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Reflections on Trans Arguments

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LimeFinch · 18/06/2025 16:17

I've noticed a lot of general discourse about trans people that is based on misinformation, some of it dangerous, most of it born out of ignorance, so here's a handy reference to counter some of the claims I've seen.

Trans People are extremist! That's wot I done heard!
Transgender extremism doesn't exist - it's just a right-wing talking point used to discredit legitimate healthcare and equality efforts.
https://www.amnesty.org.uk/press-releases/uk-un-view-trans-rights-much-needed-common-sense
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/apr/11/hilary-cass-trans-children-review
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/feb/02/gender-critical-beliefs-under-the-microscope

Puberty Blockers are Dangerous! My total lack of medical knowledge says so!
Puberty blockers are often lifesaving interventions. They're prescribed only after long assessments involving NHS gender clinics, parents, and specialists. They are fully reversible and shown to reduce the risk of suicide in young people with persistent gender dysphoria.
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/treatment
https://www.england.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/tonic-psh-consultation-analysis-report.pdf
https://www.bmj.com/content/386/bmj.q1638.short
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/resources/interim-service-specification-specialist-gender-dysphoria-services-consultation-response
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/news-events/news/rcpch-responds-publication-final-report-cass-review

I Heard They're Changing Kids' Genitalia!
No people under 18 are getting genital surgery in the UK. NHS policy and private clinics alike restrict this to adults.
Indeed, more cisgender teens receive breast reduction surgery on the NHS than trans teens receive chest masculinisation surgery. The procedures follow similar approval processes, yet only one group is routinely scrutinised.
https://pure.johnshopkins.edu/en/publications/breast-surgery-in-adolescents-cisgender-breast-reduction-versus-t
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/02/10/revealed-thousands-of-trans-surgeries-carried-out-by-nhs/

They're in Women's Sports! I read it on teh internets!
There are only a small number of openly trans athletes competing at a professional level in the world, and none are dominating their fields.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/61346517
https://feeds.bbci.co.uk/sport/athletics/65051900

But, but, but, Women's Sports! No men!
Sex-segregated sports were historically introduced to exclude women, not because men were being beaten. The idea that it was about fairness is a myth.
https://www.theguardian.com/football/2022/jun/13/how-the-fa-banned-womens-football-in-1921-and-tried-to-justify-it
https://research.birmingham.ac.uk/en/publications/health-gender-and-inequality-in-sport-a-historical-perspective

Ok, but Trans-women are Stronger. That ain't Fair!
There is no consistent biological advantage for trans women in elite sport. Oestrogen therapy significantly reduces muscle mass, strength and performance over time. Regulations often require minimum hormone levels and transition periods before competing.
https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/55/15/865
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/olympics/59312313

Trans-Women are Men!!!!!! Any fule knowe that!
Identity is personal. “Man”, “woman”, “boy”, and “girl” are social roles - that’s gender. Not to be confused with biological sex - male and female. No trans woman claims to be biologically female, and no trans man claims to be biologically male. That’s another right-wing straw man argument.
https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/media-centre/interim-update-practical-implications-uk-supreme-court-judgment
https://www.stonewall.org.uk/resources/lgbtq-hubs/trans-hub/the-truth-about-trans

Trans History is Different to Women's History
The idea that trans women have a “separate history” to cis women echoes the same tactics once used to exclude Black women and disabled women from womanhood.
https://blog.bham.ac.uk/socialsciencesbirmingham/2024/03/08/international-womens-day-trans-women-cannot-be-left-behind/
https://www.disabilityrightsuk.org/news/trans-and-disability-justice-how-are-our-struggles-linked
Tall women, Black women, trans women - these are all adjectives describing different types of women. Every woman’s experience of womanhood is unique. If you exclude trans women from being women, what condition are you using to define womanhood? There isn’t one necessary condition. So trans women cannot be excluded from womanhood on this basis.

Trans-Women are Men in Dresses! I read it in the Daily Mail!
Crossdressing is not the same as being trans. Many cis men crossdress and are not trans.
https://fiorry.co/glossary/crossdresser/

But Anybody can be Trans in an Instant! I'm scared!
The risk of coming out as trans due to internalised homophobia and sexism is a real thing but is not as common as many would have you believe. That’s why the NHS has a structured care pathway with long waiting times and assessments. No one can simply walk in and access hormones or surgery. Many people are left in limbo for years unless they are in crisis or suicidal.
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/
https://transactual.org.uk/trans-lives-21/

Organisations are Convincing Kids They're Trans! Think of the Children!
No one is trying to “convince” people they’re trans. If you feel deep discomfort with the sex you were assigned at birth, you might be trans - but that’s for you to explore, not for anyone else to decide. The queer community is generally very good at spotting people who are dealing with internalised issues - no one wants anyone to transition unless it’s truly needed. This whole “kids being convinced” thing is another empty scare story.
https://transactual.org.uk/healthcare-professionals/inclusive-healthcare/
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/

Now, I'm very aware of the MN reputation for shutting down the threads - and removing the accounts - of anyone who doesn't go along with the anti-trans-hate-cult, but for the short time this thread remains up it's worth taking some time to actually look at the links, to think about the status of trans-women in the current society, and consider how this judgement - and the subsequent interpretation of the same by those who are a little hard of thinking - might reflect on us as self-assumed rational, reasonable human beings.

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DragonRunor · 17/08/2025 17:36

Well-reasoned arguments - I wish!

if anyone came here and made genuinely well-reasoned arguments for why transwomen’s wish to access women’s spaces, sports & services should trump women’s need for those things we’d all love to hear it. The truth is, those arguments just don’t exist.

@LimeFinch, @Manfreglory etc, prove me wrong?

RowsOfFlowers · 17/08/2025 17:11

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 17/08/2025 16:18

It's a real 'so what ' isn't it?

Like 'cis' kids being given puberty blockers for precocious puberty, so that makes it okto give them to kids who believe they are trans (they are given for a limited time, at a younger age and stopped ASAP for precocious puberty, after which the child will experience puberty. 'Puberty blocked' 'trans' teens will never go through puberty).

AFAIK, you can still breast feed after breast reduction surgery.

Not so if they've been lopped off entirely.

Quite.
They are two completely different processes imo with entirely different treatment motivations and rationales. To use in an argument or points about trans doesn’t quite make sense to me…

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 17/08/2025 16:18

RowsOfFlowers · 17/08/2025 15:13

In relation to the point about more cisgender teens are getting breast reduction surgery than chest masculinisation surgery.

This is conflating two different issues, I’m failing to see the relevance. I’m sure many who require breast reduction surgery are for true physical health reasons!

It's a real 'so what ' isn't it?

Like 'cis' kids being given puberty blockers for precocious puberty, so that makes it okto give them to kids who believe they are trans (they are given for a limited time, at a younger age and stopped ASAP for precocious puberty, after which the child will experience puberty. 'Puberty blocked' 'trans' teens will never go through puberty).

AFAIK, you can still breast feed after breast reduction surgery.

Not so if they've been lopped off entirely.

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 17/08/2025 16:13

If you're a common or garden woman, you can jolly well get to the back of the queue with your demands for breast reduction, sterilisation or HRT hormones. Your pain / ever increasing family is insignificant compared to trans issues.

Women come last. As usual.

RedToothBrush · 17/08/2025 16:09

RowsOfFlowers · 17/08/2025 16:02

This is awful!! She should’ve been able to get this on the NHS.

Similarly I suffer from hirutism from PCOS which causes excessive hair growth on my face and ingrown hairs all over my legs but GPs refuse to do anything about it as they say it’s cosmetic.. despite it really affecting my life and sometimes leading to infection which I’ve had to be on antibiotics for… had to pay out thousands privately to get treatment. Not right!!

Welcome to 'equality'.

RowsOfFlowers · 17/08/2025 16:02

RedToothBrush · 17/08/2025 15:16

Friend in her late 20s wanted a breast reduction on the NHS due to back pain. Not trans. Was refused it on the grounds that it was 'wasn't necessary' despite suffering considerably

She went private. It solved her back problems.

This is awful!! She should’ve been able to get this on the NHS.

Similarly I suffer from hirutism from PCOS which causes excessive hair growth on my face and ingrown hairs all over my legs but GPs refuse to do anything about it as they say it’s cosmetic.. despite it really affecting my life and sometimes leading to infection which I’ve had to be on antibiotics for… had to pay out thousands privately to get treatment. Not right!!

RedToothBrush · 17/08/2025 15:16

RowsOfFlowers · 17/08/2025 15:13

In relation to the point about more cisgender teens are getting breast reduction surgery than chest masculinisation surgery.

This is conflating two different issues, I’m failing to see the relevance. I’m sure many who require breast reduction surgery are for true physical health reasons!

Friend in her late 20s wanted a breast reduction on the NHS due to back pain. Not trans. Was refused it on the grounds that it was 'wasn't necessary' despite suffering considerably

She went private. It solved her back problems.

RowsOfFlowers · 17/08/2025 15:13

In relation to the point about more cisgender teens are getting breast reduction surgery than chest masculinisation surgery.

This is conflating two different issues, I’m failing to see the relevance. I’m sure many who require breast reduction surgery are for true physical health reasons!

Catiette · 17/08/2025 14:05

GailBlancheViola · 17/08/2025 13:49

Your bar for well reasoned is so low it is on the floor.

I think Manfreglory forgot which thread they were on when they posted above instead of the one they'd started - they seem to have deserted the latter without addressing any of the well-reasoned arguments on it. That may be partly because they find it hard to defend their extended analogy to support their point, as many of the replies there show. I mean, even in the above, I assume the intent is to denigrate by suggesting we're incapable of well-reasoned arguments ourselves, but actually it works quite well in reverse - we DO welcome genuinely thoughtful engagement from "the other side", and it's so unusual, we ARE kind of starved of it. Sad, then, that the brief chunk of rare 😁 steak Manfreglory offered us there has now been utterly shredded, with no fresh meat to replace it.

😀

potpourree · 17/08/2025 14:04

Someone who doesn't understand you don't need to quote the OP 800+ posts into a thread is perhaps not best-placed to be telling others what to think Smile

GailBlancheViola · 17/08/2025 13:49

Manfreglory · 16/08/2025 21:48

offering these well-reasoned arguments in this space is like throwing a sirloin steak into a zoo where all the animals are starving.

Your bar for well reasoned is so low it is on the floor.

lcakethereforeIam · 16/08/2025 23:33

Did someone say cake?

AnSolas · 16/08/2025 23:18

DialSquare · 16/08/2025 22:22

Maybe they meant well seasoned?

Snap😀🤣🤣

DialSquare · 16/08/2025 22:22

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 16/08/2025 21:54

'well reasoned'

you are funny. yes we are truly starving for the sirloin of your well reasoned arguments

Grin Grin Grin

Maybe they meant well seasoned?

Boiledbeetle · 16/08/2025 22:07

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 16/08/2025 21:54

'well reasoned'

you are funny. yes we are truly starving for the sirloin of your well reasoned arguments

Grin Grin Grin

I'd rather have cake

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Namelessnelly · 16/08/2025 22:02

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 16/08/2025 21:54

'well reasoned'

you are funny. yes we are truly starving for the sirloin of your well reasoned arguments

Grin Grin Grin

Is this what they meant by the “something meaty”? 😃😃😃😃

Namelessnelly · 16/08/2025 22:02

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 16/08/2025 21:54

'well reasoned'

you are funny. yes we are truly starving for the sirloin of your well reasoned arguments

Grin Grin Grin

Is this what they meant by the “something meaty”? 😃😃😃😃

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 16/08/2025 21:54

Manfreglory · 16/08/2025 21:48

offering these well-reasoned arguments in this space is like throwing a sirloin steak into a zoo where all the animals are starving.

'well reasoned'

you are funny. yes we are truly starving for the sirloin of your well reasoned arguments

Grin Grin Grin

Manfreglory · 16/08/2025 21:48

LimeFinch · 18/06/2025 16:17

I've noticed a lot of general discourse about trans people that is based on misinformation, some of it dangerous, most of it born out of ignorance, so here's a handy reference to counter some of the claims I've seen.

Trans People are extremist! That's wot I done heard!
Transgender extremism doesn't exist - it's just a right-wing talking point used to discredit legitimate healthcare and equality efforts.
https://www.amnesty.org.uk/press-releases/uk-un-view-trans-rights-much-needed-common-sense
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/apr/11/hilary-cass-trans-children-review
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/feb/02/gender-critical-beliefs-under-the-microscope

Puberty Blockers are Dangerous! My total lack of medical knowledge says so!
Puberty blockers are often lifesaving interventions. They're prescribed only after long assessments involving NHS gender clinics, parents, and specialists. They are fully reversible and shown to reduce the risk of suicide in young people with persistent gender dysphoria.
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/treatment
https://www.england.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/tonic-psh-consultation-analysis-report.pdf
https://www.bmj.com/content/386/bmj.q1638.short
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/resources/interim-service-specification-specialist-gender-dysphoria-services-consultation-response
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/news-events/news/rcpch-responds-publication-final-report-cass-review

I Heard They're Changing Kids' Genitalia!
No people under 18 are getting genital surgery in the UK. NHS policy and private clinics alike restrict this to adults.
Indeed, more cisgender teens receive breast reduction surgery on the NHS than trans teens receive chest masculinisation surgery. The procedures follow similar approval processes, yet only one group is routinely scrutinised.
https://pure.johnshopkins.edu/en/publications/breast-surgery-in-adolescents-cisgender-breast-reduction-versus-t
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/02/10/revealed-thousands-of-trans-surgeries-carried-out-by-nhs/

They're in Women's Sports! I read it on teh internets!
There are only a small number of openly trans athletes competing at a professional level in the world, and none are dominating their fields.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/61346517
https://feeds.bbci.co.uk/sport/athletics/65051900

But, but, but, Women's Sports! No men!
Sex-segregated sports were historically introduced to exclude women, not because men were being beaten. The idea that it was about fairness is a myth.
https://www.theguardian.com/football/2022/jun/13/how-the-fa-banned-womens-football-in-1921-and-tried-to-justify-it
https://research.birmingham.ac.uk/en/publications/health-gender-and-inequality-in-sport-a-historical-perspective

Ok, but Trans-women are Stronger. That ain't Fair!
There is no consistent biological advantage for trans women in elite sport. Oestrogen therapy significantly reduces muscle mass, strength and performance over time. Regulations often require minimum hormone levels and transition periods before competing.
https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/55/15/865
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/olympics/59312313

Trans-Women are Men!!!!!! Any fule knowe that!
Identity is personal. “Man”, “woman”, “boy”, and “girl” are social roles - that’s gender. Not to be confused with biological sex - male and female. No trans woman claims to be biologically female, and no trans man claims to be biologically male. That’s another right-wing straw man argument.
https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/media-centre/interim-update-practical-implications-uk-supreme-court-judgment
https://www.stonewall.org.uk/resources/lgbtq-hubs/trans-hub/the-truth-about-trans

Trans History is Different to Women's History
The idea that trans women have a “separate history” to cis women echoes the same tactics once used to exclude Black women and disabled women from womanhood.
https://blog.bham.ac.uk/socialsciencesbirmingham/2024/03/08/international-womens-day-trans-women-cannot-be-left-behind/
https://www.disabilityrightsuk.org/news/trans-and-disability-justice-how-are-our-struggles-linked
Tall women, Black women, trans women - these are all adjectives describing different types of women. Every woman’s experience of womanhood is unique. If you exclude trans women from being women, what condition are you using to define womanhood? There isn’t one necessary condition. So trans women cannot be excluded from womanhood on this basis.

Trans-Women are Men in Dresses! I read it in the Daily Mail!
Crossdressing is not the same as being trans. Many cis men crossdress and are not trans.
https://fiorry.co/glossary/crossdresser/

But Anybody can be Trans in an Instant! I'm scared!
The risk of coming out as trans due to internalised homophobia and sexism is a real thing but is not as common as many would have you believe. That’s why the NHS has a structured care pathway with long waiting times and assessments. No one can simply walk in and access hormones or surgery. Many people are left in limbo for years unless they are in crisis or suicidal.
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/
https://transactual.org.uk/trans-lives-21/

Organisations are Convincing Kids They're Trans! Think of the Children!
No one is trying to “convince” people they’re trans. If you feel deep discomfort with the sex you were assigned at birth, you might be trans - but that’s for you to explore, not for anyone else to decide. The queer community is generally very good at spotting people who are dealing with internalised issues - no one wants anyone to transition unless it’s truly needed. This whole “kids being convinced” thing is another empty scare story.
https://transactual.org.uk/healthcare-professionals/inclusive-healthcare/
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/

Now, I'm very aware of the MN reputation for shutting down the threads - and removing the accounts - of anyone who doesn't go along with the anti-trans-hate-cult, but for the short time this thread remains up it's worth taking some time to actually look at the links, to think about the status of trans-women in the current society, and consider how this judgement - and the subsequent interpretation of the same by those who are a little hard of thinking - might reflect on us as self-assumed rational, reasonable human beings.

offering these well-reasoned arguments in this space is like throwing a sirloin steak into a zoo where all the animals are starving.

SternJoyousBee · 24/06/2025 14:07

greencartbluecart · 24/06/2025 13:55

Unless you think all parties are the same on all important issues, spoiling your vote could let someone lower down you acceptable list to get into power

ans whilst the spoilt votes are counted numerically there is no evidence they count in terms of making a difference

There are parties I would never vote for. The party I am most inclined towards has lost my support and they will nbe ed to change before they get back my vote. Until Jen I will continue to spoil my ballot.

The only way I will vote for a different party would be to strategically remove my sitting MP.

If people are worried that this will let in parties such as Reform then I suggest they start communicating their concerns to the Labour Party.

greencartbluecart · 24/06/2025 13:55

Unless you think all parties are the same on all important issues, spoiling your vote could let someone lower down you acceptable list to get into power

ans whilst the spoilt votes are counted numerically there is no evidence they count in terms of making a difference

SternJoyousBee · 24/06/2025 13:53

Thelnebriati · 24/06/2025 10:24

Abstaining from voting is not supporting the winner by default. Its a false argument and it smacks of blaming women for the position they have been placed in by people who are breaking the law; rather than blaming the law breakers for the consequences of their actions.

Exactly. Not attending the polling booth may be seen as apathy or just running out of time to go and vote or not being able find your ID. Spoiling my vote states clearly I am actively indicating that none of the candidates on this piece of paper deserves my vote. My spoiled vote gets counted

@StandFirm could make the same point for someone who chooses to vote for an independent candidate over whoever they deem the “good guys” to be.

As for ignorance if the slurs thrown our way. These are not limited to MN scoldings. In fact he ones here are pretty tame. TW get airtime on the radio, tv and web based media to call us names. R4 WH gives them plenty of opportunities to name call. And social media is laden with TRAs screeching abuse.

To join in this thread with no knowledge of the online and media landscape seems a strange thing to do🤷‍♀️

FlirtsWithRhinos · 24/06/2025 12:16

Because I'm feeling generous, I'll pop in a bit more info that chatGPT didn't pick up : one strategy is to take a leaf out of the TRAs playbook and focus on the smaller left parties like Greens and Libdems where there are active groups working to undo the gender activists' stronghold through party leadership elections and legal challenges to overreach. A GC accepting party on the Left would be important in the case of a hung parliament and also undo the complacent assumption that Labour can count on GC women's votes as the least worst option.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 24/06/2025 11:42

StandFirm · 24/06/2025 10:16

When I said I don't know what other posters have said: just because others have previously made similar points shouldn't imply that I should not post at all. If that's the case, why even keep the discussion board alive? Surely every point has already been made more than once in various ways? I was interested in the answer to the political question: if the mainstream progressive parties (lab/lib/greens) do not sufficiently address the issue, what do GC voters do? There are only three options: vote for the parties that let you down on this point but tick other boxes, vote for the opposition that may align on this point but don't tick the other boxes, or abstain and support the winner by default whoever it ends up being.
Simply bringing up this fact is not 'scolding', 'berating', 'blaming' or 'guilt-tripping'. That little GPT summary did not provide an answer either by the way, it just pointed out the same questions I've had. But all I've heard is 'don't tell us what to do', err... which I'm not. I'm pointing out the reality of the choices out there because I too am politically homeless for my own reasons and I was interested. No worries though, I'm not any more.

It wasn't supposed to provide an answer. I was interested in how easy it would be to effectively "catch up" years of discussion on a specific topic on a very busy board before jumping in.

Very easy, as it turns out.

just because others have previously made similar points shouldn't imply that I should not post at all. If that's the case, why even keep the discussion board alive? Surely every point has already been made more than once in various ways?

That's quite a selfish take. You want to ask something that's been discussed many times before, not because you know that and have a new take, but simply because it's me asking this time? And everyone else should be more than happy to repeat the things they've gone through many times before because this time, it's you?

The point of a discussion board is to discuss. If you are standing in the corner trying to pull the conversation back to where it was a while back don't be surprised if people don't engage or point you towards existing sources to catch up. We are also real people who will spend our time on what we think matters.

i was interested in the answer to the political question: if the mainstream progressive parties (lab/lib/greens) do not sufficiently address the issue, what do GC voters do?

And I think you have been giving several answers and also pointed to the archives of this board as a way to dig deeper. Personally I think the AI reply you dismissed is actually a pretty good summary of the various ways GC voters are thinking about this.

So if you really are interested in learning and understanding, I'm not sure why it's so critical that people have to interact with you directly to just say again all the info you've now been signposted to. If you really are interested in learning and understanding.

That is not to say never post obviously, but meet us where we are and be part of where the discussion goes next rather than asking us to hit rewind and pretend no one ever brought this up before.

Of course if it's more about the scolding for you I understand why it has to be direct and personal to feel satisfying, but I'm sure you can see that's not really giving much motivation to people to engage.

Thelnebriati · 24/06/2025 10:24

Abstaining from voting is not supporting the winner by default. Its a false argument and it smacks of blaming women for the position they have been placed in by people who are breaking the law; rather than blaming the law breakers for the consequences of their actions.

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