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An update to the WI Announcement thread. My DH just got a reply to his application to join them.

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Another2Cats · 12/05/2025 19:49

This is not a thread about a thread, but recently there was a thread about the Womens Institute announcement that they would not be implementing the SC ruling anytime soon.

I was reading the thread at the time and, entirely jokingly, I suggested to my DH that he should apply to join the WI and see what they say.

So he did just that (he totally gets the GC point of view) and I posted about this at the time:

Another2Cats · 08/05/2025 19:45

I just got my DH to send an email to them:

Hello,

My name is Xxxx (very obviously masculine name). I just read your transgender policy and understand that you accept men.

I am a man and would like to join the local WI group in [xxxx city] (the nearest branch for me is in yyyy [suburb of xxxx city]).

Should I just turn up next Wednesday evening and sign up?

I'm really waiting with bated breath to see what sort of response there is.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5330297-womens-institute-announcement?reply=144143149
.

Well, it turns out that they sent a response this lunchtime.

This is their reply (although with contact details redacted):

Good morning,

Thank you for your enquiry. Our policy states that “WI membership is open to all women who live as women, including transgender women.” If you fit within this statement, you will be more than welcome to attend. I am afraid the WI is not open to men.

Kind regards,

[Redacted]

[Name Redacted]
Federation Secretary
[Two cities - well, a city and a town - redacted] Federation of WIs CIO
[Address redacted]
[Telephone number redacted]
Office hours: Tues, Weds, Thurs 9am – 1pm

Please note the new email address – [Redacted]
.

I don't know, is this something that DH should take up with the EHRC now that he has it in writing?

Women’s institute announcement | Mumsnet

Published earlier today.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5330297-womens-institute-announcement

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WorkingItOutAsIGo · 03/07/2025 15:53

Datun · 03/07/2025 15:47

Yes, I can easily see that happening.

It's just so ironic, not to mention bloody galling, that it's happening to an organisation who are meant to specifically to empower women.

I've said it often here before - this isn't ironic, it's a feature. They deliberately target women only activities especially those designed to foster independence and confidence, because that's what threatens men. It's why they target Guides, women-only swimming, women's sport and so on.

Datun · 03/07/2025 15:47

TheOtherRaven · 03/07/2025 15:27

I have seen lectures on how women should immediately surrender all leadership positions to the men with trans identities as a sign of commitment, loyalty and obedience to the most oppressed and righteous.

This is why lesbian groups - often having initially believed in the be kind, be nice, they're just women like you bullshit - went underground to escape. Instantly everything has to be all about men with trans identities, the original purpose of the group and the interests of everyone else are dismissed and rejected on the spot. Then there's bafflement from said men that they are not liked or wanted and women get angry and won't let them in to wreck other groups.

It's like that bit from friends. Men are Here. Make Fire. Pee all over it. Not get invited back.

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Yes, I can easily see that happening.

It's just so ironic, not to mention bloody galling, that it's happening to an organisation who are meant to specifically to empower women.

TheOtherRaven · 03/07/2025 15:27

I have seen lectures on how women should immediately surrender all leadership positions to the men with trans identities as a sign of commitment, loyalty and obedience to the most oppressed and righteous.

This is why lesbian groups - often having initially believed in the be kind, be nice, they're just women like you bullshit - went underground to escape. Instantly everything has to be all about men with trans identities, the original purpose of the group and the interests of everyone else are dismissed and rejected on the spot. Then there's bafflement from said men that they are not liked or wanted and women get angry and won't let them in to wreck other groups.

It's like that bit from friends. Men are Here. Make Fire. Pee all over it. Not get invited back.

Datun · 03/07/2025 14:51

Marmaladelover · 01/07/2025 20:37

@AlexandraLeaving

Yes there is provision for positive action to address disadvantage and that MIGHT make it possible for some (non-charitable) associations to be trans-inclusive if they so chose (though I have not fully been down that rabbit hole

I don’t think so unless they were a mixed sex organisation already. Otherwise there will always be discrimination against other men.
Positive action can only ever be training or targeted events to encourage participation eg in positions of responsibility .

I hardly think that they could prove that transwomen need to be encouraged into taking more senior roles in the WI - they are managing that quite well by themselves thank you very much - as fed board members , as officers in WI branches and even as a prospective national board member.

It’s part of the massive problem they cause —besides just being men in an all women organisation—.

I'd love to see a fly on the wall documentary analysing exactly how this comes about.

Do women defer to them? Do the men coerce the women? And how are they better than the women - at running a women's organisation, for women?

I'd love to see how it actually pans out. Because it's a common refrain. That as soon as men enter an organisation, they leapfrog over women to get to the top.

FatCyclist · 02/07/2025 11:18

RareGoalsVerge · 01/07/2025 07:28

Why would that be bad?

Isn't it right that organisations must be specific about who they are for, and mustn't purport to be single-sex while actually being mixed sex?

There's no problem with there existing a mixed sex organisation that runs educational and charitable activities for all in a similar way to the WI.

Charities in particular, if founded for the specific purpose of addressing the disadvantages that women face relative it men - and especially charities that have capital assets that were donated to them as a single sex sex organisation, cannot decide to become mixed sex without a proper process to redefine theur charitable objectives which should be overseen by the Charities Commission, and will include an impact assessment to ensure that they properly think about what women and girls will lose if they do.

A specific ruling that all charitable organisations founded for the benefit of women and girls must either go through this process and become an officially mixed sex organisation or must restrict their activities to the benefit of female people sounds great to me. If a lot of them choose option 1 then that will provide a clarity that will allow women to organise opportunities for women that don't currently exist because there are organisations pretending to be single sex whilst not being so.

I suspect that if the WI became officially mixed sex, then TIMs would have no interest in becoming members…

AlexandraLeaving · 01/07/2025 20:58

Marmaladelover · 01/07/2025 20:37

@AlexandraLeaving

Yes there is provision for positive action to address disadvantage and that MIGHT make it possible for some (non-charitable) associations to be trans-inclusive if they so chose (though I have not fully been down that rabbit hole

I don’t think so unless they were a mixed sex organisation already. Otherwise there will always be discrimination against other men.
Positive action can only ever be training or targeted events to encourage participation eg in positions of responsibility .

I hardly think that they could prove that transwomen need to be encouraged into taking more senior roles in the WI - they are managing that quite well by themselves thank you very much - as fed board members , as officers in WI branches and even as a prospective national board member.

It’s part of the massive problem they cause —besides just being men in an all women organisation—.

Yes you are probably right. As I said, I had not fully explored that rabbit hole and I agree with your analysis. I was just trying to cover the point about it being irrelevant given the WI’s charitable objects. It all seems like a waste of time. Quelle surprise.

Marmaladelover · 01/07/2025 20:37

@AlexandraLeaving

Yes there is provision for positive action to address disadvantage and that MIGHT make it possible for some (non-charitable) associations to be trans-inclusive if they so chose (though I have not fully been down that rabbit hole

I don’t think so unless they were a mixed sex organisation already. Otherwise there will always be discrimination against other men.
Positive action can only ever be training or targeted events to encourage participation eg in positions of responsibility .

I hardly think that they could prove that transwomen need to be encouraged into taking more senior roles in the WI - they are managing that quite well by themselves thank you very much - as fed board members , as officers in WI branches and even as a prospective national board member.

It’s part of the massive problem they cause —besides just being men in an all women organisation—.

JanesLittleGirl · 01/07/2025 20:29

suresuresuresure · 01/07/2025 19:41

Please can you let me know the law firm.

I have a lawyer here and he’s outraged

I was so tempted to say Sue, Grabbitt & Runne.

suresuresuresure · 01/07/2025 19:43

suresuresuresure · 01/07/2025 19:41

Please can you let me know the law firm.

I have a lawyer here and he’s outraged

We got it don’t worry

suresuresuresure · 01/07/2025 19:41

Please can you let me know the law firm.

I have a lawyer here and he’s outraged

AlexandraLeaving · 01/07/2025 19:29

I don’t see how they could make the s158 argument work in this case. Yes there is provision for positive action to address disadvantage and that MIGHT make it possible for some (non-charitable) associations to be trans-inclusive if they so chose (though I have not fully been down that rabbit hole). But the WI is a charity, so is bound by charity law and its own articles of association/constituion, which says it exists to promote the interest (or whatever) of women and girls. So they could not be TW-inclusive (though could be TM-inclusive) unless they change their charitable objects (which would require a membership vote and permission of the Charity Commission - not impossible, but could not be taken for granted).

KnottyAuty · 01/07/2025 19:27

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Theeyeballsinthesky · 01/07/2025 18:43

Marmaladelover · 01/07/2025 18:40

She is and stood as a PCC candidate at an election in 2013 I think. Her pro trans views are well documented on the Internet. But there are others too. Present Chair for example.

Virtuous circle of agreement and chilling effect in action

if someone didn’t agree as a trustee or staff member with WI decision to allow men I wonder how free they would have felt to have voiced that view….

Marmaladelover · 01/07/2025 18:40

Theeyeballsinthesky · 01/07/2025 18:32

I note one of the members of their senior staff team is also a Lib Dem councillor.

lib dems attitude to GC women and cheerleading of TW is well documented

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She is and stood as a PCC candidate at an election in 2013 I think. Her pro trans views are well documented on the Internet. But there are others too. Present Chair for example.

Merrymouse · 01/07/2025 18:34

From the GLP page linked above.

For example, access to single-sex cubicle toilets (i.e. toilets that are in cubicles, rather than a separate lockable room) may depend upon whether you have a GRC because the meaning of “sex” in the Workplace (Health and Safety) Regulations 1992 may be governed by the GRA

Michael Foran said this is not true because the rationale behind the SC decision applies to all laws . IANAL - I think there was a specific legal reason for this - but also it seems like common sense. Why would sex have a different meaning in different statutes?

Theeyeballsinthesky · 01/07/2025 18:32

Marmaladelover · 01/07/2025 18:09

Message to MG the CEO of NFWI as I presume you are still reading this thread.

Another novel idea ( but better than that s158 one) : Get some decent legal advice from someone who actually specialises in Equality law - maybe a barrister even ( hint not the GLP who don’t have a great success rate in this field ) or

Another novel idea : why not save the unnecessary wasting of our funds and take heed of what Kier Starmer said yesterday and just implement the Supreme Court decision?

I note one of the members of their senior staff team is also a Lib Dem councillor.

lib dems attitude to GC women and cheerleading of TW is well documented

Marmaladelover · 01/07/2025 18:27

Merrymouse · 01/07/2025 18:16

If it’s discriminatory to include only some men, then surely what they are asking for is positive discrimination, which is illegal?

Yes

Merrymouse · 01/07/2025 18:16

Marmaladelover · 01/07/2025 17:31

Been delving a bit about this novel s158 idea that the solicitors presented in their phone all last Friday to the OPs husband. It’s on the Good Law Project website ( along with lots more crap. They boast their crap guidance was drawn up by a KC and team of other barristers which is supposed to impress us until you realise that the KC is Jolyon Maughan who specialises in tax law . So it looks like Bate and Wells are getting their advice from GLP or just accessing their FAQ as I did. .

I will post a couple of screenshots from the page but in the meantime here is the link to the page .

https://goodlawproject.org/resource/trans-inclusion-after-the-supreme-court-decision-faqs/

If it’s discriminatory to include only some men, then surely what they are asking for is positive discrimination, which is illegal?

Marmaladelover · 01/07/2025 18:09

Message to MG the CEO of NFWI as I presume you are still reading this thread.

Another novel idea ( but better than that s158 one) : Get some decent legal advice from someone who actually specialises in Equality law - maybe a barrister even ( hint not the GLP who don’t have a great success rate in this field ) or

Another novel idea : why not save the unnecessary wasting of our funds and take heed of what Kier Starmer said yesterday and just implement the Supreme Court decision?

TheOtherRaven · 01/07/2025 18:03

I'm getting really quite curious as to what's going on there.

akkakk · 01/07/2025 17:53

Fascinating thank you - it is interesting that having been given such amazing advice including by a Kings Counsel no less - the GLP statement is so full of maybe and we believe and other clear clauses to give an impression without committing to a point of view! The one thing that JM seems to be good at is giving himself escape clauses:

I didn’t promise - it was maybe and we believed, but sadly a lawyer came along and used the actual law as an answer, so I am sorry I seem to have lost your £400,000…

If there was a clear case against the SC judgement a) the judges themselves might have been aware and b) the GLP would be talking with far more certainty…

this is more of the same trend - say lots of things that aren’t quite true in a way which makes them sound authoritative and absolute and if you yell loud enough no other voice can be heard…

basically no case to answer!

Marmaladelover · 01/07/2025 17:31

Been delving a bit about this novel s158 idea that the solicitors presented in their phone all last Friday to the OPs husband. It’s on the Good Law Project website ( along with lots more crap. They boast their crap guidance was drawn up by a KC and team of other barristers which is supposed to impress us until you realise that the KC is Jolyon Maughan who specialises in tax law . So it looks like Bate and Wells are getting their advice from GLP or just accessing their FAQ as I did. .

I will post a couple of screenshots from the page but in the meantime here is the link to the page .

https://goodlawproject.org/resource/trans-inclusion-after-the-supreme-court-decision-faqs/

An update to the WI Announcement thread. My DH just got a reply to his application to join them.
An update to the WI Announcement thread. My DH just got a reply to his application to join them.
Bannedontherun · 01/07/2025 16:49

Excellent point knotty Women’s Aid had associate members who were not female led providers, many moons ago.

KnottyAuty · 01/07/2025 15:19

RareGoalsVerge · 01/07/2025 07:28

Why would that be bad?

Isn't it right that organisations must be specific about who they are for, and mustn't purport to be single-sex while actually being mixed sex?

There's no problem with there existing a mixed sex organisation that runs educational and charitable activities for all in a similar way to the WI.

Charities in particular, if founded for the specific purpose of addressing the disadvantages that women face relative it men - and especially charities that have capital assets that were donated to them as a single sex sex organisation, cannot decide to become mixed sex without a proper process to redefine theur charitable objectives which should be overseen by the Charities Commission, and will include an impact assessment to ensure that they properly think about what women and girls will lose if they do.

A specific ruling that all charitable organisations founded for the benefit of women and girls must either go through this process and become an officially mixed sex organisation or must restrict their activities to the benefit of female people sounds great to me. If a lot of them choose option 1 then that will provide a clarity that will allow women to organise opportunities for women that don't currently exist because there are organisations pretending to be single sex whilst not being so.

In the EHRC Consultation I specifically asked them to include an example of a single sex charity/association who had misapplied the law and had male members. With advice on how they might deal with this situation because they can’t be full members - and to clarify that any “associate memberships” would have to be open to all males if offered to trans women…. Given that this is a situation being faced by many organisations it would be very useful to have an example spelled out… fingers crossed

Grumpsy · 01/07/2025 13:44

suresuresuresure · 01/07/2025 13:27

The lawyers seem to be falling into the old trap believing that trans women are a subset of women as opposed to reality that they are a subset of men.

That’s it really. Nothing more.

The lawyers need to remember their legal training and remember how to interpret a SC judgement, it shouldn’t be that difficult for them, it’s really basic stuff.

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