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Reflections on Trans Arguments

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LimeFinch · 18/06/2025 16:17

I've noticed a lot of general discourse about trans people that is based on misinformation, some of it dangerous, most of it born out of ignorance, so here's a handy reference to counter some of the claims I've seen.

Trans People are extremist! That's wot I done heard!
Transgender extremism doesn't exist - it's just a right-wing talking point used to discredit legitimate healthcare and equality efforts.
https://www.amnesty.org.uk/press-releases/uk-un-view-trans-rights-much-needed-common-sense
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/apr/11/hilary-cass-trans-children-review
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/feb/02/gender-critical-beliefs-under-the-microscope

Puberty Blockers are Dangerous! My total lack of medical knowledge says so!
Puberty blockers are often lifesaving interventions. They're prescribed only after long assessments involving NHS gender clinics, parents, and specialists. They are fully reversible and shown to reduce the risk of suicide in young people with persistent gender dysphoria.
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/treatment
https://www.england.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/tonic-psh-consultation-analysis-report.pdf
https://www.bmj.com/content/386/bmj.q1638.short
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/resources/interim-service-specification-specialist-gender-dysphoria-services-consultation-response
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/news-events/news/rcpch-responds-publication-final-report-cass-review

I Heard They're Changing Kids' Genitalia!
No people under 18 are getting genital surgery in the UK. NHS policy and private clinics alike restrict this to adults.
Indeed, more cisgender teens receive breast reduction surgery on the NHS than trans teens receive chest masculinisation surgery. The procedures follow similar approval processes, yet only one group is routinely scrutinised.
https://pure.johnshopkins.edu/en/publications/breast-surgery-in-adolescents-cisgender-breast-reduction-versus-t
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/02/10/revealed-thousands-of-trans-surgeries-carried-out-by-nhs/

They're in Women's Sports! I read it on teh internets!
There are only a small number of openly trans athletes competing at a professional level in the world, and none are dominating their fields.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/61346517
https://feeds.bbci.co.uk/sport/athletics/65051900

But, but, but, Women's Sports! No men!
Sex-segregated sports were historically introduced to exclude women, not because men were being beaten. The idea that it was about fairness is a myth.
https://www.theguardian.com/football/2022/jun/13/how-the-fa-banned-womens-football-in-1921-and-tried-to-justify-it
https://research.birmingham.ac.uk/en/publications/health-gender-and-inequality-in-sport-a-historical-perspective

Ok, but Trans-women are Stronger. That ain't Fair!
There is no consistent biological advantage for trans women in elite sport. Oestrogen therapy significantly reduces muscle mass, strength and performance over time. Regulations often require minimum hormone levels and transition periods before competing.
https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/55/15/865
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/olympics/59312313

Trans-Women are Men!!!!!! Any fule knowe that!
Identity is personal. “Man”, “woman”, “boy”, and “girl” are social roles - that’s gender. Not to be confused with biological sex - male and female. No trans woman claims to be biologically female, and no trans man claims to be biologically male. That’s another right-wing straw man argument.
https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/media-centre/interim-update-practical-implications-uk-supreme-court-judgment
https://www.stonewall.org.uk/resources/lgbtq-hubs/trans-hub/the-truth-about-trans

Trans History is Different to Women's History
The idea that trans women have a “separate history” to cis women echoes the same tactics once used to exclude Black women and disabled women from womanhood.
https://blog.bham.ac.uk/socialsciencesbirmingham/2024/03/08/international-womens-day-trans-women-cannot-be-left-behind/
https://www.disabilityrightsuk.org/news/trans-and-disability-justice-how-are-our-struggles-linked
Tall women, Black women, trans women - these are all adjectives describing different types of women. Every woman’s experience of womanhood is unique. If you exclude trans women from being women, what condition are you using to define womanhood? There isn’t one necessary condition. So trans women cannot be excluded from womanhood on this basis.

Trans-Women are Men in Dresses! I read it in the Daily Mail!
Crossdressing is not the same as being trans. Many cis men crossdress and are not trans.
https://fiorry.co/glossary/crossdresser/

But Anybody can be Trans in an Instant! I'm scared!
The risk of coming out as trans due to internalised homophobia and sexism is a real thing but is not as common as many would have you believe. That’s why the NHS has a structured care pathway with long waiting times and assessments. No one can simply walk in and access hormones or surgery. Many people are left in limbo for years unless they are in crisis or suicidal.
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/
https://transactual.org.uk/trans-lives-21/

Organisations are Convincing Kids They're Trans! Think of the Children!
No one is trying to “convince” people they’re trans. If you feel deep discomfort with the sex you were assigned at birth, you might be trans - but that’s for you to explore, not for anyone else to decide. The queer community is generally very good at spotting people who are dealing with internalised issues - no one wants anyone to transition unless it’s truly needed. This whole “kids being convinced” thing is another empty scare story.
https://transactual.org.uk/healthcare-professionals/inclusive-healthcare/
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/

Now, I'm very aware of the MN reputation for shutting down the threads - and removing the accounts - of anyone who doesn't go along with the anti-trans-hate-cult, but for the short time this thread remains up it's worth taking some time to actually look at the links, to think about the status of trans-women in the current society, and consider how this judgement - and the subsequent interpretation of the same by those who are a little hard of thinking - might reflect on us as self-assumed rational, reasonable human beings.

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greencartbluecart · 23/06/2025 09:49

Populism - interesting

I guess it needs to mean something different to democratic which is what you might think it would mean - because the “common man” which is the target of popularism is by far and away the dominant group so by default any democratic vote is broadly the same as the populist vote

fhe fact that it doesn’t mean that is interesting

to me it has an aspect of “us” against “them”
where anyone can find themselves in the “them” group quite arbitrarily .

The most worrying aspect is the attitude of populists to education- got an education? That’s elitist. That’s a reason to ignore you. Seems bloody stupid to ignore and dismiss people because they have learnt things - means you are building your vote on the back of the uneducated and the “self made man” - and suddenly we have a distrust of all experts - who trusts the medics when it comes to vaccination? Not the populist. Who trusts the climate scientist? It becomes an easy way to dismiss anyone you don’t agree with - oh you have studied that have you? Well I know better because I am set taught and don’t listen to the elite expert. By “bigging up” people who are less well educated yih appeal to their personal sense of pride - nasty manipulation to me

Ereshkigalangcleg · 23/06/2025 09:46

Yes it does, but things do get dismissed as “populist” quite freely. It’s a thought terminating cliche sometimes.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 23/06/2025 09:44

lechiffre55 · 23/06/2025 08:57

I've never understood why populism is used as a dirty word.
"So let me get this right.... A lot of people support this thing which somehow makes it bad....? How does that work?"
"Yeah it's truly awful, and a threat to democracy that so many people support this thing."
In my opinion the word populism is a way to look down on something a lot of people support. It's a way to denigrate whatever the popular thing is, and somehow strangely, use the large number of poeople supporting the thing as proof it's a bad thing. Goes back to the working class get looked down on as idiots point I guess.
It's very strange that support for something is seen as proof the thing is bad without any real argument.

I think that wasn't a good definition of populism.

Populism is giving "the people" what they want regardless of whether it will work or not or even make things worse. Often by blaming and punishing a scapegoat instead of tackling hard problems or telling "the people" what they want is not in fact possible.

It's bad because fails to fix the original issues and very often makes things worse.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 23/06/2025 09:43

Haulage · 23/06/2025 08:46

As a PP outlined, all parties recognise gender and only Reform seems to not give a fuck - except that they do, very much, and in the very restrictive and reactionary manner of women like pink and babies.

It seems all the parties believe those stereotypes - that is what gender is after all. Just some of them think if a man likes pink and babies that makes him a woman and conversely if a woman doesn’t like them she must be a man.

It’s regressive nonsense being espoused by craven idiots and I won’t lend them my vote

Go and lecture them on how important it is to win the female vote back or else they’re letting the bad guys get in!

Exactly.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 23/06/2025 09:42

StandFirm · 23/06/2025 07:16

I see a lot of references to previous threads and posters. I don't know what other posters have written - I'm not interested in slurs, blaming or guilt tripping. What is the best way to bar the way to the parties that are the most toxic? For me that's hands down Reform and the Tories (who fucked up the country for 14 years and purged any centrists from their ranks) As for being more focused on those who should do better or who should be allies... I do get the logic and the need to hold them to a higher standard but I'll stick with bashing those I consider to be the most direct threat overall.

it shouldn’t strain the imagination too much to understand that just because i think labour and the left are failing doesn’t mean i'm going to vote for reform or the tories
i mean it shouldn’t but apparently it does…pathetic

I have pointed out, abstaining also contributes to the victory of whoever gets in. It's merely stating a fact.

Thanks to the time I've spent recently engaging in this debate on this thread and others, I can see the depths of anger within GC feminism. I don't see where that can lead politically though. As a PP outlined, all parties recognise gender and only Reform seems to not give a fuck - except that they do, very much, and in the very restrictive and reactionary manner of women like pink and babies. Anyway, you all know that. If there was a GE tomorrow, I feel extremely pessimistic because the landscape is so polarised, the only winners can be the populists. I don't care about blame, just the result.
Have a good day all.

If you have an issue with left wing parties being unelectable, you put pressure on them. Don’t blame us when they don’t win.

Shedmistress · 23/06/2025 09:22

Goes back to the working class get looked down on as idiots point I guess.

Ex Tory voters know better than you left wing rabble, don't you know.

lechiffre55 · 23/06/2025 08:57

Shedmistress · 23/06/2025 08:22

Anyway, you all know that. If there was a GE tomorrow, I feel extremely pessimistic because the landscape is so polarised, the only winners can be the populists.

Just for reference, a populist is 'a person, especially a politician, who strives to appeal to ordinary people who feel that their concerns are disregarded by established elite groups.'

Gosh, what a turn up for the books. Those ordinary people and their ordinary thoughts, that want ordinary things like to have a system in place that their taxes paid for, police that turn up to investigate crimes and to be able to afford houses and to see a doctor when ill. What a bunch of bastards.

I've never understood why populism is used as a dirty word.
"So let me get this right.... A lot of people support this thing which somehow makes it bad....? How does that work?"
"Yeah it's truly awful, and a threat to democracy that so many people support this thing."
In my opinion the word populism is a way to look down on something a lot of people support. It's a way to denigrate whatever the popular thing is, and somehow strangely, use the large number of poeople supporting the thing as proof it's a bad thing. Goes back to the working class get looked down on as idiots point I guess.
It's very strange that support for something is seen as proof the thing is bad without any real argument.

Haulage · 23/06/2025 08:46

As a PP outlined, all parties recognise gender and only Reform seems to not give a fuck - except that they do, very much, and in the very restrictive and reactionary manner of women like pink and babies.

It seems all the parties believe those stereotypes - that is what gender is after all. Just some of them think if a man likes pink and babies that makes him a woman and conversely if a woman doesn’t like them she must be a man.

It’s regressive nonsense being espoused by craven idiots and I won’t lend them my vote

Go and lecture them on how important it is to win the female vote back or else they’re letting the bad guys get in!

CassOle · 23/06/2025 08:36

Fuck me.

This feels like just another 'be kind' lectrure.

teawamutu · 23/06/2025 08:31

Thanks to the time I've spent recently engaging in this debate on this thread and others, I can see the depths of anger within GC feminism. I don't see where that can lead politically though.

Genuinely, @StandFirm, good to see that you understand the anger now.

As to where it leads - for Labour, it leads to an approach which aims to appeal to the voters it wants, by showing it's actually listening and addressing their concerns rather than educating the nasty proles.

Or it leads to defeat, and quite possibly a Reform government.

It's up to them. Entirely up to them. They can make the change, as soon as they clock that their decades-long entitlement to female and working class votes no longer exists.

Shedmistress · 23/06/2025 08:22

Anyway, you all know that. If there was a GE tomorrow, I feel extremely pessimistic because the landscape is so polarised, the only winners can be the populists.

Just for reference, a populist is 'a person, especially a politician, who strives to appeal to ordinary people who feel that their concerns are disregarded by established elite groups.'

Gosh, what a turn up for the books. Those ordinary people and their ordinary thoughts, that want ordinary things like to have a system in place that their taxes paid for, police that turn up to investigate crimes and to be able to afford houses and to see a doctor when ill. What a bunch of bastards.

sanluca · 23/06/2025 07:50

I think my depth of anger is that the centric/left parties could have clear plans for keeping gender and sex separate and get that middle ground in (single sex and mixed sex options) but they actively don't and with that give the populist parties ammo to make them look stupid and win votes. It is infuriating that women have to decide to throw away their rights or throw away their rights. It is not necessary if politicians would actually stop with their activism.

It is 'Harris is they/them, Trump is for you' all over again

5128gap · 23/06/2025 07:50

The working class voter (the majority of the electorate) are turning to Reform because they are frightened. They are working harder with less to show for it. They can't afford decent housing. When they're ill, the NHS is failing them, and they lack the cushion of the privileged to ride the storm. The party that should be centering their interests has earned a reputation for caring more about the luxury beliefs of advantaged middle class youth than their less sparkly struggles. When people are queuing for the foodbank, they dont want to see their MP fighting for Bernard's 'rights' to use the ladies. If Labour want to win back the electorate they need to focus on the bread before the already well feds demands for roses.

StandFirm · 23/06/2025 07:16

I see a lot of references to previous threads and posters. I don't know what other posters have written - I'm not interested in slurs, blaming or guilt tripping. What is the best way to bar the way to the parties that are the most toxic? For me that's hands down Reform and the Tories (who fucked up the country for 14 years and purged any centrists from their ranks) As for being more focused on those who should do better or who should be allies... I do get the logic and the need to hold them to a higher standard but I'll stick with bashing those I consider to be the most direct threat overall.

it shouldn’t strain the imagination too much to understand that just because i think labour and the left are failing doesn’t mean i'm going to vote for reform or the tories
i mean it shouldn’t but apparently it does…pathetic

I have pointed out, abstaining also contributes to the victory of whoever gets in. It's merely stating a fact.

Thanks to the time I've spent recently engaging in this debate on this thread and others, I can see the depths of anger within GC feminism. I don't see where that can lead politically though. As a PP outlined, all parties recognise gender and only Reform seems to not give a fuck - except that they do, very much, and in the very restrictive and reactionary manner of women like pink and babies. Anyway, you all know that. If there was a GE tomorrow, I feel extremely pessimistic because the landscape is so polarised, the only winners can be the populists. I don't care about blame, just the result.
Have a good day all.

LiesDoNotBecomeUs · 23/06/2025 00:27

@LimeFinch your post is long and earnest but shows that you are not well-read on this subject.

(You are free to speak your mind on here - as you see- but you do need to bring reliable evidence if you want to be believed.)

CassOle · 23/06/2025 00:04

Just think of the poor LibDem or Green voters that are sex realist. They are truly buggered.

SternJoyousBee · 23/06/2025 00:00

StandFirm · 22/06/2025 19:44

We need to be able to hold the threat of not voting over them NOW, to get the commitment so that we CAN vote for them.

That's a point I can accept however it bothers me that I never see any real criticism of the reactionary right wing on here. It's always 'but Labour/the left are bastards'.

Most of us I suspect have been left wing and Labour voters. all or lives. We are not supporters of Reform or the Cons so why talk about them when it’s Labour who are currently in power and who are letting us down. When the PM cannot answer a very simple question, “What is a woman” or “can only women have a cervix” then they deserve nothing but our contempt.

Unlike you I have never voted Conservative when it would probably have been to my personal benefit. I have voted Labour sometimes against my own interests because I thought I was voting for certain principles. But I’m not going to be sorry about having this personal line that I will not cross. Labour can bloody well work to get my vote back, I owe them nothing. And you inferring that that makes me right wing by default? I have no more fucks to give and ‘right wing’ can join all the other slurs thrown our way. I have nieces whose future I am thinking of as well as my own future.

SternJoyousBee · 22/06/2025 23:43

FlirtsWithRhinos · 22/06/2025 17:48

Because I am also pragmatic, and I can see that if I want Labour or a Left coalition to protect women's rights I won't get it by telling them I'm happy for them to sacrifice women's rights for the greater good. There is no reason whatsoever we cannot have left wing parties that respect women, it's not an extreme position, and we should not be blackmailed into it.

Because conceding what is best for us in the name of the greater good is just what is fucking always expected of us isn’t it?! And it’s just more fucking gender stereotype bollocks.

I for one believe that protecting women’s rights and child safeguarding IS what is best for society though. And I will not be emotionally blackmailed into crossing my personal red line and voting for Labour until they commit to women’s sex based rights.

murasaki · 22/06/2025 23:30

RedToothBrush · 22/06/2025 21:57

Quite.

It's quite simple for Labour to get left wing gender critical women to vote for them.

Instead of attacking women for not complying and going along with policies that are not in their best interests, how this novel thought - and Labour made sure their policies are pro-women and not misogynistic claptrap.

It's really not hard.

Left wing women WANT to vote for Labour. Stop making it impossible for them to do so.

Once again it's framed as women being in the wrong and not the fuckwits running the Labour party.

Those last bits are almost exactly the conversation I had on my doorstep with the labour canvasser last time round.

SternJoyousBee · 22/06/2025 23:12

StandFirm · 22/06/2025 08:00

That's the whole problem with politics nowadays. The reality is that if you don't find a perfect fit for you as voter, abstaining amounts to voting in the winners. So, the logic whereby a party has to do better and actively deserve our vote rather than win by default is flawed considering that by not voting for those who 'should do better', you end up supporting the other guys by default. And the outcome in our system is binary: either the 'could do betters' win and in that case what have you really gained or the other party gets in and in that case you end up with an even worse option.

Who are the “other guys”? We don’t have a two party system in this country. And I’m sorry, no party deserves my vote and loyalty just so the “other guys” don’t win.

TheaBrandt1 · 22/06/2025 22:07

Heard a commentator say left and right has actually been replaced by authoritarian and liberal. Oddly the hard left TRA types are authoritarian. Requiring others to comply with their demands see -“no debate” and harsh policing of anyone that dares to dissent. Like those poor parents on this thread.

SparklyPinkHairband · 22/06/2025 22:07

LimeFinch · 19/06/2025 13:31

Or, put another way, "I found all them long words and complicated statements tricky. Plus, there was am awful lot of links to read."

Don't worry, we get it. But take heart, the nice thing about education when you're an adult is you don't have to engage with it or admit you find it challenging. You can just ignore it. Or, better still, why not make yourself feel cleverer than you are by chirruping along with what you perceive as the crowd?

Meanwhile, back over in the rational world, the number of private, positive reactions to the OP perfectly satisfy us that this thread, and the statements provided - and backed up - at the outset, have merit. 😘

No more after this from Lime? Apart from things which had to be deleted?
Maybe @LimeFinch is reading the Skrmetti judgement. Of the For Women Scotland judgement. Or the Cass Report. Or Time to Think. Or Trans. Or Material Girls.
Wait, no, that would be.....What's the word..... EDUCATION.

RedToothBrush · 22/06/2025 21:57

Thelnebriati · 22/06/2025 21:50

To be blunt- as you guys love being- if you vote for Reform or the Tories in the next election, or abstain and facilitate them getting in, it means embracing a whole bunch of truly unpalatable measures that will really hurt women and the country as a whole. Is that really worth it?

As some of us were saying before the last General Election; Labour have no right to make it impossible for women who have a conscience to vote for them, then blame women for not voting for them.
If we did vote for them, we'd be used as proof that the policies are popular. Stop blaming us for the consequences of stupid policies. We aren't the ones that started this mess.

Quite.

It's quite simple for Labour to get left wing gender critical women to vote for them.

Instead of attacking women for not complying and going along with policies that are not in their best interests, how this novel thought - and Labour made sure their policies are pro-women and not misogynistic claptrap.

It's really not hard.

Left wing women WANT to vote for Labour. Stop making it impossible for them to do so.

Once again it's framed as women being in the wrong and not the fuckwits running the Labour party.

Thelnebriati · 22/06/2025 21:50

To be blunt- as you guys love being- if you vote for Reform or the Tories in the next election, or abstain and facilitate them getting in, it means embracing a whole bunch of truly unpalatable measures that will really hurt women and the country as a whole. Is that really worth it?

As some of us were saying before the last General Election; Labour have no right to make it impossible for women who have a conscience to vote for them, then blame women for not voting for them.
If we did vote for them, we'd be used as proof that the policies are popular. Stop blaming us for the consequences of stupid policies. We aren't the ones that started this mess.

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 22/06/2025 21:04

That's why I'm talking about what the Left is getting wrong and why I care so much about the Left fucking this up so badly, because they are making themselves into parties I cannot vote for due to their utterly craven betrayal of women. It's hardly rocket science.

and it shouldn’t strain the imagination too much to understand that just because i think labour and the left are failing doesn’t mean im going to vote for reform or the tories

i mean it shouldn’t but apparently it does…pathetic

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