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The new “this is what a woman looks like” campaign

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Rumplestiltz · 08/06/2025 20:49

Apologies if this has been covered somewhere else, but I saw these billboards driving through an area of london today.
https://lgbt.foundation/thisiswhatawomanlookslike/
good lord I nearly crashed the car. This is the whole thing they just don’t get! It’s not about what we “look like”! We can look how we want! It’s about the biological reality of womanhood - menstruation, fertility, infertility, pregnancy, menopause. All the shit that goes with that. Not whether you have long hair and a pink top.

This is What a Woman Looks Like – LGBT Foundation

A national charity with LGBTQ+ health and wellbeing at the heart of everything we do.

https://lgbt.foundation/thisiswhatawomanlookslike/

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Bannedontherun · 09/06/2025 19:39

TheCatsTongue · 09/06/2025 19:37

It's a good campaign and you can even buy a t-shirt. They are all men's sizes.

😂

TheCatsTongue · 09/06/2025 19:37

It's a good campaign and you can even buy a t-shirt. They are all men's sizes.

Bannedontherun · 09/06/2025 19:35

If you check the last pic carefully it is obvious the bloke has been imposed after the fact LOL

Gettingbysomehow · 09/06/2025 18:34

Trans women aren't women, end of.

FuzzyPuffling · 09/06/2025 18:30

Well I am definitely a woman and I don't look like any of those.
Am I womaning wrong? No.

Davros · 09/06/2025 14:33

DiaAssolellat · 09/06/2025 07:10

Excellent point.

Love the cat / dog sticker, are they order-able?

There are lots of stickers and other “merch” available but I can’t see the cat one now and some of the messages are a bit too ironic imo
https://www.letwomenspeak.org/stickers?page=2

NewBinBag · 09/06/2025 12:02

What an interesting site.
It looks like it should consist of links, but it's just a list of random statements with pics of different people smiling and hugging in various combos.

I tried clicking 'What is a woman?' poised to be convinced that males raised as males with male bodies can indeed be as womanish as me, if not even more womanly. But alas it appears they are simply asking the question without offering nor expecting a reply.

Disappointing really. I came away without donating to whatever the vague thing is that they're doing or not doing, nor did I 'buy merch' which looks, from the photo, like a unisex t-shirt which would be ill-fitting on me, as a woman.

MarieDeGournay · 09/06/2025 11:40

KnottyAuty · 09/06/2025 09:34

That’s it - This is What a Woman Looks Like - with a little “GC Edition” tag or stamp across the corner 🤣

Or This is What a Woman Looks Like - OG 😃

Merrymouse · 09/06/2025 11:35

MoominMai · 09/06/2025 11:00

all women – trans women, lesbian and bisexual women, women of colour, disabled women, older women, working-class women, migrant women, and many more – of all shapes, sizes and walks of life – deserve to be seen, heard, and celebrated.

It’s really pushing hard on the fact that the word ‘women’ could be anyone from a trans woman to a working class woman’. No! This is trying to blur lines and fuzzy things up. If we want to celebrate women, just use the word ‘women’! To me that word means a biological woman. I don’t need it spelt out all the different types of women! If I do, then I expect it to be a targeted campaign for a reason to reach say ‘disabled’ or ‘migrant’ women for a reason that particularly benefits them! But otherwise just stop messing with the word ‘woman’ and trying to re-teach us what a woman is as though goodness, we had it wrong all along! This is actually infuriating and at the risk of sounding like the Simpsons vicars wife “won’t somebody please think of the children!” - really I do worry that the future girls to be women won’t realise what’s happening here and how harmful this insidious creep of men into their personal, sports and work places could be. I don’t even have kids but honestly!

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It’s also just patronising, meaningless puff.

Women don’t need to be ‘celebrated’.

Being female is not a virtue or a skill.

Women do need sex specific rights and the ability to protect those rights by defining themselves and their needs..

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 09/06/2025 11:34

funny looking bunch...

ERthree · 09/06/2025 11:14

How many times do we have to say a bloke can't be a woman, he can pretend but his DNA will sow he is a man. In fact all of the blokes on that poster look like blokes. As the Scottish Baird Rabbie Burns said " a mans a man for aw that"

girljulian · 09/06/2025 11:03

Alucard55 · 08/06/2025 22:18

Exactly what I done 🤣

I couldn't even guess, tbf. Just tried!

MoominMai · 09/06/2025 11:00

all women – trans women, lesbian and bisexual women, women of colour, disabled women, older women, working-class women, migrant women, and many more – of all shapes, sizes and walks of life – deserve to be seen, heard, and celebrated.

It’s really pushing hard on the fact that the word ‘women’ could be anyone from a trans woman to a working class woman’. No! This is trying to blur lines and fuzzy things up. If we want to celebrate women, just use the word ‘women’! To me that word means a biological woman. I don’t need it spelt out all the different types of women! If I do, then I expect it to be a targeted campaign for a reason to reach say ‘disabled’ or ‘migrant’ women for a reason that particularly benefits them! But otherwise just stop messing with the word ‘woman’ and trying to re-teach us what a woman is as though goodness, we had it wrong all along! This is actually infuriating and at the risk of sounding like the Simpsons vicars wife “won’t somebody please think of the children!” - really I do worry that the future girls to be women won’t realise what’s happening here and how harmful this insidious creep of men into their personal, sports and work places could be. I don’t even have kids but honestly!

CompleteGinasaur · 09/06/2025 10:28

MagpiePi · 09/06/2025 09:42

…or ‘Reality Edition’

Maybe superimposed over a montage of every woman who's had to bring or defend a lawsuit against this madness.. I'd quite like the short haired/lesbian contingent front and centre just to underline the point.

Treaclewell · 09/06/2025 10:26

I had an idea, while waiting outside Waitrose, for an art project titled. Women at Waitrose, a board of photos of individuals, covering all the classes there, women with hairbands who drove BMWs, and dressed to match, frumpy women who just wore any old thing, slim women, fat women. Tall women, short women, women of African origin, or Chinese, or Indian, farmers, women on the school run, women with ample bosoms or flat as a pancake, old women, young women, traveller women, women from offices, cleaner women, And the subtitle "This is what women look like".
Shot that down, haven't they?
Probably wouldn't have done it. anyway.

Retiredfromthere · 09/06/2025 10:23

@akkakk excellent.
Very well put about the exclusion of transmen.
I assume that is okay in the view of the LGBT Foundation because TMAM?

KnottyAuty · 09/06/2025 10:21

I also complained. And said that for the last 10 years charities had been conflating sex and gender which has created lots of problems for everyone (listed examples for women, trans men and general population). I said that after 16th of April this was now clearly misleading and very offensive. I think it’s defo worth a complaint citing the clarification of the law and how the past similar activities have caused damage so this is t a small thing to be tolerated any more

akkakk · 09/06/2025 10:10

Formal complaint to the ASA made (link to their complaints page above)

LGBT Foundation is encouraging people to sign a pledge stating: This is What a Woman looks Like.
They include (pictorially and in text) trans women amongst a list of types of women. The April 16th Supreme Court Judgement confirmed that the legal definition of a woman is based on biological sex, and that therefore a Trans Woman is legally a man. Equally a Trans Man is legally a woman.

In including trans women, and excluding trans men in their examples of women, the LGBT Foundation is misleading the public with inaccurate photography and text descriptions. It discriminates against Trans Men (who are legally female / women) as their pledge based on 'This is what a woman looks like' excludes them. It discriminates against women, by including men in both the photography and the text (trans women - confirmed by the Supreme Court to be biologically men).

It is deceiving the public into believing that they are fighting to protect and support women, when the LGBT Foundation is a) including men, and b) prioritising men over women with their 'Pledge to protect trans and non-binary people' (but only including trans women (men) in their definitions). Anyone signing up to this pledge is actually pledging something very different to how it is being portrayed and this is deceptive.

Trans Men (who are legally women) are excluded from those being promoted / protected / supported, whereas Trans Women (legally men) are being included, as the premise of their campaign is to be women only this is sex discrimination under the Equality Act:
- it doesn't include all women
- it doesn't include all men
As is clear from the Supreme Court Judgement if there is exclusion based on protected characteristics (e.g. focusing only on women) which is an acceptable approach, it is not acceptable where there are partial uses of protected characteristics, or several protected characteristics unless all are included - so this is in breach of the Equality Act.

^It should be noted that this promotional material (photography and text) is current on bill boards / their website / social media- the uploaded copy is from the page of their website. It is also archived here: archive.is/Dwmla^

MagpiePi · 09/06/2025 09:42

KnottyAuty · 09/06/2025 09:34

That’s it - This is What a Woman Looks Like - with a little “GC Edition” tag or stamp across the corner 🤣

…or ‘Reality Edition’

KnottyAuty · 09/06/2025 09:34

MarieDeGournay · 09/06/2025 09:32

I was thinking the same thing - but since us GC women don't conform to a type, it wouldn't 'read' as a subversion of the message. It would probably be taken as a gesture of support😱

I'm sure somebody can come up with a clever GC versionSmile

That’s it - This is What a Woman Looks Like - with a little “GC Edition” tag or stamp across the corner 🤣

MarieDeGournay · 09/06/2025 09:32

KnottyAuty · 09/06/2025 09:03

If GC women start wearing those T Shirts how are they going to react?

I was thinking the same thing - but since us GC women don't conform to a type, it wouldn't 'read' as a subversion of the message. It would probably be taken as a gesture of support😱

I'm sure somebody can come up with a clever GC versionSmile

KnottyAuty · 09/06/2025 09:03

If GC women start wearing those T Shirts how are they going to react?

Bluebootsgreenboots · 09/06/2025 07:45

SinnerBoy · 08/06/2025 21:47

Can they be done under the Trades Descriptions Act?

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ASA (advertising standards people)?

Igmum · 09/06/2025 07:42

PermanentTemporary · 09/06/2025 07:18

I have to stand up for the rights of the nonbinary person I know who's a public school educated Oxbridge graduate who earns twice what I do?

Well I don't really, do I, because the Supreme Court ruling reaffirmed their rights under the Equality Act. All good.

Well strictly speaking unless they/thems is being NB on their way to gender reassignment they are not centred or even mentioned in the EA2010. This may precipitate a crisis so you’d better get round there with emotional support Teddy bears now PermanentTemporary.