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Are toilets still allowed to be cleaned by members of the opposite sex?

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PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 15:50

I see signs saying toilets may be cleaned by members of the opposite sex in a lot of places. Is this allowed after the supreme court ruling? If a male cleaner was in there it would be a mixed sex space.

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BlibBlabBlob · 27/05/2025 19:36

ProfesoraLou · 27/05/2025 19:33

women have a choice to enter while the cleaner is there, or to wait until he is finished.
That is consent.

Not if, as happened to me recently, the male cleaner wasn't there when I went into the cubicle but WAS there when I came out.

With no indication, other than a permanent sign on the door indicating that men might clean the toilets.

Come to think of it, even a proper temporary 'man in here RIGHT NOW' sign wouldn't work if there were already women in the toilets, within the cubicles, when it was placed.

I know it's not really the point of this thread, but in busy public toilets would it really be so hard to have male cleaners for the men's toilets and female cleaners for the women's toilets?

ProfesoraLou · 27/05/2025 19:35

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 19:18

I think you’re assuming every woman has consented to male cleaners being in the space.

Plenty of us are happy to have trans women in the toilets with us, so why isn’t that enough?

and you don't get to consent for other women. You can welcome all the men you like into your own private same sex space.

TheKeatingFive · 27/05/2025 19:34

BlibBlabBlob · 27/05/2025 19:29

But very often there ISN'T a sign. Just a permanent one warning of the possibility of an opposite sex cleaner.

I was in the ladies' toilets at the Arndale Centre Food Court (Manchester) a few weeks ago. Male cleaner was in there popping in and out of every cubicle in turn, mopping. I'm sure he was just doing his job and I didn't feel unsafe, but it very briefly made me feel uncomfortable. Because his presence really hadn't been clearly communicated before myself and teenage DD went in. On checking, as we left, there was just the generic, permanent 'these facilities may be cleaned by staff of any gender' type of sign.

I don't mind a male cleaner in the women's, although in large facilities e.g. shopping centres with multiple cleaners I would prefer them to allocate female cleaners to the women's and male cleaners to the men's. I would hate to be sent into the men's to clean myself, as a woman.

But there really DOES need to be proper warning that there is a man in there RIGHT NOW. Before you go in. And that increasingly isn't the case, ever since the TRAs got the world thinking that keeping single sex spaces, you know, SINGLE SEX wasn't actually important anymore.

If there isnt a sign, go complain, there should be one.

Itisallabitvague · 27/05/2025 19:34

Get a grip.... seriously.

ProfesoraLou · 27/05/2025 19:33

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 19:18

I think you’re assuming every woman has consented to male cleaners being in the space.

Plenty of us are happy to have trans women in the toilets with us, so why isn’t that enough?

women have a choice to enter while the cleaner is there, or to wait until he is finished.
That is consent.

MarieDeGournay · 27/05/2025 19:33

Gosh there are now NINE pages in response to what was a fairly straightforward question, to which the answer was:

'Yes'.

Cleaning a toilet is not the same as using a toilet, so the SC ruling doesn't apply.

Male cleaners' presence is announced.

If you don't want to use the toilet while it is being cleaned by a man, then wait till he's finished.

When I have more time I'll read what on earth was going on for the intervening pages!

TooBigForMyBoots · 27/05/2025 19:32

You seem to be confused about the right to Single Sex spaces and the purpose of service personnel @PoisedRubyLion.

Waitwhat23 · 27/05/2025 19:31

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 27/05/2025 19:27

Me me!

<lowers hand>

because a male cleaner is there doing his job

a man with a gender identity is there by either deception or bullying and is pushing women’s boundaries and extremely creepy

you’re welcome

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You have the choice between a jet ski, a caravan holiday to Skegness or a set of croquet equipment - take your pick!

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BlibBlabBlob · 27/05/2025 19:29

TheKeatingFive · 27/05/2025 19:24

There's a sign up, letting you know that there'll be a cleaner there. If you're happy with that, go in. If you aren't you can wait or go elsewhere.

I can't imagine you're actually this stupid, so can you stop being deliberately obtuse thanks?

But very often there ISN'T a sign. Just a permanent one warning of the possibility of an opposite sex cleaner.

I was in the ladies' toilets at the Arndale Centre Food Court (Manchester) a few weeks ago. Male cleaner was in there popping in and out of every cubicle in turn, mopping. I'm sure he was just doing his job and I didn't feel unsafe, but it very briefly made me feel uncomfortable. Because his presence really hadn't been clearly communicated before myself and teenage DD went in. On checking, as we left, there was just the generic, permanent 'these facilities may be cleaned by staff of any gender' type of sign.

I don't mind a male cleaner in the women's, although in large facilities e.g. shopping centres with multiple cleaners I would prefer them to allocate female cleaners to the women's and male cleaners to the men's. I would hate to be sent into the men's to clean myself, as a woman.

But there really DOES need to be proper warning that there is a man in there RIGHT NOW. Before you go in. And that increasingly isn't the case, ever since the TRAs got the world thinking that keeping single sex spaces, you know, SINGLE SEX wasn't actually important anymore.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 27/05/2025 19:27

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 27/05/2025 19:02

Nobody has been able to accurately answer why a woman would be a fearful of a trans woman in a toilet when she’s in a vulnerable state, and not a male cleaner.

Me me!

<lowers hand>

because a male cleaner is there doing his job

a man with a gender identity is there by either deception or bullying and is pushing women’s boundaries and extremely creepy

you’re welcome

TheKeatingFive · 27/05/2025 19:24

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 19:22

I did! I don’t consent male cleaners, so does this mean it stops now?

There's a sign up, letting you know that there'll be a cleaner there. If you're happy with that, go in. If you aren't you can wait or go elsewhere.

I can't imagine you're actually this stupid, so can you stop being deliberately obtuse thanks?

Waitwhat23 · 27/05/2025 19:24

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 27/05/2025 19:23

Their presence in that moment won’t be communicated, only the possibility.

This argument is a massive change of tune compared to what’s usually on this site, that a woman should have to make space for a man.

Did that make sense in your head?

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 27/05/2025 19:23

TheKeatingFive · 27/05/2025 19:09

This has been covered.

The male cleaner's presence will be clearly communicated. She can avoid it if she'd prefer.

Their presence in that moment won’t be communicated, only the possibility.

This argument is a massive change of tune compared to what’s usually on this site, that a woman should have to make space for a man.

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 19:22

TheKeatingFive · 27/05/2025 19:21

Because you don't get to consent on behalf of all women. Did you think you did? 😵‍💫

I did! I don’t consent male cleaners, so does this mean it stops now?

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TheKeatingFive · 27/05/2025 19:21

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 19:18

I think you’re assuming every woman has consented to male cleaners being in the space.

Plenty of us are happy to have trans women in the toilets with us, so why isn’t that enough?

Because you don't get to consent on behalf of all women. Did you think you did? 😵‍💫

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 27/05/2025 19:19

ProfesoraLou · 27/05/2025 19:12

or more concisely
Men in our spaces temporarily with our consent to do a job = not scary
Men breaking the law by pretending to be women in order to invade our private spaces = creepy, scary, not ok
Do you understand?

Sorry just to clarify that was meant to be in response to this.

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 27/05/2025 19:19

Your tone is horrible and rude. I hope you don’t communicate like this in real life.

So- you think that a woman who is running out of a cubicle with her hands covered in period blood and doesn’t want to encounter a man (a scenario frequently used on this site to explain why trans women shouldn’t allowed in women’s spaces) will be okay with it if it’s a cleaner?

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 19:18

ProfesoraLou · 27/05/2025 19:12

or more concisely
Men in our spaces temporarily with our consent to do a job = not scary
Men breaking the law by pretending to be women in order to invade our private spaces = creepy, scary, not ok
Do you understand?

I think you’re assuming every woman has consented to male cleaners being in the space.

Plenty of us are happy to have trans women in the toilets with us, so why isn’t that enough?

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ProfesoraLou · 27/05/2025 19:12

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 27/05/2025 19:04

That’s extremely rude. And no, they haven’t.

or more concisely
Men in our spaces temporarily with our consent to do a job = not scary
Men breaking the law by pretending to be women in order to invade our private spaces = creepy, scary, not ok
Do you understand?

ProfesoraLou · 27/05/2025 19:10

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 27/05/2025 19:04

That’s extremely rude. And no, they haven’t.

are you too tired to read the previous posts?
Women are ok with male cleaners doing their job in their loos as they put a sign outside to warn women that they are there. They are there with the permission of the service provider and women have a choice whether to enter, or wait until they're finished.
Males pretending to be female do not have any permission or consent to be in women's spaces. They are breaking the law. They are pushing women's boundaries.
There is a clear difference.
This has been patiently explained many times over the previous pages, yet you seem to have missed it.
Hence my question about your eyes.

TheKeatingFive · 27/05/2025 19:09

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 27/05/2025 19:02

Nobody has been able to accurately answer why a woman would be a fearful of a trans woman in a toilet when she’s in a vulnerable state, and not a male cleaner.

This has been covered.

The male cleaner's presence will be clearly communicated. She can avoid it if she'd prefer.

Waitwhat23 · 27/05/2025 19:07

Possibly women are fearful of the men deliberately (and in many cases gleefully) invading single sex services and spaces?

There's plenty of 'big game trophy' photos taken in women's toilets by men claiming to be women.

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 27/05/2025 19:04

ProfesoraLou · 27/05/2025 19:03

yes they have, what's wrong with your eyes?

That’s extremely rude. And no, they haven’t.

Waitwhat23 · 27/05/2025 19:03

And my second question. Human beings cannot change sex. There is no such thing as 'transitioning' into the opposite sex. So why should women welcome men who have (possibly) had extreme cosmetic surgery, take wrong sex hormones and wear stereotypically female clothing into single sex space? Essentially because the men's feelings would be hurt?

Why are men's feelings more important than women's safety and dignity?

neilyoungismyhero · 27/05/2025 19:03

I was at the hospital the other day desperate for a quick pee before my imminent appointment. The nearest toilet was being cleaned by a gentleman I asked him if I could possibly pop in ..he said it was okay. He continued mopping and I peed. No issue on either side. Male cleaners have always cleaned toilets doubt they're doing it for any sort of fetish.