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An update to the WI Announcement thread. My DH just got a reply to his application to join them.

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Another2Cats · 12/05/2025 19:49

This is not a thread about a thread, but recently there was a thread about the Womens Institute announcement that they would not be implementing the SC ruling anytime soon.

I was reading the thread at the time and, entirely jokingly, I suggested to my DH that he should apply to join the WI and see what they say.

So he did just that (he totally gets the GC point of view) and I posted about this at the time:

Another2Cats · 08/05/2025 19:45

I just got my DH to send an email to them:

Hello,

My name is Xxxx (very obviously masculine name). I just read your transgender policy and understand that you accept men.

I am a man and would like to join the local WI group in [xxxx city] (the nearest branch for me is in yyyy [suburb of xxxx city]).

Should I just turn up next Wednesday evening and sign up?

I'm really waiting with bated breath to see what sort of response there is.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5330297-womens-institute-announcement?reply=144143149
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Well, it turns out that they sent a response this lunchtime.

This is their reply (although with contact details redacted):

Good morning,

Thank you for your enquiry. Our policy states that “WI membership is open to all women who live as women, including transgender women.” If you fit within this statement, you will be more than welcome to attend. I am afraid the WI is not open to men.

Kind regards,

[Redacted]

[Name Redacted]
Federation Secretary
[Two cities - well, a city and a town - redacted] Federation of WIs CIO
[Address redacted]
[Telephone number redacted]
Office hours: Tues, Weds, Thurs 9am – 1pm

Please note the new email address – [Redacted]
.

I don't know, is this something that DH should take up with the EHRC now that he has it in writing?

Women’s institute announcement | Mumsnet

Published earlier today.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5330297-womens-institute-announcement

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Conxis · 14/06/2025 11:33

It will be interesting to see what happens next because I do think that politically this is one area that is vulnerable to change. If enough people persuade the Government that there are a sizeable number of women who actively want ‘trans inclusive, male gender exclusive’ associations, then I can see that a change could be made to the association part of the Equality Act to allow such organisations to exist. The recent Women and Equalities Committee seemed to focus on this.

If they took this path would that only be for people with a GRC? If it’s self ID then it opens the way for people to join nefariously, which would probably be the argument against it in parliament

UseNailOil · 14/06/2025 11:06

Have a lovely holiday - heartfelt thanks to you and your incredible husband.

Marmaladelover · 14/06/2025 10:14

Changing the constitution would require a formal consultation and vote ( we just had one for other issues )

this would be needed to remain a mixed organisation and include OPs husband (and trans inclusive if that were at all legal - I assume not )

However to remain a single sex organisation (that I assume the majority of members would want) , would necessarily exclude trans and only admit biological women . This would require a change to the Diversity Equality and Inclusion policy and accompanying glossary only . This would not require a vote . They have changed policies several times and have been approved by the national board of trustees only Eg DEI before they admitted trans; the recent update to the social media policy.

if the OP needs funding , there has been an offer that the OP knows about and would need to follow up with that organisation .

edited for punctuation and spelling mistake

DuchessofReality · 14/06/2025 09:36

Thank you and DH for doing this. I am very fed up with all organisations that have decided to completely ignore their founding principles like this and allow themselves to be hijacked (Girl guiding being the obvious other one).

It will be interesting to see what happens next because I do think that politically this is one area that is vulnerable to change. If enough people persuade the Government that there are a sizeable number of women who actively want ‘trans inclusive, male gender exclusive’ associations, then I can see that a change could be made to the association part of the Equality Act to allow such organisations to exist. The recent Women and Equalities Committee seemed to focus on this. Such a change would however also need to protect the right of female only associations to exclude males if they wanted to.

But then you end up with the mess that you have at the moment, with the original associations hijacked. And organisations could change their constitutions one way and then back again depending on who was in charge at any given time.

With the WI I think that if members were put to a vote they would vote female only. But it may not need a member vote to change their constitution, I don’t know.

In the long term I can’t see how this will play out.

But thank you for forcing clarity on this. Shout if you need funding!

sashh · 14/06/2025 08:19

OP I too am in love with your husband, I'll buy you both a pint.

Gundogday · 14/06/2025 08:17

Have a lovely holiday.

https://fairplayforwomen.com

Don’t know whether you know if this organisation. They may be a useful ally or the website may provide useful info (in a back-to-front ) way. I know it’s aimed at women’s rights, but that’s exactly what you’re defending as well (in a back-to-front way).

UK women's rights | Equality Act and the law | Fair Play For Women

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Another2Cats · 14/06/2025 08:02

Well, it's game on. They're defending the claim.

DH received an acknowledgment of service. So they have a further 14 days to provide a defence

This is just the first step in the process and each step takes time. So there isn't anything else to report yet.

As yet, we have no idea on what basis they are defending the claim. Perhaps they will argue that DH didn't suffer any injury to feelings? Or perhaps there is something that is fatal to DH's claim that we have overlooked? I'm not sure. We will find out when they serve the defence.

ps. At the moment we are away on holiday somewhere that is lovely and hot. So I will not be updating this thread or responding to any posts until we get back next weekend. But I did say that I would keep this thread updated whenever I heard anything, hence this post.

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BeaTwix · 14/06/2025 00:19

@KnottyAuty oh I’ve tried.

but it’s all biased advice.

stonewall law has a lot to answer for. (It is of course totally unbiased!!!)

KnottyAuty · 14/06/2025 00:14

BeaTwix · 14/06/2025 00:06

My friend (a solicitor) sits on the DEI committee at their firm and thinks the Supreme Court judgement is “unclear” so they are delaying a firm wide response/ policy rewrite.

so fuck knows what legal advice the WI will actually get.

why have people gone so stupid over this issue. A law firm who can’t interpret the sodding law. It is madness.

Not sure if you’re in a position to say this but it’s only (slightly) unclear for the 8400-ish GRC holders across the UK. Everyone else has to be provided with single sex toilets under Workplace Regs. What unisex they choose to offer their self ID crowd is up to them but other employees can’t suffer a detriment. If they are still struggling tell them to google the LSE talk with Akua, Naomi & Ben.

BeaTwix · 14/06/2025 00:06

My friend (a solicitor) sits on the DEI committee at their firm and thinks the Supreme Court judgement is “unclear” so they are delaying a firm wide response/ policy rewrite.

so fuck knows what legal advice the WI will actually get.

why have people gone so stupid over this issue. A law firm who can’t interpret the sodding law. It is madness.

soontobeconfirmed · 13/06/2025 23:43

This bit was really interesting : In addition, this policy will also amount to direct belief discrimination. A requirement that a male person must identify as a woman to be included is direct discrimination on grounds of a specific variant of gender identity belief, namely the belief, held by a male person, in being a woman

Marmaladelover · 07/06/2025 16:43

Another2Cats · 31/05/2025 09:02

Ok, so ... we did a thing.

The claim form has been issued.

The WI instructed a firm of London solicitors who went on the record yesterday and contacted DH.

I'd never heard of them before so quickly checked on the Legal 500 to see if they were there.

It turns out that they are a Tier 1 ranked firm in the area of Charity & Not for Profit (so these are people who know what they're doing).

Given the size of the WI, I guess it's not at all surprising that they would use a firm like this.

Maybe, now that there are some grown-ups involved, things may get resolved.

I will keep this thread updated as much as I can but there is a set timetable by which different actions must be done that cannot be hurried.

As and when there is anything to add, I'll be back.

Hi @Another2Cats
you will hopefully recall we pmed each other a few weeks ago

the firm of solicitors the WI use is Bate and Wells as you say based in London. They seem to use them for everything eg recent changes to the constitution nothing to do with Trans.
But Bate and Wells credentials are pinned firmly to the trans mast on their website . Their section on “Gender Equality” tells you everything you need to know about how they view about the the trans community being a persecuted bunch whose feelings should not be undermined by pesky biological women .

I also found out that the WI does not have any legal person on their staff . You would think that the Head of Legal and Governance might be a solicitor or something the answer is no she doesn’t ( but does have a qualification in open water diving and interior decorating so I am sure they are useful ……) Therefore the WI has no one internal to critically or rather legally analyse anything coming from their “legal advisors” .

Anyway it would be good to touch base, at some point soon as we did before with various developments. But thought others would find the above interesting too do write it here .

ItsCoolForCats · 07/06/2025 16:42

WomensInstituteDeclaration · 07/06/2025 14:57

We only went live with it this morning, but we've got some horrible stories already. Enraging ones

It's great you are highlighting this. Keep up the good work

WomensInstituteDeclaration · 07/06/2025 14:57

ItsCoolForCats · 07/06/2025 13:43

Well done. Have you had many responses?

We only went live with it this morning, but we've got some horrible stories already. Enraging ones

BettyFilous · 07/06/2025 14:14

I’ll do the usual public service announcement that shared google docs are not secure & can/do track the identity or emails of people contributing to them.

Eg: www.locklizard.com/document-security-blog/how-secure-are-google-docs/

ItsCoolForCats · 07/06/2025 13:43

WomensInstituteDeclaration · 07/06/2025 11:57

We're collecting anecdotes about mixed sex WIs if women are able to share

Mixed Sex WIs Survey

Well done. Have you had many responses?

KnottyAuty · 07/06/2025 13:36

WomensInstituteDeclaration · 07/06/2025 11:54

Hello, we've been agitating about this and have formed our own GC virtual WI - if you want to join us send me a DM, I might be a bit slow in replying.

Well done. Good luck!

WomensInstituteDeclaration · 07/06/2025 11:54

Hello, we've been agitating about this and have formed our own GC virtual WI - if you want to join us send me a DM, I might be a bit slow in replying.

PriOn1 · 04/06/2025 16:05

Karatema · 04/06/2025 15:57

As a current WI member, together with the current annoying doublespeak, I would want a secret ballot of every member. The voting slips could be sent out with our monthly magazines. I would not trust my WI, with most of the committee being very woke, to vote in accordance with the majority of our branch members.

Ah, but would you trust those counting not to do an Edward Lord and simply throw away the papers that didn’t agree with the centrally desired outcome?

It all depends just how captured it is.

Karatema · 04/06/2025 15:57

LittleBitofBread · 04/06/2025 08:34

I do wonder though how many of the current membership are happy to have men in the WI. And if it was a blind ballot (I don't know if it is), people could vote without fear of any untoward personal consequences.

As a current WI member, together with the current annoying doublespeak, I would want a secret ballot of every member. The voting slips could be sent out with our monthly magazines. I would not trust my WI, with most of the committee being very woke, to vote in accordance with the majority of our branch members.

LittleBitofBread · 04/06/2025 08:34

RareGoalsVerge · 03/06/2025 15:03

I'm not convinced that the Charities Commission would block a change to being a mixed-sex organisation, if the change was voted for by a majority of the current membership under the existing constitutional rules which will include a section on rules to govern future changes to the constitution.

To look for similar examples - there used to be numerous women-only colleges at Oxford and Cambridge - there are none left in Oxford and only 2 left in Cambridge (both of which admit Transwomen). One by one each womens' college held constitutional votes to become mixed-sex, and were able to do so despite being founded as charitable institutions founded specifically for the education of women. I remember one such vote happening at an Oxford women's college when I was an undergraduate, and if I recall correctly I think it was explained that the reason that the college was significantly poorer than other colleges is because the college was unable to apply for various funding streams for academic advancement because their single-sex status made them ineligible, if those funding streams had incompatible policies which meant they had to be open to anyone of any sex, so even though the college members voted "No" on that occassion, the college kept on holding votes over and over again every few years until eventually they got a "Yes"

I do wonder though how many of the current membership are happy to have men in the WI. And if it was a blind ballot (I don't know if it is), people could vote without fear of any untoward personal consequences.

RareGoalsVerge · 03/06/2025 15:03

I'm not convinced that the Charities Commission would block a change to being a mixed-sex organisation, if the change was voted for by a majority of the current membership under the existing constitutional rules which will include a section on rules to govern future changes to the constitution.

To look for similar examples - there used to be numerous women-only colleges at Oxford and Cambridge - there are none left in Oxford and only 2 left in Cambridge (both of which admit Transwomen). One by one each womens' college held constitutional votes to become mixed-sex, and were able to do so despite being founded as charitable institutions founded specifically for the education of women. I remember one such vote happening at an Oxford women's college when I was an undergraduate, and if I recall correctly I think it was explained that the reason that the college was significantly poorer than other colleges is because the college was unable to apply for various funding streams for academic advancement because their single-sex status made them ineligible, if those funding streams had incompatible policies which meant they had to be open to anyone of any sex, so even though the college members voted "No" on that occassion, the college kept on holding votes over and over again every few years until eventually they got a "Yes"

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 03/06/2025 13:00

Gundogday · 03/06/2025 10:14

I’ve got trousers on, wearing a brown jumper, haven’t got makeup up on, was just talking to my son about basketball, so guess I’m not living as a woman so does that exclude me?

After checking using AI, the WI selection process is something like this

If your eligibility is not immediately clear to you from your feelz then you need to use the sorting bag of gender yarn.

The sorting bag contains all the odds and ends of left over wool from past and present members' projects. You reach inside, rummage around and pull out a piece.

If it's pink then you can join.

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