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ArabellaScott · 16/06/2025 08:06

RedToothBrush · 16/06/2025 07:43

They just don't care. They know it will generate clicks and therefore revenue.

I also think there is a complacency about fact checking for an audience that is willing to accept absurdities like Jack's frockgender. They've created a news bubble for and with a willing audience.

Perhaps why I now trust the Guardian's news reporting so little, it's become a web comic driven by overwhelming ideological bias.

GetDressedYouMerryGentlemen · 16/06/2025 07:59

RedToothBrush · 16/06/2025 07:45

Is it?

Or is it that they count harassment cases differently because they take it more seriously?

I don't know.

It could be that every incident gets reported because the victim feels something will be done rather than thinking what's the point nothing will happen and I will be marked as 'difficult'

RedToothBrush · 16/06/2025 07:45

sanluca · 16/06/2025 07:01

It is odd that those countries that do so well in the gender equality research have such a bad rep with sexism and harrassment....

Is it?

Or is it that they count harassment cases differently because they take it more seriously?

I don't know.

RedToothBrush · 16/06/2025 07:43

Merrymouse · 16/06/2025 06:53

I would love to understand the Guardian’s decision making process when deciding to publish this.

They must have known that

1). The story they published missed key details.
2) it’s easy to find the original Substack story and details of this man’s life.

Would it have been approved for publication in Australia? Does that explain why the incorrect analysis of the SC decision was published, or do they just not check facts in opinion columns?

Or have they just cut too many staff and nobody checks anything?

They just don't care. They know it will generate clicks and therefore revenue.

sanluca · 16/06/2025 07:01

Merrymouse · 15/06/2025 23:03

https://www.lrfoundation.org.uk/sites/default/files/2024-06/LRF_2021_report_safe-at-work.pdf?_gl=11djoyif_gcl_auMjEzMjYwMTI2OC4xNzUwMDI0Njg5_gaNzg0MTIyNTAuMTc1MDAyNDY4OA.._ga_BC2H827C86*czE3NTAwMjQ2OTAkbzEkZzEkdDE3NTAwMjQ2OTAkajYwJGwwJGgw

this is a study on work place harrassment.

australia and NZ apparently have most work place harassment.

However I haven’t read the study to find out how they accounted for different levels of monitoring and reporting systems.

Nordic countries also do badly.

It is odd that those countries that do so well in the gender equality research have such a bad rep with sexism and harrassment....

Merrymouse · 16/06/2025 06:53

I would love to understand the Guardian’s decision making process when deciding to publish this.

They must have known that

1). The story they published missed key details.
2) it’s easy to find the original Substack story and details of this man’s life.

Would it have been approved for publication in Australia? Does that explain why the incorrect analysis of the SC decision was published, or do they just not check facts in opinion columns?

Or have they just cut too many staff and nobody checks anything?

ArabellaScott · 16/06/2025 06:26

EasternStandard · 15/06/2025 13:01

I’d rather hear from the woman dealing with men like this.

Why do the males always need to be centre, aided by the press.

His partner/wife ran as a councillor last year, for the Greens. They've just had a baby and had many publicity shots en famille.

Some people might say a heterosexual couple taking lots of selfies and calling themselves 'queer' is absurd, tasteless, and offensive.

But I guess he does have long hair.

Pawse · 16/06/2025 05:31

Yes this definitely happened although I'm surprised that all the women in the toilet didn't clap at his bravery 🙄

Helleofabore · 16/06/2025 03:38

Helleofabore · 16/06/2025 01:53

I would also take care when reading these stats too. Because I suspect you might find that there are more protective legislation in Australia industrial relations. I was shocked when I moved to the UK at what was overlooked here compared to in Australia. I had a workplace situation here that a lawyer advised me was going to be very long and stressful to remedy that was a clear cut case in Australia.

So, sometimes stats can be deceptive and I love stats.

*”I had a workplace situation here that a lawyer advised me was going to be very long and stressful to remedy that was a clear cut case in Australia.”

sorry. That should be ‘that would have been a clear cut case’.

LemondrizzleShark · 16/06/2025 03:01

Ginmonkeyagain · 15/06/2025 11:37

Ahhh. Ok KOKO. So I go there a fair bit. The bouncers are not there to "enforce toilet rules" it is a rambling multi level Victorian era venue with toilets up narrow stair cases and in odd places, they often have securityhere to keep the queues moving and make ure stairs aren't blocked. The ladies in particular get very over crowded.

I imagine the poor woman simply saw a man in the queue and directed Jack to the gents, men in dresses aren't exactly a shocking sight in London clubs. He should havr been pleased. Queues for the ladies at KOKO are epic (and there are also always issues with the basement ones blocking/being flooded 🫠)

Every time I have seen a man kicked out of the ladies at Koko (and it has been happening regularly for at least a decade) it was because they were suspected of taking coke in the cubicles, or shagging.

I don’t think Jack has fallen afoul of the toilet gender police here, just the standard toilet security guards.

Helleofabore · 16/06/2025 01:53

Merrymouse · 15/06/2025 23:03

https://www.lrfoundation.org.uk/sites/default/files/2024-06/LRF_2021_report_safe-at-work.pdf?_gl=11djoyif_gcl_auMjEzMjYwMTI2OC4xNzUwMDI0Njg5_gaNzg0MTIyNTAuMTc1MDAyNDY4OA.._ga_BC2H827C86*czE3NTAwMjQ2OTAkbzEkZzEkdDE3NTAwMjQ2OTAkajYwJGwwJGgw

this is a study on work place harrassment.

australia and NZ apparently have most work place harassment.

However I haven’t read the study to find out how they accounted for different levels of monitoring and reporting systems.

Nordic countries also do badly.

I would also take care when reading these stats too. Because I suspect you might find that there are more protective legislation in Australia industrial relations. I was shocked when I moved to the UK at what was overlooked here compared to in Australia. I had a workplace situation here that a lawyer advised me was going to be very long and stressful to remedy that was a clear cut case in Australia.

So, sometimes stats can be deceptive and I love stats.

KnottyAuty · 15/06/2025 23:07

Merrymouse · 15/06/2025 23:03

https://www.lrfoundation.org.uk/sites/default/files/2024-06/LRF_2021_report_safe-at-work.pdf?_gl=11djoyif_gcl_auMjEzMjYwMTI2OC4xNzUwMDI0Njg5_gaNzg0MTIyNTAuMTc1MDAyNDY4OA.._ga_BC2H827C86*czE3NTAwMjQ2OTAkbzEkZzEkdDE3NTAwMjQ2OTAkajYwJGwwJGgw

this is a study on work place harrassment.

australia and NZ apparently have most work place harassment.

However I haven’t read the study to find out how they accounted for different levels of monitoring and reporting systems.

Nordic countries also do badly.

I'm really really surprised by the Scandi results. Have we been fed on a diet of propaganda about how wonderfully liberal these places are? Just depends on how they decide to frame the numbers I guess -"lies, damned lies, and statistics"

ETA typo

Merrymouse · 15/06/2025 23:03

KnottyAuty · 15/06/2025 20:48

Ok. I’d just like to find the stats to see what the numbers say and how different countries compare. Light googling suggests that
the rate of partner or former partner killings in Australia has in recent times been twice has high as the UK. But those figures look a bit odd and need checking. I’d like to compare with Europe - Scandi countries look surprisingly bad

https://www.lrfoundation.org.uk/sites/default/files/2024-06/LRF_2021_report_safe-at-work.pdf?_gl=11djoyif_gcl_auMjEzMjYwMTI2OC4xNzUwMDI0Njg5_gaNzg0MTIyNTAuMTc1MDAyNDY4OA.._ga_BC2H827C86*czE3NTAwMjQ2OTAkbzEkZzEkdDE3NTAwMjQ2OTAkajYwJGwwJGgw

this is a study on work place harrassment.

australia and NZ apparently have most work place harassment.

However I haven’t read the study to find out how they accounted for different levels of monitoring and reporting systems.

Nordic countries also do badly.

https://www.lrfoundation.org.uk/sites/default/files/2024-06/LRF_2021_report_safe-at-work.pdf?_gl=1*1djoyif*_gcl_au*MjEzMjYwMTI2OC4xNzUwMDI0Njg5*_ga*Nzg0MTIyNTAuMTc1MDAyNDY4OA..*_ga_BC2H827C86*czE3NTAwMjQ2OTAkbzEkZzEkdDE3NTAwMjQ2OTAkajYwJGwwJGgw

KnottyAuty · 15/06/2025 20:48

Helleofabore · 15/06/2025 19:45

I don’t know where the federal stats are. I would assume that each state collects their own VAWG stats.

However, are you now saying Australian men are more likely to commit VAWG rather than just Australian men being ‘dismissive’?

And I work in a male dominated industry too. As I said, I have found the sexism as bad if not worse in the UK. But there is this narrative that gets rolled out on MN quite often, so I am now going to push back on it.

Ok. I’d just like to find the stats to see what the numbers say and how different countries compare. Light googling suggests that
the rate of partner or former partner killings in Australia has in recent times been twice has high as the UK. But those figures look a bit odd and need checking. I’d like to compare with Europe - Scandi countries look surprisingly bad

Helleofabore · 15/06/2025 19:48

DuesToTheDirt · 15/06/2025 19:27

Yeah, it's complete histrionics.

"now I needed to piss, and I was afraid."

"Sensing my discomfort my friends loyally announced their own need to pee"

"My friends came to the rescue, telling the guard to back off and escorting me into the women’s, which was crowded with people. Gaze fixed downwards to hide my humiliationn, I pushed into a cubicle and peed. My head was ringing, there were raised voices outside, then the rap at the door."

"Britain has become a country where trans people can be yanked from their sports teams; where cash-strapped businesses can be forced to ghettoise their customers"

"For a minute afterwards I stood crying against the wall. Then the toilet policewoman returned and took up position in front of me. She looked a little ashamed, and she touched a now-gentler hand to my arm."

Actually, there isn't a sentence in that article that is not overblown and ludicrous.

It was a huge melodrama. And I don’t think it has gone down the way that Jack expected. He has certainly shone a huge beacon where the UK lobby groups don’t want it to be shone.

Helleofabore · 15/06/2025 19:45

KnottyAuty · 15/06/2025 18:18

I’m just going on impressions from a male dominated industry - so agree this could be very biased. Where would I find VAWG figures for Oz?

I don’t know where the federal stats are. I would assume that each state collects their own VAWG stats.

However, are you now saying Australian men are more likely to commit VAWG rather than just Australian men being ‘dismissive’?

And I work in a male dominated industry too. As I said, I have found the sexism as bad if not worse in the UK. But there is this narrative that gets rolled out on MN quite often, so I am now going to push back on it.

RedToothBrush · 15/06/2025 19:40

DuesToTheDirt · 15/06/2025 19:27

Yeah, it's complete histrionics.

"now I needed to piss, and I was afraid."

"Sensing my discomfort my friends loyally announced their own need to pee"

"My friends came to the rescue, telling the guard to back off and escorting me into the women’s, which was crowded with people. Gaze fixed downwards to hide my humiliationn, I pushed into a cubicle and peed. My head was ringing, there were raised voices outside, then the rap at the door."

"Britain has become a country where trans people can be yanked from their sports teams; where cash-strapped businesses can be forced to ghettoise their customers"

"For a minute afterwards I stood crying against the wall. Then the toilet policewoman returned and took up position in front of me. She looked a little ashamed, and she touched a now-gentler hand to my arm."

Actually, there isn't a sentence in that article that is not overblown and ludicrous.

Oh but the DRRRRAMMMMA!!!!!

IDontHateRainbows · 15/06/2025 19:34

Helleofabore · 15/06/2025 08:54

Born in UK, lives in Australia.

That really is a 'trans australian' then!

GallantKumquat · 15/06/2025 19:33

fromorbit · 15/06/2025 18:38

This another mass peaking event. Lots of people sharing his original article not the edited version.

Keep promoting the ultra creeps TAs.

🤣 ngl you have to wonder if Guardian trans coverage is a psyop 🤔

DuesToTheDirt · 15/06/2025 19:27

ScribblingPixie · 15/06/2025 19:15

Pure fantasy. Not a word of it rings true.

Yeah, it's complete histrionics.

"now I needed to piss, and I was afraid."

"Sensing my discomfort my friends loyally announced their own need to pee"

"My friends came to the rescue, telling the guard to back off and escorting me into the women’s, which was crowded with people. Gaze fixed downwards to hide my humiliationn, I pushed into a cubicle and peed. My head was ringing, there were raised voices outside, then the rap at the door."

"Britain has become a country where trans people can be yanked from their sports teams; where cash-strapped businesses can be forced to ghettoise their customers"

"For a minute afterwards I stood crying against the wall. Then the toilet policewoman returned and took up position in front of me. She looked a little ashamed, and she touched a now-gentler hand to my arm."

Actually, there isn't a sentence in that article that is not overblown and ludicrous.

ScribblingPixie · 15/06/2025 19:15

Pure fantasy. Not a word of it rings true.

Arran2024 · 15/06/2025 18:46

He seems very self entitled with no empathy for women. My nephew wears dresses and make up sometimes but he never uses the ladies. He is perplexed by this guy's arguments. He knows he is male and the dress doesn't change that.

fromorbit · 15/06/2025 18:38

This another mass peaking event. Lots of people sharing his original article not the edited version.

Keep promoting the ultra creeps TAs.

KnottyAuty · 15/06/2025 18:18

Helleofabore · 15/06/2025 16:24

I have to call this out as an Australian. I have had more issues in the UK with sexism than I did in Australian. There is this stereotype that I see often here on MN and I don’t believe that the UK is better at all.

I’m just going on impressions from a male dominated industry - so agree this could be very biased. Where would I find VAWG figures for Oz?

DuesToTheDirt · 15/06/2025 17:25

Man not allowed in women's toilet. My heart bleeds.

that’s the thing about oppression: it widens. It affects us all.

It's oppression now, is it, to deny a man entry to the women's toilet?
Fuck off mate.

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