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An update to the WI Announcement thread. My DH just got a reply to his application to join them.

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Another2Cats · 12/05/2025 19:49

This is not a thread about a thread, but recently there was a thread about the Womens Institute announcement that they would not be implementing the SC ruling anytime soon.

I was reading the thread at the time and, entirely jokingly, I suggested to my DH that he should apply to join the WI and see what they say.

So he did just that (he totally gets the GC point of view) and I posted about this at the time:

Another2Cats · 08/05/2025 19:45

I just got my DH to send an email to them:

Hello,

My name is Xxxx (very obviously masculine name). I just read your transgender policy and understand that you accept men.

I am a man and would like to join the local WI group in [xxxx city] (the nearest branch for me is in yyyy [suburb of xxxx city]).

Should I just turn up next Wednesday evening and sign up?

I'm really waiting with bated breath to see what sort of response there is.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5330297-womens-institute-announcement?reply=144143149
.

Well, it turns out that they sent a response this lunchtime.

This is their reply (although with contact details redacted):

Good morning,

Thank you for your enquiry. Our policy states that “WI membership is open to all women who live as women, including transgender women.” If you fit within this statement, you will be more than welcome to attend. I am afraid the WI is not open to men.

Kind regards,

[Redacted]

[Name Redacted]
Federation Secretary
[Two cities - well, a city and a town - redacted] Federation of WIs CIO
[Address redacted]
[Telephone number redacted]
Office hours: Tues, Weds, Thurs 9am – 1pm

Please note the new email address – [Redacted]
.

I don't know, is this something that DH should take up with the EHRC now that he has it in writing?

Women’s institute announcement | Mumsnet

Published earlier today.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5330297-womens-institute-announcement

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RedNine · 15/07/2025 22:43

Thank you wims for finding, exploring and explaining the EDI policy, super grateful.

Bannedontherun · 15/07/2025 22:42

MyAmpleSheep · 15/07/2025 22:34

I think you have identified the core of the correct way to think of this. It’s not about who is included - it’s about who is excluded.

When you analyze who is not allowed to join the WI, the unlawful discrimination becomes clear.

Exactly. One cannot just set up a group of over fifteen people, be it on line or in the real world that excludes people without a bloody good reason.

MyAmpleSheep · 15/07/2025 22:34

Bannedontherun · 15/07/2025 21:25

I go back to Professor of Law Micheal Foran every time.

If you want to set up a group of any sort over 15 people, then as per the EQA you must include Everybody, from all sections of society be they disabled, of any ethnic group, sex, sexuality, etc. The EQA requires that.

If you want to set up an exclusive group in furtherance of some aim that is fair and reasonable, it must be related to a protected characteristic.

You could have a group specifically for two protected characteristics, such as a group for isolated older men, (who like sheds). So that is two protected characteristics that they must all share, age and sex.

I could not complain as a female who likes sheds.

The WI have included two protected characteristics, but the problem in law is, that, as an exclusive group all the members must share the two protected characteristics that they are including. Ie being a female and being a person who is or is undergoing transition. In order to comply with the EQA.

In other words they have no exemption under the EQA.that they can rely on.

The idea that they are furthering the disadvantages faced by “trans women” can only hold if they were the only membership.

That clause only applies to the existing membership group of a membership group which is lawful.

The EQA when drafted was designed to prevent groups and clubs forming and excluding people for no good reason, eg a club for able bodied white women who like JK Rowling.

Well that helped me cement my understanding if you can be arsed to read it LOL

I think you have identified the core of the correct way to think of this. It’s not about who is included - it’s about who is excluded.

When you analyze who is not allowed to join the WI, the unlawful discrimination becomes clear.

Gundogday · 15/07/2025 22:13

And I want to know what ‘living as a woman ‘ means as well. My six foot five son cooked the evening meal today, so does he qualify?

Gundogday · 15/07/2025 22:11

I’ve posted this before, but I’m going to post again. In the WI FAQ, the question is posed, ‘can men join the WI?’, and the answer is ‘no’. So you can’t have it both ways!

An update to the WI Announcement thread. My DH just got a reply to his application to join them.
drspouse · 15/07/2025 22:03

Yeah, they can't just make up protected characteristics.

Helleofabore · 15/07/2025 21:53

NotAtMyAge · 15/07/2025 20:34

"It offers trans women an acutely needed sense of community, solidarity, inclusion and validation with other women, as well as access to practical opportunities that they have not been or felt able to access. It offers a welcoming place where transgender women can connect with other women, socialise and learn together. As far as the Women’s Institute is aware, there is no other similar organisation for trans women that offers this space, and so it is unique. The Women’s Institute offers transgender women ultimate acceptance – a space where they are welcomed as women just as their fellow members are, with no need to justify their presence, and free from prejudice, discrimination and judgement"

Am I the only person rendered very angry by this blatant declaration by the leadership that ordinary female WI members are being consciously used to validate the inner womanly feelings of a subset of men? Though no longer a member of the WI, I was one a long time ago and valued very much the fact that it was an organisation founded, run and intended just for women and our interests, needs and concerns. I wouldn't touch it with a very long pole now.

PS Editing to say that you can count me in if any gardening were to be needed in the future. This one I would love to see in court.

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You are certainly not alone.

That women are consciously and deliberately used as validation resources for male people’s wants is disturbing. And to be led to believe it is kind to do so is red flag territory.

Bannedontherun · 15/07/2025 21:47

Also meant to say, they would have to change their governance document and remove the word woman as the SC ruling was clear on what the meaning of that word is.

it would have to be something like anybody interested in XYZ. To be compliant.

Bannedontherun · 15/07/2025 21:25

I go back to Professor of Law Micheal Foran every time.

If you want to set up a group of any sort over 15 people, then as per the EQA you must include Everybody, from all sections of society be they disabled, of any ethnic group, sex, sexuality, etc. The EQA requires that.

If you want to set up an exclusive group in furtherance of some aim that is fair and reasonable, it must be related to a protected characteristic.

You could have a group specifically for two protected characteristics, such as a group for isolated older men, (who like sheds). So that is two protected characteristics that they must all share, age and sex.

I could not complain as a female who likes sheds.

The WI have included two protected characteristics, but the problem in law is, that, as an exclusive group all the members must share the two protected characteristics that they are including. Ie being a female and being a person who is or is undergoing transition. In order to comply with the EQA.

In other words they have no exemption under the EQA.that they can rely on.

The idea that they are furthering the disadvantages faced by “trans women” can only hold if they were the only membership.

That clause only applies to the existing membership group of a membership group which is lawful.

The EQA when drafted was designed to prevent groups and clubs forming and excluding people for no good reason, eg a club for able bodied white women who like JK Rowling.

Well that helped me cement my understanding if you can be arsed to read it LOL

ArabellaScott · 15/07/2025 20:57

Yes. Let's see how that goes for them.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 15/07/2025 20:53

NotAtMyAge · 15/07/2025 20:34

"It offers trans women an acutely needed sense of community, solidarity, inclusion and validation with other women, as well as access to practical opportunities that they have not been or felt able to access. It offers a welcoming place where transgender women can connect with other women, socialise and learn together. As far as the Women’s Institute is aware, there is no other similar organisation for trans women that offers this space, and so it is unique. The Women’s Institute offers transgender women ultimate acceptance – a space where they are welcomed as women just as their fellow members are, with no need to justify their presence, and free from prejudice, discrimination and judgement"

Am I the only person rendered very angry by this blatant declaration by the leadership that ordinary female WI members are being consciously used to validate the inner womanly feelings of a subset of men? Though no longer a member of the WI, I was one a long time ago and valued very much the fact that it was an organisation founded, run and intended just for women and our interests, needs and concerns. I wouldn't touch it with a very long pole now.

PS Editing to say that you can count me in if any gardening were to be needed in the future. This one I would love to see in court.

Edited

It's cynically positioning women as regressive support humans. The only role for real women is to be present and teach these men how to be women - to validate them.
So ironic when there are countless groups of women - marginalised, impoverished, in poor health, with mental health problems, struggling with parenting, suffering domestic violence, managing cancer and life limiting illness diagnoses and many other challenges who could benefit from the largesse of the WI with targeted community based support. Yet this tone deaf organisation has selected this powerful group of men who have positioned themselves at the top of the oppression tree for support.

Their level of hypocrisy is off the scale.

ArabellaScott · 15/07/2025 20:50

Catiette · 15/07/2025 18:28

Interesting.

My main 2 questions for them would be:

  1. Given their (pointedly bolded, at times) emphasis on welcoming "all" women, what provisions have they made for a female survivor of male violence who is triggered by male bodies? (Would an Equality Impact Assessment be relevant here?)

  2. What provisions have they made to mitigate conflicts of interest in their campaigning (some historical campaigns eg. for equal pay become rather less meaningful & efficacious with a refusal to distinguish between the sexes, and hypothetical future campaigns relating to uniquely female experiences / lesbian rights etc. could actively contravene the convictions and wishes of a proportion of TW who seek to deny the female experience).

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Not THOSE women, silly. Those women need to reframe their trauma and stop being exclusionary of males. Rape victims must learn to be kinder to men. Or they can fuck off.

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 15/07/2025 20:46

Crouton19 · 15/07/2025 20:07

So could Miranda Yardley or Debbie Hayton join? TW who don't expect validation as W?

Just because they say that they know that they are male, that does not mean that they do not want to be validated as women. Hayton blatantly does, Yardley too but less "in yer face".

ArabellaScott · 15/07/2025 20:46

'there is no other similar organisation for trans women that offers this space, and so it is unique.'

There are several organisations for trans women. What they mean is there isnt another organisations that provides a plentiful supply of validating women to serve the special men.

NotAtMyAge · 15/07/2025 20:34

"It offers trans women an acutely needed sense of community, solidarity, inclusion and validation with other women, as well as access to practical opportunities that they have not been or felt able to access. It offers a welcoming place where transgender women can connect with other women, socialise and learn together. As far as the Women’s Institute is aware, there is no other similar organisation for trans women that offers this space, and so it is unique. The Women’s Institute offers transgender women ultimate acceptance – a space where they are welcomed as women just as their fellow members are, with no need to justify their presence, and free from prejudice, discrimination and judgement"

Am I the only person rendered very angry by this blatant declaration by the leadership that ordinary female WI members are being consciously used to validate the inner womanly feelings of a subset of men? Though no longer a member of the WI, I was one a long time ago and valued very much the fact that it was an organisation founded, run and intended just for women and our interests, needs and concerns. I wouldn't touch it with a very long pole now.

PS Editing to say that you can count me in if any gardening were to be needed in the future. This one I would love to see in court.

Crouton19 · 15/07/2025 20:07

So could Miranda Yardley or Debbie Hayton join? TW who don't expect validation as W?

minxymix · 15/07/2025 19:56

Another point to consider is the carers policy and not allowing male carers to join meetings, this puts some disabled women at a disadvantage in accessing some WI activities

borntobequiet · 15/07/2025 19:43

Marmaladelover · 15/07/2025 19:34

Never have i wanted so much that the Telegraph and Mail and GBNews and anyone else to pick uo this story !

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A good time with the Peggie tribunal about to get under way and rumblings about the Hampstead Ponds.
We are unusual on here in that we know all about these things happening; for the uninitiated it must be getting more and more surreal.
Quite extraordinary that the WI seems to see its remit as validating men who are at best confused, at worst, well, I don’t want to get deleted.

potpourree · 15/07/2025 19:35

Tangent, but I'm always slightly thrown by the term 'identify with' - that usually (or used to) means 'empathise with' or similar, which is totally different as 'identify AS' or even 'is'.

E.g. I can identify with people who grew up only having second-hand clothes, because I shared that experience, I can somehow understand them. But you wouldn't just do that for 'an identity' or an entire class of people, it more often relates to an actual shared experience by individuals.

Marmaladelover · 15/07/2025 19:34

Never have i wanted so much that the Telegraph and Mail and GBNews and anyone else to pick uo this story !

borntobequiet · 15/07/2025 19:25

lissetteattheRitz · 15/07/2025 16:26

I'd happily donate

I would too

Catiette · 15/07/2025 19:04

Their words, my bold and []s...

Gender: "Gender is often expressed in terms of masculinity and femininity, is largely culturally determined, and is assumed from the sex assigned at birth."

Plus

Gender identity: "Gender identity is a person’s sense of their own [gender largely culturally determined masculinity or femininity], whether male, female, or something else."

Equals

Woman: The implicit definition of "living as a woman" - and, indeed, "woman" - here would appear to be "[identifying with] culturally determined femininity".

I think. It's tying my brain in knots. Which I think is probably intentional.

ArabellaScott · 15/07/2025 18:58

'Crossdresser is a term to describe people who dress in clothes
associated with their opposite sex, as defined by socially accepted
norms, but who identify with the gender that matches their sex
assigned at birth.'

ArabellaScott · 15/07/2025 18:57

'The below resources and organisations can offer further information on inclusion:
• The Equality Act 2010
• The Equality and Human Rights Commission
• Citizens Advice
• Gender Identity Research & Education Society
• Gendered Intelligence
• The Protection from Harassment Act 1997
• Rethink Mental Illness
• Stonewall'

My bold.

ArabellaScott · 15/07/2025 18:56

They need to define what 'living as a woman' means.

If it's not about sex, then why on earth can't OP's husband join?

Surely any activities that constitute 'living as a woman' are included in the WI programme, so if he wants to carry out any of these then he is 'living as a woman'?