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An update to the WI Announcement thread. My DH just got a reply to his application to join them.

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Another2Cats · 12/05/2025 19:49

This is not a thread about a thread, but recently there was a thread about the Womens Institute announcement that they would not be implementing the SC ruling anytime soon.

I was reading the thread at the time and, entirely jokingly, I suggested to my DH that he should apply to join the WI and see what they say.

So he did just that (he totally gets the GC point of view) and I posted about this at the time:

Another2Cats · 08/05/2025 19:45

I just got my DH to send an email to them:

Hello,

My name is Xxxx (very obviously masculine name). I just read your transgender policy and understand that you accept men.

I am a man and would like to join the local WI group in [xxxx city] (the nearest branch for me is in yyyy [suburb of xxxx city]).

Should I just turn up next Wednesday evening and sign up?

I'm really waiting with bated breath to see what sort of response there is.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5330297-womens-institute-announcement?reply=144143149
.

Well, it turns out that they sent a response this lunchtime.

This is their reply (although with contact details redacted):

Good morning,

Thank you for your enquiry. Our policy states that “WI membership is open to all women who live as women, including transgender women.” If you fit within this statement, you will be more than welcome to attend. I am afraid the WI is not open to men.

Kind regards,

[Redacted]

[Name Redacted]
Federation Secretary
[Two cities - well, a city and a town - redacted] Federation of WIs CIO
[Address redacted]
[Telephone number redacted]
Office hours: Tues, Weds, Thurs 9am – 1pm

Please note the new email address – [Redacted]
.

I don't know, is this something that DH should take up with the EHRC now that he has it in writing?

Women’s institute announcement | Mumsnet

Published earlier today.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5330297-womens-institute-announcement

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Datun · 16/07/2025 09:38

I don't know whether to be furious, or staggered, or depressed, by the WI being totally and completely upfront that the reason for transwomen to join is so that women can validate them.

It offers trans women an acutely needed sense of community, solidarity, inclusion and validation

It's unbelievable that the majority of members truly believe this. And yes, I'd like to see a vote too.

Catiette · 16/07/2025 08:49

The issue other people have raised - about to what extent members or prospective member are aware of the (to us, blatant) significance of the recurrent "all women" - is another key one for me.

By definition, women join this group because they want a women-only space. That's what it's offering, its USP! Reinforced by its long history of being unambiguously, definitively female-only.

Meanwhile, we know there's still considerable confusion nationally re: what transwoman/man means - and if people don't know that, they're even less likely to read between the lines of the qualifying "all".

So you'd certainly get a significant proportion of women turning up purely because they seek female-only company without knowing the group may not be.

That will include victims of abuse - of course it will, given the numbers affected.

It seems very wrong, ethically speaking, as well as the obvious legal transgression post-SC.

alsoFanOfNaomi · 16/07/2025 08:14

It's hard to believe this could really go to court, but count me in for helping funding however much process is needed. I also second contacting Sex Matters. Naomi will be a bit busy for the next couple of weeks though!

FrogFrogFrog · 16/07/2025 08:03

Surely it's a 'womanly' thing to even want to join the WI in the first place. Ergo everyone who wants to join is 'living as a woman'.

I have no interest in the WI so I'm not living as a woman despite my womanly bits. See? Easy peasy.

Sortumn · 16/07/2025 07:57

Datun · 16/07/2025 07:29

Exactly. And I can't wait for the concept of autogynephilia to be raised by enough people for the penny to drop.

"It offers trans women an acutely needed sense of community, solidarity, inclusion and validation with other women, as well as access to practical opportunities that they have not been or felt able to access....

It offers a welcoming place where transgender women can connect with other women, socialise and learn together...

... a space where they are welcomed as women just as their fellow members are

...with no need to justify their presence

So it's now the Transwomens Institute and the Other Women have what role as members?
Do the Other Women know they are serving this role? I assume the Other Women will no longer have to pay subs and will instead be paid expenses for their supporting roles!

Boiledbeetle · 16/07/2025 07:33

God the WI are just digging that hole deeper with every letter aren't they.

How can people who are legally trained come out with such complete and utter shite?

And I'm another who really wants to know how they plan to define 'living as a woman'

Datun · 16/07/2025 07:29

ArabellaScott · 16/07/2025 05:23

I'd love the WI to survey their female members on this policy. Its a huge change to their founding principles.

Exactly. And I can't wait for the concept of autogynephilia to be raised by enough people for the penny to drop.

"It offers trans women an acutely needed sense of community, solidarity, inclusion and validation with other women, as well as access to practical opportunities that they have not been or felt able to access....

It offers a welcoming place where transgender women can connect with other women, socialise and learn together...

... a space where they are welcomed as women just as their fellow members are

...with no need to justify their presence

potpourree · 16/07/2025 07:26

Surely applying to join the WI is an example of living as a woman? Because only a woman would want to join a woman's group?

Who knows any more.

If women are people who are male or female, then without any further criteria being set out, anyone who is living as a [male or female person] is living as a woman anyway.

EyesOpening · 16/07/2025 07:23

Gundogday · 15/07/2025 22:11

I’ve posted this before, but I’m going to post again. In the WI FAQ, the question is posed, ‘can men join the WI?’, and the answer is ‘no’. So you can’t have it both ways!

I read this yesterday but (and I'm blaming being under the weather and a lack of sleep) I didn't put it together with
"According to the WI, the organisation "does not purport to establish single sex membership within the meaning of the EqA" "
it's really quite the juxtaposition, isn't it.

ArabellaScott · 16/07/2025 07:13

It's a fucking guddle, isn't it.

Are they excluding 'transmen' on the basis of gender? How are they differentiating between a 'transman' who wears short hair, check shirts, jeans, and trainers, and a bog standard woman who wears short hair, check shirts, jeans, and trainers? Is it done on the basis of someone proving they are eligible by the fact they've applied to join?

If their argument is 'anyone who says they want to join is able to on the basis of asking', then OP's husband has clearly been discriminated against.

ArabellaScott · 16/07/2025 07:08

KnottyAuty · 15/07/2025 23:15

Does that exclude me?
Today I am wearing Jeans and a blue linen shirt. I have recently been wearing a man's straw hat with a black band. Apparently I am a crossdresser according to the WI when I just thought I was gender non conforming. How exotic?!

I guess the WI's argument is that male crossdressers are excluded on the basis of their crossdressing.

But female crossdressers, like yourself, and any woman who wears flat shoes and trousers (I assume? The WI would need to probably expand on their definition of which clothes are associated with which sex) would be included on the basis of sex.

They seem to be trying to exclude male crossdressers on the basis of sex, but include female crossdressers on the basis of sex. While excluding male non-crossdressers on the basis of gender, but including female non-crossdressers on the basis of gender.

They appear to be trying to use 'sex' in some instance and 'gender' in others, is my point. But they can't make it fit, because the two terms are immiscible.

Codlingmoths · 16/07/2025 06:57

My 3yo dd ran straight into me at full tilt last night deliberately - do you think she’s living as a boy? Should I be applying for a grc for her?

NecessaryScene · 16/07/2025 06:52

And I want to know what ‘living as a woman ‘ means as well. My six foot five son cooked the evening meal today, so does he qualify?

The legal problem they have to overcome here is that they have to come up with a definition of "living as a woman" that doesn't discriminate against men.

If it's "having F on your passport", or "being referred to as she" or "using a name normally associated with women", they are all discriminating against men, because men don't generally do those things, and they're clearly being used as a proxy for sex.

The fact that they happen to pick up some transwomen is immaterial - the primary purpose and effect of any of those criteria is clearly to try to exclude men. It's as clear as day, and won't stand up a second in court. Do they think the enforcers of the UK's equality legislation were born yesterday?

There are decades of history of discrimination legislation here that have hung up organisations that claim to be technically "non-discriminatory" by using some sort of proxy for a protected characteristic.

"Oh, we weren't discriminating on any race or religion - we were just looking at people's surnames.", etc...

NoBinturongsHereMate · 16/07/2025 06:44

The WI "does not purport to establish single sex membership within the meaning of the EqA"

If it is not single sex, it is mixed sex.

It's a simple, binary choice. They have to be one or the other.

If it is mixed sex, what are their legal grounds for excluding the OP's DH, and approx 30 million other men in the UK?

ArabellaScott · 16/07/2025 05:23

I'd love the WI to survey their female members on this policy. Its a huge change to their founding principles.

UnityMofT · 16/07/2025 03:10

MrsOvertonsWindow · 15/07/2025 16:27

Presumably the captured charity sector have been advised by some of the (generally dismal) lawyers advocating for the removal of women's organisations that this is the way to go?

I wonder whether the WI would be a better case for Sex Matters to challenge rather than the Hampstead womens pond?

Personally, I'd go for the WI because it explicitly defines itself as an 'Assocation of Women' in the governing documents it requires local WIs and its regional federations to adopt and I strongly suspect its use of that definition long predates the Gender Recognition Act and Equality Act.

The problem with Kenwood Ladies Pond is that its not 100% clear how its governed and on what terms, so there's not a clear paper trail to work with.

borntobequiet · 16/07/2025 03:06

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 16/07/2025 00:09

"It offers trans women an acutely needed sense of community, solidarity, inclusion and validation with other women, as well as access to practical opportunities that they have not been or felt able to access. It offers a welcoming place where transgender women can connect with other women, socialise and learn together. As far as the Women’s Institute is aware, there is no other similar organisation for trans women that offers this space, and so it is unique. The Women’s Institute offers transgender women ultimate acceptance – a space where they are welcomed as women just as their fellow members are, with no need to justify their presence, and free from prejudice, discrimination and judgement"

Is anyone else wondering about the sex of the person who wrote that?

It comes over as frightfully camp, dahling!

I am trying to work out whose voice I can hear in my head speaking as a I read it and I think it might be Danny la Rue.

Not to derail but this is a blast from the past documentary, from a time when Female Impersonators were more Music Hall than Drag Race:

“The Unforgettable Danny La Rue” Documentary (2010) HD

But I am not sure because the more times I read it the more it sounds like Della Aleksander from 1973's "Open Door: Transex Liberation Group" on BBC 2.
www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p06c83f4

Then, also from 1973, I listen to posh Jill Tweedie talking to Mary Whitehouse and there is something about the way Jill Tweedie talks and I can imagine her voice reading those words from the WI:

Mary Whitehouse interview | Sex Education | Jill Tweedie | Good Afternoon | 1973 | Part 1

I am not sure now what voice I am hearing reading those words.

Jill Tweedie is the sort of woman whose voice and manner of speaking Della Alexander would have been trying to emulate.

What I do know though is that my first impression was that it read "male" and "camp".

I routinely try to avoid reading bylines before I have read the text of an article. It's a game I have played with myself since the late '70s when Psycholinguistics and Sociolinguistics were part of my Speech & Language Therapy degree, ie. the game is guessing the sex of the author from the style of writing.

Obviously, I don't mean articles where the sex of the author is revealed in the content. I used to be rarely wrong but these days the difference between male and female authors is not so marked.

So anyway, my first impression was that it was written by a man and rather camp.

Did it strike anyone else that way?

Did it strike anyone else that way?

Yes, me. And we know that there’s a TW who seems to be pretty influential in the WI, to the extent of featuring on their magazine cover.
In terms of validation, co-opting a whole institution designed to promote and support actual women is quite the coup.

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 16/07/2025 02:04

FeedbackProvider · 16/07/2025 01:01

Have there been any cases that used consumer protection law? It seems to me that when women join the WI, they are paying for a service based on representations from the organisation that all members are of the same sex. If the WI is no longer an organisation for women, they’ve been misleading their members who have paid for a service they haven’t received.

Not only that but the WI has apparently been using female members, without their knowledge and consent, as service animals for the comfort and "validation" of the men it chooses to admit to membership.

We are used to "free" or subsidised services that sell our data or that are financed by advertising but this is with our knowledge and consent if we wade through the small print that is presented for agreement.

However, the WI says it has been using all female members to provide a free service to all male members and that only the male members are aware of this arrangement.

The free benefit that male members receive from the WI has a non-financial cost to any female members who suffer a detriment, such as discomfort, lack of privacy, voluntary exclusion from activities to avoid association with any male or particular males, etc. due to the inclusion of male members. Despite this, all members are subject to the same fee structure.

Quite apart from the ethical issues of knowledge and consent, the WI should, ethically, have been compensating female members in some way, eg. by a reduction in membership fees or by providing some other benefit in recompense.

Worse, it is arguable that the benefit to at least some of these males is provision of a free sexual service by the WI. The WI is therefore prostituting female members without their knowledge and consent. The WI benefits financially from every male who pays a membership fee, ie. the WI is operating as a pimp and is sexually exploiting female members.

FeedbackProvider · 16/07/2025 01:01

Have there been any cases that used consumer protection law? It seems to me that when women join the WI, they are paying for a service based on representations from the organisation that all members are of the same sex. If the WI is no longer an organisation for women, they’ve been misleading their members who have paid for a service they haven’t received.

Datun · 16/07/2025 00:54

"It offers trans women an acutely needed sense of community, solidarity, inclusion and validation with other women,

Like others, I really want to see this go to court. And I particularly want someone like Naomi Cunningham spell out exactly how women are being used to make men feel validated.

That these men are using all the at the WI women as a resource.

And I'm sure I'm not the only one who is infuriated by the ridiculous use of the term 'other women', it's said so often, you just know it's boner inducing.

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 16/07/2025 00:36

Bannedontherun · 15/07/2025 21:25

I go back to Professor of Law Micheal Foran every time.

If you want to set up a group of any sort over 15 people, then as per the EQA you must include Everybody, from all sections of society be they disabled, of any ethnic group, sex, sexuality, etc. The EQA requires that.

If you want to set up an exclusive group in furtherance of some aim that is fair and reasonable, it must be related to a protected characteristic.

You could have a group specifically for two protected characteristics, such as a group for isolated older men, (who like sheds). So that is two protected characteristics that they must all share, age and sex.

I could not complain as a female who likes sheds.

The WI have included two protected characteristics, but the problem in law is, that, as an exclusive group all the members must share the two protected characteristics that they are including. Ie being a female and being a person who is or is undergoing transition. In order to comply with the EQA.

In other words they have no exemption under the EQA.that they can rely on.

The idea that they are furthering the disadvantages faced by “trans women” can only hold if they were the only membership.

That clause only applies to the existing membership group of a membership group which is lawful.

The EQA when drafted was designed to prevent groups and clubs forming and excluding people for no good reason, eg a club for able bodied white women who like JK Rowling.

Well that helped me cement my understanding if you can be arsed to read it LOL

"If you want to set up a group of any sort over 15 people,"

Sorry to be pedantic but it is a group of over 24 people, ie. at least 25.

The easy way I found to remember it is that you could have a "Two Dozen Club" but no more than that if you wanted to avoid being covered by the EA2010.

(There can be more than 24 members and the club would still not be covered by the EA2010 as long as there were no rules about who could join and there was no process of selection, ie. you could never exclude anyone who wanted to join. Although I imagine a max number of members would be allowed but admission would be strictly first come, first served whoever they happened to be.

Not very relevant though when what we are concerned about is the ability to control admission according to the "Two Dozen Club" Rules.)

PART 7
ASSOCIATIONS
Supplementary

107 Interpretation and exceptions

(1) This section applies for the purposes of this Part.

(2) An “association” is an association of persons—

(a) which has at least 25 members, and
(b) admission to membership of which is regulated by the association's rules and involves a process of selection.

https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/part/7/crossheading/supplementary

Equality Act 2010

An Act to make provision to require Ministers of the Crown and others when making strategic decisions about the exercise of their functions to have regard to the desirability of reducing socio-economic inequalities; to reform and harmonise equality law...

https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/part/7/crossheading/supplementary

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 16/07/2025 00:09

Another2Cats · 15/07/2025 16:14

OK, so big update.

The WI are NOT a single sex organisation, apparently.

They are going to be running the same argument that the City of London Council are going with on the Hampstead Ponds.

According to the WI, the organisation "does not purport to establish single sex membership within the meaning of the EqA"

They then go on to say:

"As such, it is free to define “women who have reached the Age of Majority” within its Membership Rules as it pleases, as long as its definition is not discriminatory. As we explain below, the definition “women who live as women, including transgender women” is not discriminatory."

They then go on to say that their membership policy does not discriminate on the grounds of sex or render reassignment and that:

"The Membership Policy does not exclude anyone on these grounds. It allows for the admission of “biological” men as members, as long as they are living as women. It also allows for the admission of people who are not trans, as long as they are living as women."
.

They then go on to say that if that isn't enough then not admitting DH would still be lawful under s158:

"Even if you were subject to some kind of prima facie discrimination by the Membership Policy (which you are not), this would still be lawful, pursuant to the positive action provision of the EqA"

The WI can help TiM through:

"It offers trans women an acutely needed sense of community, solidarity, inclusion and validation with other women, as well as access to practical opportunities that they have not been or felt able to access. It offers a welcoming place where transgender women can connect with other women, socialise and learn together. As far as the Women’s Institute is aware, there is no other similar organisation for trans women that offers this space, and so it is unique. The Women’s Institute offers transgender women ultimate acceptance – a space where they are welcomed as women just as their fellow members are, with no need to justify their presence, and free from prejudice, discrimination and judgement"
.

Interestingly, when they talk about the balancing exercise that is required they only talk about the disadvantage to other men, they never once mention the disadvantage to women who are already members.

There's a lot to unpack at the moment, but this is just the highlights.

"It offers trans women an acutely needed sense of community, solidarity, inclusion and validation with other women, as well as access to practical opportunities that they have not been or felt able to access. It offers a welcoming place where transgender women can connect with other women, socialise and learn together. As far as the Women’s Institute is aware, there is no other similar organisation for trans women that offers this space, and so it is unique. The Women’s Institute offers transgender women ultimate acceptance – a space where they are welcomed as women just as their fellow members are, with no need to justify their presence, and free from prejudice, discrimination and judgement"

Is anyone else wondering about the sex of the person who wrote that?

It comes over as frightfully camp, dahling!

I am trying to work out whose voice I can hear in my head speaking as a I read it and I think it might be Danny la Rue.

Not to derail but this is a blast from the past documentary, from a time when Female Impersonators were more Music Hall than Drag Race:

“The Unforgettable Danny La Rue” Documentary (2010) HD

But I am not sure because the more times I read it the more it sounds like Della Aleksander from 1973's "Open Door: Transex Liberation Group" on BBC 2.
www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p06c83f4

Then, also from 1973, I listen to posh Jill Tweedie talking to Mary Whitehouse and there is something about the way Jill Tweedie talks and I can imagine her voice reading those words from the WI:

Mary Whitehouse interview | Sex Education | Jill Tweedie | Good Afternoon | 1973 | Part 1

I am not sure now what voice I am hearing reading those words.

Jill Tweedie is the sort of woman whose voice and manner of speaking Della Alexander would have been trying to emulate.

What I do know though is that my first impression was that it read "male" and "camp".

I routinely try to avoid reading bylines before I have read the text of an article. It's a game I have played with myself since the late '70s when Psycholinguistics and Sociolinguistics were part of my Speech & Language Therapy degree, ie. the game is guessing the sex of the author from the style of writing.

Obviously, I don't mean articles where the sex of the author is revealed in the content. I used to be rarely wrong but these days the difference between male and female authors is not so marked.

So anyway, my first impression was that it was written by a man and rather camp.

Did it strike anyone else that way?

Enough4me · 15/07/2025 23:35

KnottyAuty · 15/07/2025 23:15

Does that exclude me?
Today I am wearing Jeans and a blue linen shirt. I have recently been wearing a man's straw hat with a black band. Apparently I am a crossdresser according to the WI when I just thought I was gender non conforming. How exotic?!

Good point and as the vast majority of us women wear jeans/trousers/shorts at some point we'd have to all come out as cross dressers as it fits the label.
Moreover, if any pretending men can say they are women then all women could be the reverse and be a pretending man. How would pretending men know what they are pretending to be?
After the loop of crazy meaningless words, we have reality; the supreme court rightly says sex exists because it always has and we know it's not about wearing trousers.

KnottyAuty · 15/07/2025 23:15

ArabellaScott · 15/07/2025 18:58

'Crossdresser is a term to describe people who dress in clothes
associated with their opposite sex, as defined by socially accepted
norms, but who identify with the gender that matches their sex
assigned at birth.'

Does that exclude me?
Today I am wearing Jeans and a blue linen shirt. I have recently been wearing a man's straw hat with a black band. Apparently I am a crossdresser according to the WI when I just thought I was gender non conforming. How exotic?!

SabrinaThwaite · 15/07/2025 23:00

Another2Cats · 15/07/2025 16:14

OK, so big update.

The WI are NOT a single sex organisation, apparently.

They are going to be running the same argument that the City of London Council are going with on the Hampstead Ponds.

According to the WI, the organisation "does not purport to establish single sex membership within the meaning of the EqA"

They then go on to say:

"As such, it is free to define “women who have reached the Age of Majority” within its Membership Rules as it pleases, as long as its definition is not discriminatory. As we explain below, the definition “women who live as women, including transgender women” is not discriminatory."

They then go on to say that their membership policy does not discriminate on the grounds of sex or render reassignment and that:

"The Membership Policy does not exclude anyone on these grounds. It allows for the admission of “biological” men as members, as long as they are living as women. It also allows for the admission of people who are not trans, as long as they are living as women."
.

They then go on to say that if that isn't enough then not admitting DH would still be lawful under s158:

"Even if you were subject to some kind of prima facie discrimination by the Membership Policy (which you are not), this would still be lawful, pursuant to the positive action provision of the EqA"

The WI can help TiM through:

"It offers trans women an acutely needed sense of community, solidarity, inclusion and validation with other women, as well as access to practical opportunities that they have not been or felt able to access. It offers a welcoming place where transgender women can connect with other women, socialise and learn together. As far as the Women’s Institute is aware, there is no other similar organisation for trans women that offers this space, and so it is unique. The Women’s Institute offers transgender women ultimate acceptance – a space where they are welcomed as women just as their fellow members are, with no need to justify their presence, and free from prejudice, discrimination and judgement"
.

Interestingly, when they talk about the balancing exercise that is required they only talk about the disadvantage to other men, they never once mention the disadvantage to women who are already members.

There's a lot to unpack at the moment, but this is just the highlights.

So the WI will permit men who identify as women to join but not men who identify as men?

Isn’t that discrimination against men who identify as men?

Either the WI accepts all males or no males?

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