Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Wow. Have you seen all the Pride and Trans flags flying in the audiences at Glastonbury?

438 replies

DiamondThrone · 28/06/2025 00:01

No. Neither have I.

OP posts:
Thread gallery
13
FeistyCat · 30/06/2025 02:39

WithSilverBells · 29/06/2025 19:25

One Progress Pride window sticker in town, two low-key window stickers in the city (one being M&S ofc 🙄). Absolutely nothing in Tesco, whereas you couldn't move for Pride stuff in there a couple of years ago. No actual flags anywhere

Trans have really destroyed the Pride movement. I truly feel sorry for LGB people. They're almost back where they started, with the hatred of them.

FeistyCat · 30/06/2025 02:36

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 19:07

Why cant you believe me? Think about any nice man you know. Picture him in your head. Now think of a female person you wouldnt trust (I'm being careful how I word this so as not to offend). Now imagine waking up beside both of them in hospital. Are you honestly saying that simply because the woman was female you would feel safer beside her?

YES! Because a woman can't rape me. That horrible female still doesn't have male height and male strength.

I as a hen could have a hatred going on for a fellow hen in the chicken pen, but I'd still prefer to be stuck in a chicken pen with that hen, than with the nice fox.

Do you get it now?!??? ?

FeistyCat · 30/06/2025 02:33

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 18:59

I agree I wouldnt want men and womens toilets to be mixed. Not least because I think men's toilets are yucky. But what I dont actually have a problem with is a transwoman using the female toilets. I still appreciate he is biologically male though.

Why do you think a transwoman with penis and testicles is no longer a man because he is in a dress? You realise he still stands up to pee, and still pees on the seat and floor, right?

You realise that a transwoman aka a male with penis and testicles who stands up to pee in the ladies makes it MIXED. Which is what you said you wouldn't want? So make up your mind. Which is it?

FeistyCat · 30/06/2025 02:31

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 18:36

Either. The sex of a person is not the thing that determines to me how safe I feel around them.

This is exactly like a hen saying "whether it's a fox or hen is not the thing that determines to me how safe I feel around them".

FeistyCat · 30/06/2025 02:27

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 17:49

It's well known that most sexual crimes are committed by men. It doesn't change my feelings on who I would feel most unsafe around.

Yes and 'transgender women' are male. Male sex with penis and testicles.

Do you grasp that much, at least?

FeistyCat · 30/06/2025 02:25

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 17:41

Ok. Personally I have no issue with sharing a ward with a transgender person. The only time I wouldnt be happy is sharing with someone who clearly needed to be in a secure hospital instead. That would make me feel unsafe

It's about MALE or FEMALE. Not 'transgender person'.

That transgender person is MALE or FEMALE.

We are talking about MALE vs FEMALE facilities. Not 'transgender person or transgender facilities'.

You seem to think 'transgender' is some kind of third sex, or something? ??

FeistyCat · 30/06/2025 02:23

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 17:19

Lockable areas yes for when you are using the toilet or changing for example

What about communal facilities, that women flee to, such as the ladies, that give support to women?

FeistyCat · 30/06/2025 02:20

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 16:19

Well currently there are centres that help both men and women under the one roof. Anyone in there needs help. Dont know why the transgender issue would change that.

Not in Brighton. A woman that suffered severe childhood sexual abuse and later rape was banned simply because she asked for a female-only group session. A male (fully appeared as a male too) was in on her session and was grinning as she recounted her trauma in the session. Clearly getting off on it. When she complained later, SHE was banned. He, was allowed to stay. Do you think that's fair? The centre has male only sessions, trans sessions, and womens sessions. They REFUSED her request for a female only session. Even though male and trans have their own.

You have no idea what you don't even know about this.

FeistyCat · 30/06/2025 02:10

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 15:40

I mean that in the same way I say I'm not scared of men. I'll be scared in certain situations but I'm not scared of a gender of people.

How privileged you are. You're not a rape survivor like me nor a Domestic Violence victim or survivor. Males are the oppressor and predator group. Females are naturally wary of males. It's in hardwired into us for our survival. If you are female, the wiring has gone amiss in you somewhere or you're simply yet to experience violence at the hands of a male.

FeistyCat · 30/06/2025 02:03

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 15:15

So can transgender people not be raped? Why should they not be allowed access to crisis centres? Where do non transgender men currently go if they need support after rape?

98% of all rape victims are female.

Why do you think females are not entitled to a safe place where they won't be retraumatised?

And why do you think male rape victims are womens responsibility?

FeistyCat · 30/06/2025 02:02

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 15:11

I'm not supporting anything. I just dont have an issue with transgender. I dont fall for scaremongering.

The issue is about male vs female. Not 'transgender'.

FeistyCat · 30/06/2025 02:01

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 15:10

How do you function out there in the real world? Do you run away every time a man is walking towards you on the pavement?

How nice it must be to not be a rape survivor. You realise we are not talking about the 'pavement', we are talking about spaces that are purposely designed to be safe female only spaces.

Enough4me · 30/06/2025 00:58

DiamondThrone · 30/06/2025 00:09

Is it the heat that brings them out?

As in hot-headed?
It's also getting closer to the school holidays and some finish earlier in the year?
Personally I think there are people who don't know, or cannot face, that dysphoria is a mental illness and think suffers need to be deluded rather than helped to see reality. They feel they need to stand against all pro reality people.
The lack of Pride flags suggests pro reality maybe more widespread (now the fad has died down).

Enough4me · 30/06/2025 00:51

Eagle2025 · 30/06/2025 00:00

I was in the process of replying to say you make trans people sound like monsters but it was already deleted, so either MN agreed with me or someone else on here did!

Anyway, thanks everyone for the debate. I cant carry this on tomorrow so I'll need to draw a line somewhere otherwise I'll keep replying! Perhaps watch some documentaries on trans people to hear their stories and it might help with some of your concerns.

Find out about detransitioners. It will help you understand.

WithSilverBells · 30/06/2025 00:27

Perhaps watch some documentaries on trans people to hear their stories

'Woman' is not a reward for men who suffer

Haulage · 30/06/2025 00:20

Yeah, I would have thought so!

DiamondThrone · 30/06/2025 00:10

Haulage · 29/06/2025 23:56

I saw the AHF flag mentioned on a thread, being waved vigorously at Rod Stewart I think

I'm sure lots of things were being waved vigorously at Rod Stewart 😆

OP posts:
DiamondThrone · 30/06/2025 00:09

BettyBooper · 29/06/2025 23:17

Thanks for the thread. It's been a massively derailed rollercoaster 😬😆

A lot like a lot of the other threads this evening...

Is it the heat that brings them out?

OP posts:
Eagle2025 · 30/06/2025 00:00

Nagginthenag · 29/06/2025 21:19

😁😁😁😁😁

I knew you weren't a genuine poster, but you've just confirmed it by having my previous post deleted.

ETA, which bit did you not agree with?

Edited

I was in the process of replying to say you make trans people sound like monsters but it was already deleted, so either MN agreed with me or someone else on here did!

Anyway, thanks everyone for the debate. I cant carry this on tomorrow so I'll need to draw a line somewhere otherwise I'll keep replying! Perhaps watch some documentaries on trans people to hear their stories and it might help with some of your concerns.

Haulage · 29/06/2025 23:56

I saw the AHF flag mentioned on a thread, being waved vigorously at Rod Stewart I think

BettyBooper · 29/06/2025 23:17

DiamondThrone · 29/06/2025 23:12

Aaaaaanyhooo, back to trans pride flags. Still not seen any today!

Did someone mention the AHF one? I've been out today.

Thanks for the thread. It's been a massively derailed rollercoaster 😬😆

A lot like a lot of the other threads this evening...

DiamondThrone · 29/06/2025 23:12

Aaaaaanyhooo, back to trans pride flags. Still not seen any today!

Did someone mention the AHF one? I've been out today.

OP posts:
Enough4me · 29/06/2025 23:03

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 20:50

Where did I say I think all men are amazing? I know that men are behind most violent and sexual crime. As I keep repeating it doesn't mean I feel anxious around men I dont know and it doesmt mean sex is the only factor I use in determining how safe I feel with someone. I also dont base my life decisions on posts ive read on places like mumsnet.

Yes not all men.
No to males in female spaces.
Yes you are welcome to share any of your personal spaces with men you don't know (don't expect other women to feel as free with their personal spaces).

Talkinpeace · 29/06/2025 21:38

Ignoring the AI Pigeon Troll

Does anybody have updated pictures from Block 9

Pleased that the AHF holder got down the front again tonight

PonyPatter44 · 29/06/2025 21:31

I work with men all day long. Unpleasant men, for the most part, in a mens prison. I am also well acquainted with a number of people who have been in high- and medium-secure psych units. They don't all act like Randle McMurphy.

I don't think any of them should be in women's spaces. They need their own spaces, for everyone's privacy and decency.

There are definitely fewer Progress flags around this year.

Swipe left for the next trending thread