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Call for women to support trans rights

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LeftieRightsHoarder · 08/06/2025 12:26

I had an email this morning asking me to sign a petition about violence against women, and support for transpeople.

It included genuine stats about the high rate of violence against women. But it insisted that ‘cis’ men were to blame (disproved by Ministry of Justice stats that show transwomen are more likely than other men to be in prison for sexual offences), and that transpeople were the biggest victims.

It included all the usual obfuscation, eg high murder rate (yes, among South American trans-identifying male prostitutes, tragic but there’s nothing we can do from here) and high suicide rate if not enabled to transition (disproved by research). Also the usual lies, eg that trans people are denied healthcare, housing, and employment (I don’t know if this happens in other countries, but would be illegal in the UK).

It of course blamed feminists for allowing media and authorities to ‘demonise’ trans people.

Sad to see the real scandal of violence against women being used to try to guilt-trip us against defending our single-sex rights.

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 17/06/2025 19:35

anyolddinosaur · 08/06/2025 15:08

The group was founded by Caroline Litman, author and mother of trans woman Alice Litman, who sadly took her own life in May 2022, aged just 20. There was a long waiting list to be seen at NHS gender clinics so Litman's parents contacted Michael Webberley, a co-founder of Gender GP who then met Litman in September 2019. GenderGP later prescribed wrong sex hormones to Litman in April 2020.

You can understand why the mother would double down on this. Change.org sends you petitions it thinks may interest you, IME they dont, I unsubscribed.

The fact that she has tragically lost her child does not make her right about this, and fighting to undermine women's sex based rights will not bring her dead child back.

Perhaps if the medical profession stopped lying to vulnerable people and pretending that medical treatment which would enable them to change sex exists, those vulnerable people would be less likely to kill themselves because they had to wait too long for that treatment.

orangegato · 17/06/2025 08:29

Trans identifying men already have rights. They have the exact same rights as MEN, which they are.

The right to impose your creepy presence on vulnerable women isn’t one of them though, sorry lads!

LeftieRightsHoarder · 16/06/2025 23:09

Thanks, Greysky, I hadn’t seen that thread but it’s the same one. More wise comments there.

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Greyskybluesky · 09/06/2025 08:47

This is presumably the same petition that we took the piss out of discussed here

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5345133-do-they-think-were-idiots?reply=144663735

Shortshriftandlethal · 09/06/2025 08:42

AloeVeraAloeFred · 09/06/2025 07:06

It's funny I occasionally pop on to Reddit/transgender. Obviously it's very American and not representative of all trans people, but the actual visceral hatred and contempt for women among the transwomen (eg male) posters comes across very quickly - it's quite something. In that echo chamber it's like they don't even try to hold back their misogyny. Basically, a woman is identified as "transphobic" and they let loose. It couldn't be more obvious that there is no understanding of what it is like to be, feel like or live as a woman. They don't empathise with women at all. So much for sisterhood!

It's just an extension of the same old patriarchy. One again women must serve men and put them first, that being basically the reason we exist... and if women refuse or have their own perspective, then they are witches who should die.

So no lol, I'll never sign anything like that as I've been fully peaked.

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Yes, all of those gay men, and the men who identify themselves as 'progressives' or right on Socilalists - but who clearly have never really understood or had any empathy with the position of female people.

I've been truly surprised by the number of older, committed Leftist men who have totally negelected to consider that female people have integrity and wholeness in their sex. They have been as susceptible as anyone else to group think predicated on tribalism.

Shortshriftandlethal · 09/06/2025 08:37

Tiredofwhataboutery · 09/06/2025 08:31

I’d agree for ages Trans rights have been shoehorned in with other rights. Always centred as being most marginalised, most vulnerable whether LGB, healthcare, children’s rights etc.

I think it’s just another way of trying to tie trans together with another cause that they can suck the goodwill / funding out of.

Also, because on its own it has no legitimacy because it is not founded in reality. It has to live off the goodwill afforded to established groups.

Shortshriftandlethal · 09/06/2025 08:34

NPET · 08/06/2025 13:04

Why can't they understand that I - and I'm sure 95% of women - are not against transpeople having the same rights as us, PROVIDED those rights don't restrict OUR rights as women?

Obviously, though, the very concept of 'a trans person' ( as a distinct category of human being) which is supposed to mean you are actually the opposite sex has fundamental and reality based flaws. Personally I now only ever use the phrase "person who has adopted a trans identity", rather than saying a '" trans person'".

Everything must be questioned - not taken as an article of faith.

Tiredofwhataboutery · 09/06/2025 08:31

WarriorN · 08/06/2025 13:07

The classic wolf herding the sheep strategy they’ve been using for decades. Just getting a bit more desperate now

I’d agree for ages Trans rights have been shoehorned in with other rights. Always centred as being most marginalised, most vulnerable whether LGB, healthcare, children’s rights etc.

I think it’s just another way of trying to tie trans together with another cause that they can suck the goodwill / funding out of.

Gettingbysomehow · 09/06/2025 07:59

When will people understand that transwomen are not women. They are an altogether different group of people, namely men.
They should never be allowed to be lumped together with actual women as one big group .

Coatsoff42 · 09/06/2025 07:53

There are very few campaigns for men to support trans rights. Where the petition for cis men to accept trans men? Where’s the long list of men saying they accept trans people into their toilets? Oh yes, they don’t care at all about this issue, and trans people don’t need men to improve their attitude and behaviour. It would ruin their point if suddenly all men became metrosexual super gender accepting hippies and there was no longer any reason to be afraid of men’s toilets or changing rooms.
Where are the interviews with flabbergasted men telling everyone they don’t care who goes in men’s spaces, they accept all types of men? Why is it just women under the spotlight? I find it disturbing that normal men’s voices are so absent from this discussion.

AloeVeraAloeFred · 09/06/2025 07:06

It's funny I occasionally pop on to Reddit/transgender. Obviously it's very American and not representative of all trans people, but the actual visceral hatred and contempt for women among the transwomen (eg male) posters comes across very quickly - it's quite something. In that echo chamber it's like they don't even try to hold back their misogyny. Basically, a woman is identified as "transphobic" and they let loose. It couldn't be more obvious that there is no understanding of what it is like to be, feel like or live as a woman. They don't empathise with women at all. So much for sisterhood!

It's just an extension of the same old patriarchy. One again women must serve men and put them first, that being basically the reason we exist... and if women refuse or have their own perspective, then they are witches who should die.

So no lol, I'll never sign anything like that as I've been fully peaked.

ArabellaScott · 09/06/2025 06:45

That's the group that headline with 'Nor in Our Name ' but had used 'Not in Your Name' in the neodymium of the text.

Gish galloping bullshit is tedious to rebut.

FranticFrankie · 08/06/2025 19:14

IfYouPutASausageInItItsNotAViennetta · 08/06/2025 13:47

Whatever the opinions or worrhiness of the causes, they're conflating two issues in one petition - unless they're assuming that the only 'women' who matter are the male ones and they haven't even given a moment's thought to the actual female women.

They've clearly designed it that way deliberately, though, to catch you out. They're going from a very narrow paradigm - one that suits their specific agenda - and trying to get you to either agree wholeheartedly or otherwise expose yourself as a 'bigot' (as they would no-doubt see it).

Women don't seem to matter unless someone wants your signature

FranticFrankie · 08/06/2025 19:12

I also had this email this morning. Didn't it say something about false feminism?
And the usual message re cis etc. I've unsubscribed from change as I get so many from other sources too.
A few that had signed left messages in the usual vein.

Very sad story regarding about he child that died, poor child and poor family

CowboyJoanna · 08/06/2025 18:58

anyolddinosaur · 08/06/2025 15:08

The group was founded by Caroline Litman, author and mother of trans woman Alice Litman, who sadly took her own life in May 2022, aged just 20. There was a long waiting list to be seen at NHS gender clinics so Litman's parents contacted Michael Webberley, a co-founder of Gender GP who then met Litman in September 2019. GenderGP later prescribed wrong sex hormones to Litman in April 2020.

You can understand why the mother would double down on this. Change.org sends you petitions it thinks may interest you, IME they dont, I unsubscribed.

Very very sad to hear about her son Sad
But surely his suicide shouldve been a wakeup call that...transgenderism is very dangerous for young peoples mental health?

Thats why i dont believe in the petition, because we dont want other vulnerable gay lesbian and autistic young people to be brainwashed into thinking theyre born in the wrong body because they dont fit the mould

IfYouPutASausageInItItsNotAViennetta · 08/06/2025 17:57

HobnobsChoice · 08/06/2025 14:56

A trans colleague sent me this at work. I've completely ignored it. He told me it was for cis women to show support for transwomen. Part of me wanted to say "did you assume my gender?" But frankly I can't even be arsed with that

Why does it always only go one way?

Why are women expected to show support for transwomen but transwomen aren't expected to show support to women by respecting their single-sex spaces, services, sports and other measures put in place for women - things that men either already have equivalent provision for or don't actually need?

JellySaurus · 08/06/2025 17:45

There's only one reply to this:

Enrichetta · 08/06/2025 17:11

They identify themselves as ‘cisgender women’.

Cisgender …???

WOMEN…….. 😩

WTAF

SidewaysOtter · 08/06/2025 17:06

LeftieRightsHoarder · 08/06/2025 14:07

It was from a group called ‘Not in Our Name: women in support of the trans+ community’. They identify themselves as ‘cisgender women’. Unfortunately I can’t send a link as you can’t click from the email to their webpage without automatically signing the petition.

Shades of anti-suffragists campaigning against women having the vote 🙄

RedToothBrush · 08/06/2025 16:52

HobnobsChoice · 08/06/2025 14:56

A trans colleague sent me this at work. I've completely ignored it. He told me it was for cis women to show support for transwomen. Part of me wanted to say "did you assume my gender?" But frankly I can't even be arsed with that

He also assumed that you believe in gender over sex and support his fantasy beliefs and politics.

There is no space to say 'actually I disagree'. This is why it is inappropriate to be sharing political things like this at work with colleagues.

LeftieRightsHoarder · 08/06/2025 16:25

Huge sympathy for Caroline and Alice Litman. I hope the doctors who prescribe wrong-sex hormones to troubled adolescents all get struck off.

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RubyTrees · 08/06/2025 16:07

I also received this email earlier today. I’ve signed petitions in the past mainly to do with disability issues but the word “cis” gives me the rage so I’ve unsubscribed.

anyolddinosaur · 08/06/2025 15:08

The group was founded by Caroline Litman, author and mother of trans woman Alice Litman, who sadly took her own life in May 2022, aged just 20. There was a long waiting list to be seen at NHS gender clinics so Litman's parents contacted Michael Webberley, a co-founder of Gender GP who then met Litman in September 2019. GenderGP later prescribed wrong sex hormones to Litman in April 2020.

You can understand why the mother would double down on this. Change.org sends you petitions it thinks may interest you, IME they dont, I unsubscribed.

HobnobsChoice · 08/06/2025 14:56

A trans colleague sent me this at work. I've completely ignored it. He told me it was for cis women to show support for transwomen. Part of me wanted to say "did you assume my gender?" But frankly I can't even be arsed with that

LeftieRightsHoarder · 08/06/2025 14:54

IfYouPutASausageInItItsNotAViennetta · 08/06/2025 13:47

Whatever the opinions or worrhiness of the causes, they're conflating two issues in one petition - unless they're assuming that the only 'women' who matter are the male ones and they haven't even given a moment's thought to the actual female women.

They've clearly designed it that way deliberately, though, to catch you out. They're going from a very narrow paradigm - one that suits their specific agenda - and trying to get you to either agree wholeheartedly or otherwise expose yourself as a 'bigot' (as they would no-doubt see it).

Yes, exactly. One of their demands is Enough scapegoating of trans women by politicians who refuse to confront male violence.
There’s no connection between the two issues. Linking them like that is an attempt to make trans-identifying men’s demands look as important as women’s need for physical safety.

I suppose it makes a change from the usual brain-boggling demands for women to let men (definition 1) into women’s single-sex spaces because men (definition 2) can be violent.

  • Definition 1= men who say they are women, or might be, or might not be big it’s none of your business.
  • Definition 2 = any man.
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