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Real life handmaids tale: Adriana Smith

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Burntt · 16/05/2025 20:21

is there a thread on this yet?

Adriana smith is brain dead and her family want to turn the machines off. But because this is Georgia she is being kept on life support because she was pregnant. The fetus has fluid on the brain is highly likely to be disabled. The family who want to turn the life support off will be liable for the medical bills and care for the child.

this was also an episode of handmaids tale.

A corpse literally has more rights than her as you cannot use a corpses organs without consent.

I don’t really know what to say other than I’m disgusted at the treatment of this poor woman and her family. I came here looking for a thread and didn’t see one, sorry if I missed it

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Anothernamechange23gfdd · 17/06/2025 20:13

Babyboomtastic · 17/06/2025 18:58

It's a decent weight for that gestation.
Baby was born at 25/26 weeks rather than 40, hence the low weight.

Hopefully baby will be fine and will love a long happy life. It's a tragic situation, but at least mum can be properly laid to rest now.

Sorry did not see that part. So after all this they take babe out at 25 weeks!?

I assume then they started to see problems. This is on the cusp of viability no?

Honestly I am so angry about this now. They have used this child and mother as an experiment. I hope the baby survives and lives a healthy life. But what if they don’t?!

ShesTheAlbatross · 17/06/2025 20:10

Anothernamechange23gfdd · 17/06/2025 18:44

1lb 3oz! Is that correct?

I thought babies on average were 7lb 7.

If that’s the case then this is beyond the pale. It was awful to begin with as the family should have been able to make a decision as to what the mother would have likely wished in the event the baby could be born healthy. However 1lb 3oz! Surely they would have known that from scans. That is not a healthy weight and no doubt indicates serious issues?

I just; there are no words. That poor woman. They could have gone together and atleast they would always be together.

1lb 13oz. And very early. I assume something happened medically that meant they had to deliver the baby.

GlamOrc · 17/06/2025 19:34

I could see an argument being made for this if the woman was very nearly to term or had stipulated before that she would want this to happen.

This case is absolutely horrific.

IwantToRetire · 17/06/2025 19:29

CurlewKate · 17/06/2025 19:17

Presumably he’s got nothing to say-he had no rights in the case any more than Adriana’s family have.

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Does he not have rights as the father?

I am not particularly speaking up for him, but just saying it seems really strange.

Well lets just hope that all those who decided the pregnancy should continue will be as concerned about the child's future.

CurlewKate · 17/06/2025 19:17

IwantToRetire · 17/06/2025 19:08

Still find it strange that her boyfriend, presumably the father, has not featured in any of the reporting.

Presumably he’s got nothing to say-he had no rights in the case any more than Adriana’s family have.

BreatheAndFocus · 17/06/2025 19:12

Anothernamechange23gfdd · 17/06/2025 18:44

1lb 3oz! Is that correct?

I thought babies on average were 7lb 7.

If that’s the case then this is beyond the pale. It was awful to begin with as the family should have been able to make a decision as to what the mother would have likely wished in the event the baby could be born healthy. However 1lb 3oz! Surely they would have known that from scans. That is not a healthy weight and no doubt indicates serious issues?

I just; there are no words. That poor woman. They could have gone together and atleast they would always be together.

The baby was born very prematurely. 7lb 7 is the average weight of a baby born at 40weeks. 1lb 13oz is a reasonable weight for a very prem baby born at 25/26 weeks.

IwantToRetire · 17/06/2025 19:08

Still find it strange that her boyfriend, presumably the father, has not featured in any of the reporting.

IwantToRetire · 17/06/2025 19:07

However 1lb 3oz! Surely they would have known that from scans. That is not a healthy weight and no doubt indicates serious issues?

I cant remember if it is on this thread, but certainly in articles there was real concern not just at the keeping Adriana alive, but in fact the inference was that her body was not longer functioning well, and suspect they went ahead with the delivery because they doubted the baby would grow any bigger. I think they planned at 32 weeks?

But all of it is totally grotesque.

Babyboomtastic · 17/06/2025 18:58

Anothernamechange23gfdd · 17/06/2025 18:44

1lb 3oz! Is that correct?

I thought babies on average were 7lb 7.

If that’s the case then this is beyond the pale. It was awful to begin with as the family should have been able to make a decision as to what the mother would have likely wished in the event the baby could be born healthy. However 1lb 3oz! Surely they would have known that from scans. That is not a healthy weight and no doubt indicates serious issues?

I just; there are no words. That poor woman. They could have gone together and atleast they would always be together.

It's a decent weight for that gestation.
Baby was born at 25/26 weeks rather than 40, hence the low weight.

Hopefully baby will be fine and will love a long happy life. It's a tragic situation, but at least mum can be properly laid to rest now.

Anothernamechange23gfdd · 17/06/2025 18:44

1lb 3oz! Is that correct?

I thought babies on average were 7lb 7.

If that’s the case then this is beyond the pale. It was awful to begin with as the family should have been able to make a decision as to what the mother would have likely wished in the event the baby could be born healthy. However 1lb 3oz! Surely they would have known that from scans. That is not a healthy weight and no doubt indicates serious issues?

I just; there are no words. That poor woman. They could have gone together and atleast they would always be together.

ShesTheAlbatross · 17/06/2025 18:33

The baby has been delivered by c section. 1lb 13oz. And I think around 25/26 weeks gestation.

IwantToRetire · 17/06/2025 18:32

The baby has been delivered by caeserean weighing 1lb 13oz.

Although not in this news report apparently Adriana's life support was turned off today.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c1jwl9l9yneo

File image of a sign for Emory Hospital in Atlanta

Baby of brain-dead woman delivered in Georgia, woman's mother says

The woman was being kept on life support because of Georgia's strict abortion laws.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c1jwl9l9yneo

MatildaMovesMountains · 19/05/2025 08:00

colourmystic · 19/05/2025 02:03

You can choose :)

🙄

colourmystic · 19/05/2025 02:03

MatildaMovesMountains · 18/05/2025 20:25

Theorem? Or theory? They're not the same thing.

You can choose :)

MatildaMovesMountains · 18/05/2025 20:25

colourmystic · 18/05/2025 14:30

'Classic conspiracy theory' sounds like a classic effort to pre-emptively discredit a theorem before making any effort to investigate its potential veracity.

Theorem? Or theory? They're not the same thing.

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 18/05/2025 14:52

colourmystic · 18/05/2025 14:30

'Classic conspiracy theory' sounds like a classic effort to pre-emptively discredit a theorem before making any effort to investigate its potential veracity.

Some theories don’t merit the time and effort of investigation. I didn’t have to investigate the conspiracy theories about Covid and the vaccine to know they weren’t true

colourmystic · 18/05/2025 14:30

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 18/05/2025 11:48

Sounds like a classic conspiracy theory

'Classic conspiracy theory' sounds like a classic effort to pre-emptively discredit a theorem before making any effort to investigate its potential veracity.

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 18/05/2025 11:48

colourmystic · 18/05/2025 09:32

Slower than one would think. Some incredibly astute women, been lucky to meet a few, recognised back in 1994 that this was all coming, and have been working all this time to halt it. Way back then, absolutely everyone ridiculed those women, me included. If only I'd listened.

Sounds like a classic conspiracy theory

MatildaMovesMountains · 18/05/2025 11:35

colourmystic · 18/05/2025 09:32

Slower than one would think. Some incredibly astute women, been lucky to meet a few, recognised back in 1994 that this was all coming, and have been working all this time to halt it. Way back then, absolutely everyone ridiculed those women, me included. If only I'd listened.

And how is the gender issue related? Anti-abortion people are also violently antitrans, anti-gay etc.?

MatildaMovesMountains · 18/05/2025 11:33

colourmystic · 18/05/2025 09:32

Slower than one would think. Some incredibly astute women, been lucky to meet a few, recognised back in 1994 that this was all coming, and have been working all this time to halt it. Way back then, absolutely everyone ridiculed those women, me included. If only I'd listened.

What happened in 1994?

colourmystic · 18/05/2025 09:32

MatildaMovesMountains · 18/05/2025 08:06

Well that escalated quickly 😳

Slower than one would think. Some incredibly astute women, been lucky to meet a few, recognised back in 1994 that this was all coming, and have been working all this time to halt it. Way back then, absolutely everyone ridiculed those women, me included. If only I'd listened.

MatildaMovesMountains · 18/05/2025 08:06

colourmystic · 18/05/2025 01:53

This is why - part of why - I say all this gender stuff and the erosion of women's rights was planned.
They want to learn if they can use non-sentient women's bodies as reproductive machines.

Well that escalated quickly 😳

Tbrh · 18/05/2025 05:44

The cyncic in me says this is nothing to do with the baby. Its an opportunity for an experiment, abhorrent that the family has been made to fund it

colourmystic · 18/05/2025 05:06

CurlewKate · 18/05/2025 04:46

You can only think this is acceptable if you also think women are passive incubators.

And these 'baby at all costs ' approaches never centre child wellbeing anyway. What kind of a life could one have, learning eventually that your mother was effectively deceased while you grew?
Donahue and Levitt argued decades ago that the drop in u.s. crime rates in the 1990s could be traced to the legalisation of abortion in the 70s. This supports the point that forcing unwilling women to raise unwanted children doesn't work well for the kids either. It's a dreadful idea, forcing women who don't want to be mothers, to raise children they didn't plan for.

CurlewKate · 18/05/2025 04:46

You can only think this is acceptable if you also think women are passive incubators.