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Are toilets still allowed to be cleaned by members of the opposite sex?

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PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 15:50

I see signs saying toilets may be cleaned by members of the opposite sex in a lot of places. Is this allowed after the supreme court ruling? If a male cleaner was in there it would be a mixed sex space.

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spannasaurus · 27/05/2025 20:27

Other than birth/death certificates and marriage I can't think of any other areas where a GRC has any effect. It used to make a difference to pension age but that has been the same for both sexes for a while.

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 20:23

spannasaurus · 27/05/2025 20:21

Not for all other purposes though. It's not just the EA that ignores a GRC.

And a certificate doesn't mean someone has actually changed sex

Okay fine. To get pedantic, for most purposes excluding some very specific exceptions

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Waitwhat23 · 27/05/2025 20:23

TheKeatingFive · 27/05/2025 20:02

It's a scientific, verifiable fact though.

You can 'disagree' with that all you like, but no one needs to take your disagreement seriously. Like flat earthers.

I'm actually starting to think that Flat Earthers need to start getting litigious and fighting the 'human beings can change sex' lot being referred to as Flat Earthers. I mean, they're crazy, but not that crazy.

Annoyedone · 27/05/2025 20:22

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 20:18

I think you’re exaggerating the judgement. It was very clear that it only clarified male and female for the Equality Act. Trans people can still get a GRC that changes their sex for other purposes.

I can get a piece of paper saying I own a bit of the moon. Does that make me an astronaut?

DeepGreyFox · 27/05/2025 20:21

ProfesoraLou · 27/05/2025 20:10

Most men don't. Most men accept that women's spaces are for women.

Unfortunately there is a cohort that seem to think it's ok for a man to be in a women's spaces when they are wearing a dress. Or lipstick.
Don't you read the papers? Have you not heard about the toilet protests? Are you even being serious?
This is why the Supreme Court had to clarify the law.
But maybe you think because you haven't come across it, other people should ignore it?

So patronising. Hope you feel better for that 🙄

spannasaurus · 27/05/2025 20:21

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 20:18

I think you’re exaggerating the judgement. It was very clear that it only clarified male and female for the Equality Act. Trans people can still get a GRC that changes their sex for other purposes.

Not for all other purposes though. It's not just the EA that ignores a GRC.

And a certificate doesn't mean someone has actually changed sex

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 20:18

ProfesoraLou · 27/05/2025 20:13

Do you think that everyone who disagrees with scientific, verifiable, confirmed by the highest court in the land fact has a right to ignore the law?

I think you’re exaggerating the judgement. It was very clear that it only clarified male and female for the Equality Act. Trans people can still get a GRC that changes their sex for other purposes.

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GetDressedYouMerryGentlemen · 27/05/2025 20:15

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 19:48

Couldn’t you say the same thing about trans women? If you don’t want to share a space with them, don’t go in

Sandie Peggie tried waiting outside the changing room while Dr Upson got changed. This made the Dr sad and Sandie was suspended for making the Dr sad. No-one is getting a disciplinary charge for waiting for a male cleaner to finish mopping the loo.

ProfesoraLou · 27/05/2025 20:13

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 19:54

Because I disagree that trans women are men

Do you think that everyone who disagrees with scientific, verifiable, confirmed by the highest court in the land fact has a right to ignore the law?

BackToLurk · 27/05/2025 20:12

If there are male cleaners there are signs. Either specifically when they are there or advising that they may be present.

Commercial cleaning companies generally (probably always for the ones with large contracts) DBS check employees.

You’re welcome

Barbie222 · 27/05/2025 20:12

Hey OP! People using a toilet are service users. People being paid to clean a toilet are contracted employees. Services can be provided single sex. HTH.

(if the person cleaning the toilet stays in there cleaning all day and doesn’t leave, I’d suggest alerting someone)

Annoyedone · 27/05/2025 20:10

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 19:54

Because I disagree that trans women are men

Yeah but you make mince look skinny so…….

ProfesoraLou · 27/05/2025 20:10

DeepGreyFox · 27/05/2025 20:05

Where are all these men that are barging into womens toilets? I'm absolutely ancient and I've never yet seen one. The way this board goes on about them you'd think there were hoardes of them battering down the doors 🤣

Most men don't. Most men accept that women's spaces are for women.

Unfortunately there is a cohort that seem to think it's ok for a man to be in a women's spaces when they are wearing a dress. Or lipstick.
Don't you read the papers? Have you not heard about the toilet protests? Are you even being serious?
This is why the Supreme Court had to clarify the law.
But maybe you think because you haven't come across it, other people should ignore it?

DeepGreyFox · 27/05/2025 20:05

ProfesoraLou · 27/05/2025 19:51

You're being ridiculous and really horrible.
They are women's toilets. The men (who aren't employed to clean them) need to stay out. As per the law
How can you excuse men barging into a women's space?
What the hell is wrong with you?

Where are all these men that are barging into womens toilets? I'm absolutely ancient and I've never yet seen one. The way this board goes on about them you'd think there were hoardes of them battering down the doors 🤣

TheKeatingFive · 27/05/2025 20:02

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 19:54

Because I disagree that trans women are men

It's a scientific, verifiable fact though.

You can 'disagree' with that all you like, but no one needs to take your disagreement seriously. Like flat earthers.

WallaceinAnderland · 27/05/2025 20:00

Couldn’t you say the same thing about trans women? If you don’t want to share a space with them, don’t go in.

You could. And lots of men do say that in an attempt to force women to let them into their single sex spaces when they are isolated, vulnerable or in a state of undress.

Keep going, this will be peaking a lot of people.

TheignT · 27/05/2025 20:00

mardirousse · 27/05/2025 17:43

For clarity, If a trans identifying male cleaner with lipstick and a skirt was cleaning the loos, I wouldn't have an issue with it, so long as he put the sign up to warn women.
I've no issues with trans identifying males when they aren't barging into women only spaces.

Edited

As someone posted earlier those signs seem to have become permanent in some places so you don't actually know if there is a male cleaner in there.

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 19:54

ProfesoraLou · 27/05/2025 19:51

You're being ridiculous and really horrible.
They are women's toilets. The men (who aren't employed to clean them) need to stay out. As per the law
How can you excuse men barging into a women's space?
What the hell is wrong with you?

Because I disagree that trans women are men

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ProfesoraLou · 27/05/2025 19:51

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 19:48

Couldn’t you say the same thing about trans women? If you don’t want to share a space with them, don’t go in

You're being ridiculous and really horrible.
They are women's toilets. The men (who aren't employed to clean them) need to stay out. As per the law
How can you excuse men barging into a women's space?
What the hell is wrong with you?

PoisedRubyLion · 27/05/2025 19:48

WallaceinAnderland · 27/05/2025 19:46

I don’t consent male cleaners, so does this mean it stops now?

It means that you have the choice whether or not to use a facility with a man in it.

Couldn’t you say the same thing about trans women? If you don’t want to share a space with them, don’t go in

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WallaceinAnderland · 27/05/2025 19:46

I don’t consent male cleaners, so does this mean it stops now?

It means that you have the choice whether or not to use a facility with a man in it.

MarieDeGournay · 27/05/2025 19:44

Ideally women's toilets should be cleaned by women, men's by men - which used to be the case, in my experience.

But given that cleaning up after other people is not anybody's ideal job, I guess cleaning companies have to take whoever they can get, and allocate staff by availability rather than sex.

It's not perfect, there can be unwelcome situations, but male cleaners are there doing a job - an important, unpleasant and badly-paid job - not because they have chosen to invade a single-sex space for their own personal reasons.

ProfesoraLou · 27/05/2025 19:44

BlibBlabBlob · 27/05/2025 19:36

Not if, as happened to me recently, the male cleaner wasn't there when I went into the cubicle but WAS there when I came out.

With no indication, other than a permanent sign on the door indicating that men might clean the toilets.

Come to think of it, even a proper temporary 'man in here RIGHT NOW' sign wouldn't work if there were already women in the toilets, within the cubicles, when it was placed.

I know it's not really the point of this thread, but in busy public toilets would it really be so hard to have male cleaners for the men's toilets and female cleaners for the women's toilets?

they're supposed to notify the women using the toilets as they enter. Most male cleaners do this, and it means the toilets are clean. If you have an issue, you should contact the service provider. If you don't get an adequate response, take your custom elsewhere, or if it's a serious breach of your rights, maybe it's worth taking a case?

All this has nothing to do with men dressed as women barging into women's spaces.
It is whataboutery. The thread was started as such. And it's tiresome

BlibBlabBlob · 27/05/2025 19:38

flipent · 27/05/2025 19:36

I’m starting to wonder what some of you are doing in public toilets that would be an issue while a male cleaner was working!

My teenage autistic daughter has germ phobia. Won't do up her jeans fly and button until AFTER she's washed her hands twice. So she comes out of the cubicle with her jeans open and her knickers slightly on display.

There being a man there when she did this the other week, unexpectedly, wasn't ideal.

flipent · 27/05/2025 19:36

I’m starting to wonder what some of you are doing in public toilets that would be an issue while a male cleaner was working!