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Donate £10 to Lumos and have dinner with JKR

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fromorbit · 01/06/2025 13:38

JKR has made a very generous offer on Twitter:

J.K. Rowling
https://x.com/jk_rowling/status/1929113511004664078

I mean this, by the way. Donate £10 to lumos, I'll draw three names out of a hat and we'll have dinner. It could be KFC, but the wonderful JamesChiavarini has just suggested his restaurant, so it might be there instead (travel and accommodation on me if you're not in London).

Offer stands! Applications close at midnight on Monday. A £10 donation means your name will go into the draw.

https://wearelumos.org/how-you-can-help/donate/

If your name’s chosen and you’re outside London (or the UK) I’ll pay for travel and accommodation.

Once donations have been verified with Lumos I’ll select three donors’ names at random (can’t promise a literal hat, but who knows).

I’ll match the total sum donated to Lumos between first offer and midnight Monday.

And once my three fellow diners have been chosen, we’ll have a vote on whether we’re having KFC or going to Il Portico.

Additional offer from John Boyne:

John Boyne

£10 donated to Lumos. Whoever has the good fortune to win the raffle and have dinner with you, I'll donate £1,000 to the charity of his or her choosing.

This was inspired by JKR's ongoing twitter spat with Jolyon:

I've never sought to auction dinner with myself at a Michelin-starred restaurant with ‘a selection of wines from [my] own cellar’ as you have, Jolyon, but if anyone wants to bung Lumos £10, I'll draw a name out of a hat and we'll split a KFC bargain bucket.

https://x.com/jk_rowling/status/1929113511004664078

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WarriorN · 09/06/2025 12:15

Thanks all HOW COULD I HAVE MISSED THAT EMAIL?!

I had to search it. Unless going to junk… 🤔

Will have to search for a lumos email when I check!

SD1978 · 09/06/2025 11:40

@Delphin- bollocks and thanks. Missed the deadline to register and only donated which wasn’t enough. Slightly irked but fair enough- my fault for not being more on top of spam.

Boiledbeetle · 09/06/2025 11:21

WarriorN · 09/06/2025 10:59

When is the draw?! Not a hope in hell of winning but one may dream 💭

From their email yesterday:

The prize: Dinner and conversation with our extraordinary Founder and Life President

Your chances: Better than you think – and certainly better than zero if you enter!

Winners will be announced by June 14th.

akkakk · 09/06/2025 11:12

WarriorN · 09/06/2025 10:59

When is the draw?! Not a hope in hell of winning but one may dream 💭

What a whirlwind! The clock has officially struck midnight and our magical prize draw for dinner with J.K. Rowling has now closed. We're absolutely blown away by the incredible response – thank you to everyone who entered!

The draw is now closed and we're bursting with excitement as we prepare for the next step. Our team will be working their magic behind the scenes over the coming days to conduct the draw and reach out to our lucky winners.

When will you know? We'll be contacting all winners before the end of this week, so keep an eye on your inbox (and maybe your spam folder too – we don't want any magical moments getting lost!). If you're selected, we'll be in touch with all the wonderful details about your upcoming dinner with our extraordinary Founder and Life President.

What happens next? If you don't hear from us this week, it means you weren't selected this time – but please don't be disheartened! Your continued support means absolutely everything to us, and there will be more opportunities to celebrate our amazing community in the future.

Thank you once again for your incredible enthusiasm and support. Whether you entered at the last minute or have been eagerly waiting since our first announcement, you've all made this draw something truly special.
Here's to a magical week ahead!

With heaps of gratitude and barely contained excitement,
The Lumos team

P.S. – Didn't enter this time? Don't worry – keep supporting our amazing work and you'll be first to know about future opportunities!

WarriorN · 09/06/2025 10:59

When is the draw?! Not a hope in hell of winning but one may dream 💭

Thatsrhesummeroverthen · 09/06/2025 07:16

angelinawasrobbed · 08/06/2025 16:35

I imagine that with the risk of many TRAs having entered once the draw became free, in order to harangue JKR if they got lucky, NDAs will now need to be signed and participants will be collected from a central point and taken to the rendezvous without it ever being disclosed to them. Hope so, anyway, or the evening could be ruined by activists banging on windows, etc.

I'm quite sure securing a private dining room (well maybe not in KFC!) would be easy enough for JK. I assume she eats out a lot, and isn't followed around by TRAs all the time.
I don't imagine the date or location will be made public.
(though I do like the idea of some activists winning and then being completely won over by an evening with the Queen!)

musicalfrog · 09/06/2025 07:02

Could always do a drive thru KFC in a big stretch limo.

Delphin · 09/06/2025 05:42

There was a legal problem with the way the draw was set up first ("donate and your name is in the hat for the draw").
So JKR set it up again, legally compliant, on 6 June (X messages here:)
Lumos' X messages: nitter.poast.org/lumos
JKRs X messages: nitter.poast.org/jk_rowling

You should have 3 info mails from Lumos to the mail address you gave when donating (two on Friday, one on Saturday, check the spam folder).

Everyone who donated was asked then to just register again at a dedicated Lumos page (with the possibility of having your donation paid back). That evening the Lumos site crashed, and a Google form was created to take the load off of the Lumos servers. Some people were able to register via the Google form that night but there were still tech problems apparently, with forms not registering properly. I got a mail Saturday, asking me to register again via a special link if I doubted that my Google form had gone through on Friday. So I did Sunday morning, because I just got a blank page after sending the form.

The registration for the draw closed Sunday evening. If you only donated before Friday, you are probably not in the draw (if I understood correctly). If you filled in the Google form on Saturday or Sunday, you're in.

SD1978 · 09/06/2025 02:49

@Delphin- sorry what was to be filled in? Donated and now there seems to be a faff about second section? Missed that- can you tell me what to do? I will be annoyed if I’ve missed some deadline!

IwantToRetire · 08/06/2025 20:47

I imagine pictures may appear on X

Well what would be fund is that everyone turns up in a Venice Carnival type mask, and uses their online posting name, and then anything reported in public could not be linked to anyone.

I was just thinking if they came to my local KFC, which as yet have not been pushed out by expensive coffee shops or vegan super cafes, all the bored teenagers would not take any notice, and the exhausted mums bribing younger children to just be quiet for a second or two, who might recognises JKR would be so busy trying not to nod off they wouldn't notice.

So my first thought that KFC would be a bit public, could in fact be the perfect secret meeting place.

angelinawasrobbed · 08/06/2025 16:35

I imagine that with the risk of many TRAs having entered once the draw became free, in order to harangue JKR if they got lucky, NDAs will now need to be signed and participants will be collected from a central point and taken to the rendezvous without it ever being disclosed to them. Hope so, anyway, or the evening could be ruined by activists banging on windows, etc.

anyolddinosaur · 08/06/2025 14:52

private conversations should remain private. At most it should be sorry TRAs you didnt form any part of the chat.

I imagine pictures may appear on X so if someone want to keep their username here we are all either going to need a Spartacus moment or complete denial.

MounjaroMounjaro · 08/06/2025 13:57

If I won (fat chance) then I'd love to take my daughter with me as she's drunk so much Kool Aid she told me there were over 100 sexes. God knows how she got an A in GCSE Biology! I do actually think she'd be won over by a meeting like that but wouldn't take the risk, really.

Delphin · 08/06/2025 13:48

"I hope someone on here wins because now I really do want to know what is discussed!"

But only under Chatham House rules! 🤐
😉
🔎We cannot divulge who took part, and also cannot confirm Ms. Rowling was present.🔍

Bearsinmotion · 08/06/2025 12:58

I hope someone on here wins because now I really do want to know what is discussed! I think it might be considered rude to ask but I am super interested in her journey from broke to billionaire, how that has changed how she sees the world and her place in it. And whether she prefers the Colonel's original recipe or hot wings...

Delphin · 08/06/2025 12:52

@IwantToRetire "there was me thinking if I needed to how would I get hold of a posh frock."
I have little idea what is considered posh in the UK. I just know that my sister in London had much fancier garderobe than I have. Here you can arrive in Jeans/trousers and a nice blouse almost anywere. I think Jo Rowling needs to give out a detailed dress code for the uninitiated!

Delphin · 08/06/2025 12:45

Note to people who entered the first edition of the draw (after donating to Lumos) and then managed to fill in the Google form after the Lumos site had crashed.
You should have received a mail from Lumos Friday night or so, stating that you might want to fill out the form again, to be safe, even if you got through the first night.
As I never got a receipt for my second entry (the page went blank after sending it), I have just now clicked on the link provided and re-entered. The form looked a bit different (more checkboxes) from the earlier one. It also asks you to use the same credentials as before, to identify double entries caused by the crash.

MarieDeGournay · 08/06/2025 11:34

Basically, 'bold' and 'asterisk' completely took over that last post of mine, and I ran out of editing chances.
It is what it is😥

MarieDeGournay · 08/06/2025 11:27

I imagine JKR is thinking
'[expletive deleted] it seemed like a fun idea at the time, now I have to engage my legal team AND my tech team AND...🙄!'
A good example of that 'gang aft agley' thingy..

Christinapple's interventions are usually pretty predictable, but the idea that a bunch of JKR fans meet JKR and they are going to talk about transfolx was way out there - unusually unpredictable, and completely silly.

As I've never read anything by JKR except her very funny tweets and her powerful political statements, I was interested to see that according to ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews*, she has a fascination with Canning Town.
Without wishing to out myself, let's just say that I'm no stranger to Rathbone Market myself, so that's a slight incentive to actually read some of JKR's books.
Smile

so I wouldn't want to win - it would be an evening of embarrassment, trying to hide the fact that I hadn't read a word of any of her books! I'd have to keep changing the subject - hey thanks, *Christinapple, you've given me a great idea, if the conversation was about her books which I haven't read, I could interrupt by saying 'Yes yes but what about the poor marginalised transwomen?' Grin

edited to remove random ing asterisks! And then re-edited to replace the two ing asterisks that were intentional😠

Needapadlockonmyfridge · 07/06/2025 21:41

Quite frankly, a glass of water would do me!

IwantToRetire · 07/06/2025 21:24

nocoolnamesleft · 07/06/2025 21:21

No, because JKR has said she will match donations, including any that are withdrawn.

Wow! That's means she'll probably fall off the rich list again.

But have no doubts with her many talents she will be back agains soon.

As I don’t want original donors’ odds of winning to diminish by this necessary change to the prize draw rules, I’m doubling the number of winners. SIX people will now have KFC (or some vegan, vegetarian or fancier alternative) with me, rather than three.

KFC! and there was me thinking if I needed to how would I get hold of a posh frock. She's always so well dressed Grin

nocoolnamesleft · 07/06/2025 21:21

IwantToRetire · 07/06/2025 20:50

No interest in being part of the derail, so can I ask, as I dont really understand, if someone can clarify.

Is the situation that for some charity, legal reasons, it isn't allowed to ask for a £10 entry fee / ticket.

And if not, and say everyone said I want my £10 back, no money would be made?

Although one very happy person would get to meet JKR.

(I would be terrified of winning as I am absolutely sure that my idea of fund wont tally with JKRs. And I wouldn't want to be rude and say, sorry that's not really much fun!)

No, because JKR has said she will match donations, including any that are withdrawn.

IwantToRetire · 07/06/2025 21:19

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/06/2025 21:02

It creates a paid lottery. That’s the legal position. So to avoid that it needs to be free to enter.

Not just charities, it applies to business promotions and other types of competitions too.

Edited

Thanks - I think I understand and have just looked at the form and there is a donate button after it but not part of it.

Am doing a rapid re-assessment of what fun might be and assessing my ability to be part of it!

Sunday midnight deadline approaching! Still time to enter our draw for dinner with J.K. Rowling - because who wouldn't want to chat about magic and more over a meal?
https://x.com/lumos/status/1931400421710729531

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/06/2025 21:02

It creates a paid lottery. That’s the legal position. So to avoid that it needs to be free to enter.

Not just charities, it applies to business promotions and other types of competitions too.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/06/2025 21:01

Yes, except there will be 6 people meeting JKR.