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Simone Biles attacks Riley Gaines

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ItsCoolForCats · 07/06/2025 09:59

Simone Biles has come out in defence of males in women's sports, and has attacked Riley Gaines for fighting against it. She said on Twitter:

"@RileyGaines
You’re truly sick, all of this campaigning because you lost a race. Straight up sore loser. You should be uplifting the trans community and perhaps finding a way to make sports inclusive OR creating a new avenue where trans feel safe in sports. Maybe a transgender category IN ALL sports!! But instead… You bully them… One things for sure is no one in sports is safe with you around!!!!!"

So, so disappointing. Both my daughters do gymnastics and are huge SB fans, so it is awful for her to show such contempt towards RG, who is fighting for a level playing field for women and girls in sport. And to suggest a separate category as if nobody has ever thought of that and tried it 🤦🏻‍♀️

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Shortshriftandlethal · 08/06/2025 06:58

AliasGrace47 · 07/06/2025 23:30

It's grotesque. Biles just comes off as really unconcerned - I'm alright, Jack, essentially. She had a rough upbringing as a toddler & you might think she would understand that this puts v vulnerable women in danger across the board. I suppose a lot of celebs born in hard situations forget & then get enmeshed in ivory towers.

She's caught up in the typical American style politics of Identity, whereby her blackness is automatically aligned with other perceived oppressed groups....and according to this narrative those with '"trans identities' are an oppressed group.. White women who vote Republican are by nature part of the oppressor class and so deserve no respect or support; in fact they are less than fully human and deserve scorn. She's just using trans people to augment her privilege".

It is not feminism because it is not woman centred. It is 'oppressed class' centred. So a hybrid, Americanised form of cultural Marxism.

Shortshriftandlethal · 08/06/2025 06:54

Arran2024 · 07/06/2025 21:28

That's what I'm saying surely?

You seemed to me be saying that Women from the UK that post here cannot really understand where Riley Gaines is coming from, because their experiences and background are surely so different?

FrippEnos · 08/06/2025 05:14

“I do think the focus on Gaines' case can be counterproductive as TRAs counter that she only tied for 5th place w Lia Thomas, rather than being blatantly beaten.”

I find it interesting that Biles is saying that Gaines is essentially a mediocre female for coming in 5th (once) to Thomas who by any measure was a very mediocre male athlete (ranked 462nd) before taking the positions of female athletes.

I think that its also worth noting that when Gaines started her campaign, she had to do so after leaving her college as if she had said anything whilst there she would have been removed from the college, and the same goes for those girls/women that have started court cases.
This is not as simple as they are against men in women's sports.
They are fighting against the whole system which has let them and the current crop of female athletes down.

AliasGrace47 · 08/06/2025 03:32

usedtobeaylis · 07/06/2025 20:34

Again this diminishes women's sport to let them set the narrative around '5th place'. We shouldn't allow that in the pursuit of reinstating boundaries. We can stand firm for respect across the board.

Good point. Even if TRAs try & spin it that way, we can stress that they are just continuing their misogynistic pattern of undermining the value of women's sports

AliasGrace47 · 08/06/2025 03:29

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/06/2025 20:33

I called her that in response to a snide comment by someone special pleading and deflecting from Biles’ shitty comment. She called her that sarcastically, and I responded by saying I agreed she was marvellous. But I can see we’re well into the purity spiral 🙄

I understand. After reading the horrific attacks Gaines has faced, I will agree she is definitely marvellously brave!

Hm, it's not by default a purity spiral imo to criticise someone. I have repeatedly stressed that I support Gaines' advocacy, support GC alliances w her & respect her courage, esp after knowing the danger she's been put in.

I think shutting down criticism by calling it a purity spiral is in a sense itself a purity spiral. Being GC is about debate & discussion. This should include the ability & willingness to allow criticism of people whose GC stance we support.

AliasGrace47 · 08/06/2025 02:54

Cailleach1 · 08/06/2025 01:26

There’s a single word for that in German - Fachidiot. It translates roughly to ‘specialist idiot’. Someone who has great knowledge in one area but has little real understanding, or only a narrow perspective on subjects outside their area of expertise.

However, I cynically suspect SB is being very political here and looking at her popularity among the proponents of this anti scientific movement. Eye on the main chance for future positions. Where is the reward in supporting unfashionable people like other women?

For all alleged concern for the WNBA, I presume it would be fine and dandy to such activists if female basketball players (of any colour) were sidelined to enable mediocre males (of any colour) to cheat them out of their places, sponsorships and winnings. That would be progressive, you see. Ne’er a peep about that, I’d presume. Women’s rights (as a sex class) are apparently now to be relegated as ‘MAGA’. Jesus wept!

Also, the quip about RG being more akin to a man is very cheap. All because SG is calling this bs out for what it is.

SB is married to a big lad too, an american football player.

Awful. I actually think a lot of smart intellectuals fit that descriptor, it's a great word.

I get so fed up w the WNBA hypocrisy. US women complain that no one watches & ask men to watch but then don't watch themselves! Women need to watch, otherwise it implies the sport isn't worth it except as a virtue signalling thing. Like some other sports, the fact that a lot of the WNBA are masculine lesbians means that many straight women don't want to watch as they can't relate as they would to a feminine (and to a lesser degree, straight) athlete. Not so many women are hardcore into basketball so the relatability part is more important for some, plus they won't lower the net, which would make it more exciting w more dunks.

So yes, if men infiltrate the WNBA I expect there would be no outcry.

mathanxiety · 08/06/2025 01:39

PermanentTemporary · 07/06/2025 10:30

What @NautilusLionfish said. Simon Biles is saying what many GC people are saying - we need to find a way for sport to be inclusive, maybe a transgender category would work. I don't personally agree with that idea but it's a completely normal one here, why is anyone kicking her for it? As a truly extraordinary champion who has experienced endless racism Biles has every right to her opinion. Gaines has a good case about Lia Thomas of course but has chosen to sign up with a full rightwing programme that I don't agree with either.

Unfortunately, the right wing is the only wing taking GC views seriously.

I agree that Biles bided her time to hop aboard the Nasser allegations. She should have lent her considerable prestige to the case much earlier.

Cailleach1 · 08/06/2025 01:26

NameChangedOfc · 07/06/2025 10:49

It's always sad when someone brilliant in one specific ability goes on to show that they are stupid in general.

There’s a single word for that in German - Fachidiot. It translates roughly to ‘specialist idiot’. Someone who has great knowledge in one area but has little real understanding, or only a narrow perspective on subjects outside their area of expertise.

However, I cynically suspect SB is being very political here and looking at her popularity among the proponents of this anti scientific movement. Eye on the main chance for future positions. Where is the reward in supporting unfashionable people like other women?

For all alleged concern for the WNBA, I presume it would be fine and dandy to such activists if female basketball players (of any colour) were sidelined to enable mediocre males (of any colour) to cheat them out of their places, sponsorships and winnings. That would be progressive, you see. Ne’er a peep about that, I’d presume. Women’s rights (as a sex class) are apparently now to be relegated as ‘MAGA’. Jesus wept!

Also, the quip about RG being more akin to a man is very cheap. All because SG is calling this bs out for what it is.

SB is married to a big lad too, an american football player.

AliasGrace47 · 08/06/2025 01:01

Derbee · 07/06/2025 18:01

Simone Biles has always been a nasty piece of work. Shes a vicious thing.

Oh no. I always like her- what else has she done? I thought perhaps success had made her unpleasant, but sounds like she was already unpleasant?

AliasGrace47 · 08/06/2025 00:46

BundleBoogie · 07/06/2025 23:39

Just catching up with your posts. That sounds positive.

I do think that we shouldn’t self censor or not listen to an important voice just because some people might misuse it for their own ends on different topics. That has been the cause of much silencing of women which I think we can all agree, it is important to push against.

Thank you, I am sorry for the confusion. Oh certainly, censorship of any kind is v dangerous. Everyone should be able to voice their beliefs and debate. And as I've said, any support on trans is essential, purity testing alliances etc is ridiculous.

But otoh, if GC people are working w someone, I don't think it's good to refrain from all criticism for a united front.. The backlash against trans has also included other things that many here would disagree w regarding women's rights etc. Cooperating w people who may campaign against stuff we support etc is essential, but otoh it's important to be aware that influential figures on the rise may, and in many cases do, use their position to oppose women's rights etc. Eg. Many of the factions influencing the White House rn.

AliasGrace47 · 08/06/2025 00:32

BTW, on the ADF tho, I do agree ofc w their trans advocacy, this should definitely be supported. I know the state of left wing advocacy on GC stuff is disgraceful. I find most of their other views terrible, but I know their advocacy on this has been essential

AliasGrace47 · 08/06/2025 00:21

Helleofabore · 07/06/2025 23:52

Ok. Thank you for explaining. I can see that there has been a great deal of social media discussion and a lot of biased posting about ADF in the past from a range of left wing organisations and people.

I have been concerned by people making accusations about Riley Gaines. I wanted to know what I was missing. I think she is brave. I think she has taken on so much at her age. I don’t agree with everything she posts, but I rarely find anyone I fully agree with. I do agree with much of what she says about female athletes needing their category protected

But isn’t it so time consuming to have to keep going to find original source to establish an accurate representation of truth? What a time to live in! Where we cannot trust our media and have to continually keep checking them! I can certainly understand why people don’t do it for everything they take in and process.

It's definitely v bad we have to check everything. Media lies & bias always existed, but it's awful rn. Still, if one hasn't time to check, scepticism is always best, but it shouldn't be that way ofc..

AliasGrace47 · 08/06/2025 00:19

Just to add, if you like maybe you could reply via PM, esp if it will be a long reply, so we don't clog up the thread. I really don't want to derail it anymore..

AliasGrace47 · 08/06/2025 00:18

Helleofabore · 07/06/2025 23:59

Best wishes for your Gran and for you.

Ah thank you, that's v kind. She is getting better slowly.

I am sorry for the confusion, I don't want to spread misinformation and want the thread to focus on the issues at hand, not derail.

However, would it be OK to ask how the ADF has been misrepresented? They have a history of opposing the decriminalisation of homosexuality, linking it to paedophilia (in their Lawrence vs Texas brief), opposing school info on STDs, gay adoption and civil partnerships (not just marriage), opposed a 2005 Day against LGB bullying, supporting conversion therapy group Exodus International, supporting Dobbs vs Jackson, allowing Catholic adoption agencies to refuse Jewish couples, restricting abortion & contraceptives (this last is a bit murky as I suppport conscience exemptions, but they seem to go beyond that).

They ofc have a right to these views, and their legal advocacy. And I have a right to find these views disturbing. How have they been misrepresented? This info is from the public records of what they litigate for, I don't see how it could be misrepresented. They are quite open about their beliefs themselves

Gnomegarden32 · 08/06/2025 00:04

I feel like I am fully used to living in the Upside Down now. Almost every week someone I previously admired says something awful, and someone awful says something good. I don't have the energy to feel angry or disappointed by any more people and have accepted a lot of people just talk shite about things they know nothing about. It will come back to bite them one day when they'll all have to disown their previous statements.

AliasGrace47 · 08/06/2025 00:02

WithSilverBells · 07/06/2025 23:47

You know I've been on MN a while now and nowhere have I seen the 'men can become women' crew give me one good reasoned argument as to why anyone should hold that view.
However, it is slowly dawning on me that I have also not seen any poster making a good case for me embracing left-wing feminism. It's just guilt trips, slander and time-wasting posting.

Hmm, I'm not trying to guilt trip anyone for being right wing, nor did I want to slander Gaines. I made some assumptions too fast about her from limitited info, which I have apologised and explained why. I do think that people should be aware that GC supporters gaining power now may have regressive views in other areas, but that may not be the case of Gaines (except on abortion)

I've stated that I agree w any alliances to combat trans & I respect Gaines' bravery, esp after knowing she was attacked. 😡

Helleofabore · 07/06/2025 23:59

AliasGrace47 · 07/06/2025 23:38

I am so sorry, I misread the ADF podcast blurb. They were talking about religious views conflicting w trans rights, not with anything else. I thought they were discussing the ADF's general work, but it was specifically relating to a trans case in schools. I have been doing a lot of research into the US right recently, and in the podcasts I listen to generally if a conservative host invites a fellow conservative on they agree w the major issues, whereas anti-woke liberal guests are more likely to be brought bc the host agrees w on specific thing, eg. Trans. Gaines is a conservative Christian, and most disagree w lgb rights, while that doesn't necessarily necessarily mean they are hateful as such ofc, though some are.

I should not have made assumptions about the ADF interview just based on the blurb. Reading about more extreme stuff can make one over suspicious, and I am very sorry.

Additionally, I'm a young carer for my gran atm and this has meant a lot of lost sleep as she was ill recently, it was a poor decision to speak so soon on the ADF.

I repeat, I completely support Gaines' trans work, and I am glad to hear she may not be anti lgb. I hope Biles meets her comeuppance for this!

Best wishes for your Gran and for you.

AliasGrace47 · 07/06/2025 23:56

Gnomegarden32 · 07/06/2025 23:37

I don't really see why it matters that Gaines has views on other topics I strongly disagree with. What's relevant here is what she has said and done on the trans issue, and on that she has been admirable in my view. I think only a young conservative could have done what she has done as she hasn't as much to lose - if she moves in conservative circles she isn't going to fall out with her family/ lose all her friends etc for speaking out.

I def agree that her advocacy on this has been outstanding. I didn't know that she had been assaulted, that is vile & gives me an extra ton of respect for courage to carry on through that.. The worry I have is about the the rising tide of more regressive policies that some conservative anti-TRA people support., to varying levels, some fairly moderate, others v extreme. I see that Gaines' views are more ambiguous than I thought (apart from abortion). Moreover, hopefully there is not much appetite for dismantling women's or lgb rights, or not as much as the dangerous T stuff, at any rate.
In one episode I see that Gaines speaks to Kara Dansky about women's and lesbian rights. That will be interesting to listen to, a d maybe reveal more of Gaines' views. Gaines seems ambivalent about feminism as a while, but v pro women on many issues.

Helleofabore · 07/06/2025 23:52

AliasGrace47 · 07/06/2025 23:38

I am so sorry, I misread the ADF podcast blurb. They were talking about religious views conflicting w trans rights, not with anything else. I thought they were discussing the ADF's general work, but it was specifically relating to a trans case in schools. I have been doing a lot of research into the US right recently, and in the podcasts I listen to generally if a conservative host invites a fellow conservative on they agree w the major issues, whereas anti-woke liberal guests are more likely to be brought bc the host agrees w on specific thing, eg. Trans. Gaines is a conservative Christian, and most disagree w lgb rights, while that doesn't necessarily necessarily mean they are hateful as such ofc, though some are.

I should not have made assumptions about the ADF interview just based on the blurb. Reading about more extreme stuff can make one over suspicious, and I am very sorry.

Additionally, I'm a young carer for my gran atm and this has meant a lot of lost sleep as she was ill recently, it was a poor decision to speak so soon on the ADF.

I repeat, I completely support Gaines' trans work, and I am glad to hear she may not be anti lgb. I hope Biles meets her comeuppance for this!

Ok. Thank you for explaining. I can see that there has been a great deal of social media discussion and a lot of biased posting about ADF in the past from a range of left wing organisations and people.

I have been concerned by people making accusations about Riley Gaines. I wanted to know what I was missing. I think she is brave. I think she has taken on so much at her age. I don’t agree with everything she posts, but I rarely find anyone I fully agree with. I do agree with much of what she says about female athletes needing their category protected

But isn’t it so time consuming to have to keep going to find original source to establish an accurate representation of truth? What a time to live in! Where we cannot trust our media and have to continually keep checking them! I can certainly understand why people don’t do it for everything they take in and process.

Blinky21 · 07/06/2025 23:51

John Oliver's segment on Riley is brilliant

AliasGrace47 · 07/06/2025 23:49

Helleofabore · 07/06/2025 23:34

No.

You can identify the accuracy of citations on Wikipedia through doing your very own research.

I have looked at articles cited on Wikipedia and found them to be very much false and hugely biased and completely misrepresentative of the truth. Don’t just think because it has a citation on Wikipedia that it must be true. Follow the citation and then fact check as far as you need to on an article until you find the original source. And from the original source find out what was said or done. And if necessary, fucking go further and find out exactly what people believe or their values.

It is like the accusations of ‘far right’. What definition of ‘far right’ is being used. I have seen people being accused of being far right on MN and Wikipedia who are merely centrist. But once that label of far right is applied, it gets replicated and repeated by those who never do their own research to check.

Exactly. That's why I said that the best way to ascertain someone's views is to read what they write themselves, or watch interviews in full, not just clips. But ofc this is a bit harder for events w multiple sources of what was done, you have to just read all views and try & ascertain which is most accurate.

I agree about far right being used indiscriminately. Starting w the idiots who unironically call mumsnet fascist!

WithSilverBells · 07/06/2025 23:47

You know I've been on MN a while now and nowhere have I seen the 'men can become women' crew give me one good reasoned argument as to why anyone should hold that view.
However, it is slowly dawning on me that I have also not seen any poster making a good case for me embracing left-wing feminism. It's just guilt trips, slander and time-wasting posting.

AliasGrace47 · 07/06/2025 23:42

BundleBoogie · 07/06/2025 23:31

And you are happy to condemn Riley’s views not based on anything that she said (unless I’ve missed your links?), but on something said 13 years ago by a man she recently interviewed?

Do you also dismiss all views subsequently expressed by interviewers of Muslim people? Their religious views go quite a bit further than Cameron’s.

I would definitely be suspicious of the views of a conservative Muslim podcaster who interviewed many Muslims w v socially conservative views, including about women & gay people. Gaines does a lot of good interviews w GC campaigners, but also many w conservatives who are anti-abortion, feminism etc, often linked to conservative Christianity. She herself is a conservative Christian.

BundleBoogie · 07/06/2025 23:41

AliasGrace47 · 07/06/2025 23:38

I am so sorry, I misread the ADF podcast blurb. They were talking about religious views conflicting w trans rights, not with anything else. I thought they were discussing the ADF's general work, but it was specifically relating to a trans case in schools. I have been doing a lot of research into the US right recently, and in the podcasts I listen to generally if a conservative host invites a fellow conservative on they agree w the major issues, whereas anti-woke liberal guests are more likely to be brought bc the host agrees w on specific thing, eg. Trans. Gaines is a conservative Christian, and most disagree w lgb rights, while that doesn't necessarily necessarily mean they are hateful as such ofc, though some are.

I should not have made assumptions about the ADF interview just based on the blurb. Reading about more extreme stuff can make one over suspicious, and I am very sorry.

Additionally, I'm a young carer for my gran atm and this has meant a lot of lost sleep as she was ill recently, it was a poor decision to speak so soon on the ADF.

I repeat, I completely support Gaines' trans work, and I am glad to hear she may not be anti lgb. I hope Biles meets her comeuppance for this!

I hope your gran feels better soon and you get some much needed rest.

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