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Reflections on Trans Arguments

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LimeFinch · 18/06/2025 16:17

I've noticed a lot of general discourse about trans people that is based on misinformation, some of it dangerous, most of it born out of ignorance, so here's a handy reference to counter some of the claims I've seen.

Trans People are extremist! That's wot I done heard!
Transgender extremism doesn't exist - it's just a right-wing talking point used to discredit legitimate healthcare and equality efforts.
https://www.amnesty.org.uk/press-releases/uk-un-view-trans-rights-much-needed-common-sense
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/apr/11/hilary-cass-trans-children-review
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/feb/02/gender-critical-beliefs-under-the-microscope

Puberty Blockers are Dangerous! My total lack of medical knowledge says so!
Puberty blockers are often lifesaving interventions. They're prescribed only after long assessments involving NHS gender clinics, parents, and specialists. They are fully reversible and shown to reduce the risk of suicide in young people with persistent gender dysphoria.
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/treatment
https://www.england.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/tonic-psh-consultation-analysis-report.pdf
https://www.bmj.com/content/386/bmj.q1638.short
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/resources/interim-service-specification-specialist-gender-dysphoria-services-consultation-response
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/news-events/news/rcpch-responds-publication-final-report-cass-review

I Heard They're Changing Kids' Genitalia!
No people under 18 are getting genital surgery in the UK. NHS policy and private clinics alike restrict this to adults.
Indeed, more cisgender teens receive breast reduction surgery on the NHS than trans teens receive chest masculinisation surgery. The procedures follow similar approval processes, yet only one group is routinely scrutinised.
https://pure.johnshopkins.edu/en/publications/breast-surgery-in-adolescents-cisgender-breast-reduction-versus-t
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/02/10/revealed-thousands-of-trans-surgeries-carried-out-by-nhs/

They're in Women's Sports! I read it on teh internets!
There are only a small number of openly trans athletes competing at a professional level in the world, and none are dominating their fields.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/61346517
https://feeds.bbci.co.uk/sport/athletics/65051900

But, but, but, Women's Sports! No men!
Sex-segregated sports were historically introduced to exclude women, not because men were being beaten. The idea that it was about fairness is a myth.
https://www.theguardian.com/football/2022/jun/13/how-the-fa-banned-womens-football-in-1921-and-tried-to-justify-it
https://research.birmingham.ac.uk/en/publications/health-gender-and-inequality-in-sport-a-historical-perspective

Ok, but Trans-women are Stronger. That ain't Fair!
There is no consistent biological advantage for trans women in elite sport. Oestrogen therapy significantly reduces muscle mass, strength and performance over time. Regulations often require minimum hormone levels and transition periods before competing.
https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/55/15/865
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/olympics/59312313

Trans-Women are Men!!!!!! Any fule knowe that!
Identity is personal. “Man”, “woman”, “boy”, and “girl” are social roles - that’s gender. Not to be confused with biological sex - male and female. No trans woman claims to be biologically female, and no trans man claims to be biologically male. That’s another right-wing straw man argument.
https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/media-centre/interim-update-practical-implications-uk-supreme-court-judgment
https://www.stonewall.org.uk/resources/lgbtq-hubs/trans-hub/the-truth-about-trans

Trans History is Different to Women's History
The idea that trans women have a “separate history” to cis women echoes the same tactics once used to exclude Black women and disabled women from womanhood.
https://blog.bham.ac.uk/socialsciencesbirmingham/2024/03/08/international-womens-day-trans-women-cannot-be-left-behind/
https://www.disabilityrightsuk.org/news/trans-and-disability-justice-how-are-our-struggles-linked
Tall women, Black women, trans women - these are all adjectives describing different types of women. Every woman’s experience of womanhood is unique. If you exclude trans women from being women, what condition are you using to define womanhood? There isn’t one necessary condition. So trans women cannot be excluded from womanhood on this basis.

Trans-Women are Men in Dresses! I read it in the Daily Mail!
Crossdressing is not the same as being trans. Many cis men crossdress and are not trans.
https://fiorry.co/glossary/crossdresser/

But Anybody can be Trans in an Instant! I'm scared!
The risk of coming out as trans due to internalised homophobia and sexism is a real thing but is not as common as many would have you believe. That’s why the NHS has a structured care pathway with long waiting times and assessments. No one can simply walk in and access hormones or surgery. Many people are left in limbo for years unless they are in crisis or suicidal.
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/
https://transactual.org.uk/trans-lives-21/

Organisations are Convincing Kids They're Trans! Think of the Children!
No one is trying to “convince” people they’re trans. If you feel deep discomfort with the sex you were assigned at birth, you might be trans - but that’s for you to explore, not for anyone else to decide. The queer community is generally very good at spotting people who are dealing with internalised issues - no one wants anyone to transition unless it’s truly needed. This whole “kids being convinced” thing is another empty scare story.
https://transactual.org.uk/healthcare-professionals/inclusive-healthcare/
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/

Now, I'm very aware of the MN reputation for shutting down the threads - and removing the accounts - of anyone who doesn't go along with the anti-trans-hate-cult, but for the short time this thread remains up it's worth taking some time to actually look at the links, to think about the status of trans-women in the current society, and consider how this judgement - and the subsequent interpretation of the same by those who are a little hard of thinking - might reflect on us as self-assumed rational, reasonable human beings.

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LimeFinch · 18/06/2025 16:17

I've noticed a lot of general discourse about trans people that is based on misinformation, some of it dangerous, most of it born out of ignorance, so here's a handy reference to counter some of the claims I've seen.

Trans People are extremist! That's wot I done heard!
Transgender extremism doesn't exist - it's just a right-wing talking point used to discredit legitimate healthcare and equality efforts.
https://www.amnesty.org.uk/press-releases/uk-un-view-trans-rights-much-needed-common-sense
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/apr/11/hilary-cass-trans-children-review
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/feb/02/gender-critical-beliefs-under-the-microscope

Puberty Blockers are Dangerous! My total lack of medical knowledge says so!
Puberty blockers are often lifesaving interventions. They're prescribed only after long assessments involving NHS gender clinics, parents, and specialists. They are fully reversible and shown to reduce the risk of suicide in young people with persistent gender dysphoria.
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/treatment
https://www.england.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/tonic-psh-consultation-analysis-report.pdf
https://www.bmj.com/content/386/bmj.q1638.short
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/resources/interim-service-specification-specialist-gender-dysphoria-services-consultation-response
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/news-events/news/rcpch-responds-publication-final-report-cass-review

I Heard They're Changing Kids' Genitalia!
No people under 18 are getting genital surgery in the UK. NHS policy and private clinics alike restrict this to adults.
Indeed, more cisgender teens receive breast reduction surgery on the NHS than trans teens receive chest masculinisation surgery. The procedures follow similar approval processes, yet only one group is routinely scrutinised.
https://pure.johnshopkins.edu/en/publications/breast-surgery-in-adolescents-cisgender-breast-reduction-versus-t
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/02/10/revealed-thousands-of-trans-surgeries-carried-out-by-nhs/

They're in Women's Sports! I read it on teh internets!
There are only a small number of openly trans athletes competing at a professional level in the world, and none are dominating their fields.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/61346517
https://feeds.bbci.co.uk/sport/athletics/65051900

But, but, but, Women's Sports! No men!
Sex-segregated sports were historically introduced to exclude women, not because men were being beaten. The idea that it was about fairness is a myth.
https://www.theguardian.com/football/2022/jun/13/how-the-fa-banned-womens-football-in-1921-and-tried-to-justify-it
https://research.birmingham.ac.uk/en/publications/health-gender-and-inequality-in-sport-a-historical-perspective

Ok, but Trans-women are Stronger. That ain't Fair!
There is no consistent biological advantage for trans women in elite sport. Oestrogen therapy significantly reduces muscle mass, strength and performance over time. Regulations often require minimum hormone levels and transition periods before competing.
https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/55/15/865
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/olympics/59312313

Trans-Women are Men!!!!!! Any fule knowe that!
Identity is personal. “Man”, “woman”, “boy”, and “girl” are social roles - that’s gender. Not to be confused with biological sex - male and female. No trans woman claims to be biologically female, and no trans man claims to be biologically male. That’s another right-wing straw man argument.
https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/media-centre/interim-update-practical-implications-uk-supreme-court-judgment
https://www.stonewall.org.uk/resources/lgbtq-hubs/trans-hub/the-truth-about-trans

Trans History is Different to Women's History
The idea that trans women have a “separate history” to cis women echoes the same tactics once used to exclude Black women and disabled women from womanhood.
https://blog.bham.ac.uk/socialsciencesbirmingham/2024/03/08/international-womens-day-trans-women-cannot-be-left-behind/
https://www.disabilityrightsuk.org/news/trans-and-disability-justice-how-are-our-struggles-linked
Tall women, Black women, trans women - these are all adjectives describing different types of women. Every woman’s experience of womanhood is unique. If you exclude trans women from being women, what condition are you using to define womanhood? There isn’t one necessary condition. So trans women cannot be excluded from womanhood on this basis.

Trans-Women are Men in Dresses! I read it in the Daily Mail!
Crossdressing is not the same as being trans. Many cis men crossdress and are not trans.
https://fiorry.co/glossary/crossdresser/

But Anybody can be Trans in an Instant! I'm scared!
The risk of coming out as trans due to internalised homophobia and sexism is a real thing but is not as common as many would have you believe. That’s why the NHS has a structured care pathway with long waiting times and assessments. No one can simply walk in and access hormones or surgery. Many people are left in limbo for years unless they are in crisis or suicidal.
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/
https://transactual.org.uk/trans-lives-21/

Organisations are Convincing Kids They're Trans! Think of the Children!
No one is trying to “convince” people they’re trans. If you feel deep discomfort with the sex you were assigned at birth, you might be trans - but that’s for you to explore, not for anyone else to decide. The queer community is generally very good at spotting people who are dealing with internalised issues - no one wants anyone to transition unless it’s truly needed. This whole “kids being convinced” thing is another empty scare story.
https://transactual.org.uk/healthcare-professionals/inclusive-healthcare/
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/

Now, I'm very aware of the MN reputation for shutting down the threads - and removing the accounts - of anyone who doesn't go along with the anti-trans-hate-cult, but for the short time this thread remains up it's worth taking some time to actually look at the links, to think about the status of trans-women in the current society, and consider how this judgement - and the subsequent interpretation of the same by those who are a little hard of thinking - might reflect on us as self-assumed rational, reasonable human beings.

All that gish gallop in the hope of hiding this very very simple fact that you accidentally let slip:

Identity is personal. “Man”, “woman”, “boy”, and “girl” are social roles - that’s gender. Not to be confused with biological sex - male and female.

Yes. You are 100% correct. This thing you call "gender" is not the same thing as sex.

So the question you need to answer if that if sex and gender are not the same thing, why do you insist that people who are female cannot define themselves based on their sex as a social group that excludes male people? If gender is not sex, why is someone's gender even part of the conversation that is about sex-based rights and language?

Why is this "gender" of "woman" that male people experience somehow not the same as sex to the degree that male people can be it, but exactly the same as sex when it is deployed as the reason that male people should have the right to resources and spaces that were designated female-only back in the day when "woman" simply meant "female"?

MyQuirkyTraybake · 19/06/2025 00:07

Thanks LimeFinch, you seem really knowledgable on this topic. Maybe you can help me. What is the definition of gender? I keep asking this and searching but I can't find one.

murasaki · 18/06/2025 23:43

I really shouldn't have clicked on that right before bed. Nightmares coming up.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/06/2025 23:38

Datun · 18/06/2025 22:58

I am actually loving the way posters have popped up to support OP telling OP how much they agree.

In my head I imagine them like this, on a WhatsApp group, congratulating each other on their irrefutable arguments and dress sense.

😂

Datun · 18/06/2025 23:27

I'm always mindful of your sensibilities Helle 😄

Helleofabore · 18/06/2025 23:00

Datun · 18/06/2025 22:58

I am actually loving the way posters have popped up to support OP telling OP how much they agree.

In my head I imagine them like this, on a WhatsApp group, congratulating each other on their irrefutable arguments and dress sense.

Thanks for the sensitive content warning Datun!!!

Datun · 18/06/2025 22:58

I am actually loving the way posters have popped up to support OP telling OP how much they agree.

In my head I imagine them like this, on a WhatsApp group, congratulating each other on their irrefutable arguments and dress sense.

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Reflections on Trans Arguments
Helleofabore · 18/06/2025 22:41

I am beginning to suspect that the OP has copied that list of stuff from somewhere and plopped in here. When I read the opening post, I felt a sense of deja vu.

I suspect that the OP has not read all the links and just assumed that the links supported the points. But it all seemed too familiar.

Considering Limey has just posted on another thread about Dunning-Kruger effect in an attempt to gotcha posters, I am really thinking that was projection on their behalf.

Helleofabore · 18/06/2025 22:38

onceandneveragain · 18/06/2025 22:16

OP I'm a bit bemused - I only clicked on one of your links (the BBC sport one) and it doesn't support your argument at all?
Its split into the 2 views so already half of it is arguing (convincingly) against trans women in women's sports, and even the half arguing for it is a) a trans athlete so already biased and b) whose own positi
on is "its complicated" and "there are no easy answers" - even makes this analogy:

"However, you never put a big boxer in the ring with a little boxer, no matter how good the little boxer is. No matter how hard the little boxer works, trains, how competitive they are, they can't beat a big boxer. The size difference means there's no such thing as meaningful competition between big boxers and little boxers."

So I'm not sure what that's supposed to prove? If anything if I was on the fence it would sway me the other way if even a trans athlete couldn't convince herself!

That link is as you say, hilariously not what the OP thought.

Harper understands very well that in many sports there are physical advantages that male people will never be able to overcome with suppression of testosterone. Harper believes that there are 'some' sports where you can yet cannot produce a study, despite huge funding directly from the IOC, that shows this.

Either way, Harper will often argue that there are still advantages, but 'inclusion' is vital.

So, it was Dr Ross Tucker who is very much an expert on this topic who discusses the opposite to the OP's point and Harper who agrees with some of the things that Tucker said.

Arran2024 · 18/06/2025 22:25

😂

DiamondThrone · 18/06/2025 22:20

Arran2024 · 18/06/2025 22:19

Very true. And no defence of trans women in women's prisons. Owen Jones then?

Oh god he is totally Fotherington-Tomas 😆

potpourree · 18/06/2025 22:20

BackToLurk · 18/06/2025 22:17

Can I have a quid on ‘biological essentialism’ being used entirely incorrectly?

Oh God. That poster who kept using it to mean the exact opposite of what it means and wouldn't accept it! I do wonder if they ever gave that a second's thought... They certainly weren't stupid, but it was as if when they couldn't immediately answer something that required a bit of thought, they'd just revert back to (what looked like) copying some non-sequitur from some Reddit template.

Arran2024 · 18/06/2025 22:19

DiamondThrone · 18/06/2025 22:02

That is very mean to Zoe. I am sure she would get the Molesworth reference right.

Very true. And no defence of trans women in women's prisons. Owen Jones then?

BackToLurk · 18/06/2025 22:17

potpourree · 18/06/2025 19:51

Yes and will:
pretend people have written things they haven't by paraphrasing it in a HILARIOUS way (that they've seen bigger boys write on Reddit),
will embarrass themselves by stating it's 'gender critical to want people to conform to gender stereotypes',
will use the phrase 'moral panic',
will use sex and gender interchangeably,
will use 'women' to mean both 'female people' and 'people of either sex' randomly,
will go on and on about being deleted,
will say it's an echo-chamber yet be unable to post a single statement we can all agree on....

and they'll think they're doing something new and provocative!

Can I have a quid on ‘biological essentialism’ being used entirely incorrectly?

onceandneveragain · 18/06/2025 22:16

OP I'm a bit bemused - I only clicked on one of your links (the BBC sport one) and it doesn't support your argument at all?
Its split into the 2 views so already half of it is arguing (convincingly) against trans women in women's sports, and even the half arguing for it is a) a trans athlete so already biased and b) whose own positi
on is "its complicated" and "there are no easy answers" - even makes this analogy:

"However, you never put a big boxer in the ring with a little boxer, no matter how good the little boxer is. No matter how hard the little boxer works, trains, how competitive they are, they can't beat a big boxer. The size difference means there's no such thing as meaningful competition between big boxers and little boxers."

So I'm not sure what that's supposed to prove? If anything if I was on the fence it would sway me the other way if even a trans athlete couldn't convince herself!

DiamondThrone · 18/06/2025 22:02

Arran2024 · 18/06/2025 20:09

Are you Zoe Williams?

That is very mean to Zoe. I am sure she would get the Molesworth reference right.

lechiffre55 · 18/06/2025 21:51

Ohh how will MN GCs ever cope with another pump and dump drop a pile of drivel and run post?

There's a thing about changing the mind of people who disagree with you. You can't do it through insults. No one ever changed their mind by being told how awful they are.
If it makes you feel better to troll fair enough, but all posts like the OP do is convince GC people that they are dealing with emotionally unstable people who need help.

Screamingabdabz · 18/06/2025 21:38

Ratisshortforratthew · 18/06/2025 18:14

I agree with you OP and reading FWR - which I do, because I believe in being aware of all viewpoints - has only made me more supportive of trans inclusion. Unfortunately you are wasting your breath here though, as much as people say they want to hear from people who disagree and have a respectful debate, they don’t - you just end up being ridiculed or accused of being a man.

Please please please 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 make an intelligent sane argument for ‘trans inclusion’ that doesn’t displace or harm women.

Everyone is here for it. Genuinely. We can all finally heave a sigh of relief, pack up and go home.

I’m baffled that you still think people just get up in the morning to ‘hate’ trans people for no apparent reason. It makes no sense. We want inclusion. But not at the expense of girls and women.

SternJoyousBee · 18/06/2025 21:22

Ratisshortforratthew · 18/06/2025 18:14

I agree with you OP and reading FWR - which I do, because I believe in being aware of all viewpoints - has only made me more supportive of trans inclusion. Unfortunately you are wasting your breath here though, as much as people say they want to hear from people who disagree and have a respectful debate, they don’t - you just end up being ridiculed or accused of being a man.

Trans inclusion in what?

JustFish · 18/06/2025 21:20

So many straw men in one post
I love the assumption and self assurance that knowledge will flow only one way...

Reflections on Trans Arguments
DialSquare · 18/06/2025 21:02

Igneococcus · 18/06/2025 20:56

Limey has popped up over on the SNP thread if anybody is wondering where he has got to.

I notice he hasn’t posted on the living as a woman thread.

ThePenguinIsDrunk · 18/06/2025 20:57

With that spelling I think you should pay more attention to your school work. Only 5 weeks until the end of term.

Igneococcus · 18/06/2025 20:56

Limey has popped up over on the SNP thread if anybody is wondering where he has got to.

nutmeg7 · 18/06/2025 20:47

Waitwhat23 · 18/06/2025 19:20

A series of haikus from the POV of the OP

A finger shake is
All those naughty ladies need.
A good telling off!

A poorly written,
Nonsensical list of shite
Is my way to go!

Evidence debunked.
TRA talk points from 2018.
Yet I continue.

With such confidence,
I entered the Karen's den.
Reddit, here I come!

❤️❤️❤️

godmum56 · 18/06/2025 20:23

Wait wait, I need popcorn and a giant coke.