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An update to the WI Announcement thread. My DH just got a reply to his application to join them.

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Another2Cats · 12/05/2025 19:49

This is not a thread about a thread, but recently there was a thread about the Womens Institute announcement that they would not be implementing the SC ruling anytime soon.

I was reading the thread at the time and, entirely jokingly, I suggested to my DH that he should apply to join the WI and see what they say.

So he did just that (he totally gets the GC point of view) and I posted about this at the time:

Another2Cats · 08/05/2025 19:45

I just got my DH to send an email to them:

Hello,

My name is Xxxx (very obviously masculine name). I just read your transgender policy and understand that you accept men.

I am a man and would like to join the local WI group in [xxxx city] (the nearest branch for me is in yyyy [suburb of xxxx city]).

Should I just turn up next Wednesday evening and sign up?

I'm really waiting with bated breath to see what sort of response there is.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5330297-womens-institute-announcement?reply=144143149
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Well, it turns out that they sent a response this lunchtime.

This is their reply (although with contact details redacted):

Good morning,

Thank you for your enquiry. Our policy states that “WI membership is open to all women who live as women, including transgender women.” If you fit within this statement, you will be more than welcome to attend. I am afraid the WI is not open to men.

Kind regards,

[Redacted]

[Name Redacted]
Federation Secretary
[Two cities - well, a city and a town - redacted] Federation of WIs CIO
[Address redacted]
[Telephone number redacted]
Office hours: Tues, Weds, Thurs 9am – 1pm

Please note the new email address – [Redacted]
.

I don't know, is this something that DH should take up with the EHRC now that he has it in writing?

Women’s institute announcement | Mumsnet

Published earlier today.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5330297-womens-institute-announcement

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hockeysticks89 · 17/06/2025 19:01

Thanks for doing this, stay strong

Findthouane · 17/06/2025 18:35

JamieCannister · 17/06/2025 07:09

"There wasn’t one that I could think would need to be woman only."

To be fair, women don't need to have privacy or dignity in changing rooms and public toilets, or to be free from the presence of womanly penises when locked up in prison either. Women's right are an unnecessary option that men can grant and take away at will.

On the other hand, one might argue that the fact that single-sex friendship groups not only exist, but are incredibly common, suggests that single-sex environments are highly wanted by both sexes. Also one might argue that women deserve basic rights.

You are right. I have got things wrong on this thread.
I hope the OPs husband succeeds - the WI doesn’t seem to have understood the judgement. I’ll stay on in case there is a point when OP wants contributions- I can imagine it might get expensive.

JamieCannister · 17/06/2025 07:09

Findthouane · 15/06/2025 18:35

Interesting action. I’ve never thought of joining the WI but looked it up in my area. There wasn’t much detail. I presume some areas are more active than others. The area one had some events that are happening. TBH there wasn’t one that I could think would need to be woman only. Baking, calligraphy, a BBQ. There might be other things - I seem to need to join to find out (I am a woman).

The Equality Act seems to refer to a legitimate aim as a reason to discriminate on the grounds of sex. Do the WI in your areas do any activities which might be difficult for a woman if a man was present I can imagine a lot of important subjects, just not see that the local WI does this.

"There wasn’t one that I could think would need to be woman only."

To be fair, women don't need to have privacy or dignity in changing rooms and public toilets, or to be free from the presence of womanly penises when locked up in prison either. Women's right are an unnecessary option that men can grant and take away at will.

On the other hand, one might argue that the fact that single-sex friendship groups not only exist, but are incredibly common, suggests that single-sex environments are highly wanted by both sexes. Also one might argue that women deserve basic rights.

RogueFemale · 16/06/2025 23:54

Another2Cats · 14/06/2025 08:02

Well, it's game on. They're defending the claim.

DH received an acknowledgment of service. So they have a further 14 days to provide a defence

This is just the first step in the process and each step takes time. So there isn't anything else to report yet.

As yet, we have no idea on what basis they are defending the claim. Perhaps they will argue that DH didn't suffer any injury to feelings? Or perhaps there is something that is fatal to DH's claim that we have overlooked? I'm not sure. We will find out when they serve the defence.

ps. At the moment we are away on holiday somewhere that is lovely and hot. So I will not be updating this thread or responding to any posts until we get back next weekend. But I did say that I would keep this thread updated whenever I heard anything, hence this post.

Edited

I 100% support you and your DH in this.

You have nothing to fear in terms of costs as the law is now crystal clear.

Your claim is in no way dependent on injury to DH's feelings, it's entirely about discrimination.

The WI's solicitors' first response will inevitably be to defend/deny the claim. It's just a holding measure while they think through the many implications.

Have a lovely holiday :)

Magenta82 · 16/06/2025 15:59

This is fantastic! Good luck OP. Enjoy your holiday.

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 16/06/2025 14:36

MyPresumablyScrotum · 16/06/2025 07:57

"In almost a century, Colonel Richard Stapleton-Cotton and his dog Tinker are the only two males ever to be allowed in as fully paid-up WI members."

Well, not quite the only two!

Somewhere in my house (I have just had a root around but could not unearth it) is a membership card for Farndon WI that was issued to my father by the Committee (as a joke) in the 1970's.

My mother was never a member and we didn't live in Farndon so I don't know what was going on there . . . but I have got my suspicions!

Edit: And they are nothing to do with cross-dressing 😂

sashh · 16/06/2025 09:45

@Findthouane the activities you listed can be done by both sexes but not all women can or want to be in a mixed group.

Sortumn · 16/06/2025 08:56

Findthouane · 15/06/2025 18:35

Interesting action. I’ve never thought of joining the WI but looked it up in my area. There wasn’t much detail. I presume some areas are more active than others. The area one had some events that are happening. TBH there wasn’t one that I could think would need to be woman only. Baking, calligraphy, a BBQ. There might be other things - I seem to need to join to find out (I am a woman).

The Equality Act seems to refer to a legitimate aim as a reason to discriminate on the grounds of sex. Do the WI in your areas do any activities which might be difficult for a woman if a man was present I can imagine a lot of important subjects, just not see that the local WI does this.

I think the activities are as much so that women can enjoy the company and conversation of other women, while doing something a little structured.
Once you add a man into the mix the conversation changes, women can't speak how they would in a single sex group and all sorts of other dynamics will start to play out. There'll be people pleasing and love bombing from some in an effort to be accommodating and show they have the right opinions, there'll be discomfort and self censoring from others and so on.

I feel just the same about men's sheds - that they should be for men as they've been set up to create a very specific dynamic that supports men to be more open with each other. Add a woman into the mix and it risks not meeting its original aim.

MyPresumablyScrotum · 16/06/2025 07:57

"In almost a century, Colonel Richard Stapleton-Cotton and his dog Tinker are the only two males ever to be allowed in as fully paid-up WI members."

Well, not quite the only two!

Cloudsandbees · 16/06/2025 05:07

He needs to respond to this consultation and quote the correspondence . It's exactly the kind of thing the EHRC needs to include in the new code of practice:
www.equalityhumanrights.com/equality/equality-act-2010/codes-practice/code-practice-services-public-functions-and-associations

Findthouane · 16/06/2025 04:21

Thanks - the court ruling is so obvious let’s hope the legal firm advises as such.

Marmaladelover · 15/06/2025 22:27

Here is the bit that is relevant . Image may not appear straight after I post .
So an association can restrict membership to s particular chararacteristic in the case of the WI - adult women . Since the Supreme Court judgement that means biological women only . it can’t admit Transwomen too because they are biological men . It can either admit all men including TW or just stick with the Sch 16 exemption and only allow biological women in .

it really is that simple, which why I can’t understand why the NFWI can’t get their collective arses into gear !

Oh wait , they don’t want to……

An update to the WI Announcement thread. My DH just got a reply to his application to join them.
Marmaladelover · 15/06/2025 22:18

The WI is an association not a service so Schedule 16 exceptions is the one you need to look at not schedule 3 .

TheOtherRaven · 15/06/2025 21:52

Yes. The 'legitimate aim' is to have a group that excludes men.

Findthouane · 15/06/2025 21:35

Thanks - think I’m getting mixed up in ECHR guidance

  • To establish a separate or single-sex service, you must show that you meet at least one of a number of statutory conditions (set out in this section of the guide) and that limiting the service on the basis of sex is a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim. For example, a legitimate aim could be for reasons of privacy, decency, to prevent trauma or to ensure health and safety. You must then be able to show that your action is a proportionate way of achieving that aim.
The examples are very obvious single sex wards or DV services
Marmaladelover · 15/06/2025 19:50

Findthouane · 15/06/2025 18:35

Interesting action. I’ve never thought of joining the WI but looked it up in my area. There wasn’t much detail. I presume some areas are more active than others. The area one had some events that are happening. TBH there wasn’t one that I could think would need to be woman only. Baking, calligraphy, a BBQ. There might be other things - I seem to need to join to find out (I am a woman).

The Equality Act seems to refer to a legitimate aim as a reason to discriminate on the grounds of sex. Do the WI in your areas do any activities which might be difficult for a woman if a man was present I can imagine a lot of important subjects, just not see that the local WI does this.

The original aim of the WI was as an education in company for adult women . That is still a major focus . Education does not generally consist of pens paper and exam questions! . Early on there was a strong community focus too. That still applies too.
it’s not that the activities are ones that only women can do, its so that the organisation is run by women for women without men calling the shots or running them for us .( which let’s face it , would happen if it were mixed)

The WI does have events which involve staying overnight - camps , training and the annual meet up . They often involve sharing sleeping arrangements .

JanesLittleGirl · 15/06/2025 18:47

spannasaurus · 15/06/2025 18:39

It's not about whether there is a legitimate aim for the individual activities but whether having a female only organisation is a legitimate aim.

It's not even a requirement to have a legitimate aim. Section 16 of the EA2010 allows a single sex organisation "just because we want one". No justification required at all.

spannasaurus · 15/06/2025 18:39

Findthouane · 15/06/2025 18:35

Interesting action. I’ve never thought of joining the WI but looked it up in my area. There wasn’t much detail. I presume some areas are more active than others. The area one had some events that are happening. TBH there wasn’t one that I could think would need to be woman only. Baking, calligraphy, a BBQ. There might be other things - I seem to need to join to find out (I am a woman).

The Equality Act seems to refer to a legitimate aim as a reason to discriminate on the grounds of sex. Do the WI in your areas do any activities which might be difficult for a woman if a man was present I can imagine a lot of important subjects, just not see that the local WI does this.

It's not about whether there is a legitimate aim for the individual activities but whether having a female only organisation is a legitimate aim.

Findthouane · 15/06/2025 18:35

Interesting action. I’ve never thought of joining the WI but looked it up in my area. There wasn’t much detail. I presume some areas are more active than others. The area one had some events that are happening. TBH there wasn’t one that I could think would need to be woman only. Baking, calligraphy, a BBQ. There might be other things - I seem to need to join to find out (I am a woman).

The Equality Act seems to refer to a legitimate aim as a reason to discriminate on the grounds of sex. Do the WI in your areas do any activities which might be difficult for a woman if a man was present I can imagine a lot of important subjects, just not see that the local WI does this.

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 15/06/2025 17:26

BettyFilous · 07/06/2025 14:14

I’ll do the usual public service announcement that shared google docs are not secure & can/do track the identity or emails of people contributing to them.

Eg: www.locklizard.com/document-security-blog/how-secure-are-google-docs/

Edited

Does that apply to Google Forms though? It does not mention Google Forms.

I realise that it might well apply to Google Sheets. If the Form links to a Google sheet, would someone with a link to the Form be able to access the Sheet with the data?

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 14/06/2025 13:21

Well thank you OP, have a lovely holiday. if you do decide to go ahead and need funding then I would be happy to contribute even if another organisation does offer to cover the costs. Crowdfunding can help build support and it can show the strength of public support as well which might be useful. A lot of people have heard of WI and are likely to have a view even if they're not members.

Under the Equality Act 2010 "living permanently as a woman" isn't a thing. It's just fluff. But I guess we'll find out eventually in court.

ILoveBrum · 14/06/2025 12:30

Thank you Op. Have a lovely holiday.

Conxis · 14/06/2025 12:22

Yes agree @Marmaladelover
The whole issue is how do you define the group? You can’t include/exclude a group of people legally unless you can define them. That’s why self ID doesn’t work in law as we have no definition of “living as”, and where the GRC came in as gave a definition.
But as you can’t know who does and doesn’t have one the whole thing is unworkable.
And if this was debated in parliament this is what would become glaringly obvious!

Marmaladelover · 14/06/2025 12:07

Conxis · 14/06/2025 11:33

It will be interesting to see what happens next because I do think that politically this is one area that is vulnerable to change. If enough people persuade the Government that there are a sizeable number of women who actively want ‘trans inclusive, male gender exclusive’ associations, then I can see that a change could be made to the association part of the Equality Act to allow such organisations to exist. The recent Women and Equalities Committee seemed to focus on this.

If they took this path would that only be for people with a GRC? If it’s self ID then it opens the way for people to join nefariously, which would probably be the argument against it in parliament

And don’t forget that the SC said you can’t differentiate between those with a GRC and those without including some one who decided they were a woman yesterday .
One of the problems with the WI policy is that it’s open to anyone “living permanently as a woman” ( how do you know if they are not ) and therefore open to abuse and the very perverse situation talked about in the judgement .