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An update to the WI Announcement thread. My DH just got a reply to his application to join them.

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Another2Cats · 12/05/2025 19:49

This is not a thread about a thread, but recently there was a thread about the Womens Institute announcement that they would not be implementing the SC ruling anytime soon.

I was reading the thread at the time and, entirely jokingly, I suggested to my DH that he should apply to join the WI and see what they say.

So he did just that (he totally gets the GC point of view) and I posted about this at the time:

Another2Cats · 08/05/2025 19:45

I just got my DH to send an email to them:

Hello,

My name is Xxxx (very obviously masculine name). I just read your transgender policy and understand that you accept men.

I am a man and would like to join the local WI group in [xxxx city] (the nearest branch for me is in yyyy [suburb of xxxx city]).

Should I just turn up next Wednesday evening and sign up?

I'm really waiting with bated breath to see what sort of response there is.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5330297-womens-institute-announcement?reply=144143149
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Well, it turns out that they sent a response this lunchtime.

This is their reply (although with contact details redacted):

Good morning,

Thank you for your enquiry. Our policy states that “WI membership is open to all women who live as women, including transgender women.” If you fit within this statement, you will be more than welcome to attend. I am afraid the WI is not open to men.

Kind regards,

[Redacted]

[Name Redacted]
Federation Secretary
[Two cities - well, a city and a town - redacted] Federation of WIs CIO
[Address redacted]
[Telephone number redacted]
Office hours: Tues, Weds, Thurs 9am – 1pm

Please note the new email address – [Redacted]
.

I don't know, is this something that DH should take up with the EHRC now that he has it in writing?

Women’s institute announcement | Mumsnet

Published earlier today.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5330297-womens-institute-announcement

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Annascaul · 12/05/2025 22:55

MelOfTheRoses · 12/05/2025 22:21

Maybe he could apply to join a WI group that already admits men?

Why would any branch of the Women’s Institute admit men?
Do you know of any?

MoetUndChandon · 12/05/2025 22:50

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 12/05/2025 20:29

yes but you are not being unkind to some evil professional third sector NFWI apparatchik who created the stupid policy. you're ruining the night of some poor local volunteer who almost certainly understands that men are men and doesn't want them at her meeting. Please remember this is real people.

This. I am gender critical, but I don’t think the women’s Institute is the first thing to go after.

MelOfTheRoses · 12/05/2025 22:21

Maybe he could apply to join a WI group that already admits men?

Seriestwo · 12/05/2025 22:15

He’s right, is this the same as Edinburgh rape crisis hiring man without a GRC to do a job which was for women. He could apply because he was a special sort of man but the men who didn’t deny they are men were not eligible and therefore discriminated against?

Pyjamatimenow · 12/05/2025 22:11

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 12/05/2025 20:05

as a recipient of emails from people enquiring about joining our WI, I do have a certain degree of sympathy with the poor woman replying to the OP's husband. In her shoes I'd be going to my county WI adviser in the first instance in the hopes of getting someone higher up the chain to deal with it.

I think what the OP's husband is doing is fine, but do remember that you're dealing volunteers who are in general a force for good in their communities. it's the organisation that's gone bonkers, not the members.

I agree with this. I see the ladies from our local WI quite a bit through some volunteering I do and they are lovely, generous people giving up a lot of time to try and do nice things in the community. I imagine almost of them would not have the first clue about this situation and would just act with ‘kindness’ and what they’ve been told is right. In my area nobody is vocal about gender critical views so there’s not much understanding or awareness of the issues.

ArabellaScott · 12/05/2025 22:07

They're never going to let me in the WI.

ArabellaScott · 12/05/2025 22:06

Ah, no, got it..

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TheQuickCat · 12/05/2025 22:05

ArabellaScott 🤣

ArabellaScott · 12/05/2025 22:04

I think it's this.

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Annascaul · 12/05/2025 22:02

TheQuickCat · 12/05/2025 22:01

What are "softer hand movements"?

The mind boggles

TheQuickCat · 12/05/2025 22:01

What are "softer hand movements"?

Heylittlesongbird · 12/05/2025 21:55

@Another2Cats @SlipperyLizard Thank you both for taking the time to explain that so well.

I am still in the foothills a bit I think (which will concern my children that I can get even more peaked). I work for the NHS and have been shocked by Darlington and Sandie Peggie. Luckily my organisation has not felt too captured (pronouns still optional etc.). I have been appalled by the erosion of women's sports etc. I hate the idea of men in women's changing room, toilets etc, unless I've chosen to go into a mixed sex room. So I feel like I'm just at entry-level in my knowledge sometimes.

Another2Cats · 12/05/2025 21:30

Brefugee · 12/05/2025 21:22

so if i've understood correctly, by admitting transwomen, they are mixed sex and the discrimination is against other men who have been told they can't join?
But that only applies if the WI insists it's single sex?

Correct

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Brefugee · 12/05/2025 21:22

SlipperyLizard · 12/05/2025 21:13

The EA10 provides that you can provide a single sex service, organisation etc (ie discriminate against men/women as appropriate by excluding them from you service for women/men) if it is a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim.

So the WI could say “we exclude men because women need spaces to meet where they can speak freely, enjoy each others company [insert whatever the purpose is of the WI]”. If challenged by a man who wants to join, they can argue that their discrimination is lawful because of the single sex exception.

Running an organisation for women “and some men who say they’re women” is not covered by the single sex exception, as the SC made clear that “sex” means biological sex, not “certificated sex” (the Scottish Gov had already conceded that men without a GRC, however they identify, are not women for EA10 purposes).

The WI is currently mixed sex, and so if they deny access to any man they cannot say “you’re not a woman so you can’t join” as they do let people who aren’t women join. The excluded man can now claim direct discrimination, and the WI has no lawful defence as they are no longer within the single sex exception.

A woman could also potentially sue for indirect discrimination if a single sex service is needed (e.g. hospital ward) and NOT provided. So everything going gender neutral isn’t a panacea (I think the WI could probably decide to go mixed sex without this risk, but the NHS couldn’t for hospital wards).

so if i've understood correctly, by admitting transwomen, they are mixed sex and the discrimination is against other men who have been told they can't join?
But that only applies if the WI insists it's single sex?

theilltemperedqueenofspacetime · 12/05/2025 21:20

OP's DH can commission a solicitor's letter pointing out that, as they have confirmed that they are a mixed-sex organisation, their refusal to let him join constitutes illegal sex discrimination, as does the fact that they represent themselves as single-sex when in fact they are not.

They might just let him join, though, and add 'we are a mixed-sex organisation ' in tiny writing somewhere.

When what OP really wants is a secret ballot of members on whether they want to be single-sex or out-and-out mixed-sex.

I can't see how to get from here to there.

Is it me, or is this all going to be harder than we thought?

MsFogi · 12/05/2025 21:17

So if I ask to join the WI and tell the I am a trans man they won't let me join (regardless of my sex)?!

lcakethereforeIam · 12/05/2025 21:16

If the OP joins the WI then that is a tick for his living as woman badge. Although before he joins he's living as a man, which means he can't join. They're standing in the way of him being his true authentic self.

SlipperyLizard · 12/05/2025 21:14

You beat me to it @Another2Cats - Akua is brilliant!

Toooldforthisbollocks · 12/05/2025 21:14

So could Eddie Izzard join the WI but only attend events on mondays, wednesdays and fridays because those are the days he is in “girl mode”?

inkymoose · 12/05/2025 21:14

Another2Cats · 12/05/2025 21:09

"I'm sorry if this is a stupid question, but does the SC ruling comply the WI to exclude men who identify as women. Or, is it a personal choice for them as an organisation?"

No it certainly is not a stupid question. A lot of people have been confused by this.

A woman by the name of Akua Reindorf explained it very clearly.

Who's she? You ask.

Well, Akua Reindorf is a KC (a senior barrister) and a part time Employment Judge. More importantly, she is one of the Commissioners of the EHRC. This is the body that will be coming up with the statutory guidance that interprets the latest SC judgment.

She will be having a very large input into what that guidance says.

She tweeted about this two weeks ago and I posted about it at the time:

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5324127-interim-guidance-from-ehrc-is-out-thread-2?reply=143886518

This is what I posted:

Coincidentally, Akua Reindorf KC (one of the Commissioners of the EHCR) tweeted on this just now to somebody who had a similar question.

Question: My understanding is that it says, for example, that lesbian groups must exclude trans women? Rather than can just legally exclude them if they choose?

Reply from AR:

It’s an inevitable consequence of the judgment. In general an association mustn’t discriminate against a person by depriving them of membership because of a protected characteristic: s.101(1). So eg a reading group can’t say “no disabled people” /1

But there’s an exception which says that an association can be limited to people who share a protected characteristic: Sch 16 para 1. Thus an association can be limited to women, disabled people, older people, black people etc /2

An association can combine protected characteristics as long as it’s for people who all have the same two (or more) PCs: lesbian women, black men, young Asian disabled people etc. This way, everybody in the club falls within both/all the PCs /3

But you can’t have an either/or association: disabled people + older people; black women + white men; young people + disabled people. This is because the association can’t satisfy the single protected characteristic condition for any one of its PCs /4

So you can’t have an association for lesbian women and heterosexual men with the protected characteristic of gender reassignment (which is what trans women who are attracted to women are for the purposes of the Act) /5

This wouldn’t be an association for lesbians because it would have straight members; it wouldn’t be an assc for women because some members are men & it wouldn’t be an assc for trans people because some members aren’t trans. Hence it’s discriminatory and unlawful /end

https://x.com/akuareindorf/status/1916748422658359573

So, the practical upshot of all this is that the SC ruling does indeed compel the WI to exclude all men if they wish to remain as a single sex organisation.

Thank you, that's quite clear and makes sense to me now.

SlipperyLizard · 12/05/2025 21:13

Heylittlesongbird · 12/05/2025 20:57

I'm sorry if this is a stupid question, but does the SC ruling comply the WI to exclude men who identify as women. Or, is it a personal choice for them as an organisation?

I totally agree that there are things we need as women. I don't think that men should be allowed to join. But does the SC ruling mean they can if that is the stance the WI choose to take?

Edited

The EA10 provides that you can provide a single sex service, organisation etc (ie discriminate against men/women as appropriate by excluding them from you service for women/men) if it is a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim.

So the WI could say “we exclude men because women need spaces to meet where they can speak freely, enjoy each others company [insert whatever the purpose is of the WI]”. If challenged by a man who wants to join, they can argue that their discrimination is lawful because of the single sex exception.

Running an organisation for women “and some men who say they’re women” is not covered by the single sex exception, as the SC made clear that “sex” means biological sex, not “certificated sex” (the Scottish Gov had already conceded that men without a GRC, however they identify, are not women for EA10 purposes).

The WI is currently mixed sex, and so if they deny access to any man they cannot say “you’re not a woman so you can’t join” as they do let people who aren’t women join. The excluded man can now claim direct discrimination, and the WI has no lawful defence as they are no longer within the single sex exception.

A woman could also potentially sue for indirect discrimination if a single sex service is needed (e.g. hospital ward) and NOT provided. So everything going gender neutral isn’t a panacea (I think the WI could probably decide to go mixed sex without this risk, but the NHS couldn’t for hospital wards).

Another2Cats · 12/05/2025 21:09

Heylittlesongbird · 12/05/2025 20:57

I'm sorry if this is a stupid question, but does the SC ruling comply the WI to exclude men who identify as women. Or, is it a personal choice for them as an organisation?

I totally agree that there are things we need as women. I don't think that men should be allowed to join. But does the SC ruling mean they can if that is the stance the WI choose to take?

Edited

"I'm sorry if this is a stupid question, but does the SC ruling comply the WI to exclude men who identify as women. Or, is it a personal choice for them as an organisation?"

No it certainly is not a stupid question. A lot of people have been confused by this.

A woman by the name of Akua Reindorf explained it very clearly.

Who's she? You ask.

Well, Akua Reindorf is a KC (a senior barrister) and a part time Employment Judge. More importantly, she is one of the Commissioners of the EHRC. This is the body that will be coming up with the statutory guidance that interprets the latest SC judgment.

She will be having a very large input into what that guidance says.

She tweeted about this two weeks ago and I posted about it at the time:

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5324127-interim-guidance-from-ehrc-is-out-thread-2?reply=143886518

This is what I posted:

Coincidentally, Akua Reindorf KC (one of the Commissioners of the EHCR) tweeted on this just now to somebody who had a similar question.

Question: My understanding is that it says, for example, that lesbian groups must exclude trans women? Rather than can just legally exclude them if they choose?

Reply from AR:

It’s an inevitable consequence of the judgment. In general an association mustn’t discriminate against a person by depriving them of membership because of a protected characteristic: s.101(1). So eg a reading group can’t say “no disabled people” /1

But there’s an exception which says that an association can be limited to people who share a protected characteristic: Sch 16 para 1. Thus an association can be limited to women, disabled people, older people, black people etc /2

An association can combine protected characteristics as long as it’s for people who all have the same two (or more) PCs: lesbian women, black men, young Asian disabled people etc. This way, everybody in the club falls within both/all the PCs /3

But you can’t have an either/or association: disabled people + older people; black women + white men; young people + disabled people. This is because the association can’t satisfy the single protected characteristic condition for any one of its PCs /4

So you can’t have an association for lesbian women and heterosexual men with the protected characteristic of gender reassignment (which is what trans women who are attracted to women are for the purposes of the Act) /5

This wouldn’t be an association for lesbians because it would have straight members; it wouldn’t be an assc for women because some members are men & it wouldn’t be an assc for trans people because some members aren’t trans. Hence it’s discriminatory and unlawful /end

https://x.com/akuareindorf/status/1916748422658359573

So, the practical upshot of all this is that the SC ruling does indeed compel the WI to exclude all men if they wish to remain as a single sex organisation.

https://x.com/akuareindorf/status/1916748422658359573

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OldCrone · 12/05/2025 21:06

All women live as women, because they're women. All men live as men, because they're men.

Men pretending to be women are men living as men pretending to be women. A man who say he thinks he's living as a woman is mistaken, deluded or lying. If he thinks that complying with stereotypes of what it is to be a woman means that he's living as a woman, he's a sexist arsehole.

Another2Cats · 12/05/2025 20:58

Heylittlesongbird · 12/05/2025 20:54

I think they mean that that is what living as a woman is really like.

Oh, okay, I get it now.

Sorry @youkiddingme I didn't the point you were trying to make.

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