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MoMa Breastfeeding

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ChristinaXYZ · 28/05/2025 20:43

There is a new Community Interest Company to support breast feeding mothers. "We are a mother-led breastfeeding support organisation." https://momab.org.uk/

and from a post on X "We are a single-sex mother-to-mother breastfeeding support organisation. The only males in our meetings will be very young ones!"

https://x.com/MoMaBfing/status/1927703163697496387

MoMa Breastfeeding – Mother to Mother Support for Breastfeeding

https://momab.org.uk

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BadSkiingMum · 02/06/2025 11:51

As a previous breastfeeding supporter - who took a Level 3 qualification in order to be able to practise safely with vulnerable mothers and newborn babies (training, governance and safeguarding all cost money!) - I am delighted by this news. Fantastic!

CocoPlum · 01/06/2025 15:33

Good points - I have my own insurance and don't manage the website so forgot about those!

Someone I follow on Instagram, who does amazing content and heads an online community I love, reposted about JKR supporting a "trans hate group" with a vomit emoji and it makes me so sad as well as doubting myself.

Beenthroughit · 01/06/2025 15:28

CocoPlum · 29/05/2025 15:29

I'm a long time BF supporter at a group like this.

Decent spaces are not cheap to rent, especially if you want to hold a group weekly.
They may need to buy equipment (dolls, knitted boobs, books, toys for accompanying toddlers, pillows), plus things like tea, coffee, boxes of tissues, etc.
To run a regular group with decent support you need a strong team and may need to pay for volunteers to undergo peer support training.

There are costs for insurance for instance, as well as room hire as well as training new supporters and keeping existing ones up to date. Website cost to develop and maintain, it all costs money and I imagine that there will need to be some new resources produced too

PowerTulle · 01/06/2025 10:01

LLL no longer prioritise benefit to babies. That is universal now with the inclusion of men who want the experience of chest latching (no such thing as chest feeding imho).

There is no evidence that chest latching by males benefits babies in any way. Plenty of common sense views that latching a baby when they aren’t ever going to be able to feed, or might ingest chemical induced excretions, might be harmful to newborns. I’m glad this new organisation will prioritise both women and babies.

BeenzManeenz · 01/06/2025 09:36

So pleased to see this! Have had enough of this "chestfeeding" nonsense. LaLeche is a bloody joke.

Manderleyagain · 29/05/2025 23:06

DaisiesandButtercups · 29/05/2025 16:34

BfN, ABM and NCT are all fully “inclusive” like LLL. This new group will be a first in being single sex in principle rather than just because no male has yet turned up wanting to join and receive help to “breastfeed” a baby.

I might be mistaken but as far as I can discover all but 2 of the directors of MoMa Breastfeeding were previously directors of LLLGB.

Do you have any links or other info about this? My reading of BfN current online material is that the 'inclusivity' is about supporting & including women who don't identify as women, but I would be very interested in anything that's been said about males who induce lactation.

TooTiredToType77 · 29/05/2025 21:55

Ruth especially is an amazingly experienced LLL Leader and previous Director of LLL. I'm thrilled they've set up a specifically women only CIC. I believe Ruth was also party to the conversations with the charity commission about clarifying that LLL GB was already a single sex organisation and could legitimately exclude all males. I'm sure they will set to this new charity to clearly be single sex and with the SC ruling can confidently promote women only mother to mother support (again)

MrsOvertonsWindow · 29/05/2025 21:26

Moremountains · 29/05/2025 19:54

While the effect of the SC ruling is not as quick as I would like it to be, on hospitals, prisons, changing rooms etc, I would like to spend a few minutes enjoying the fact that an organisation like this one can now exists, no ifs no buts no "Am I allowed to ask for a GRC?".

Yes. It does limit the ability of men with a fetish to trash these organisations doesn't it?

loveyouradvice · 29/05/2025 21:02

This is just SO heart-warming... lots of coverage on social media, in the Times and the Telegraph so they really can re-invent the wheel with all the donations and requests flooding in ... a mother-centred nation-wide volunteer-run breast feeding service.

As they so rightly say, what LLL was a before men disrupted it.

Moremountains · 29/05/2025 19:54

While the effect of the SC ruling is not as quick as I would like it to be, on hospitals, prisons, changing rooms etc, I would like to spend a few minutes enjoying the fact that an organisation like this one can now exists, no ifs no buts no "Am I allowed to ask for a GRC?".

Sortumn · 29/05/2025 17:16

RobinHeartella · 29/05/2025 06:43

I'm in full agreement with you about LLL, I thought that was clear in my comment but perhaps not.

So I actually contacted a couple of local organisations to try and sign up for training to be a breastfeeding counsellor. [Edit to be clear - not recently, a year or two back]. One didn't reply and the other said they didn't require any more sign ups at this time. This left me with an impression that there's no shortage of breastfeeding counsellors, certainly not in my area.

As for "publicity"...
"Publicity" for my local breastfeeding support mostly consists of a line in the children's centre schedule, as well as some printed out A4 pages stuck up around the children's centre. I would not want it publicised more widely as I wouldn't want anyone other than genuine local mums turning up.

Sorry to sound like a negative nelly but I am cautious and cynical by nature especially to do with anything where vulnerable mums are concerned

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I'm really pleased to see this new org. There's no knowing how many bfcs currently use mother and woman erasing language. Those that no longer fit the ideals of LLL will defect to a well run bf organisation that is woman centred.

Our community hvs ran a rather useless breastfeeding service which was THE breastfeeding service in town. They usually just asked the now experienced mothers how to help. The problem being that the more experienced mothers were than asked not to come with our babies as they/we had toddlers in tow and some women just wanted to put their baby on the floor and ignore them for an hour.

Datun · 29/05/2025 16:40

DaisiesandButtercups · 29/05/2025 16:34

BfN, ABM and NCT are all fully “inclusive” like LLL. This new group will be a first in being single sex in principle rather than just because no male has yet turned up wanting to join and receive help to “breastfeed” a baby.

I might be mistaken but as far as I can discover all but 2 of the directors of MoMa Breastfeeding were previously directors of LLLGB.

This is exactly what women predicted. That women only groups will be infiltrated by men, so women will have to set up their own groups, to exclude them.

What a fucking waste of time these arseholes are putting women through.

But they will do it, it will be done, and these men will be nowhere.

Olderbadger1 · 29/05/2025 16:39

Ruth Lewis (who was interviewed by Inciteful Sisters - see above) was formerly LLL and is one of the co-founders of this new organisation. I have worked with her on a volunteer basis with FiLiA and have the highest regard for her integrity, courage and expertise. She is a brilliant woman; this is a brilliant initiative. Please do support it if you can. You'll be gardening in fertile soil.

Datun · 29/05/2025 16:39

ChristinaXYZ · 29/05/2025 15:14

Just to add that it has been picked up by the Telegraph

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/05/29/jk-rowling-donates-to-female-only-breastfeeding-charity-nhs/

I hope with this publicity that they get the funds to set up an office to screen their volunteers properly.

Brilliant that Rowling is supporting this.

That's just the profile raising it needs.

I'd just like to see the papers stop talking about transwomen, and talk about men, or trans identified men, or males.

DaisiesandButtercups · 29/05/2025 16:34

BfN, ABM and NCT are all fully “inclusive” like LLL. This new group will be a first in being single sex in principle rather than just because no male has yet turned up wanting to join and receive help to “breastfeed” a baby.

I might be mistaken but as far as I can discover all but 2 of the directors of MoMa Breastfeeding were previously directors of LLLGB.

BurlyShriggs · 29/05/2025 16:29

ChristinaXYZ · 28/05/2025 20:43

There is a new Community Interest Company to support breast feeding mothers. "We are a mother-led breastfeeding support organisation." https://momab.org.uk/

and from a post on X "We are a single-sex mother-to-mother breastfeeding support organisation. The only males in our meetings will be very young ones!"

https://x.com/MoMaBfing/status/1927703163697496387

I know one of these former LLL leaders and Trustees. Having been treated so appallingly by this ideologically captured organisation, I think it is admirable that they have set up this new group to continue to share their experience and skills. The main costs I guess will be for premises and ongoing training.

Manderleyagain · 29/05/2025 15:35

ShinyBlueTractor · 29/05/2025 14:03

I'm sure this has been discussed before, so apologies for duplication, but does anyone know what positions NCT and BFN take on inclusion of trans women in BF services? I'm aware of the LLL stuff (which is appalling) but I feel like I haven't heard much about the others. It's probably just because I don't move in those circles any more (I used to be involved in BF support but left before a lot of the gender stuff really heated up)

I don't think BfN has said anything about tw inducing lactation.

CocoPlum · 29/05/2025 15:29

RobinHeartella · 29/05/2025 06:16

That is nice and I'm glad of it - but just wanted to point out that away from the public eye these things are still common. My local children's centre has a weekly breastfeeding support and the language on the posters is women centred. Never heard of a man turning up trying to bf. With the local demographics that we have, I expect any man trying to do that would be yelled out of there.

Apart from the big names like LLL, breastfeeding groups that are "inclusive" (of men...) I think are the exception rather than the norm.

My local one does it without a song or dance, is run cheaply with mostly volunteers and one paid leader I believe, so I'm wondering why this one makes a big deal on twitter and is asking for donations. What's to spend on?

I'm a long time BF supporter at a group like this.

Decent spaces are not cheap to rent, especially if you want to hold a group weekly.
They may need to buy equipment (dolls, knitted boobs, books, toys for accompanying toddlers, pillows), plus things like tea, coffee, boxes of tissues, etc.
To run a regular group with decent support you need a strong team and may need to pay for volunteers to undergo peer support training.

ChristinaXYZ · 29/05/2025 15:14

Just to add that it has been picked up by the Telegraph

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/05/29/jk-rowling-donates-to-female-only-breastfeeding-charity-nhs/

I hope with this publicity that they get the funds to set up an office to screen their volunteers properly.

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NotMeekNotObedient · 29/05/2025 14:48

Brilliant! I've donated a small amount.

ShinyBlueTractor · 29/05/2025 14:03

I'm sure this has been discussed before, so apologies for duplication, but does anyone know what positions NCT and BFN take on inclusion of trans women in BF services? I'm aware of the LLL stuff (which is appalling) but I feel like I haven't heard much about the others. It's probably just because I don't move in those circles any more (I used to be involved in BF support but left before a lot of the gender stuff really heated up)

WarriorN · 29/05/2025 13:53

Wouldn’t be surprised if some of the leaders there are part of this

WarriorN · 29/05/2025 13:51

I will say the long running NE LLL is women exclusive. it has a fantastic fb group