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An update to the WI Announcement thread. My DH just got a reply to his application to join them.

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Another2Cats · 12/05/2025 19:49

This is not a thread about a thread, but recently there was a thread about the Womens Institute announcement that they would not be implementing the SC ruling anytime soon.

I was reading the thread at the time and, entirely jokingly, I suggested to my DH that he should apply to join the WI and see what they say.

So he did just that (he totally gets the GC point of view) and I posted about this at the time:

Another2Cats · 08/05/2025 19:45

I just got my DH to send an email to them:

Hello,

My name is Xxxx (very obviously masculine name). I just read your transgender policy and understand that you accept men.

I am a man and would like to join the local WI group in [xxxx city] (the nearest branch for me is in yyyy [suburb of xxxx city]).

Should I just turn up next Wednesday evening and sign up?

I'm really waiting with bated breath to see what sort of response there is.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5330297-womens-institute-announcement?reply=144143149
.

Well, it turns out that they sent a response this lunchtime.

This is their reply (although with contact details redacted):

Good morning,

Thank you for your enquiry. Our policy states that “WI membership is open to all women who live as women, including transgender women.” If you fit within this statement, you will be more than welcome to attend. I am afraid the WI is not open to men.

Kind regards,

[Redacted]

[Name Redacted]
Federation Secretary
[Two cities - well, a city and a town - redacted] Federation of WIs CIO
[Address redacted]
[Telephone number redacted]
Office hours: Tues, Weds, Thurs 9am – 1pm

Please note the new email address – [Redacted]
.

I don't know, is this something that DH should take up with the EHRC now that he has it in writing?

Women’s institute announcement | Mumsnet

Published earlier today.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5330297-womens-institute-announcement

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Another2Cats · 29/06/2025 16:23

@WhatNextCatsAsDoctors

"If you’re not genuinely trying to join and you’re just doing it to make a point, there’s no case."

I'm sorry but what do you know about my DH and his interests and why the WI was the only local group that provided them that he could access (if it weren't for him being a man)?

"I actually contacted the WI about it and they said they’re aware of the thread, which tells you how seriously it’s being taken."

That's great, and they should take my DH seriously.

Have a look at the redacted email I sent you.

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OldCrone · 29/06/2025 16:23

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 29/06/2025 16:19

I have seen that and have responded. For context, it’s a screenshot of an email which could have very easily have been photoshopped. It doesn’t show evidence for anything other than some text about a legal extension.

I understand you aren’t able to put emails from solicitors onto the internet, but I’m sorry I just don’t believe what you’re saying. The story doesn’t sound plausible to me.

Which part doesn't sound plausible?

NoWordForFluffy · 29/06/2025 16:22

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 29/06/2025 16:19

I have seen that and have responded. For context, it’s a screenshot of an email which could have very easily have been photoshopped. It doesn’t show evidence for anything other than some text about a legal extension.

I understand you aren’t able to put emails from solicitors onto the internet, but I’m sorry I just don’t believe what you’re saying. The story doesn’t sound plausible to me.

Troll hunting is against MN's talk guidelines. Have you reported the OP?

NoBinturongsHereMate · 29/06/2025 16:20

The 'wildly unprofessional behaviour isn't credible' line of argument puts me in mind of Lister's response to Hogey the Rogey claiming that everything is "the likes of which you've never seen".

"I'm just saying ...you'd be surprised the likes of which we have seen. Don't be so quick to say everything's the likes of which we haven't seen - we've seen things the likes of which you probably haven't seen yourself!"

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 29/06/2025 16:20

OldCrone · 29/06/2025 16:17

If I were you, I wouldn't engage any further with that poster who appears to be a TRA.

‘Let’s ignore the person who doesn’t agree with all our talking points’.

Okay, enjoy your echo chamber all!

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 29/06/2025 16:19

Another2Cats · 29/06/2025 16:10

I've sent you a PM with a link to a redacted image of the latest email from the law firm to my DH (I'm not too sure if it's big enough to read clearly - please let me know if you have problems reading it).

MN does not allow images to be sent via PM so I had to create an account on Imgur.

Emails are confidential between the parties, do you really think that I am going to be putting emails from the solicitors to my DH all over the internet?

I have seen that and have responded. For context, it’s a screenshot of an email which could have very easily have been photoshopped. It doesn’t show evidence for anything other than some text about a legal extension.

I understand you aren’t able to put emails from solicitors onto the internet, but I’m sorry I just don’t believe what you’re saying. The story doesn’t sound plausible to me.

OldCrone · 29/06/2025 16:17

Another2Cats · 29/06/2025 16:10

I've sent you a PM with a link to a redacted image of the latest email from the law firm to my DH (I'm not too sure if it's big enough to read clearly - please let me know if you have problems reading it).

MN does not allow images to be sent via PM so I had to create an account on Imgur.

Emails are confidential between the parties, do you really think that I am going to be putting emails from the solicitors to my DH all over the internet?

If I were you, I wouldn't engage any further with that poster who appears to be a TRA.

NoBinturongsHereMate · 29/06/2025 16:13

the idea that a partner at a top-tier law firm would disclose to a random member of the public that other charities are under pressure or being challenged legally is just not credible. That would be wildly unprofessional

Given the amount of 'wildly unprofessional' behaviour we've seen from certain barristers on here, and elsewhere on social media, I don't see that as undermining credibility at all.

Maybe it's true, maybe it's not. If not, it's still an excellent opportunity to thrash out the possible arguments, counterarguments, and relevant points of law.

Another2Cats · 29/06/2025 16:10

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I've sent you a PM with a link to a redacted image of the latest email from the law firm to my DH (I'm not too sure if it's big enough to read clearly - please let me know if you have problems reading it).

MN does not allow images to be sent via PM so I had to create an account on Imgur.

Emails are confidential between the parties, do you really think that I am going to be putting emails from the solicitors to my DH all over the internet?

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ArabellaScott · 29/06/2025 16:07

Pollard often comments on Sarah Jane Baker's social media posts, fwiw.

ArabellaScott · 29/06/2025 16:05

I wanted to check the point made upthread about the WI and Nettie Pollard.

They didn't platform Pollard, per se.

She appeared on a panel on an event organised by the AHRC (I think Arts & Humanities Research Council) on grassroots organising.

So did the WI.

Unless I've missed another link.

web.archive.org/web/20240104001536/www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/womens-grassroots-activism-ahrc-research-network-online-workshop-tickets-781337630887

Theeyeballsinthesky · 29/06/2025 16:05

I’m sure if this all turns out to be nonsense you can come back & say I told you so @WhatNextCatsAsDoctors

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 29/06/2025 16:04

Catiette · 29/06/2025 15:54

It's a possibility, but I think Occam's Razor applies here. Is it more likely that

  1. The OP is engaging in months-long con requiring a fair degree of legal knowledge (I've no doubt more knowledgeable posters than I would have called them out if they got something concretely wrong) and remarkable commitment

or

  1. This is real, and they're, in part, motivated not by [whatever you think would motivate someone to do that] but a passion for women's rights.

If the WI is reading, that may be a good thing. I sincerely hope they're noting the strength of feeling on this topic, and the largely calm, rational, fair-minded arguments behind it.

Edited

From what I’ve read (and I could have missed some detail) the OP has said some things which have been interpreted on here as ‘weak arguments’ from the lawyers. Could that not just be OP’s lack of knowledge on the statements a top-tier lawyer would genuinely put forward? And for the case OP is making, it isn’t hard to copy what others on here have said. None of the exchanges read as real to me at all.

I have also watched enough episodes of catfish to know that yes, bored people absolutely do engage in months-long cons. Scenarios like this on anonymous forums are more likely fake than real, and that’s just basic internet experience and literacy.

Can I also just say, the idea that a partner at a top-tier law firm would disclose to a random member of the public that other charities are under pressure or being challenged legally is just not credible. That would be wildly unprofessional and potentially a breach of confidentiality. No serious solicitor would speak that loosely, especially to someone they’re not formally representing.

Catiette · 29/06/2025 15:55

And as long as we do take it at face value - the OP's husband sounds pretty darn passionate about those hobbies, too!

Catiette · 29/06/2025 15:54

It's a possibility, but I think Occam's Razor applies here. Is it more likely that

  1. The OP is engaging in months-long con requiring a fair degree of legal knowledge (I've no doubt more knowledgeable posters than I would have called them out if they got something concretely wrong) and remarkable commitment

or

  1. This is real, and they're, in part, motivated not by [whatever you think would motivate someone to do that] but a passion for women's rights.

If the WI is reading, that may be a good thing. I sincerely hope they're noting the strength of feeling on this topic, and the largely calm, rational, fair-minded arguments behind it.

WhatNextCatsAsDoctors · 29/06/2025 15:40

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NoBinturongsHereMate · 29/06/2025 15:35

WithSilverBells · 29/06/2025 14:58

Because teenagers will always rebel against staid institutions? Or because teenagers are over the whole TWAW thing?

The former. The WI is (from a teenage perspective) an Old People Thing, and therefore the antithesis of cool.

Another2Cats · 29/06/2025 15:34

UnityMofT · 29/06/2025 14:29

Without wishing to sound critical of anyone here, this is all beginning to get needlessly convoluted.

The position that the WI is in is actually relatively straightforward.

As a matter of law, specifically the Charities Acts, it defines its primary charitable purpose as being that that the education of WOMEN.

The governing documents of the WI, its regional federatations and its member associations, explicitly define a Women's Institute as an 'association of WOMEN'.

The model constitution that the WI supplies to its member associations restricts membership to "WOMEN who have reached the Age of Majority."

The only legal question that arises from the UKSC ruling in FWS v Scottish Ministers is whether the definition of 'sex' - and by extension 'women' - within the Equality Act, as clarified by the court, should automatically be read across into the WI's governing documents, which has to be the case if the WI has operated, and wishes to continue to operate lawfully under the Charities exception in s193 of the Equality Act 2010.

The immediate effect of this is that males cannot and never have been eligible for membership of the WI, regardless of how they identify, rendering any such memberships automatically null and void.

The positive action clause in s158 is completely irrelevant here - if the WI wishes to admit TiMs as members then it has to amend its governing documents accordingly.

There is no need here to get into the weeds of discrimination claims and the like, the WI's governing documents are clear in terms of the objects and membership criteria and any WI branch or federation operating outside of its governing document should be referred to the Charity Commission for investigation.

For the record, I worked for a Council for Voluntary Services for several years and specialised in charity formation and governance, so dealt with the Charity Commission and charity law on a regular basis.

I don't think anybody here would disagree with your overarching position that the WI don't have a case to stand on.

But:

"There is no need here to get into the weeds of discrimination claims and the like"

Unfortunately, that is where DH is, in "the weeds".

"The positive action clause in s158 is completely irrelevant here"

I totally agree, but it's not irrelevant if that is what you are faced with as a defence (or possible defence).

ps DH has just mentioned your name. Apparently he follows you (and Audrey) on Twitter and has just seen your conversation there.

I agree with your reason as to why they are likely raising the issue of S158 at this time.

(pps what does the acronym PMTALA mean?)

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Marmaladelover · 29/06/2025 15:33

ArabellaScott · 29/06/2025 15:24

Thanks.

Can anyone report any WI to the CC, or does it need to be a member/erstwhile member of said branch?

Many people have already and received back the same Weasley words from them - we are awaiting the outcome of the EHRC consultation.

ArabellaScott · 29/06/2025 15:24

UnityMofT · 29/06/2025 14:29

Without wishing to sound critical of anyone here, this is all beginning to get needlessly convoluted.

The position that the WI is in is actually relatively straightforward.

As a matter of law, specifically the Charities Acts, it defines its primary charitable purpose as being that that the education of WOMEN.

The governing documents of the WI, its regional federatations and its member associations, explicitly define a Women's Institute as an 'association of WOMEN'.

The model constitution that the WI supplies to its member associations restricts membership to "WOMEN who have reached the Age of Majority."

The only legal question that arises from the UKSC ruling in FWS v Scottish Ministers is whether the definition of 'sex' - and by extension 'women' - within the Equality Act, as clarified by the court, should automatically be read across into the WI's governing documents, which has to be the case if the WI has operated, and wishes to continue to operate lawfully under the Charities exception in s193 of the Equality Act 2010.

The immediate effect of this is that males cannot and never have been eligible for membership of the WI, regardless of how they identify, rendering any such memberships automatically null and void.

The positive action clause in s158 is completely irrelevant here - if the WI wishes to admit TiMs as members then it has to amend its governing documents accordingly.

There is no need here to get into the weeds of discrimination claims and the like, the WI's governing documents are clear in terms of the objects and membership criteria and any WI branch or federation operating outside of its governing document should be referred to the Charity Commission for investigation.

For the record, I worked for a Council for Voluntary Services for several years and specialised in charity formation and governance, so dealt with the Charity Commission and charity law on a regular basis.

Thanks.

Can anyone report any WI to the CC, or does it need to be a member/erstwhile member of said branch?

WithSilverBells · 29/06/2025 14:58

NoBinturongsHereMate · 29/06/2025 14:42

This will not die until we get it out of the schools.

The WI going all-in on TWAW seems very likely to turn teenagers off the idea.

Because teenagers will always rebel against staid institutions? Or because teenagers are over the whole TWAW thing?

NoBinturongsHereMate · 29/06/2025 14:42

This will not die until we get it out of the schools.

The WI going all-in on TWAW seems very likely to turn teenagers off the idea.

NoBinturongsHereMate · 29/06/2025 14:35

This will not die until we get it out of the schools.

The WI going all-in on TWAW seems very likely to turn teenagers off the idea.

UnityMofT · 29/06/2025 14:29

Without wishing to sound critical of anyone here, this is all beginning to get needlessly convoluted.

The position that the WI is in is actually relatively straightforward.

As a matter of law, specifically the Charities Acts, it defines its primary charitable purpose as being that that the education of WOMEN.

The governing documents of the WI, its regional federatations and its member associations, explicitly define a Women's Institute as an 'association of WOMEN'.

The model constitution that the WI supplies to its member associations restricts membership to "WOMEN who have reached the Age of Majority."

The only legal question that arises from the UKSC ruling in FWS v Scottish Ministers is whether the definition of 'sex' - and by extension 'women' - within the Equality Act, as clarified by the court, should automatically be read across into the WI's governing documents, which has to be the case if the WI has operated, and wishes to continue to operate lawfully under the Charities exception in s193 of the Equality Act 2010.

The immediate effect of this is that males cannot and never have been eligible for membership of the WI, regardless of how they identify, rendering any such memberships automatically null and void.

The positive action clause in s158 is completely irrelevant here - if the WI wishes to admit TiMs as members then it has to amend its governing documents accordingly.

There is no need here to get into the weeds of discrimination claims and the like, the WI's governing documents are clear in terms of the objects and membership criteria and any WI branch or federation operating outside of its governing document should be referred to the Charity Commission for investigation.

For the record, I worked for a Council for Voluntary Services for several years and specialised in charity formation and governance, so dealt with the Charity Commission and charity law on a regular basis.

TheOtherRaven · 29/06/2025 14:19

I suspect, more awkwardly, you'd find yourself dealing with activist women joining, who have decided that their feminism is about aggressively centering men and omni causes, and who suffer from the same difficulties with tolerating diversity of thought and resources.

But we've been here before. There have always been women sent to put other women back in their boxes to block their education, freedom, independence. I suspect standing up to this is what will offer future generations of women the same new opportunities we were offered by previous generations.