The socially-acceptable misogyny towards porn “stars”, such as Bonnie Blue

You can’t blame it all on the men. Bonnie Blue is motivated by money. How else can she earn vast sums of money for doing very little?

If she’s a victim, she’s a victim of her own greed.

I feel sick thinking about men like this. This is what bothers me more. The focus is of course on the two women perpetuating it. But I can't hold them responsible. These men choose to go do this right after the last one did his business.

I agree with this totally. The women are slut shamed but there's little mention of the repulsive men queueing up to take their turn. Any comment around them is generally a "yes, they are disgusting too - but..."

*Edited due to typo

I misread the article they are appearing on someone else's podcast.

I read Bonnie blue is going on Andrew tates podcast! Apparently B B is the result of feminism according to Andrew !

I mean this sums it up.

I have occasionally pondered what has happened to take them down such a self destructive road, but if one of their mum is working as their pimp finance manager then it speaks for itself.

That is horrific how it isn't classed as Sexual assault /rape is beyond me !

They were not enjoying any of it from what I saw. Choking, gagging, being rammed, semen in eyes and pretending very obviously to ' just love it'.

It's all about the money. One seemingly able to detach much easier than the other girl and exploits that financially with support from mother.

I don’t think they’re women who ‘like sex’ - I think they’re actively engaging in sexual self harm for clicks and £££’s. I judge the men involved and pity the women.

I agree ref media responsibility here.

It's concerning for younger guys.

More impressionable kids who are more likely to buy into and believe the messages in all ways.

I watched the video of them both and the way the guys were grabbing their heads ramming it down their throats, there was a ' this is what good girls do ' comment from one lovely gent as he grabbed her head.

I feel sick thinking about men like this. This is what bothers me more. The focus is of course on the two women perpetuating it. But I can't hold them responsible. These men choose to go do this right after the last one did his business.

I feel the younger girl is more messed up, more in touch with feelings and therefore going to suffer alot. She's to me a victim and I don't like this.

Bonnie is to me- I'm no professional of course - is something of a sociopath. So I wonder how easily she can exploit this and create a huge amount of money and feel nothing but gratification in the receipt of money. Her reactions, her blink, everything about her says sociopathic. On a personal level she really doesn't seem to care at all about the misogyny. She perpetuates it with her comments about women not pleasing their husbands. But again - these men can choose not to buy into this. So it's on them again.

I get more incensed that we don't have more discussion and spotlight on the men. They're always anonymous I believe so harder to do.

I watched a YouTube video about this yesterday. The twins (men) were talking them down but didn't use that sort of language. They used words like evil and Satan which I thought was a bit OTT but honestly, the way these women are behaving is shocking. The twins also called out the men who took part and criticised their behaviour too.

I would never call then derogatory names and yes they have been decried by men and women but let's not pretend these women "love sex" !

I do think they are damaged. In all honesty I sort of assume one/ both will have a breakdown at some point and an untimely death.

I think it’s really irresponsible of the media to give them airtime tbh.

She is a slut though.

Cambridge Dictionary

Slut
noun

a woman who has sexual* relationships with a lot of men without any emotional *involvement

Her mother is her financial manager. They know exactly what they are doing. £££££

Yes, the misogyny and anger towards them is wrong, of course it is. These women are incredibly damaged and in need of intervention and help.

I'm not sure anyone is applauding or lauding the misogyny, are they? Only arseholes.

I think that there are two entirely separate issues here.

Do some men, quite possibly utter hypocrites who spend half their time masturbating and half their time cheating, refer to women in the porn industry in the most disgusting, old-fashioned, misogynistic way? Yes.

Do some people, often women, understand that the likes of Bonnie Blue and Lily Philips are simultaneously victims of misogyny and the patriarchy, and of ridiculous ultra-liberal feminism, but that their behaviour is itself misogynistic as it denigrates themselves as women, and all other women? Yes