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Why is anti-trans so important?

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Elizabethbd · 24/06/2025 11:48

So, I will preface this with saying that I’m not in the UK, and my country does not yet have the kind of anti-trans debate as there is in the English speaking world.

So, I have a hard time understanding why this is such an important question to many women.

Surely there are women’s issues that affect a larger part of society.

I’m thinking rape and violence towards women, homelesness, sex trafficking and honour killings. Why are these issues not more important and worthy of attention, as they affect so many more women than those who come into contact with trans women (or men)?

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Eolhc1990 · 24/06/2025 19:01

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 24/06/2025 18:48

How does one tell the difference between a trans woman (man) who wishes no harm from a man who
does?

Isla Bryson, Karen White, Katie Dolatwoski. You are happy with them in your bathrooms? I’ve met the lovely Katie btw. I can answer for you - you wouldn’t.

I mean I wouldn't like to meet Myra Hindley, Rose West or Agnieszka Kalinowska in a bathroom either but you take the risk that the people in there are not lunatics.
With the tiny minority of people who are trans out there I feel its unlikely il encounter a trans woman who is a criminal.
You ask how would I know if it was a trans woman or a man? I wouldn't know but I feel its unlikely a straight man is going to dress as a woman to attack me because he wouldn't need to, they have plenty of other ways to hurt women.

DeanElderberry · 24/06/2025 19:00

Treaclewell · 24/06/2025 18:18

It is generally understood that H sapiens shares about 98% of genetic material with other apes. I have not seen an argument that men and women share different proportions of the 2%. Yet human societies across time and space have insisted on setting up women to be almost a different species by imposing rules on dress and behaviour, by teaching that women aren't as intelligent - by not allowing them education, by teaching that they are a subordinate creation (current Catholic teaching). They have made that fraction of 2% do an incredible amount of work, far more than the 2% itself does in separating us from the orangs, the bonobos, etc. And because that fraction can't do it by itself, they make artificial divisions over hair length, finger nails, and lippy. It's notable that when western women stooped adopting those markers, that's when the dragged up, camp imitators stepped up to show us how to woman properly.
We aren't going to play any more. We are fully human, just like men (or I think so, for the purposes of argument) and we aren't going back in the dolls house. We are going to be in the offices, the hospitals as doctors, the laboratories, Whatever places engineers are, contractors, professors, aviators, no boundaries.
It is very strange that some men seem to want to emulate women of the old diminshed sort, and claim that they are truly women as we are not, because they can bat false eyelashes, and hoick up false tits, and not do a stroke of real human work, as real women have done through the millenia. No, they would damage their nails.
They show their real nature by shouting abuse, making death threats, and making it impossible for real women to use spaces made for them.
It's really just to get us back in "our place" And if we let them, we've lost for the whoile human race, not just women.
I keep having as an ear worm a song, or part of one, from 7 brides for 7 brothers, written at the beginning of the 50s. The character is made to sing that the Sabine women in Roman times said "some day, women folk will have rights".
when he doesn't believe in them. So in 1954, someone couild raise that issue as a joke. That recently.
We have make suree we keep whar we have won and not let the trans brigade trad us down again. No more Sobbin women.

@Treaclewell teaching that women aren't as intelligent - by not allowing them education, by teaching that they are a subordinate creation (current Catholic teaching).

That is NOT current Catholic teaching. If you're prepared to tell a lie about that, I have to assume that everything else you post is untrustworthy.

The Catechism states: 240 Man and woman are both with one and the same dignity "in the image of God". In their "being-man" and "being-woman", they reflect the Creator's wisdom and goodness.

www.catholicculture.org/culture/library/catechism/index.cfm?recnum=1835

ImNunTheWiser · 24/06/2025 19:00

Eolhc1990 · 24/06/2025 18:05

Do you have a source for this? I can't find it. Regardless I mean African American people have a higher incarceration rate in America but its not down to them all being bad eggs, its often true that persecuted and vulnerable groups of people on the margins end up incarcerated

Reading and comprehension dear, reading and comprehension. Kinsters said

trans identifying men (often referred to as trans women) seem to have an unusually high percentage of "bad eggs" amongst them if you look at the statistics for incarcerated sex offenders in the UK

So, of those Transwomen, already in the prison estate, the rates for sex offending amongst them are (significantly) higher than for the other, boring, kind of men. She did not say that Transwomen were incarcerated at a higher rate. And as for the ‘source’, it’s easy to find, using the Google machine.

BackToLurk · 24/06/2025 18:59

deadpantrashcan · 24/06/2025 18:47

Irrelevant little put down there. Don’t know why you think this person is on a gap year? Or what the issue would be if they were? Or do students just piss you off as well?

Would you like me to explain how replies work?

summerbreeze10 · 24/06/2025 18:57

why is pro-women so unimportant?

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 24/06/2025 18:48

Eolhc1990 · 24/06/2025 18:39

Regardless of what you believe their gender to be they are a tiny minority of people and I certaibly don't fear them any more than I would a woman.
For sure I fear straight men so i wouldnt like a gender neutral public toilet, but if a trans person identifying as a woman wanted to use the female bathrooms it's no skin off my nose.

How does one tell the difference between a trans woman (man) who wishes no harm from a man who
does?

Isla Bryson, Karen White, Katie Dolatwoski. You are happy with them in your bathrooms? I’ve met the lovely Katie btw. I can answer for you - you wouldn’t.

deadpantrashcan · 24/06/2025 18:47

BackToLurk · 24/06/2025 13:18

”I’m not in the U.K.” = “I’m on a gap year in Nicaragua”

Irrelevant little put down there. Don’t know why you think this person is on a gap year? Or what the issue would be if they were? Or do students just piss you off as well?

Boiledbeetle · 24/06/2025 18:45

Eolhc1990 · 24/06/2025 18:39

Regardless of what you believe their gender to be they are a tiny minority of people and I certaibly don't fear them any more than I would a woman.
For sure I fear straight men so i wouldnt like a gender neutral public toilet, but if a trans person identifying as a woman wanted to use the female bathrooms it's no skin off my nose.

What is the magical difference between a 'straight man' and a 'transwoman' that makes one a threat and one not?

ImNunTheWiser · 24/06/2025 18:44

Boiledbeetle · 24/06/2025 17:27

<sighs excessively>

Hysterical screeching?
Hmm, going to hurt my vocal chords, but if you insist...

<beetle, in the throes of a full-blown meltdown—wings flailing, antennae all akimbo, eyes wide as saucers.>

Now, is there any chance of you returning to your thread that you have ignored since just after you started it?

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5360731-harry-potter-and-the-ongoing-spat

Edited

Ohhhh, maybe Thom Yorker is a terf? He foresaw this….

Shell smashed, juices flowing
Wings twitch, legs are going
Don't get sentimental
It always ends up drivel
One day, I am gonna grow wings
A chemical reaction
Hysterical and useless
Hysterical and
Let down and hanging around
Crushed like a bug in the ground
Let down and hanging around

(Well, he might be, Jonny Greenwood committed the heinous crime of liking a pro women transphobic tweet after all…)

forgotmyusername1 · 24/06/2025 18:41

Maddy70 · 24/06/2025 15:57

Do you believe women like this should have to use men's toilets? https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1AZvSbYFqQ/

But how do intersex people explain why a 50 year old man with 3 kids suddenly wants to be called Donna?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/06/2025 18:40

It's not "anti-trans", it's pro women.

Look, it's really quite simple.

If the legal category "women" includes men who want to be women, actual women are no longer a recognised category in law.

You can't fight for the rights of a group of people that doesn't exist.

And whenever so-called feminists are focusing on "trans rights", at best this is diverting attention away from where it needs to be (on female people) and at worst it is actively undermining the rights of female people.

Take the argument for inclusion of trans women in women's spaces and women's sports, for example. Objectively, they do not meet the criteria for inclusion. They have nothing in common with those women. And objectively, their presence is detrimental to at least some of those women. There are no arguments in favour of their inclusion which do not ultimately boil down to "because they want to be included".

So ask yourself why what a small number of male people want matters more than what the majority of female people want, and how holding such an opinion can ever be compatible with being a feminist.

Eolhc1990 · 24/06/2025 18:39

RedToothBrush · 24/06/2025 18:34

Yes. But they are also men.

Regardless of what you believe their gender to be they are a tiny minority of people and I certaibly don't fear them any more than I would a woman.
For sure I fear straight men so i wouldnt like a gender neutral public toilet, but if a trans person identifying as a woman wanted to use the female bathrooms it's no skin off my nose.

RedToothBrush · 24/06/2025 18:34

Eolhc1990 · 24/06/2025 18:34

Trans women are trans women

Yes. But they are also men.

Boiledbeetle · 24/06/2025 18:34

Eolhc1990 · 24/06/2025 18:34

Trans women are trans women

Yes but still men.

Noodledog · 24/06/2025 18:34

Elizabethbd · 24/06/2025 11:48

So, I will preface this with saying that I’m not in the UK, and my country does not yet have the kind of anti-trans debate as there is in the English speaking world.

So, I have a hard time understanding why this is such an important question to many women.

Surely there are women’s issues that affect a larger part of society.

I’m thinking rape and violence towards women, homelesness, sex trafficking and honour killings. Why are these issues not more important and worthy of attention, as they affect so many more women than those who come into contact with trans women (or men)?

Is the country you live in extremely misogynistic, by any chance? You have my sympathy.

Eolhc1990 · 24/06/2025 18:34

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 24/06/2025 18:32

Trans women are men.

Trans women are trans women

Boiledbeetle · 24/06/2025 18:33

Trans women are a tiny minority not men??

Trans women are a tiny minority not of men

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 24/06/2025 18:32

Eolhc1990 · 24/06/2025 18:31

Trans women are a tiny minority not men.
I don't look like a man but I look like I could be a trans woman I'm almost 6ft always been big build I wear my hair long but PCOS and my dad's large nose mean I do have masculine features. I do get odd looks in bathrooms since I appear large and imposing, doesn't really bother me though but I could see how it could impact others.

Trans women are men.

minnienono · 24/06/2025 18:32

It’s not @Elizabethbd in real life. Online forums are anonymous so people express more extreme views plus some people may be deliberately provocative.

All the issues you mentioned are very important whereas whether a natal man who has transitioned is in a toilet is of not important to most women day to day for two reasons, one is that they are no threat and two is it’s very very rare, I’ve encountered it twice and I live in liberal Bristol.

there are issues one being single sex spaces for vulnerable women being protected but it’s not on the forefront of our thoughts outside of Mumsnet

Chersfrozenface · 24/06/2025 18:32

Eolhc1990 · 24/06/2025 18:05

Do you have a source for this? I can't find it. Regardless I mean African American people have a higher incarceration rate in America but its not down to them all being bad eggs, its often true that persecuted and vulnerable groups of people on the margins end up incarcerated

One source is the Freedom of Information requests to the Ministry of Justice, which revealed that in the March/April 2021 data collection period, of the 97 transgender prisoners with one or more sexual offences, the breakdown was:
40 rapes,
8 attempted rapes,
31 possessing or making indecent photographs or pseudo photographs of child,
32 sexual assault or attempted sexual assault,
20 causing or inciting a child under 16 to engage in sexual activity,
10 indecent assault or gross indecency
9 sexual activity with a child under 16
27 other

The 97 sex offender transgender prisoners collected 177 sentences between them.

According to that FOI 197 prisoners in total were transgender.

So almost 50% of transgender prisoners were convicted of sexual offences. The proportion in the total prison population is 21%.

Eolhc1990 · 24/06/2025 18:31

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 24/06/2025 16:29

You might be mistaken for a man trying to pass as a woman? Has this happened at all in your lifetime? Even after opening your mouth and speaking, people still assume you are male? Really?

Since when have males been a tiny, vulnerable minority?

Trans women are a tiny minority not men.
I don't look like a man but I look like I could be a trans woman I'm almost 6ft always been big build I wear my hair long but PCOS and my dad's large nose mean I do have masculine features. I do get odd looks in bathrooms since I appear large and imposing, doesn't really bother me though but I could see how it could impact others.

Boiledbeetle · 24/06/2025 18:27

Sobbin' women

Love a bit of seven brides for seven brothers.

"The pass is open the pass is open"

RedToothBrush · 24/06/2025 18:26

Elizabethbd · 24/06/2025 13:19

Again, thank you to all posters. My intention was to gain information, not to engage in a debate. I won’t engage in this debate further, primarily because I don’t have an opinion to defend.

"I came here in bad faith to get some screenshots and start a bun fight. Having plopped and dropped I'm off"

The answer to your 'very clever trick question' is very simple.

This is a feminism board - that means centring women.

Its not a board for being pro-trans or anti-trans. Or trans anything.

I hope satisfies your desire to show how terrible MN is.

Treaclewell · 24/06/2025 18:18

It is generally understood that H sapiens shares about 98% of genetic material with other apes. I have not seen an argument that men and women share different proportions of the 2%. Yet human societies across time and space have insisted on setting up women to be almost a different species by imposing rules on dress and behaviour, by teaching that women aren't as intelligent - by not allowing them education, by teaching that they are a subordinate creation (current Catholic teaching). They have made that fraction of 2% do an incredible amount of work, far more than the 2% itself does in separating us from the orangs, the bonobos, etc. And because that fraction can't do it by itself, they make artificial divisions over hair length, finger nails, and lippy. It's notable that when western women stooped adopting those markers, that's when the dragged up, camp imitators stepped up to show us how to woman properly.
We aren't going to play any more. We are fully human, just like men (or I think so, for the purposes of argument) and we aren't going back in the dolls house. We are going to be in the offices, the hospitals as doctors, the laboratories, Whatever places engineers are, contractors, professors, aviators, no boundaries.
It is very strange that some men seem to want to emulate women of the old diminshed sort, and claim that they are truly women as we are not, because they can bat false eyelashes, and hoick up false tits, and not do a stroke of real human work, as real women have done through the millenia. No, they would damage their nails.
They show their real nature by shouting abuse, making death threats, and making it impossible for real women to use spaces made for them.
It's really just to get us back in "our place" And if we let them, we've lost for the whoile human race, not just women.
I keep having as an ear worm a song, or part of one, from 7 brides for 7 brothers, written at the beginning of the 50s. The character is made to sing that the Sabine women in Roman times said "some day, women folk will have rights".
when he doesn't believe in them. So in 1954, someone couild raise that issue as a joke. That recently.
We have make suree we keep whar we have won and not let the trans brigade trad us down again. No more Sobbin women.

Eolhc1990 · 24/06/2025 18:05

Kinsters · 24/06/2025 16:44

@Eolhc1990 trans identifying men (often referred to as trans women) seem to have an unusually high percentage of "bad eggs" amongst them if you look at the statistics for incarcerated sex offenders in the UK.

@Maddy70 intersex is not the same as transgender and the arguments against trans identified males accessing female spaces are wildly inapplicable to someone like Stephanie.

Do you have a source for this? I can't find it. Regardless I mean African American people have a higher incarceration rate in America but its not down to them all being bad eggs, its often true that persecuted and vulnerable groups of people on the margins end up incarcerated