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Kellie Jay Keen

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Beebop2025 · 18/05/2025 11:05

Just watched KJK talking about all things trans on a Tanya De Grunwald podcast ( great podcast) - she says she is banned from mumsnet? I just wondered why she was banned.

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BigBlueSocks · 01/03/2026 18:58

lcakethereforeIam · 01/03/2026 17:02

@AdultHumanF It's a quandary. If I'm adding to a thread that isn't the freshest I generally acknowledge that in my post.

We've had a silly goose reviving a bunch of ancient threads, you may have been mistaken as being part of that.

'Silly goose'
Love that, @IcakethereforeIam - haven't heard it for years!!!
Yes - noticed the Zombie revivalist too 🙄

FallenSloppyDead3 · 01/03/2026 18:22

AdultHumanF · 01/03/2026 12:46

I’ve been a fan of KJK for years, but I’m a bit upset with her recent steer towards racial politics. So many of her posts the last few weeks are attacking Muslims or the BAFTAs n-word incident.

Don't read her posts then🙄She says she is not a feminist, if you're worried she'll give feminists a bad name😱

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 01/03/2026 17:05

Slightly off topic, but, I’ve just read (on X) that John was very badly beaten by a man, after John tic’d in a pub.

Poor bastard. I worry about his mental health being in the eye of the storm in this way.

lcakethereforeIam · 01/03/2026 17:02

@AdultHumanF It's a quandary. If I'm adding to a thread that isn't the freshest I generally acknowledge that in my post.

We've had a silly goose reviving a bunch of ancient threads, you may have been mistaken as being part of that.

AdultHumanF · 01/03/2026 16:25

If I start a new thread, I’ll likely be met with a chorus of “Why didn’t you add this to the millions of other threads on KJK?”

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DeanElderberry · 01/03/2026 14:50

Then start a new thread to add your new wisdom.

AdultHumanF · 01/03/2026 14:37

Not really? The thread is less than a year old and contains a lot of the same points I’m making?

elgreco · 01/03/2026 12:51

Zombie

AdultHumanF · 01/03/2026 12:46

I’ve been a fan of KJK for years, but I’m a bit upset with her recent steer towards racial politics. So many of her posts the last few weeks are attacking Muslims or the BAFTAs n-word incident.

gruebleen · 26/07/2025 21:52

ChocolateGanache · 18/05/2025 11:57

She’s quite far right Christian aligned as well as being GC. Not the best advert for the cause of feminism!

She doesn't claim to be a feminist.

I think she's wrong about that, but just for the record.

Datun · 26/07/2025 21:36

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 26/07/2025 12:48

Wow…I hope none of you people are ever in a position where you need to hire or interview someone.

Maybe instead of just getting your information about trans people from mumsnet, you should look up the reason why GR was included in the EA in the first place and the reasoning behind it.

Even looking more closely at red flags for someone who is part of a PC group is unlawful.

It was Stonewall who said cross-dressing men were part of the trans umbrella. Not Mumsnet!

It shouldn't be a protected characteristic.

NapoleonsToe · 26/07/2025 15:56

ChocolateGanache · 18/05/2025 11:57

She’s quite far right Christian aligned as well as being GC. Not the best advert for the cause of feminism!

This is lazy inaccurate nonsense.

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 26/07/2025 15:14

AnnaFrith · 26/07/2025 14:45

Like everyone else here, I wouldn't not hire someone because they were trans, but I would avoid hiring anyone who presented at interview as a narcissistic pain in the arse.

If you think that would be discriminatory its saying something about how you perceive trans people.

Oh please, you can’t play an uno reverse card and claim I’m the one saying that trans people are narcissistic after everything that’s been said on this thread.

There’s clear bias here and I wouldn’t trust a single person on this thread to make a fair decision if a trans person was on a panel. Which is why it’s so important to still have GR as a PC.

AnnaFrith · 26/07/2025 14:45

Like everyone else here, I wouldn't not hire someone because they were trans, but I would avoid hiring anyone who presented at interview as a narcissistic pain in the arse.

If you think that would be discriminatory its saying something about how you perceive trans people.

SternJoyousBee · 26/07/2025 14:32

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 26/07/2025 14:13

I wouldn’t avoid it no, because I understand the EA and that gender critical views are a PC.

What part of ‘you can’t choose not to hire someone because of a protected characteristic’ don’t you understand?

What part of “it would be discriminatory to not employ a trans person just because they are trans.” don’t you understand?

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 26/07/2025 14:13

SternJoyousBee · 26/07/2025 13:54

Don’t pretend that you wouldn’t avoid employing a GC if you owned your own business.

it would be discriminatory to not employ a trans person just because they are trans. But if they are using activist language or behaving in a way at interview or show signs in their application that they would be disruptive in the workplace and cause problems for the business then they should absolutely be given a swerve.

I wouldn’t avoid it no, because I understand the EA and that gender critical views are a PC.

What part of ‘you can’t choose not to hire someone because of a protected characteristic’ don’t you understand?

SternJoyousBee · 26/07/2025 13:54

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 26/07/2025 12:48

Wow…I hope none of you people are ever in a position where you need to hire or interview someone.

Maybe instead of just getting your information about trans people from mumsnet, you should look up the reason why GR was included in the EA in the first place and the reasoning behind it.

Even looking more closely at red flags for someone who is part of a PC group is unlawful.

Don’t pretend that you wouldn’t avoid employing a GC if you owned your own business.

it would be discriminatory to not employ a trans person just because they are trans. But if they are using activist language or behaving in a way at interview or show signs in their application that they would be disruptive in the workplace and cause problems for the business then they should absolutely be given a swerve.

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 26/07/2025 12:48

Wow…I hope none of you people are ever in a position where you need to hire or interview someone.

Maybe instead of just getting your information about trans people from mumsnet, you should look up the reason why GR was included in the EA in the first place and the reasoning behind it.

Even looking more closely at red flags for someone who is part of a PC group is unlawful.

Datun · 26/07/2025 09:16

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 25/07/2025 12:40

Gender Reassignment is still a protected characteristic under the equality act.

Not giving a trans person a job because of things you’ve read about trans people online is unlawful, even if it’s ‘quietly giv[ing] a swerve’.

When a significant number of trans people are men with a sexual fetish that demands public participation, you have to ask yourself why the bloody hell it is a protected characteristic, though.

SpidersAreShitheads · 25/07/2025 17:44

SidewaysOtter · 25/07/2025 12:50

I'm not saying I would do that, I'm saying I can see why someone else would feel that way. And I've made clear that I don't necessarily agree with KJK on everything she says.

I absolutely would. If someone seems as if they’re going to be a pain in the arse and cause disruption/be unreasonably difficult I would manage to find a legal reason to give them a swerve. I’d do that with anyone who seemed awkward tbh - why would you make life deliberately difficult for yourself and everyone else?

I know everyone likes to pretend they’re a paragon of virtue but if someone seems like a pain in the arse at an interview, in reality, not many people will hire them. Peaceful working conditions are important. Some trans/NB people might come over really well and be lovely - in which case, great. But given the huge problems many within that community have caused, I’d be looking very closely for any red flags.

I am increasingly uncomfortable with many of KJK’s views too. But absolutely, on women’s rights, she is (usually) unflinching. The sole exception being her enthusiastic endorsement of the orange rapist.

SidewaysOtter · 25/07/2025 12:50

I'm not saying I would do that, I'm saying I can see why someone else would feel that way. And I've made clear that I don't necessarily agree with KJK on everything she says.

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 25/07/2025 12:40

SidewaysOtter · 25/05/2025 09:53

As PPs have said, there was a context to that clip.

I’ve seen a couple of threads on MN, one referencing a term used in HR circles of “HMH” meaning High Maintenance Hire, or people who are going to be/become troublemakers. Another thread was from a parent wondering why her child, who had pronouns on their CV and announced their non-binary status at interviews, wasn’t getting a job.

I don’t want to see trans people shut out of society and unable to get a job or rent a house, but - given the tantrums, the bullying and the victimhood that goes on - I can see why people would quietly give a swerve to someone they suspect is going to complain about being misgendered by colleagues, or be the sort of person who rings you at 3am because the kitchen lightbulb has gone and they don’t see why they should change it themselves.

But this brings us back to the central theme of this thread - I don’t agree with everything KJK says (and if I’d had a fraction of the flack she has, maybe I’d be that bloody angry too) but that doesn’t mean agreeing with her on other things is a tacit endorsement of every opinion or that she should be “cancelled” for saying something I don’t like.

Gender Reassignment is still a protected characteristic under the equality act.

Not giving a trans person a job because of things you’ve read about trans people online is unlawful, even if it’s ‘quietly giv[ing] a swerve’.

illinivich · 25/07/2025 10:24

I remember seeing a tv programme, maybe in the 80s where the older women kept forgetting to use the head scarves and had to be reminded by their daughters.

EdithStourton · 25/07/2025 09:57

Ereshkigalangcleg · 02/06/2025 10:12

I’ve always found these photos so chilling.

They make me unutterably sad.