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Flags removed ahead of Pride event = hate crime?

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Windy23 · 31/05/2025 17:40

Not sure how to feel about this. I don't agree with someone taking the flags down but is it really a hate crime?

BBC News - Hate crime probe after Arran Pride flags removed
https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cgq3ekyjeveo

A general view of the Pride march in Brodick with a number of people carrying rainbow flags.

Police probe hate crime over removal of pride flags on Arran

Flags were taken down from Brodick's Main Street overnight ahead of the Arran Pride event.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cgq3ekyjeveo

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TheCatsTongue · 01/06/2025 11:59

FlakyCritic · 01/06/2025 11:23

The full entire card is 'you don't want us to eXissssT!!!'.

What about "biology is more complex than GCSE biology"?

BundleBoogie · 01/06/2025 11:59

TheCatsTongue · 01/06/2025 11:50

"Homophobia and transphobia are interconnected and stem from the same root. They arise from authoritarian attitudes that believe in rigid gender binaries and actions taken to try to enforce that on others."

The trans movement is based on rigid gender binaries. For instance there are many boys who think that because they like "chick flicks" they must be female.

And whilst the idea that transphobia and homophobia were interconnected (essentially homosexual individuals transitioning to the opposite sex), it doesn't work when you have heterosexual males transitioning, and a few decades ago the gay community wanted nothing to do with heterosexual male cross-dressers.

and a few decades ago the gay community wanted nothing to do with heterosexual male cross-dressers.

Good point and actually the transsexual groups wanted nothing to do with gay rights - many were quite homophobic.

It was a true forced teaming on both sides by Stonewall.

TheCatsTongue · 01/06/2025 11:57

You, and others, are engaged in a process of encouraging vulnerable minorities to turn against each other. We know this, we're not stupid, we have read the 'divide and conquer' tactics, we know the fraudulent narratives that you spin and regurgitate on boards like this, and we stand united against the hate.

The BBC currently have "I kissed a boy" where gay men are expected to date a heterosexual woman who has been injecting testosterone. Lesbians are expected to accept fully bearded men as potential partners. Both things have received a lot of backlash from L and G people, there is no united front.

Put it this way, if I go to a dating event to meet men, I don't want to be meeting a female posing as male. If I go to a dating event to meet women, I don't want to be meeting a male posing as female. Now you would call that division of vulnerable minorities.

The fact that you keep going on about there being a united community who are aware of these "tactics" makes me question who you are. Because those actually inside the LGB community can see that this is a divisive subject.

BundleBoogie · 01/06/2025 11:52

BundleBoogie · 01/06/2025 11:46

You, and others, are engaged in a process of encouraging vulnerable minorities to turn against each other. We know this, we're not stupid, we have read the 'divide and conquer' tactics, we know the fraudulent narratives that you spin and regurgitate on boards like this, and we stand united against the hate.

We are not ‘encouraging vulnerable minorities to turn on each other’.

We are pointing out that one not vulnerable minority is actively harming the vulnerable minority. The trans community has ALREADY turned on LGB people and has been causing harm for years. You just can’t see it yet.

The big question is, you presumably (given your stated views) think it was ok for a man who identifies as a woman to run workshops in how to get past the ‘cotton ceiling’ ie. how to rape coerce lesbians to have sex with men. Yet you claim to be a lesbian. What will it take?

that was to @suggestionsplease1 and @Namechangeforobviousreasons100

What do you think about men running workshops to coerce lesbians into having sex with them? Do you support that? Do you understand why they ran them?

FlakyCritic · 01/06/2025 11:51

suggestionsplease1 · 01/06/2025 08:21

No. I am a female born lesbian.

Anyone can go find my first posts from years ago if they have any doubt on that, as I joined to get advice on a F-F breakup I was going through and didn't find this transphobic space until a lot later.

I call BS. No lesbian wants their oppressed group re-labelled and redefined by having males with cocks in it. It wasn't that long ago lesbians were told they 'just hadn't had the right dick', now we're back to 'lesbians just haven't had the right dick'.

No actual female and/or lesbian would defend this sexist homophobia.

Nor would they suggest putting privileged males on the female ledger increases their countries economy.

Nor would they suggest a male should have the right to expose himself to women and girls in their spaces.

Flags removed ahead of Pride event = hate crime?
LilaTwirls · 01/06/2025 11:50

FlakyCritic · 01/06/2025 11:03

Unknowingly then, you are.

But if you know full well that that flag representing trans the gay away and committing physical violence against women - which is exactly what that flag represents, then yes, you are.

It's a Mens Rights movement flag and a homophobic flag. There is no excuse for any decent, warm-blooded, humane human being to wave that hate and violence flag. Ever. Ever.

If you're talking about transing the gay away then aren't those men attracted to other men, not women? So not calling themselves lesbians.

TheCatsTongue · 01/06/2025 11:50

"Homophobia and transphobia are interconnected and stem from the same root. They arise from authoritarian attitudes that believe in rigid gender binaries and actions taken to try to enforce that on others."

The trans movement is based on rigid gender binaries. For instance there are many boys who think that because they like "chick flicks" they must be female.

And whilst the idea that transphobia and homophobia were interconnected (essentially homosexual individuals transitioning to the opposite sex), it doesn't work when you have heterosexual males transitioning, and a few decades ago the gay community wanted nothing to do with heterosexual male cross-dressers.

BundleBoogie · 01/06/2025 11:46

You, and others, are engaged in a process of encouraging vulnerable minorities to turn against each other. We know this, we're not stupid, we have read the 'divide and conquer' tactics, we know the fraudulent narratives that you spin and regurgitate on boards like this, and we stand united against the hate.

We are not ‘encouraging vulnerable minorities to turn on each other’.

We are pointing out that one not vulnerable minority is actively harming the vulnerable minority. The trans community has ALREADY turned on LGB people and has been causing harm for years. You just can’t see it yet.

The big question is, you presumably (given your stated views) think it was ok for a man who identifies as a woman to run workshops in how to get past the ‘cotton ceiling’ ie. how to rape coerce lesbians to have sex with men. Yet you claim to be a lesbian. What will it take?

Justwrong68 · 01/06/2025 11:45

My son asked me what ‘virtue signalling’ means yesterday and I replied: flag waving. A lot of people just hate having others’ politics shoved in their faces and this has been compounded by anyone arguing for women’s spaces being called bigots.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/06/2025 11:45

Dwimmer · 01/06/2025 11:42

Is it really strange that it is countries where women have the most rights that are the countries where men push for self ID? Do youn think there might be reasons men don’t demand to be treated like women in Afghanistan?

The fact that self-ID is most prevalent in countries where women have been granted human rights simply shows what a luxury belief this is.

Absolutely this.

The only countries in which men want to be trans women are countries in which women aren't oppressed too badly and trans people aren't oppressed at all.

RedToothBrush · 01/06/2025 11:45

suggestionsplease1 · 01/06/2025 11:26

Homophobia and transphobia are interconnected and stem from the same root. They arise from authoritarian attitudes that believe in rigid gender binaries and actions taken to try to enforce that on others.

Gay and trans people often visibly step outside those boundaries, and when people spit at us in the street, tear down our flags, harass us etc, believe me they are not handwringing whether it is transphobia or homophobia that they are acting on.

If you want to tie yourself up in identity riddles that is up to you - the hate is coming to all LGBT people, and it does not bother itself to establish trans, gay, bi identity, it just perceives contravention of binary.

You, and others, are engaged in a process of encouraging vulnerable minorities to turn against each other. We know this, we're not stupid, we have read the 'divide and conquer' tactics, we know the fraudulent narratives that you spin and regurgitate on boards like this, and we stand united against the hate.

You will see thousands upon thousands of lesbians matching in Pride parades this summer.

Transgenderism is authoritarian.

It tries to ban or prosecute anything it remotely dislikes.

Dwimmer · 01/06/2025 11:42

FlakyCritic · 01/06/2025 11:38

And as you have been told over and over again (and you're still not humiliated by your defeat), CORRELATION DOES NOT EQUAL CAUSATION. In deed and in fact, because those countries have misogynistic policies, it makes sense they are doing well economically. Suppressing women has that effect.

Is it really strange that it is countries where women have the most rights that are the countries where men push for self ID? Do youn think there might be reasons men don’t demand to be treated like women in Afghanistan?

The fact that self-ID is most prevalent in countries where women have been granted human rights simply shows what a luxury belief this is.

FlakyCritic · 01/06/2025 11:42

suggestionsplease1 · 31/05/2025 23:42

😂
You know transgender identities poll stably at less than 1% of populations, right?

And that transwomen score poorly in all measures covered in those indices, meaning that they would bring down the average scores for women rather than bring them up, if they are included in the category women.

Or are you pretending that 20-30% of people who have M on their birth certificates are suddenly stating they are F for shits and giggles or something? 🤣 These are pretty sensible, respected countries - what would make you think that?

Except transwomen score very highly, in terms of rights, in terms of access to health (greater access than females), economically, etc. Adding these males to the female ledger falsely inflates female figures.

But then you know that.

Dwimmer · 01/06/2025 11:38

No one who flies a flag and expects the police to arrest anyone who removes it is marginalised or oppressed - quite the opposite.

FlakyCritic · 01/06/2025 11:38

suggestionsplease1 · 31/05/2025 22:51

Why are you putting words in my mouth?

I am not interested in policing anyone's identities.

As I have already said, many times before, the countries which score highest for women's equality and wellbeing are not policing identities either.

They are demonstrating, year after year, that they stay at the top of the tables for women, long after introducing policies of gender self ID.

You can bet your bottom dollar that they are not myopically obsessed like you, but are getting on with the real business of improving women's lives.

And as you have been told over and over again (and you're still not humiliated by your defeat), CORRELATION DOES NOT EQUAL CAUSATION. In deed and in fact, because those countries have misogynistic policies, it makes sense they are doing well economically. Suppressing women has that effect.

Dwimmer · 01/06/2025 11:35

tear down our flags

Flags are not neutral, they are statement of conquest, of victory. Flags are put up to make a statement that they have power. It is a strong form of political messaging. That is why planning permission is needed for flags beyond national flags and a few others - of which the Pride flag is not one. Tearing down flags is a recriprocal message of rejecting that power.

TheKeatingFive · 01/06/2025 11:34

If you decide that 'gender' is more important than sex, that is (by its very nature) homophobic - as you are denying people's same sex attraction.

Lesbians in the 1980s were being told to accept men into their dating pool. The same is happening today. Homophobia didn't go away, it just evolved into a new form.

FlakyCritic · 01/06/2025 11:33

suggestionsplease1 · 31/05/2025 22:16

Trans ideology is strongly associated with homophobia.

Research Susie Green, former head of Mermaids, who ADMITTED she transed her son as her husband was deeply HOMOPHOBIC and he would not accept a gay son.

Transing the gay away is the sole aim of the trans ideology and in deed and in fact, the Gender Ideology. It is gay conversion therapy by stealth.

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 01/06/2025 11:32

suggestionsplease1 · 01/06/2025 11:26

Homophobia and transphobia are interconnected and stem from the same root. They arise from authoritarian attitudes that believe in rigid gender binaries and actions taken to try to enforce that on others.

Gay and trans people often visibly step outside those boundaries, and when people spit at us in the street, tear down our flags, harass us etc, believe me they are not handwringing whether it is transphobia or homophobia that they are acting on.

If you want to tie yourself up in identity riddles that is up to you - the hate is coming to all LGBT people, and it does not bother itself to establish trans, gay, bi identity, it just perceives contravention of binary.

You, and others, are engaged in a process of encouraging vulnerable minorities to turn against each other. We know this, we're not stupid, we have read the 'divide and conquer' tactics, we know the fraudulent narratives that you spin and regurgitate on boards like this, and we stand united against the hate.

You will see thousands upon thousands of lesbians matching in Pride parades this summer.

100%

WithSilverBells · 01/06/2025 11:31

suggestionsplease1 · 01/06/2025 11:26

Homophobia and transphobia are interconnected and stem from the same root. They arise from authoritarian attitudes that believe in rigid gender binaries and actions taken to try to enforce that on others.

Gay and trans people often visibly step outside those boundaries, and when people spit at us in the street, tear down our flags, harass us etc, believe me they are not handwringing whether it is transphobia or homophobia that they are acting on.

If you want to tie yourself up in identity riddles that is up to you - the hate is coming to all LGBT people, and it does not bother itself to establish trans, gay, bi identity, it just perceives contravention of binary.

You, and others, are engaged in a process of encouraging vulnerable minorities to turn against each other. We know this, we're not stupid, we have read the 'divide and conquer' tactics, we know the fraudulent narratives that you spin and regurgitate on boards like this, and we stand united against the hate.

You will see thousands upon thousands of lesbians matching in Pride parades this summer.

You are unwilling to define any of these words so it is all just meaningless soup.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/06/2025 11:28

suggestionsplease1 · 01/06/2025 11:26

Homophobia and transphobia are interconnected and stem from the same root. They arise from authoritarian attitudes that believe in rigid gender binaries and actions taken to try to enforce that on others.

Gay and trans people often visibly step outside those boundaries, and when people spit at us in the street, tear down our flags, harass us etc, believe me they are not handwringing whether it is transphobia or homophobia that they are acting on.

If you want to tie yourself up in identity riddles that is up to you - the hate is coming to all LGBT people, and it does not bother itself to establish trans, gay, bi identity, it just perceives contravention of binary.

You, and others, are engaged in a process of encouraging vulnerable minorities to turn against each other. We know this, we're not stupid, we have read the 'divide and conquer' tactics, we know the fraudulent narratives that you spin and regurgitate on boards like this, and we stand united against the hate.

You will see thousands upon thousands of lesbians matching in Pride parades this summer.

Cross dressing men aren't a vulnerable minority.

FlakyCritic · 01/06/2025 11:28

suggestionsplease1 · 31/05/2025 21:37

And I think most people can see the lie of the land and where the homophobia exists here.

Yes they can. Your homophobia was more than obvious in your AI word salad.

FlakyCritic · 01/06/2025 11:26

suggestionsplease1 · 31/05/2025 21:33

I refuse to fall for a trap set by someone who mistakenly believes that definitions comprised of inherently finite and limited language can ever encapsulate the complexity of lived lives.

That is nice AI word salad to say 'I don't believe any oppressed group needs a definition that links them and their cause' so I am going to lie and gaslight, and run away.

suggestionsplease1 · 01/06/2025 11:26

NotBadConsidering · 01/06/2025 10:30

You’re accusing people of homophobia while refusing to say what the definitions of lesbian and homophobia are, because you know to do so will either:

a) reveal your own homophobia by using a gender ideology definition or
b) have to admit that men can’t be lesbians and undo your own belief system.

So you say you don’t “insist”. But you insist on making sure the homophobia of your ideology stays hidden.

Homophobia and transphobia are interconnected and stem from the same root. They arise from authoritarian attitudes that believe in rigid gender binaries and actions taken to try to enforce that on others.

Gay and trans people often visibly step outside those boundaries, and when people spit at us in the street, tear down our flags, harass us etc, believe me they are not handwringing whether it is transphobia or homophobia that they are acting on.

If you want to tie yourself up in identity riddles that is up to you - the hate is coming to all LGBT people, and it does not bother itself to establish trans, gay, bi identity, it just perceives contravention of binary.

You, and others, are engaged in a process of encouraging vulnerable minorities to turn against each other. We know this, we're not stupid, we have read the 'divide and conquer' tactics, we know the fraudulent narratives that you spin and regurgitate on boards like this, and we stand united against the hate.

You will see thousands upon thousands of lesbians matching in Pride parades this summer.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/06/2025 11:25

It's worth me repeating that the reason why people have compiled lists of trans identifying male people who have committed violent crimes is in response to claims that this same self-identifying group of people are harmless, pose no risk to women, and should therefore be treated as an exception to the rule that male people are not allowed in female only spaces.

If people stopped making such absurd claims then we wouldn't need to hurt anyone's feelings by pointing out that they aren't true.