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An update to the WI Announcement thread. My DH just got a reply to his application to join them.

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Another2Cats · 12/05/2025 19:49

This is not a thread about a thread, but recently there was a thread about the Womens Institute announcement that they would not be implementing the SC ruling anytime soon.

I was reading the thread at the time and, entirely jokingly, I suggested to my DH that he should apply to join the WI and see what they say.

So he did just that (he totally gets the GC point of view) and I posted about this at the time:

Another2Cats · 08/05/2025 19:45

I just got my DH to send an email to them:

Hello,

My name is Xxxx (very obviously masculine name). I just read your transgender policy and understand that you accept men.

I am a man and would like to join the local WI group in [xxxx city] (the nearest branch for me is in yyyy [suburb of xxxx city]).

Should I just turn up next Wednesday evening and sign up?

I'm really waiting with bated breath to see what sort of response there is.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5330297-womens-institute-announcement?reply=144143149
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Well, it turns out that they sent a response this lunchtime.

This is their reply (although with contact details redacted):

Good morning,

Thank you for your enquiry. Our policy states that “WI membership is open to all women who live as women, including transgender women.” If you fit within this statement, you will be more than welcome to attend. I am afraid the WI is not open to men.

Kind regards,

[Redacted]

[Name Redacted]
Federation Secretary
[Two cities - well, a city and a town - redacted] Federation of WIs CIO
[Address redacted]
[Telephone number redacted]
Office hours: Tues, Weds, Thurs 9am – 1pm

Please note the new email address – [Redacted]
.

I don't know, is this something that DH should take up with the EHRC now that he has it in writing?

Women’s institute announcement | Mumsnet

Published earlier today.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5330297-womens-institute-announcement

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DrUptonsGardenGnome · 29/06/2025 21:28

I wanted to chime in on the “are you a lawyer” query from the law firm. My thought is that was said not to flatter your husband (that might be a side-effect) but to winkle out whether he’d be susceptible, as a non-lawyer, to their spurious defence and be intimidated/bamboozled into dropping the case.

Marmaladelover · 29/06/2025 21:14

OldCrone · 29/06/2025 20:44

But they're supposed to be an organisation for women, so why are they considering how to help some men to overcome their disadvantages? Particularly since in doing so, they are disadvantaging or excluding some of their female members.

Mainly because they are so entrenched in their views and want to save face. Let’s face it nobody wants to appear stupid . Trouble is the longer they continue with this farce the stupider the leadership looks

[WAVES MADLY, pointing fingers at the CEO, Chairman, Head of Legal and Head of membership et all who are hopefully reading this at NFWI HQ - yes you lot …., I am pointing at you! Stop looking behind you, and wake up and smell the coffee]

Another2Cats · 29/06/2025 21:08

@Catiette Thank you for standing up for me. I really do appreciate it!

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MsGoodenough · 29/06/2025 21:08

When filling in the EHRC consultation on sex in the Equality Act, these two paragraphs jumped out at me. you are probably all over this already, but just in case:

13.3.19 If a service provider (or a person providing a service in the exercise of public functions) admits trans people to a service intended for the opposite biological sex, then it can no longer rely on the exceptions set out at paragraphs 13.2.3 to 13.2.22. This means that if a service is provided only to women and trans women or only to men and trans men, it is not a separate-sex or single-sex service under the Equality Act 2010. A service like this is very likely to amount to unlawful sex discrimination against the people of the opposite sex who are not allowed to use it. A service which is provided to women and trans women could also be unlawful sex discrimination or lead to unlawful harassment against women who use the service. Similar considerations would apply to a service provided for men and trans men.

13.5.3 If a service provider (including a person providing a service in the exercise of public functions) decides to have a separate or single-sex service and allows trans people to use the service intended for the opposite biological sex, the service will no longer be a separate or single-sex service under the Equality Act 2010 (the Act). It is also very likely to amount to unlawful discrimination against others (read paragraph 13.3.19).

BundleBoogie · 29/06/2025 21:05

UnityMofT · 29/06/2025 20:30

Those memberships are null and void as a matter of law and any WI operating on that basis could face regulatory action by the Charity Commission for breaching their govening documents.

But what do we do if the WI branches continue to admit men and the Charities Commission won’t do anything about it?

MyAmpleSheep · 29/06/2025 20:57

OldCrone · 29/06/2025 20:44

But they're supposed to be an organisation for women, so why are they considering how to help some men to overcome their disadvantages? Particularly since in doing so, they are disadvantaging or excluding some of their female members.

I agree with you. But organizations can decide to do lots of (to the outside world) obviously stupid things that aren't actually unlawful. Normally the right answer is for the members to get together and vote in a new executive team.

The question here is how to demonstrate this is actually not lawful.

OldCrone · 29/06/2025 20:44

MyAmpleSheep · 29/06/2025 20:28

>they offered to provide further information around the disadvantages faced by TIM and how the WI can help overcome that.

I am particularly intrigued (and skeptical), as I'm sure the OP is, as to whether and how, specifically allowing them full membership in the organization is the best or even a proportional way to overcome whatever disadvantages they feel TIMs suffer. There is a wide range of other less discriminatory things they could do instead.

But they're supposed to be an organisation for women, so why are they considering how to help some men to overcome their disadvantages? Particularly since in doing so, they are disadvantaging or excluding some of their female members.

NoBinturongsHereMate · 29/06/2025 20:42

UnityMofT · 29/06/2025 20:30

Those memberships are null and void as a matter of law and any WI operating on that basis could face regulatory action by the Charity Commission for breaching their govening documents.

The problem is that the Charity Commission is refusing to take action.

MyAmpleSheep · 29/06/2025 20:34

I mean, isn't this like an association open only to deaf people allowing any gay or lesbian person to join as long as they wear ear plugs?

Perhaps that example is offensive to deaf people and/or gay and lesbian people, and if it is, I apologize. But if it is, doesn't that just highlight the absurdity of what the WI is saying?

UnityMofT · 29/06/2025 20:33

spannasaurus · 29/06/2025 20:30

I agree that all the male memberships should be null and void but the WI seems intent on finding a reason that they can be still included

Yes, I've seen the 'positive action' idea and, frankly, its a load of bollocks - lawyers inventing spurious complications in the hope that any potential plaintiffs will lack the time, money and will to wade through their bullshit in order to get to court.

UnityMofT · 29/06/2025 20:30

Marmaladelover · 29/06/2025 20:27

You’d think so , but they do have them , pretending to be women ……( not very well)

Those memberships are null and void as a matter of law and any WI operating on that basis could face regulatory action by the Charity Commission for breaching their govening documents.

spannasaurus · 29/06/2025 20:30

UnityMofT · 29/06/2025 20:28

There is no provision in the Wi's governing documents that would allow males to be admitted to membership.

Males may have been admitted as members in the mistaken belief that the WI could define the word 'women' in such a way as to include males who identify as transgender but this is not the case in law and never has been, as per the UKSC judgement in FWS v Scottish Ministers.

Any and all such memberships are null and void.

WI's and WI Federations that operate under company as well as charity law may appoint males to serve as company secretary but this does not make them a member of the WI.

I agree that all the male memberships should be null and void but the WI seems intent on finding a reason that they can be still included

MyAmpleSheep · 29/06/2025 20:28

Another2Cats · 29/06/2025 17:04

"Was it a without prejudice conversation?"

Yes

"I'm interested in a 6 week defence extension. 28 days is the usual request"

They did ask for 28 days initially. But then during the conversation, they offered to provide further information around the disadvantages faced by TIM and how the WI can help overcome that.

DH said that if there were such strong evidence then that may sway his mind on what he does with the case. So they asked for an extra 21 days to get that together, DH agreed to an extra 14 days.

>they offered to provide further information around the disadvantages faced by TIM and how the WI can help overcome that.

I am particularly intrigued (and skeptical), as I'm sure the OP is, as to whether and how, specifically allowing them full membership in the organization is the best or even a proportional way to overcome whatever disadvantages they feel TIMs suffer. There is a wide range of other less discriminatory things they could do instead.

UnityMofT · 29/06/2025 20:28

spannasaurus · 29/06/2025 20:21

They do have male members though

There is no provision in the Wi's governing documents that would allow males to be admitted to membership.

Males may have been admitted as members in the mistaken belief that the WI could define the word 'women' in such a way as to include males who identify as transgender but this is not the case in law and never has been, as per the UKSC judgement in FWS v Scottish Ministers.

Any and all such memberships are null and void.

WI's and WI Federations that operate under company as well as charity law may appoint males to serve as company secretary but this does not make them a member of the WI.

Marmaladelover · 29/06/2025 20:27

UnityMofT · 29/06/2025 20:04

Forget what it says on the WI's website or in their press releases, the legal position in regards to their governing documents is that men are ineligible to become members regardless of how they identify or whether they have a gender recognition certificate.

The WI cannot adopt or operate a policy that breaches the terms of its governing documents. Any such policy is automatically null and void.

You’d think so , but they do have them , pretending to be women ……( not very well)

spannasaurus · 29/06/2025 20:21

UnityMofT · 29/06/2025 20:04

Forget what it says on the WI's website or in their press releases, the legal position in regards to their governing documents is that men are ineligible to become members regardless of how they identify or whether they have a gender recognition certificate.

The WI cannot adopt or operate a policy that breaches the terms of its governing documents. Any such policy is automatically null and void.

They do have male members though

UnityMofT · 29/06/2025 20:04

Gundogday · 29/06/2025 19:09

Except trans women ‘living as women’ are eligible to join, so men can join. Except in FAQ it says men can’t join…

Forget what it says on the WI's website or in their press releases, the legal position in regards to their governing documents is that men are ineligible to become members regardless of how they identify or whether they have a gender recognition certificate.

The WI cannot adopt or operate a policy that breaches the terms of its governing documents. Any such policy is automatically null and void.

Stepfordian · 29/06/2025 19:16

dynamiccactus · 29/06/2025 18:43

Not sure positive action fits here. Isn't that only for recruitment? If it isn't, I've learnt something today!

But if that was really the argument everyone would be using it and in all the comments about the SC judgment on LinkedIn, I've not seen anyone mention positive action as a way of getting round the issue.

Doesn't sound like it will fly to me.

It’s not just for recruitment but you can’t use it as they’re suggesting, you could offer a service/advertise a job or whatever to everyone but prioritise one particular group above everyone else, like the guaranteed interview scheme for disabled applicants who meet the job criteria. The WI could prioritise trans men if they were actually concerned about helping trans people, but that is clearly not their real motivation.

I believe the Round Table have a separate ‘women’s group’ but still manage to keep a group just for men, the WI could do something like that, but if they keep it women only plus some disadvantaged men then it’s no longer women only.

Gundogday · 29/06/2025 19:09

UnityMofT · 29/06/2025 14:29

Without wishing to sound critical of anyone here, this is all beginning to get needlessly convoluted.

The position that the WI is in is actually relatively straightforward.

As a matter of law, specifically the Charities Acts, it defines its primary charitable purpose as being that that the education of WOMEN.

The governing documents of the WI, its regional federatations and its member associations, explicitly define a Women's Institute as an 'association of WOMEN'.

The model constitution that the WI supplies to its member associations restricts membership to "WOMEN who have reached the Age of Majority."

The only legal question that arises from the UKSC ruling in FWS v Scottish Ministers is whether the definition of 'sex' - and by extension 'women' - within the Equality Act, as clarified by the court, should automatically be read across into the WI's governing documents, which has to be the case if the WI has operated, and wishes to continue to operate lawfully under the Charities exception in s193 of the Equality Act 2010.

The immediate effect of this is that males cannot and never have been eligible for membership of the WI, regardless of how they identify, rendering any such memberships automatically null and void.

The positive action clause in s158 is completely irrelevant here - if the WI wishes to admit TiMs as members then it has to amend its governing documents accordingly.

There is no need here to get into the weeds of discrimination claims and the like, the WI's governing documents are clear in terms of the objects and membership criteria and any WI branch or federation operating outside of its governing document should be referred to the Charity Commission for investigation.

For the record, I worked for a Council for Voluntary Services for several years and specialised in charity formation and governance, so dealt with the Charity Commission and charity law on a regular basis.

Except trans women ‘living as women’ are eligible to join, so men can join. Except in FAQ it says men can’t join…

Glamourreader · 29/06/2025 18:48

I agree, and as I said a few messages back, the Mothers' Union is available to them as an alternative

dynamiccactus · 29/06/2025 18:43

Not sure positive action fits here. Isn't that only for recruitment? If it isn't, I've learnt something today!

But if that was really the argument everyone would be using it and in all the comments about the SC judgment on LinkedIn, I've not seen anyone mention positive action as a way of getting round the issue.

Doesn't sound like it will fly to me.

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 29/06/2025 18:05

Another2Cats · 29/06/2025 17:35

Yes, I know. They just got to me.

That same number and email address for him are also on the firm's website and readily available.

I just really object to being called a liar.

"...that he should contact the WI's solicitor to discuss his conversation with your DH."

That wasn't done with the intention of suggesting that this poster should actually do it, but to point out that I can refer to a very specific event that is very verifiable. "Mr solicitor did you have a telephone conversation with a man about a case against the WI on Friday afternoon at 2.45pm"

I just noticed what you said

"...that he should..."

That's interesting. Why do you say that? Does that poster come across as being a bloke?

I just noticed what you said
"...that he should..."

That's interesting. Why do you say that? Does that poster come across as being a bloke?

Must do because I only noticed reading back after I had posted that I had said "he".

It wasn't a conscious thing when I was writing but I realised on reading back that I didn't know if they were a he or a she so thought I had best change "he" to "they".

NoBinturongsHereMate · 29/06/2025 17:52

"Mr solicitor did you have a telephone conversation with a man about a case against the WI on Friday afternoon at 2.45pm"

To which the answer should be "We can't discuss cases with unrelated parties."

Another2Cats · 29/06/2025 17:35

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 29/06/2025 17:22

Why do you care so much about what a random person on the internet thinks, particularly when they have been intent on undermining you?

I am gobsmacked that you would share the name of the solicitor and his direct phone number in a PM, suggesting to a stranger on the internet, who is inimical to you and your DH, that they should contact the WI's solicitor to discuss his conversation with your DH.

It is not beyond the bounds of possibility that this information might be used to harass the WI's solicitor, by people who are not on your side but who claim to be when making contact.

All of your posts on this matter have been so measured and rational that this tack seems completely out of character.

EDIT for grammar.

Edited

Yes, I know. They just got to me.

That same number and email address for him are also on the firm's website and readily available.

I just really object to being called a liar.

"...that he should contact the WI's solicitor to discuss his conversation with your DH."

That wasn't done with the intention of suggesting that this poster should actually do it, but to point out that I can refer to a very specific event that is very verifiable. "Mr solicitor did you have a telephone conversation with a man about a case against the WI on Friday afternoon at 2.45pm"

I just noticed what you said

"...that he should..."

That's interesting. Why do you say that? Does that poster come across as being a bloke?

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ifIwerenotanandroid · 29/06/2025 17:34

Actually, did someone say that action taken to overcome a disadvantage has to be time-limited?