has to be said that some of this interaction could be provocative. However, on the other hand, in the footage he collects it does seem that those who are acting reasonably are not the ones who are antagonised by his presence and questions. Of course, I also don’t think he or anyone should be distracting police with unnecessary questions in those situations. It seems some of the auditors are there to get footage of police negligence. I think there are some auditors who use this provoking style.

The ones who simply record the event giving commentary as they go, seem inevitably to be provocative just by being there. Just recording the group with no other interaction is met with aggression. People at women’s events protesting don’t want to have their actions recorded, they are the ones blocking cameras or knocking them out of hands or trying to chase anyone with a camera away.

It is significant that I have never seen the women attending to listen or speak react in this way. If someone is recording them they might move away, if they ask the women provocative questions they might get humorous comebacks as answers or calm and considered answers. They don’t get aggressive behaviour from the women from what I have seen.

What these auditors do however is provide a continuous stream of footage, usually live streamed. And they are not participating otherwise so they are flexible in where they go. Their objective is to record any controversy as it is happening so of course, if there is any they will find it. (Even if the controversy is showing the aggressive tactics of those supposedly ‘peaceful’ protestors.).

Often these uncut streams are vital to understanding the truth in a situation. Obviously that is their purpose. Piecing together various other footage to establish what has happened is also useful but is time consuming and anyone doing that kind of aggregation takes time before it can be released. And even then need, that needs to be verified too. Often using auditor live streams to do so.

Brefugee · 04/07/2025 07:49

I expect Muslims to push back when people say "all muslims are terrorists" and i am with them on that.

But when a terrorist organisation says they are acting in the name of Allah, and Islam has just claimed responsiblity for a terrorist act in the name of Islam - and often shouting "Alluh Akbar" (sorry if spelling is incorrect) - i expect Muslims to say "nope, not in my name". The same as i expect men witnessing sexism to address it with other men.

Diverze · 04/07/2025 07:47

GreenFriedTomato · 04/07/2025 07:42

No. The Muslim analogy doesn't work here. The 'all Muslims are radicals because of the actions of a few'
No one is saying that all trans identifying males are predators because of the actions of a few. Or that all trans are violent because of the actions of a few.

It's that most TRA's are violent and that ALL trans identifying males are men, and no men should demand the right to enter single sex female spaces regardless of how they identify or how nice they are

That is exactly how what you wrote is interpreted grammatically. You wrote

"Allies (claim) trans are the most marginalised and vulnerable .....while the delicate flowers are on film acting violently and attacking women (and men)".

So whether it was your intent or not, you made no distinction between trans people and TRAs and did in fact in what you wrote, blame trans people for the actions of TRAs.

GreenFriedTomato · 04/07/2025 07:42

No. The Muslim analogy doesn't work here. The 'all Muslims are radicals because of the actions of a few'
No one is saying that all trans identifying males are predators because of the actions of a few. Or that all trans are violent because of the actions of a few.

It's that most TRA's are violent and that ALL trans identifying males are men, and no men should demand the right to enter single sex female spaces regardless of how they identify or how nice they are

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SardinesOnGingerbread · 04/07/2025 07:25

Diverze · 03/07/2025 08:50

"ironic to see allies bleating on about how trans are the most marginalised and vulnerable and have had their dignity and rights taken away, while the delicate flowers are being filmed acting violently and attacking women (and men)."

I know I have said this before but this is how radicalisation starts. You take the actions of extremists and apply the same motivations to all members of that group. It's lazy thinking and its dangerous thinking. It's dehumanising and I personally find it deeply worrying that it's on this site day in and day out.

Let's use an analogy. "Ironic how British Muslims claim to be feeling marginalised and vulnerable, while the delicate flowers are on film acting violently stabbing people and blowing up the tube".

Clearly my next door neighbours, who are Muslim, had nothing whatsoever to do with the actions of the radical few, and they should not be held accountable for it.

All trans people are not trans activists. Just like all Muslims are not radicals, all Jewish people aren't Zionists, and all fat people aren't lazy and greedy.

Most trans people are not at rallies attacking women and men. Please check your language. Just like you claim for pronouns, it matters. "Some of the delicate flowers", fair enough (though the contempt drips from your use of "delicate flowers" to describe trans women).

Good reminder, and I thank you. That's important to remember and I really understood your Muslim analogy.

GreenFriedTomato · 04/07/2025 06:36

I agree they some YouTubers are like that. On the other hand many others aren't.

We live in an age of mobile phones. If something happens then there's footage that can be used

You mean if someone is attacked, this footage can be given to the police? Fair enough.

But I'm not going to be able to watch a protest (or other event) from someone's random phone footage unless they are posting it to social media. Which would then make them part of the problem according to your posts.

Billy Moore for example generally just wanders around talking to random people in the street. He's an ex drug user and chats a lot to homeless people. I didn't see him causing any aggro at this event. He did respond to people blocking and shoving him though. He just turned up because he was already in the area that day. The lesbians clearly turned up to document.
If Mr Mennos presence at TRA marches is considered confrontational (or any opposition for that matter) tough They're just filming a s I'm grateful for that. We wouldn't even know half of the violent behaviour women have suffered if it hadn't been filmed. They're not attacking or threatening the protestors. Should people only be able to attend and observe/film if they are on the same side as those protesting?
I don't think the aggression of TRA protestors can be blamed on those filming. They go mental at anyone who challenges them
Do women at LWS events go mental and start attacking people who film them? No. They just carry on and ignore them

And finally back to your point of there are people with cameras so if anything happened some would have footage. One side aren't going to publish footage of their own misbehaving and how would some random passerby have footage if they weren't already continuously filming with that purpose? They're not going to dig.their phones out and capture an assault AFTER it's happened and probably wouldn't stick around anyway.

Those are my views anyway but I understand yours are completely different

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RedToothBrush · 04/07/2025 06:09

GreenFriedTomato · 04/07/2025 06:00

How else would we know what happens at events if people aren't there to document them? It's not as if the mainstream media are going to to broadcast an unbiased unedited account?

Do you include anyone videoing an event or just those who post the footage on social media ?

Personally I'd rather see someone like Billy Moore or Wesley Winter simply standing there and filming (either asking questions or not providing any commentary at all) than the BBC for example that will edit things about and provide a biased account only showing one side of the story.

I appreciate many YouTubers because without them, I wouldn't have a clue what happens in my city because the regular media either don't report it, or report inaccurately

They end up antagonising the situation though. They aren't neutral bystanders. They have a firm agenda and a vested reason to want aggro. It gives them a career. So yes they are part of the problem because they are making a career out of it.

We live in an age of mobile phones. If something happens then there's footage that can be used. It's much less confrontational and if it's coming from those affected it's not adding this element of professional YouTuber looking for drama.

YouTubers could use this. They don't because they want to be the one with the insight, exclusive or scoop. And that's where it goes wrong.

And their in lies a lot of the problem. They aren't neutral observers. They benefit from sensationalism. Many have very clear agendas. And that raises questions about the information they give you.

It's fuelling problems and they become part of that problem as a result.

It creates situations which are being manipulated to cause disorder.