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It's Taylor's fault.

32 replies

colourmystic · 01/06/2025 12:47

Man admits being vile, here's how we can blame it on a woman.

It's Taylor's fault.
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DisappearingGirl · 01/06/2025 17:12

*SnowflakeSmasher86 *true. I don't object to him that much really - no worse than any other rock star. Just objecting to people blaming a bloke using porn on a woman he dated briefly!

I agree it would be interesting to hear Matty's side!

SnowflakeSmasher86 · 01/06/2025 13:59

DuesToTheDirt · 01/06/2025 13:46

Right, that's The 1975 in the bin. There are fewer and fewer still not in the bin.

The 1975 have always been a controversial band - a lot of what he says is part of a persona/character and plays into the trope of a wayward out of control rock star who’s pushing boundaries.

The masturbating to violent degrading porn alluded to was a quip on a podcast when he laughed as SOMEONE ELSE mentioned a porn site called Ghetto Gaggers. I don’t know if its a real site (not going to check) and clearly the whole convo went a bit ‘locker room’.

He’s since apologised and goes to great lengths to admit when he fucks up. He’s done it a lot!

But he’s grown up in a showbiz family with addiction issues, so of course he’s going to be a bit fucked up!

He’s absolutely not racist, sexist or homophobic, but he gets labelled as such all the time, despite championing female artists, having relationships with women of colour (and at the very least kissing other men). People just latch on to one stupid joke and think that represents the whole man.

Maybe instead of clutching at headlines, imagine for one moment that every stupid thing you ever said got published online. Sometimes people mess up. We’re all human.

And I love Taylor too, but we hear only her side of the story on TTPD, I’d love to hear his!

DuesToTheDirt · 01/06/2025 13:46

Right, that's The 1975 in the bin. There are fewer and fewer still not in the bin.

DisappearingGirl · 01/06/2025 13:10

Well she wrote a whole (brilliant) album about what a knob he was so if she was in any way to blame (she wasn't), I think she's redeemed herself

IwantmyReptv · 01/06/2025 13:09

Matty from The 1975 admitted to watching dreadful videos showing women being assaulted.

I'm not even sure when it happened and the link between the timescale of their relationship. It was a while ago.

Raquelos · 01/06/2025 13:08

That first rule of misogyny just never goes away, does it?

Issue: Matty Healey is an over exposed, dislikable prick who likes to tug off to unpleasant porn.
Fault: Taylor Swift for ... reasons.

ffs

pinkyredrose · 01/06/2025 12:48

Not sure what's happened here, need more detail.

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