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This year's pride month

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maybeuptight · 26/05/2025 20:36

Just wondering if anyone thinks it might be different this year?

Last year it felt like you couldn't leave the house in June without encountering rainbow "Love is Love" posters, Tesco sold drag garden gnomes, and bacon lettuce tomato sandwiches turned into LGBT sandwiches in my local shop.

This year some local pride events have reported inadequate funding, and Stonewall have said they are in financial difficulties. But the Supreme Court ruling has also prompted lots of protests, so maybe people will feel motivated to get involved?

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FreezeDriedStrawberries · 04/06/2025 10:51

Ok, I now need a drag garden gnome 😁
Sorry, as you were....

PlanetJanette · 04/06/2025 10:49

moggly · 26/05/2025 20:55

Will they be kicking lesbian women out of Pride marches again this year I wonder.

Who is they?

But don't be silly - there will be lots of lesbians at pride events across the country. Myself included. But hopefully those who are not supportive of LGBT+ rights are excluded, regardless of gender.

TheCatsTongue · 04/06/2025 10:29

The LTA is still fully on board with Pride Day Friday. At all tennis events on Fridays throughout June spectators are expected to wear rainbow, players have rainbow laces, spectators buy a lot of rainbow tat etc.

They're doing to show support for LGBT+ people and that they can play tennis too, because it's not as though there have ever been any multi Grand Slam winning lesbians...

TheCatsTongue · 03/06/2025 20:07

Pride is going the way of MacMillan coffee mornings, Movember and Christmas Jumper Day; dying out.

All of these things are trendy for about five years and then people get fed up.

outofdate · 03/06/2025 19:36

Nothing at all in my local Tesco. A big change from last year.

Beautifulweeds · 03/06/2025 18:32

Hopefully, a whole month is ridiculous! I've always been pro freedom and rights for all, but even my lbgtq friends agree it's a farce to go on for so long. Lots of other important causes which barely get a day, and so many now, most people don't even know about them.

LarkspurLane · 03/06/2025 18:27

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 26/05/2025 22:09

It was worse to start with This was the first Facebook post, apparently.

I wonder if it's ok for trans people who don't support lesbians to have their own spaces are allowed to be there?

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 03/06/2025 18:09

‘Contrast to last year when my local council was putting Pride flags up anywhere and everywhere that had a flagpole. We've been taken over by Reform now, who I imagine have put a stop to that.’

I think Reform councils have decided that only the Union Flag and the English cross of St. George can been flown from publicly funded buildings. It wasn’t targeted at ‘Pride’ but at the secessionist flags and those declaring political allegiance to non British countries and / or organisations.

LarkspurLane · 03/06/2025 18:05

Got a message from DD's college about "pronouns" and how important they are. Nothing about what Pride was originally about just a message (quoting mermaids) about how to be kind and not misgender people.

I live not that far from Stroud, I will be avoiding their Pride celebrations as I am on their list of people not welcome.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 03/06/2025 18:05

Joystir59 · 03/06/2025 09:22

I think in a world where it's still a punishable offence to be gay, Pride still has a place as a campaigning annual march, to show support and solidarity.

I didn’t think they had Pride in those countries.

GardenGaff · 03/06/2025 18:02

The only Pride stuff I've seen so far this month is in my local library which has a they/them young woman working there.

She was dressed like a rainbow had thrown up on her yesterday, she was wearing a badge the size of a dinner plate displaying her pronouns, and she had a small flag on the back of her computer.

Contrast to last year when my local council was putting Pride flags up anywhere and everywhere that had a flagpole. We've been taken over by Reform now, who I imagine have put a stop to that.

2Rebecca · 03/06/2025 17:56

I have noticed very little but have now retired and my main contractor NHS Fife were the worst offender for sticking Pride and trans stuff in to NHS Fife screensavers via the intranet newsletters and just about everything they sent. It always went on for far longer than a month as well.

MargaretMarigold · 03/06/2025 17:56

I’ve only seen a couple of flags and they are the basic rainbow flag not the one with all the new bits.

ErrolTheDragon · 03/06/2025 17:21

RainbowZebraWarrior · 03/06/2025 16:42

Indeed. And it still would very much have an important place, if it had been allowed to remain as it's original incarnation, which was specifically Gay Pride.

Yes, rather than ‘straight shameless’, which seems to more aptly describe some of the folx nowadays.

RainbowZebraWarrior · 03/06/2025 16:42

Joystir59 · 03/06/2025 09:22

I think in a world where it's still a punishable offence to be gay, Pride still has a place as a campaigning annual march, to show support and solidarity.

Indeed. And it still would very much have an important place, if it had been allowed to remain as it's original incarnation, which was specifically Gay Pride.

SquashedMallow · 03/06/2025 15:56

Enough4me · 03/06/2025 15:47

I used to understand Pride as celebrating being proud to be openly homosexual and fighting for inclusively, because there was a time gay people were discriminated against.
With the inclusion of heterosexual people pretending to be the opposite sex wanting homosexual to accept them, it's a mess.

Also, straight (sometimes "bi-curious" as a "get in") women attending (with their kids) en masse to virtue signal. It gets on my nerves as a straight person, it must really jar if you're gay.

ErrolTheDragon · 03/06/2025 15:48

Im inclined to give the straightforward rainbow flag the benefit of the doubt - it may at least sometimes show a bit of resistance to the newfangled one with extra bits on it.

CandidAquaFinch · 03/06/2025 15:48

SquashedMallow · 03/06/2025 12:12

I think pride has been taken over by straight men with mascara and false nails on looking for a 'fellow lesbian ' to date

I’ve noticed that too, or at least a version of it. It feels like the original purpose of Pride, visibility, rights, and solidarity, has gotten blurred by a lot of unrelated agendas. I think many people still go with good intentions, but it’s hard to ignore how the tone and focus have shifted in recent years.

Enough4me · 03/06/2025 15:47

I used to understand Pride as celebrating being proud to be openly homosexual and fighting for inclusively, because there was a time gay people were discriminated against.
With the inclusion of heterosexual people pretending to be the opposite sex wanting homosexual to accept them, it's a mess.

Datun · 03/06/2025 15:46

Bobbymoore123 · 27/05/2025 18:14

Do you know what homophobia is?

Yes, thank you.

orangegato · 03/06/2025 15:42

If I see a pride flag emblazoned on any establishment they can FRO. Shops, coffee shops, marketing emails, anything I will never spend my money there. I have a large FRO list in my head at this point.

(as in Fuck Right Off)

I support LGB anything but their flag has been stolen from them and now serves only to really piss me off.

SquashedMallow · 03/06/2025 12:12

I think pride has been taken over by straight men with mascara and false nails on looking for a 'fellow lesbian ' to date

JollyUnblemishedRecord · 03/06/2025 09:36

I live in Surrey, where Pride in Surrey is still posting all over Facebook. Usually their posts are followed by people posting the news articles about the founder of Pride in Surrey and a volunteer of PiS being convicted of serial offences last year. But they still post like it didn't happen.

Joystir59 · 03/06/2025 09:22

I think in a world where it's still a punishable offence to be gay, Pride still has a place as a campaigning annual march, to show support and solidarity.

Joystir59 · 03/06/2025 09:20

Neuropianist · 26/05/2025 21:09

Had the misfortune to bump into one last year. It doesn’t represent me at all as a gay woman - it was a funny mixture of straight families with kids, people selling lewd T-shirts with dicks on them and men in skirts. I sincerely hope these events either stop being straight pride or they stop altogether. I’d be happy if the funding completely goes and people get bored of it.

Ditto, Pride long ago stopped being a march by LGB people to campaign for the rights of LGB people and celebrate our existence. The last one I went to with my wife was in 2019 and was full of big companies with floats being woke, transactivists, men in drag and gimp, straight families. Plain and simple lesbians were hardly there at all.