Mumsnet Obsession With Penises

Most trans identified girls are actually lesbians, and a large number of trans identified men are gay; the other half are cross dressers who have taken things "full time".

Did you not read the Cass report and the findings coming out of the Tavistock - that large numbers of children presenting were either gay and/or autistic; and sometimes with actively homophobic parents.

Meatball curry is 100% a thing. It's a household classic in some Malaysian communities.

With people like the OP, you can't even begin to get involved in the argument that women don't want men in there whether they're dangerous or not.

Even when they know full well they're absolutely not.

I don't want to be in the same changing room as my father-in-law. And he's lovely.

I grew up in the 80's; had my bum fondled on a staircase aged 7; was flashed at, cat called and had 'whore' shouted at me as a frightened teen...by men. I was terrified walking home from the bus stop - I used to take my shoes off and run.

i'll never understand how people like the OP don't realise that now this man, and every other predator in the land, can follow them straight into the toilet, changing room - and rape refuge.

@Manfreglory imagine if we invented a rule that said adult men could be alone with children and teens, because they belonged to a special sub group of men who said they genuinely meant them no harm.

What do you think would happen?

And you really think that now everybody believes that ALL priests are predators??

Stop just blindly thinking that a sub group of men are the most vulnerable people in the world, and listen to what is actually happening because they are demanding a loophole that erases safeguarding altogether.

Why would they do that? And why would you support it?

Did you know that in 19th century South Africa black people were termed "non human?". Substitute "trans" for "black" and "not women" for "not human" and then see how your hatred is working for you.

I’ve just noticed this. (Honestly who has the time to read everything) Setting aside the patronising assumption that the OP is the only one who knows anything about 19th century and apartheid-era South Africa, the accurate parallel here is the Green’s category ‘non-men’. Maybe the OP would like to reflect on that.

In fact the percentage of sex offenders with trans identities is actually higher percentage wise than is the average for men generally.

Nobody is "shoving anyone under a bus"...just into the facilities designated for them.

It is actually women and girls that have been shoved under a bus......their boundaries trampled; their spaces invaded; their sporting achievements stolen; banned from forums, disciplined at work; reprimanded in school; been subject to violent rhetoric.....their language censored; their words appropriated.

You do know you can be concerned with more than one thing or issue at a time, don't you? It is not either - or. Many here are long time activists on all sorts of issues, and/or intimately involved with female issues on many levels ( and obviously being female themselves)

But not being able to define what a woman is is a pretty fundamental issue. How can you protect or effectively campaign for something you can adequately define; and how is permitting males to identify into female spaces and categories in anyway compatible with female dignity and integrity?

The colonisation of female space by trans ideology seeks to erase women and girls as a distinct category of human being...along with all rights and protections afforded to that group. That is a pretty major issue for those who are concerned with the lives of women and girls on the ground and in everyday reality...rather than in the pages of an ideological manifesto.

I have a recipe! You airfry them until they collapse & shrivel. Then you discard the crackly blackened skin & cook the delicious smoky pulp with onions, spices & tomatoes.

Oh no wait...that's for 🍆🍆🍆. 🤔

Lots of women here do have children who have adopted trans identities; and quite a few have husbands who have also done so.

Mumsnet's habit of shunting threads that started elsewhere into FWR is not helping things. Particularly when neither the OP nor FWR regulars realise what has happened.

Yes, I imagine the transfer is as much of a shock, if not more, to the OP than it is to us.
OP should be ashamed that their standard of debate was so poor that PPs judged them to be an 11 year old.

I might be in the market for a recipe for curried pumpkin 🎃 if I'm successful in growing one of the sodding things.

Weirdly, I'm am a bit obsessed with their pistils.

I think this thread started off in Chat (not Feminism Chat), which is where the original "What’s the most controversial opinion you hold?" thread is located but is full.

Then, due to the nature of the topic, Mumsnet shunted it to FWR 🙄

Unless the OP cunningly started a thread in AIBU in May to establish a false persona: they are an adult; originally from the UK; who normally lives in "North America"; but is currently living in the UK looking after their father and has a daughter in Canada.

Not clear if M or F.

So many weird contributions to FWR recently and Mumsnet Advanced Search being so effin useless that I am routinely using an internet search engine to search for, eg. "Manfreglory" site:mumsnet.com

Double quotes around the user name helps to exclude false positives from search results.

Some of the other unusual posts that have been plaguing us, that I wrongly suspected were made by new kids on the block coming here from Reddit, have turned out to be from long-standing Mumsnetters who are not FWR regulars.

Mumsnet's habit of shunting threads that started elsewhere into FWR is not helping things. Particularly when neither the OP nor FWR regulars realise what has happened.

It would avoid misunderstandings if MNHQ made an announcement in-thread when they did this.

Someone could ask Sarah Jane Baker perhaps? Though I think it was claimed to be testicles, eaten raw.

@Manfreglory

On the off chance that you're still reading, OP, do you have any idea how ridiculous it sounds when you say that can't be a transwoman, it's a raping, violent, disgusting man.

When there is absolutely no verifiable difference, whatsoever, between the two?

There is no criteria for being trans, other than saying it out loud.

So just think for one single fucking second that if you create a rule where saying some words out loud gives any man, anywhere, access to vulnerable women and children, who the fuck do you think is gonna take advantage of that??

And don't say, you can't blame trans people. If you've got no criteria, it IS trans people.

Think!

The really sad thing for me is, that conversation was nearly identical to one I had with my best friend on this issue 😥.

I just couldn't believe it. Still can't. 😥

Christ on a bike ….i don’t know how Tom managed to stay so calm during that exchange. Rachel desperately trying to stay on message from what has been drummed into her. Going so far as to downplay a woman being raped by a transwoman on a hospital ward by talking about male rape in prisons! Ignoring the point about this particular example being the gaslighting and denials by staff that the rape was even a possibility. A situation that could only be brought about by blind allegiance to the cause of TWAW.

Well who wouldn't be obsessed with penises? They are so beautiful, reminiscent of days of yore in their slightly overblown, generous elegance.

They are so lovely I've just sent a bunch of them to a friend for her birthday, I know she'll love them. And free chocolates too!

Alternatively it's an 11 year old in a different time zone. 02:30 BST is 21:30 in New York & 18:30 in San Francisco.

Oh I occasionally post very late or very early. But that's generally the exception and it's quiet between 2am and 5am as a rule.

Mind you, I was posting at silly o'clock in the morning because the caravan was like an oven and I had gotten bored of glaring at my snoring husband and had run out of revenge scenarios in my head.

(Not a parent of a gender questioning child, but you get the drift)

Tbf, I can only (theoretically) link this particular thread in relation to the 'controversial opinion thread'. The rest may just be our usual 'say mad shit' ploppers, apropos of nothing.

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Fowl Cock Curry?

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