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Why is anti-trans so important?

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Elizabethbd · 24/06/2025 11:48

So, I will preface this with saying that I’m not in the UK, and my country does not yet have the kind of anti-trans debate as there is in the English speaking world.

So, I have a hard time understanding why this is such an important question to many women.

Surely there are women’s issues that affect a larger part of society.

I’m thinking rape and violence towards women, homelesness, sex trafficking and honour killings. Why are these issues not more important and worthy of attention, as they affect so many more women than those who come into contact with trans women (or men)?

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FlirtsWithRhinos · 25/06/2025 14:52

spannasaurus · 25/06/2025 14:37

There been many posters of late, not just on this thread, who insist that transwomen are no danger to women. When you mention people like Isla Bryson, Karen White and Barbie Kardassian we're told well they're just pretending to be trans but it doesn't seem to click with some posters that these men are treated in the same way as the "real transwomen "

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Exactly.

@LivTwist These men were claiming to be women, and so treated as "women", way before they were arrested and charged.

So if they were not "really" trans women, then something has gone badly wrong with trans rights because they were certainly being treated as if they were.

So what was not in place that should have been to recognise they were fakes, deny their claim of "womanhood" and prevent their access to women's bodies, women-only spaces and women-only services? In all the rush to protect and validate any man who might just, maybe be really and truly this thing called trans, where were the protections for women against the men who were not?

LivTwist · 25/06/2025 14:48

Helleofabore · 25/06/2025 14:47

Or do you understand the point we are all making?

That it is you who is gatekeeping who is and isn’t genuine. And you have no definition to describe this category of human, yet you insist there are ‘genuine’ versions of this category of humans.

Fine have it your way, this is a waste of time

Helleofabore · 25/06/2025 14:47

LivTwist · 25/06/2025 14:45

Ugh I give up trying to ask a question

Or do you understand the point we are all making?

That it is you who is gatekeeping who is and isn’t genuine. And you have no definition to describe this category of human, yet you insist there are ‘genuine’ versions of this category of humans.

LivTwist · 25/06/2025 14:47

Helleofabore · 25/06/2025 14:44

What is the definition of a ‘genuine transwoman’? If there is not definition, how can statistics be collated to fit this definition?

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As I just said I give up with asking. I think people know what I mean but want to avoid answering

LivTwist · 25/06/2025 14:45

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/06/2025 14:42

There's no such thing as pretending to be a trans woman, because being a trans woman doesn't mean anything other than being male and saying you are a woman.

Those are literally the only criteria, so Karen White and Isla Bryson are just as much trans women as Debbie Hayton and Nadia from Bih Brother are.

There's no such thing as pretending to be a male person who says they are a woman. If you're a male person and you're saying you're a woman, you fulfil the only criteria there are.

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Ugh I give up trying to ask a question

Helleofabore · 25/06/2025 14:44

What is the definition of a ‘genuine transwoman’? If there is not definition, how can statistics be collated to fit this definition?

LivTwist · 25/06/2025 14:43

spannasaurus · 25/06/2025 14:32

Even if some men are cynically pretending to be trans when caught what difference does it make when these pretending men are being placed in womens prisons.

None of them should be in women's prisons
That's not the point I'm asking about

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/06/2025 14:42

spannasaurus · 25/06/2025 14:37

There been many posters of late, not just on this thread, who insist that transwomen are no danger to women. When you mention people like Isla Bryson, Karen White and Barbie Kardassian we're told well they're just pretending to be trans but it doesn't seem to click with some posters that these men are treated in the same way as the "real transwomen "

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There's no such thing as pretending to be a trans woman, because being a trans woman doesn't mean anything other than being male and saying you are a woman.

Those are literally the only criteria, so Karen White and Isla Bryson are just as much trans women as Debbie Hayton and Nadia from Bih Brother are.

There's no such thing as pretending to be a male person who says they are a woman. If you're a male person and you're saying you're a woman, you fulfil the only criteria there are.

Merrymouse · 25/06/2025 14:41

LivTwist · 25/06/2025 14:28

No I mean men who cynically suddenly decide they are trans when caught for an offence. I think it's clear what I mean and how it affects the stated crime stats of trans women. Posters say it doesn't matter but it does if people iare saying that trans women have a higher incidence of sexual crimes than other men. I'd like to be clearer about what could called ' genuine' trans womens sexual crimes. But I can guess this question is going to be deliberately misunderstood or I'll be told it's irrelevant. I will see if I can find any information myself, just thought someone might have the stats

The distinction you make either doesn’t or can’t exist in law.

The PC of gender reassignment is deliberately vague about classification.

The ECHR has ruled that a GRC can’t be dependent on treatment that would cause sterilisation.

If there ever was an idea that transition could be objectively defined in law, that ship has sailed.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/06/2025 14:38

LivTwist · 25/06/2025 14:28

No I mean men who cynically suddenly decide they are trans when caught for an offence. I think it's clear what I mean and how it affects the stated crime stats of trans women. Posters say it doesn't matter but it does if people iare saying that trans women have a higher incidence of sexual crimes than other men. I'd like to be clearer about what could called ' genuine' trans womens sexual crimes. But I can guess this question is going to be deliberately misunderstood or I'll be told it's irrelevant. I will see if I can find any information myself, just thought someone might have the stats

I don't care whether a man decides he is a woman at the moment of his arrest or he has been saying he is a woman for the last 30 years.

His crimes are not our crimes and should never be recorded as having been committed by a woman.

I also think that if you are convicted of a sexual offence and you already have a gender recognition certificate saying you are a woman, it should be revoked, and you should never be allowed to apply for one in the future.

spannasaurus · 25/06/2025 14:37

There been many posters of late, not just on this thread, who insist that transwomen are no danger to women. When you mention people like Isla Bryson, Karen White and Barbie Kardassian we're told well they're just pretending to be trans but it doesn't seem to click with some posters that these men are treated in the same way as the "real transwomen "

Helleofabore · 25/06/2025 14:34

LivTwist · 25/06/2025 14:28

No I mean men who cynically suddenly decide they are trans when caught for an offence. I think it's clear what I mean and how it affects the stated crime stats of trans women. Posters say it doesn't matter but it does if people iare saying that trans women have a higher incidence of sexual crimes than other men. I'd like to be clearer about what could called ' genuine' trans womens sexual crimes. But I can guess this question is going to be deliberately misunderstood or I'll be told it's irrelevant. I will see if I can find any information myself, just thought someone might have the stats

We have the stats that the ministry of justice collect. It is you who are gate keeping who is and isn’t transgender though. Have you been able to explain what a ‘genuine’ transwoman is ? Have I missed that definition?

Please if you haven’t define who is a genuine transwoman is, please can you provide this?

EdithStourton · 25/06/2025 14:33

FrippEnos · 25/06/2025 10:18

But this is what TRAs wanted.
John is trans because he says that he is trans. This is the whole premise of self ID.
You cannot enforce this rule and then say that John is the wrong kind of trans.

Well, precisely.
A bit of an own goal, perhaps?

If you don't have to go through a process of diagnosis to be accepted as trans, anyone can claim to be so.

Isla Bryson springs to mind, leaping nimbly up complete with pink leggings and spotty umbrella...

spannasaurus · 25/06/2025 14:32

LivTwist · 25/06/2025 14:28

No I mean men who cynically suddenly decide they are trans when caught for an offence. I think it's clear what I mean and how it affects the stated crime stats of trans women. Posters say it doesn't matter but it does if people iare saying that trans women have a higher incidence of sexual crimes than other men. I'd like to be clearer about what could called ' genuine' trans womens sexual crimes. But I can guess this question is going to be deliberately misunderstood or I'll be told it's irrelevant. I will see if I can find any information myself, just thought someone might have the stats

Even if some men are cynically pretending to be trans when caught what difference does it make when these pretending men are being placed in womens prisons.

LivTwist · 25/06/2025 14:28

Helleofabore · 25/06/2025 14:13

Only because you seem to believe there are people who have a ‘real’ philosophical belief doesn’t reflect material reality versus people who have a ‘fake’ philosophical belief that doesn’t reflect material reality. Have I got that right?

No I mean men who cynically suddenly decide they are trans when caught for an offence. I think it's clear what I mean and how it affects the stated crime stats of trans women. Posters say it doesn't matter but it does if people iare saying that trans women have a higher incidence of sexual crimes than other men. I'd like to be clearer about what could called ' genuine' trans womens sexual crimes. But I can guess this question is going to be deliberately misunderstood or I'll be told it's irrelevant. I will see if I can find any information myself, just thought someone might have the stats

Winegumsandbullseyes · 25/06/2025 14:21

MarieDeGournay · 25/06/2025 10:05

No, 'bathroom' in Hiberno-English means the room with a bath in it.
It's 'seomra folctha' in Irish [Gaelic].

We use 'Toilet', or 'leithreas' in Irish.
They are very clearly distinguished in both our languages.

So the use of 'bathroom' instead of 'toilet' is as out of place in Ireland as it is in England.

I think sometimes people do say bathroom instead of toilet as they think the term more polite. I find myself doing it sometimes actually. I’m in Ireland.

Helleofabore · 25/06/2025 14:13

LivTwist · 25/06/2025 10:05

It makes no difference with regard to men not being admitted into women's spaces. It does make a difference if it skews the crime figures of ' trans women'

Only because you seem to believe there are people who have a ‘real’ philosophical belief doesn’t reflect material reality versus people who have a ‘fake’ philosophical belief that doesn’t reflect material reality. Have I got that right?

ThatsNotMyTeen · 25/06/2025 14:10

frenchnoodle · 24/06/2025 11:51

Women need to be able to be defined as a sex class, in biology and in law.
without that basic foundation none of the other stuff you mention can be tackled.

Exactly this.

Helleofabore · 25/06/2025 14:08

LivTwist · 25/06/2025 10:17

I wasn't asking about how many had had their penis and testicles removed. @FeistyCat stated that most trans women do nothing towards using any types of treatments or procedures and I'd like to see the stats on that because I'm interested. This is a very stat and evidence based forum so I think my request is relevant. It would be incredibly interesting if true.

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Maybe this will help

https://fairplayforwomen.com/penis/

The vast majority of male-born transwomen still have a penis • Fair Play For Women

There is no robust data on the number of transpeople in the UK, but estimates are in the region of 1% of the UK identifying as transgender.

https://fairplayforwomen.com/penis

DeanElderberry · 25/06/2025 13:16

I'm no longer sure which thread full of (faux?)-naive questioners is which, but somewhere there was a request for statistics on how many transwomen have had surgery and how many have had hormone treatment.

The problem is related to the fact that since records started listing gender instead of sex it is impossible to gather facts on women or men, their rights, their issues.

Unless people getting a GRC (already a minority) have to disclose their medical history (truthfully) there is no way of answering that question. All we can go on is their own words. Which mostly say transwomen are women and do not need any body modification, no debate, be kind. People in the criminal system mostly have not had any physical modifications, either surgical or chemical. I fear that women may be more inclined to go down the medical route than men, doing lifelong irreversible damage to themselves in the process.

MyQuirkyTraybake · 25/06/2025 12:47

I think the important question is why is pro-trans such a huge issue? 🤔

MarieDeGournay · 25/06/2025 12:22

FlirtsWithRhinos · 25/06/2025 11:58

I have a lot of respect for you Datun and I appreciate the "bollocks" was aimed at a specific misreading of a comment, but in a subthread about how someone may or may not feel about being raped I think that's harsher than it needed to be (also also likely to be seized on out of context and used against you).

I second that, respectfully.
It's awful that deadpantrashcan was raped, and usually that would have been greeted with Flowers.

Many of us on here are survivors of rape or sexual abuse, it's so well known that it's sort of 'backgrounded' as taken.
deadpantrashcan was not to know that.

Not saying that deadpantrashcan didn't dish out a bit of aggro herself, but I think FlirtsWithRhinos was right to ask us to stop and think about our reactions.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 25/06/2025 11:58

Datun · 25/06/2025 11:48

I think what a load of bollocks is probably the most appropriate

I have a lot of respect for you Datun and I appreciate the "bollocks" was aimed at a specific misreading of a comment, but in a subthread about how someone may or may not feel about being raped I think that's harsher than it needed to be (also also likely to be seized on out of context and used against you).

Datun · 25/06/2025 11:48

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/06/2025 11:19

Indeed.

It's difficult to know how to respond to something so aberrant.

I think what a load of bollocks is probably the most appropriate

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/06/2025 11:19

Datun · 25/06/2025 11:04

Well no wonder you misunderstand everything, in that case. If you truly think that a bunch of feminists would be 'disappointed in a rape'.

No one, without disordered thinking, would dream of such a thing.

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Indeed.

It's difficult to know how to respond to something so aberrant.