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Noodledog · 04/07/2025 22:08

exwhyzed · 04/07/2025 21:30

Honestly, AB sounds like quite an unpleasant person to deal with.

A lot of the Garden Court Chambers case makes so much more sense to me now after reading this judgement. I always felt there was so much more to it than the GC stuff and clearly there is.

But at the end of the day you need to apply policy fairly and in a way that isn't discriminatory. The vets failed to do so, GCC failed to do so. AB sound like she is rude and unpleasant nightmare to deal with at times, and increasingly litigious, but she isn't wrong and she was treated in a way others wouldn't have been. I hope she gets a big apology, a precedent set on the case law and not a lot else.

Edited

Really? I read the whole judgement and didn't read anything (having worked in a past life as a receptionist!) that came across as particularly difficult, let alone unpleasant.

Most of the negative things written by the staff were pretty much dismissed by the judge as lies. Anyway, irrespective of the protected characteristic, the surgery staff behaved appallingly and I'm glad Allison Bailey won.

SidewaysOtter · 04/07/2025 22:08

This must be appealed

@BeeSouriante, the judgment is freely available on Allison's website. Please do talk us through the points of law on which this would be appealed. Because you know "I don't like this" isn't a valid reason for appeal, right? And as PP says, surely you're happy to see a protected characteristic be, well, protected?

it's beyond crazy that 'gender critical' beliefs have got far more privilege than any other

What's the saying that comes to mind? When you're accustomed to privilege, the equality of others feels like your oppression. Your privilege has been removed and you're been treated equally. Tough tits that you don't like it.

teawamutu · 04/07/2025 22:04

It just occurred to me re the full records being sent to the boarding kennel: I can believe she was rude, and that's not right.

But I can also believe that if I'd been subjected to as much foul abuse and threatening behaviour as AB had, I might take a very maximalist approach to protecting personal information and get a bit twitchy around people who seemed rather careless with it.

EmptyPocketBlues · 04/07/2025 21:57

OdeToRoy · 04/07/2025 21:38

I would agree but the KS encounter was years ago.
x.com/BluskyeAllison/status/1808257761341219313?lang=en

Oh dear!!

PutThe · 04/07/2025 21:55

Bannedontherun · 04/07/2025 21:39

@BeeSouriante as someone said up thread (“butters” lol) this ruling is something you should welcome as it shores up that consumers can not be discriminate against because of a protected characteristic.

This means you are also protected, so crack out the sherry and celebrate.

Yes, you'd think the pro TRA crowd would be happy. If they get denied services because of their unscientific belief that humans can change sex, this judgement will help them challenge it.

teawamutu · 04/07/2025 21:53

Should anyone like a little light relief/an insight into the quality of mind and reasoning on the TRA side, the brain trust that is r/transgenderuk is examining the Bailey judgment: www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/s/WZOS6fNWfa

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 04/07/2025 21:52

Bannedontherun · 04/07/2025 19:18

CEO of TKmax publicly declared that TERFs were not welcome in his shops.

It will be no hardship to me to stay away from TKMaxx. CEO would do well to consider who's got the most money to spend in the beleaguered British high street.

Bannedontherun · 04/07/2025 21:39

@BeeSouriante as someone said up thread (“butters” lol) this ruling is something you should welcome as it shores up that consumers can not be discriminate against because of a protected characteristic.

This means you are also protected, so crack out the sherry and celebrate.

OdeToRoy · 04/07/2025 21:38

EmptyPocketBlues · 04/07/2025 21:20

Yes it was so weird about the two staff members being in the same support group as her! What are the chances. How awful.
What was the story about Keir Starmer? Was it something to do with him looking at her funny or similar? It rings a bell but can't remember. Sounds like she's been thoroughly stressed out with everything over the last few years.

I would agree but the KS encounter was years ago.
x.com/BluskyeAllison/status/1808257761341219313?lang=en

BundleBoogie · 04/07/2025 21:33

BeeSouriante · 04/07/2025 18:30

Absolute insanity that this even was accepted, no matter won.

This must be appealed, it's beyond crazy that 'gender critical' beliefs have got far more privilege than any other - it's not even about the unscientific nonsense that underlies them or that they've been extended to any kind of hate, but this is getting into 'thought crime' territory.

'race realists / critical' people must be licking their lips.

You keep telling yourself that. It doesn’t change the truth.

Nameychangington · 04/07/2025 21:32

BeeSouriante · 04/07/2025 18:30

Absolute insanity that this even was accepted, no matter won.

This must be appealed, it's beyond crazy that 'gender critical' beliefs have got far more privilege than any other - it's not even about the unscientific nonsense that underlies them or that they've been extended to any kind of hate, but this is getting into 'thought crime' territory.

'race realists / critical' people must be licking their lips.

How is the knowledge that sex is fixed, binary and immutable 'unscientific' Butters?

Disclosure of vested interest - I get a square on my bingo card if you try to leverage DSDs. I've already got hatred, thought crime, MAGA and racism so am feeling quietly confident on the bingo front today.

MarieDeGournay · 04/07/2025 21:31

Has anyone else noticed how Bee loves the word 'seething'?
Apparently we are all 'seething' with hate - not just your average common-or-garden 'filled with hate', but seething with it.

I'm not in the UK, but seeing the weather reports, I'm guessing that 'seething' is waaaaay too energetic to be doing in a heatwaveSmile

exwhyzed · 04/07/2025 21:30

Honestly, AB sounds like quite an unpleasant person to deal with.

A lot of the Garden Court Chambers case makes so much more sense to me now after reading this judgement. I always felt there was so much more to it than the GC stuff and clearly there is.

But at the end of the day you need to apply policy fairly and in a way that isn't discriminatory. The vets failed to do so, GCC failed to do so. AB sound like she is rude and unpleasant nightmare to deal with at times, and increasingly litigious, but she isn't wrong and she was treated in a way others wouldn't have been. I hope she gets a big apology, a precedent set on the case law and not a lot else.

EmptyPocketBlues · 04/07/2025 21:20

OdeToRoy · 04/07/2025 21:15

That anecdote she told about Keir Starmer last year was bizarre.

It was very odd.

I do hope AB can have some peace in her life. She’s had awful treatment in her job and had to take them to court, then her vet practice turn on her and the support group she goes to has employees there too, so she may have felt she had to self-censor. You wouldn’t blame her for becoming totally paranoid, it must feel like there’s nowhere where she won’t be persecuted for her views. And yet she fights on.

Yes it was so weird about the two staff members being in the same support group as her! What are the chances. How awful.
What was the story about Keir Starmer? Was it something to do with him looking at her funny or similar? It rings a bell but can't remember. Sounds like she's been thoroughly stressed out with everything over the last few years.

OdeToRoy · 04/07/2025 21:15

That anecdote she told about Keir Starmer last year was bizarre.

It was very odd.

I do hope AB can have some peace in her life. She’s had awful treatment in her job and had to take them to court, then her vet practice turn on her and the support group she goes to has employees there too, so she may have felt she had to self-censor. You wouldn’t blame her for becoming totally paranoid, it must feel like there’s nowhere where she won’t be persecuted for her views. And yet she fights on.

InjuryMyArse · 04/07/2025 21:00

ODBOD - oh do buzz off dear
New acronym

bonfireoftheverities · 04/07/2025 20:36

lnks · 04/07/2025 20:24

Why is @BeeSouriante not banned on here for trolling threads. He’s not posting in good faith at all.

While I have some sympathy for this view, it's the replies to people like him that help make this board so good.

lnks · 04/07/2025 20:24

Why is @BeeSouriante not banned on here for trolling threads. He’s not posting in good faith at all.

BottomsByTheirTops · 04/07/2025 20:18

I’ve just posted the link to Allison’s news on a veterinary social media site and I think it’s been deleted 🙄

PlasticAcrobat · 04/07/2025 20:16

"The case took a curious turn"....

The Curious Case of the Dog Owner in the Right

potpourree · 04/07/2025 20:06

" The reply was “if you say so”. Ms Cook understood the question and was not prepared to answer"

What a strange reaction! We've never seen that before!

"The case took a curious turn"....

MrsKypp · 04/07/2025 20:04

Excellent news

DrSpartacularsMagnificentOctopus · 04/07/2025 19:57

BeeSouriante · 04/07/2025 18:30

Absolute insanity that this even was accepted, no matter won.

This must be appealed, it's beyond crazy that 'gender critical' beliefs have got far more privilege than any other - it's not even about the unscientific nonsense that underlies them or that they've been extended to any kind of hate, but this is getting into 'thought crime' territory.

'race realists / critical' people must be licking their lips.

You're being a tad hyperbolic.

If a person was refused service for not holding GC beliefs they would be equally protected. This ruling therefore benefits (in that it sets an example, despite it not setting a legal precedent) anyone who may suffer discrimination via refusal of service as a result of their protected beliefs, whatever those beliefs, and whether one agrees with them or not.

MyAmpleSheep · 04/07/2025 19:46

Shall we have a sweepstake on the level of damages? I'm going to vote for £2000.

KnottyAuty · 04/07/2025 19:45

EdithStourton · 04/07/2025 15:33

We changed vets recently and there was no 'termination letter' - just a few emails and phone calls to confirm that we were ending the practice plan for wormer etc, and where to send the records. They booted AB because they wanted to.

Well done, Allison. It takes a lot of grit to follow through a case like that.

Quite!

The letter sent in spite after she’d asked for her dog’s records to be transferred!? There would have been no case to answer without that letter - I bet Ms Cook is in trouble behind the scenes for bringing all this down on her employers and discriminating against AB in their name. What an idiot!

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