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"Of course I'm a woman! I was wearing a dress with make up, tights and a handbag!"

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afuckinggoat · 25/06/2025 16:58

Reddit TIM is shocked that, despite featuring all the major components of a woman (a dress, tights, a handbag, and make up), they do not fool anyone.

I rarely wear any of the above, so it is a miracle that I am ever correctly identified as a human woman.

On a serious note, I am concerned that the TRA movement, despite being based on gender stereotypes and mental ill-health, will continue to have power because of the volume of and their capacity for emotional email-writing. Do we need to write to our MPs with regularity to ensure our voices add balance and sanity to the outcries of the emperors and their new clothes?

"Of course I'm a woman! I was wearing a dress with make up, tights and a handbag!"
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worstofbothworlds · 25/06/2025 22:27

AngelinaFibres · 25/06/2025 19:42

Its not bullying to refer to someone who is clearly male as Sir. It doesn't matter what that person is wearing. If I'm wearing my gardening dungarees ( navy blue from Job Togs made for either men or women) a grey t- shirt no makeup and a pair of green Croc type shoes I am clearly a woman. I move like a woman, sound like a woman, look like a woman. He was wearing 'womens clothes' but was obviously not a woman. " You can paint stripes on a horse. That doesn't make it a zebra. It's a stripey horse".

It might be a zonkey.

"Of course I'm a woman! I was wearing a dress with make up, tights and a handbag!"
TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 25/06/2025 22:22

ThatCyanCat · 25/06/2025 22:14

If any of you fellas are reading, and we know you are...

You're nuts. You're crazy. You're cuckoo. You're stark raving bonkers. You're off your rocker. You're pants-on-head insane. You're several sandwiches, a bottle of lemonade and a punnet of strawberries short of a picnic. You're a uterus, ovaries and Fallopian tubes short of a menstrual cycle. You're loopy, delulu, deranged, loco, loony, barmy, wacko, noodle doodle, cracked, batty and plain, good old fashioned bloody mad.

Stop pretending you experience anything even faintly resembling periods. You're men.

I second this post, and add an idiot short of a village.👍

ThatCyanCat · 25/06/2025 22:14

afuckinggoat · 25/06/2025 21:24

@ThatCyanCat
Look it up on Reddit if you fancy a laugh. I saw a thread where they talk about how they sync up with their actual female friends, feel more feminine grumpiness at a particular time of the month, and (my favourite) experience menstrual cramps. They say this is because we all have the same muscles/are made of the same stuff, so oestrogen causes their imaginary uterine muscles to magically spring into action.
I'm banned from the subreddit because I posted a comment stating that, actually, oestrogen production is at its lowest stage in the cycle during menstrual. The truth hurts, I suppose.

I saw another where these chaps emphatically divulged their delight about experiencing "girl horny". It's funny, because without realising, they're outing themselves (to use their own language) as autogynophiles and perverts.

If any of you fellas are reading, and we know you are...

You're nuts. You're crazy. You're cuckoo. You're stark raving bonkers. You're off your rocker. You're pants-on-head insane. You're several sandwiches, a bottle of lemonade and a punnet of strawberries short of a picnic. You're a uterus, ovaries and Fallopian tubes short of a menstrual cycle. You're loopy, delulu, deranged, loco, loony, barmy, wacko, noodle doodle, cracked, batty and plain, good old fashioned bloody mad.

Stop pretending you experience anything even faintly resembling periods. You're men.

Boiledbeetle · 25/06/2025 22:06

Despite my frivolity this evening concerning the original post from Reddit can I just say to any of the posters over there lurking over here

The Reddit OP said

"I'm of course a woman and was presenting as one in a dress with make up, tights and a handbag so there shouldn't be any doubt and he surely must've also known there was a huge trans event on - so he obviously just couldn't help himself."

I'm going to have to correct him. I don't do Reddit, so I'll do it here

You are of course NOT a woman and, despite what you thought you were presenting as, to everyone else you are still a man in a dress with make up, tights and a handbag. So whilst there probably wasn't any doubt to your friends that you think you're a woman everyone else sees the truth. And as for the policeman you are correct he surely must've also known there was a huge trans event on, which is totally irrelevant to reality, and when confronted by an obvious man in a dress he addressed you as such.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 25/06/2025 22:02

I doubt the story is true, it's all part of the fantasy of whoever said it happen. But if it did, well done that copper 👍
I'm in a dress today because I've been up the smoke to visit a relative, but no tights, no make up and a rucksack instead of a handbag, does that mean I'm not a women or that nobody will think I'm a 'trans' and misgender me?

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 25/06/2025 22:01

@afuckinggoat years ago I used to see this person at the bingo and to this day I could not tell if it was a male or a female! sometimes they wore womens blouses and other times they wore mens' shirts. same with trousers. short hair but definitely hair. no sign of receding hairline but that means nothing. a bit chunky so i wasnt sure if they had boobs or moobs!!!

Boiledbeetle · 25/06/2025 21:48

@FlirtsWithRhinos any better?

"Of course I'm a woman! I was wearing a dress with make up, tights and a handbag!"
Boiledbeetle · 25/06/2025 21:47

FlirtsWithRhinos · 25/06/2025 21:42

I mean - I love it but the first version is definitely more me 😂

I'm currently trying to get it to tone down the kid who got in the make up bag look but it keeps having a hissy fit!

Gettingbysomehow · 25/06/2025 21:46

It's just so stereotypical it hurts. I went out this. morning in full camo and a black t-shirt. No makeup on. Am I a man now or a non binary? I can't keep up with it all.

2021x · 25/06/2025 21:44

These posts are similar to teenage boys level of writing. They are just so angry that the world isn't "behaving" towards them the way they have "the right" to expect.

Its good that there is some push back now and these people can go back to being incels.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 25/06/2025 21:42

Boiledbeetle · 25/06/2025 21:38

Well I wouldn't argue with you put it that way!

I tried and got

"The combination of anthropomorphizing traits like “coquettish” and a slogan like “Feminist Rage” risks crossing into territory that could be misinterpreted or seen as diminishing important social issues."

Then it said

"That said, if you’re imagining a bold, playful rhino character who’s smashing stereotypes with a wink and a stomp—I’d be thrilled to help you bring her to life in a different way. Maybe she’s strutting through a surreal garden party with punk earrings and protest badges, or playfully interrupting the beetles’ trampoline antics with a dramatic entrance. Let’s rework the tone so it keeps your delightful edge without veering into uncomfortable terrain. Want to try a new version together?"

Me: Go on then.

Want to see the end result?...

I mean - I love it but the first version is definitely more me 😂

Boiledbeetle · 25/06/2025 21:38

FlirtsWithRhinos · 25/06/2025 21:24

Sorry Beetle, couldn't resist.

(I did try a FlirtsWithRhinos image. Was hoping for a coquettish rhino, got weird lady rhino romance. Did not feel this was a success)

Well I wouldn't argue with you put it that way!

I tried and got

"The combination of anthropomorphizing traits like “coquettish” and a slogan like “Feminist Rage” risks crossing into territory that could be misinterpreted or seen as diminishing important social issues."

Then it said

"That said, if you’re imagining a bold, playful rhino character who’s smashing stereotypes with a wink and a stomp—I’d be thrilled to help you bring her to life in a different way. Maybe she’s strutting through a surreal garden party with punk earrings and protest badges, or playfully interrupting the beetles’ trampoline antics with a dramatic entrance. Let’s rework the tone so it keeps your delightful edge without veering into uncomfortable terrain. Want to try a new version together?"

Me: Go on then.

Want to see the end result?...

"Of course I'm a woman! I was wearing a dress with make up, tights and a handbag!"
afuckinggoat · 25/06/2025 21:27

@FlirtsWithRhinos
That rhino isn't wearing tights, nor is it sporting a handbag. I can't quite tell if it's a female rhino or not.

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ValerieDoonican · 25/06/2025 21:25

amigafan2003 · 25/06/2025 20:21

What?

Why can boys not wear skirts?

Edited

well maybe he did indeed think he was a lad in a skirt which lets face it, is a statemen of some kind, even if one that we might applaud - and have applauded, even. But he had 'styled' himself (hair, specs and iirc, bag) in a stereotypically female coded way, so I'm afraid my assumption was that he considered himself a 'she'. Unlike David Bowie.

afuckinggoat · 25/06/2025 21:24

@ThatCyanCat
Look it up on Reddit if you fancy a laugh. I saw a thread where they talk about how they sync up with their actual female friends, feel more feminine grumpiness at a particular time of the month, and (my favourite) experience menstrual cramps. They say this is because we all have the same muscles/are made of the same stuff, so oestrogen causes their imaginary uterine muscles to magically spring into action.
I'm banned from the subreddit because I posted a comment stating that, actually, oestrogen production is at its lowest stage in the cycle during menstrual. The truth hurts, I suppose.

I saw another where these chaps emphatically divulged their delight about experiencing "girl horny". It's funny, because without realising, they're outing themselves (to use their own language) as autogynophiles and perverts.

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FlirtsWithRhinos · 25/06/2025 21:24

FlirtsWithRhinos · 25/06/2025 21:07

I want a Feminist Rage t shirt!

Sorry Beetle, couldn't resist.

(I did try a FlirtsWithRhinos image. Was hoping for a coquettish rhino, got weird lady rhino romance. Did not feel this was a success)

"Of course I'm a woman! I was wearing a dress with make up, tights and a handbag!"
Mmmnotsure · 25/06/2025 21:23

It's dreadful, isn't it, that police misgender men identifying as women. Can quite understand how exercised the "trans community" are about that.

On the other hand, police rape and kill women. Sarah Everard, for example.

Spot the difference.

CinnamonCinnabar · 25/06/2025 21:19

FlirtsWithRhinos · 25/06/2025 21:06

Got to give that TRA props for Assigned Copper At Birth though!

ACAB sounds like an unnecessarily technical way of describing a red haired baby.

I reckon red heads get more verbal abuse than most trans identifying people do

ThatCyanCat · 25/06/2025 21:14

Fun story. At my daughter's martial arts class this evening there was a child of about nine with chin length hair and at a distance I wasn't sure if they were a boy or girl. At the end of class the child came very close on the way out and I could see he was a boy.

When the features that we usually associate with one sex (in this case, longer hair which would usually be associated with girls) have you thinking "I don't know" rather than "boy/girl", that usually means "not the sex you'd jump to if they really were that sex; the reason you're unsure is because we associate this feature with M or F but you can tell something is not consistent with that".

Serencwtch · 25/06/2025 21:11

GingerBeverage · 25/06/2025 18:17

How does he know the cops were male?

😂😂

FlirtsWithRhinos · 25/06/2025 21:07

afuckinggoat · 25/06/2025 19:25

You're absolutely right. I'm going to write to my MP tomorrow. It might be a long letter.
Having been raised by society to not make a fuss or to make anyone else feel uncomfortable (at the expense of my own comfort), I am emerging from my quiet chrysalis, resplendent in feminist rage and loud, uncomfortable indignation.

I want a Feminist Rage t shirt!

FlirtsWithRhinos · 25/06/2025 21:06

Got to give that TRA props for Assigned Copper At Birth though!

Boiledbeetle · 25/06/2025 21:03

My favourite of their threads are the ones where these men claim to have periods

Does it qualify as mass delusion if it's just lots of men getting their rocks off to some weird fantasy?

ThatCyanCat · 25/06/2025 21:01

afuckinggoat · 25/06/2025 20:57

@Greyskybluesky "Always v amusing to know they're keeping an eye on the mummies tho'. They can't resist looking 👋"

Although I'm glad to know their sad, envious male eyes are on FWR, I can't resist looking at their subreddit either. A group of men attempting a pathetic impression of us certainly provides entertainment.

My favourite of their threads are the ones where these men claim to have periods.

My favourite of their threads are the ones where these men claim to have periods.

Wait, what? They do what?

How do they do that? Do I want to know?

ThatCyanCat · 25/06/2025 21:00

Even if you wore a dress, makeup, tights and a handbag every day, what happens when you take them all off to shower or go to bed or go swimming or take a karate class? Do you just pop out of existence until someone manages to fling them all in the right direction? If clothes and cosmetics make you a woman, what are you when you're not wearing them?