Active discussions

Please or to access all these features

Talk
Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Feminism: chat

Original poster

Dj lippy, eh?

41 replies

Seriestwo · 19/06/2025 08:15

What’s going on? Mumsnet’s being used to put terfs at risk? I don’t know what she’s talking about, can anyone show me where the thread is? https://x.com/jocastamoney/status/1935467705651576900?s=46

https://x.com/jocastamoney/status/1935467705651576900?s=46

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
WarriorN · 23/06/2025 06:55

JumpingPumpkin · 20/06/2025 14:01

I simply assume there will be some bad actors or to put it another way, I act the same in small “private” spaces as I would be happy to defend in public.

yes I aim for this

SinnerBoy · 23/06/2025 01:06

Hmm. People have taken photos of a well known woman and posted them online. Well, that's me convinced that she's an evil Nazi TERFy bigot and no mistake.

ErrolTheDragon · 23/06/2025 00:52

IIRC aeons ago DJLippy was herself an early victim of doxxing so it’s unsurprising if she’s particularly alert now to it.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/06/2025 23:49

Me too @JumpingPumpkin- I think that is a good rule to live by.

JumpingPumpkin · 20/06/2025 14:01

I simply assume there will be some bad actors or to put it another way, I act the same in small “private” spaces as I would be happy to defend in public.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/06/2025 12:35

Also people are not always secure with who they add as their own friends/to the group. In the past it’s been fairly easy for bad actors to infiltrate some of these supposedly secure closed groups.

JumpingPumpkin · 20/06/2025 12:10

And even if the group is sound you need to be aware that anyone could be not who they say they are. Or sharing info elsewhere.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/06/2025 09:14

Datun · 20/06/2025 08:53

DJLippy is sound. She's also a Mumsnetter if I recall.

And she has been relentlessly targeted by TRAs. She will be fully alive to all their latest wheezes.

And people do get sucked in. Something looks legit, sounds legit, they want to help, they join.

She's just pointing out not to join any WhatsApp groups unless you are absolutely certain they're kosher.

And whereas most people might be fully aware of that, there's about to be some that aren't.

edited to add that there's no downside to being careful.

Edited

Exactly.

Datun · 20/06/2025 09:02

LonginesPrime · 20/06/2025 08:59

She's just pointing out not to join any WhatsApp groups unless you are absolutely certain they're kosher.

Also that if you can just join an open WhatsApp group direct from MN, so can the TRAs who watch us here.

Exactly.

And the other thing to remember is that new people are joining this discussion, all the time. The tide has turned and people are waking up.

They may not be fully aware of the relentless lengths to which TRAs will go to identify them

LonginesPrime · 20/06/2025 08:59

She's just pointing out not to join any WhatsApp groups unless you are absolutely certain they're kosher.

Also that if you can just join an open WhatsApp group direct from MN, so can the TRAs who watch us here.

Datun · 20/06/2025 08:53

DJLippy is sound. She's also a Mumsnetter if I recall.

And she has been relentlessly targeted by TRAs. She will be fully alive to all their latest wheezes.

And people do get sucked in. Something looks legit, sounds legit, they want to help, they join.

She's just pointing out not to join any WhatsApp groups unless you are absolutely certain they're kosher.

And whereas most people might be fully aware of that, there's about to be some that aren't.

edited to add that there's no downside to being careful.

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 20/06/2025 08:48

She is talking about the fact that WhatsApp groups can lead to women being doxxed. Ie. their phone details and more shared to people who will harm them

this

Not sure why it makes a difference if the person saying it has their photo on the internet…..its warning about something completely different

WarriorN · 20/06/2025 08:27

She’s right to point out that there could be issues if women swap messages and give their personal details to posters here on mumsnet.

Helleofabore · 20/06/2025 08:26

SidewaysOtter · 20/06/2025 08:15

What is the relevance of mentioning she is photos on the internet?

It’s women putting themselves forward, isn’t it? Talking in public. Having opinions.

The audacity.

Yes. You are right. I forgot myself there for a moment.

SidewaysOtter · 20/06/2025 08:15

What is the relevance of mentioning she is photos on the internet?

It’s women putting themselves forward, isn’t it? Talking in public. Having opinions.

The audacity.

Helleofabore · 20/06/2025 07:54

What is the relevance of mentioning she is photos on the internet?

I don’t believe she is saying she wants anonymity. She is talking about the fact that WhatsApp groups can lead to women being doxxed. Ie. their phone details and more shared to people who will harm them.

I really have come to believe that some people will take any opportunity to twist something to demonise people they disagree with.

JumpingPumpkin · 20/06/2025 07:40

I do think it’s a reasonable warning re WhatsApp groups. They can be used to maliciously dox people. She’s using “safeguarding” not specifically for vulnerable adults/children but just to mean a safety issue.

SidewaysOtter · 20/06/2025 07:29

Self satisfied? Just standing up for women’s rights.

Careful, your misogyny (internalised or otherwise) is showing.

Maaate · 20/06/2025 07:13

Igneococcus · 20/06/2025 06:48

Dj Lippy is a troublemaker and so is Aja.

Trouble for who?

Indeed...

Igneococcus · 20/06/2025 06:48

Dj Lippy is a troublemaker and so is Aja.

Trouble for who?

Slothtoes · 20/06/2025 06:46

DJ Lippy has been sticking up for women since it were fields. I’d listen to her. She’s right. Good point about the editing you can do in your contacts - thanks

Herminey · 20/06/2025 06:45

Citation for her self satisfaction @SidewaysOtter ? Or citation for all the photos she’s been in? Just have a Quick Look on her x and you’ll see both

SidewaysOtter · 20/06/2025 06:39

Herminey · 19/06/2025 23:15

Dj Lippy is a troublemaker and so is Aja. Their level of self satisfaction is extremely irritating. What on earth is Lippy talking about in this post? She has been in hundreds of photos. She doesn’t need to be anonymous and she certainly isn’t anonymous

Citation needed Hmm

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 20/06/2025 01:20

Herminey · 19/06/2025 23:15

Dj Lippy is a troublemaker and so is Aja. Their level of self satisfaction is extremely irritating. What on earth is Lippy talking about in this post? She has been in hundreds of photos. She doesn’t need to be anonymous and she certainly isn’t anonymous

🙄

easy a GIF
Enough4me · 20/06/2025 00:21

It's easy to join chat groups but, unless you know the individuals in real life, it's safer not to say the truth as the tide may be turning but the wave of reality hasn't crashed down. Young damaged individuals suing the NHS for £££ will probably do that.

Swipe left for the next trending thread