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An update to the WI Announcement thread. My DH just got a reply to his application to join them.

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Another2Cats · 12/05/2025 19:49

This is not a thread about a thread, but recently there was a thread about the Womens Institute announcement that they would not be implementing the SC ruling anytime soon.

I was reading the thread at the time and, entirely jokingly, I suggested to my DH that he should apply to join the WI and see what they say.

So he did just that (he totally gets the GC point of view) and I posted about this at the time:

Another2Cats · 08/05/2025 19:45

I just got my DH to send an email to them:

Hello,

My name is Xxxx (very obviously masculine name). I just read your transgender policy and understand that you accept men.

I am a man and would like to join the local WI group in [xxxx city] (the nearest branch for me is in yyyy [suburb of xxxx city]).

Should I just turn up next Wednesday evening and sign up?

I'm really waiting with bated breath to see what sort of response there is.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5330297-womens-institute-announcement?reply=144143149
.

Well, it turns out that they sent a response this lunchtime.

This is their reply (although with contact details redacted):

Good morning,

Thank you for your enquiry. Our policy states that “WI membership is open to all women who live as women, including transgender women.” If you fit within this statement, you will be more than welcome to attend. I am afraid the WI is not open to men.

Kind regards,

[Redacted]

[Name Redacted]
Federation Secretary
[Two cities - well, a city and a town - redacted] Federation of WIs CIO
[Address redacted]
[Telephone number redacted]
Office hours: Tues, Weds, Thurs 9am – 1pm

Please note the new email address – [Redacted]
.

I don't know, is this something that DH should take up with the EHRC now that he has it in writing?

Women’s institute announcement | Mumsnet

Published earlier today.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5330297-womens-institute-announcement

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WorkingItOutAsIGo · 30/08/2025 12:53

Thanks OP for the reminder about the Parking bollard threads. That was probably my first experience of mumsnet. I'm chuckling at the memory.

HelpHedgehogsByFeedingThemCatBiscuits · 28/08/2025 14:39

Well done OP. Your hard work is appreciated.

I.ve commented on a sanctimonious thread about men being allowed into the WI on the insufferable Reddit According to the Women's Institute (probably one of the best organizations to decide who a woman is) have said on record that trans women are women, and are to be included in the Women's Institute. : r/transgenderUK which is a cesspit of misogynistic views and male supremacist wankery.

They hate that as they like to think they are so woke and inclusive.
All of it needs to be challenged.

Another2Cats · 22/07/2025 07:33

RareGoalsVerge · 21/07/2025 10:16

@Another2Cats - This thread is now at 962 posts. Please make a Thread#2 before it hits 1000 so that you can post here with a link to the new thread.

Thank you very much, that is a very good point. I have now done that and the link is here:

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5377946-dh-v-the-wi-thread-2

I really can't believe that a thread I started is going to a second thread!

To me multiple threads were things like (well, apart from threads like Peggie v NHS Fife etc) parking on the Isle of Wight or stacking goats for an MN festival.

DH -v- The WI, Thread 2 | Mumsnet

{mention:RareGoalsVerge} rightly pointed out (thank you) on my previous thread that it was getting near the limit and that I should start a second thr...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5377946-dh-v-the-wi-thread-2

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RareGoalsVerge · 21/07/2025 10:16

@Another2Cats - This thread is now at 962 posts. Please make a Thread#2 before it hits 1000 so that you can post here with a link to the new thread.

Somanyquestionstoaskaboutthis · 20/07/2025 22:17

Catches up on Fife posts after a marathon reading session. Congratulates self and turns to watched threads. Sees 158 new posts on this thread. Pours a large G&T and resigns self to another late night.

Marmaladelover · 20/07/2025 20:38

Marmaladelover · 01/07/2025 17:31

Been delving a bit about this novel s158 idea that the solicitors presented in their phone all last Friday to the OPs husband. It’s on the Good Law Project website ( along with lots more crap. They boast their crap guidance was drawn up by a KC and team of other barristers which is supposed to impress us until you realise that the KC is Jolyon Maughan who specialises in tax law . So it looks like Bate and Wells are getting their advice from GLP or just accessing their FAQ as I did. .

I will post a couple of screenshots from the page but in the meantime here is the link to the page .

https://goodlawproject.org/resource/trans-inclusion-after-the-supreme-court-decision-faqs/

Quoting my own post i wrote a week or so ago.

Found out on Friday from Audrey Lugwig , a barrister (who spoke to our WI on Friday evening) a little more about the legal basis of the WI statement of case particularly this concept of trans inclusive. The originator is Jason Coppel who was the KC acting for EHRC in FWS who were appearing as Intervenors . Apparently he surmised this in a podcast he did 8 May with Zoe Gannon and Ruth Kennedy from the same chambers. And reported on by Sex Matters link here
https://sex-matters.org/posts/updates/why-are-lawyers-encouraging-confusion-about-the-law/

Jason Coppel has worked with the Good Law Project before though so there is a connection there and to Jolyon Maughan around the PPE scandal in 2022. Is he the “eminent KC” mentioned by JM in the article ? Perhaps?

Anyhow Audrey didn’t think much of the WI statement of case which i summarised for her. And pointed out the absurbity oc claiming or not a single sex exemption as if that is some group you sign up to . Either de facto you are or not depending on past actions. They are - end of.

Marmaladelover · 20/07/2025 08:49

littlebilliie · 19/07/2025 22:44

Where is the Charity Comission in all this? Do they not have to ensure that charities are following the law of the land?

People have written to them and received the same mass generated “wait until the guidance” waffly email back . Hopeless!

sashh · 20/07/2025 02:02

littlebilliie · 19/07/2025 22:44

Where is the Charity Comission in all this? Do they not have to ensure that charities are following the law of the land?

Busy investigating a bunny sanctuary for alleged 'transphobia'.

littlebilliie · 19/07/2025 22:44

Where is the Charity Comission in all this? Do they not have to ensure that charities are following the law of the land?

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 18/07/2025 01:49

Iamnotalemming · 16/07/2025 23:55

My DM's local WI disbanded in recent years because all their funds were going on dues and they didn't see much benefit in return. As DM tells it, two scary women from the national organisation turned up to one of their meetings to tell them it was a mistake to leave and something they would regret. It only seemed to have the effect of steeling the views of those who were on the fence into definitely leaving! Couldn't tell you what happened to the fees, but they are now [village name] women's group, not WI.

This seems a sensible alternative if the WI decides to spaff its funds on a hopeless legal case. Independent Groups could set up arrangements to affiliate with each other and organically grow a new organisation.

Looking at the FAQs, if there was enough interest a whole Federation (Region) might break away:

NFWI stands for National Federation of Women’s Institutes and is responsible for running our charitable organisation as a whole. Its headquarters are located in Parsons Green, London.

There are 70 federations spread across the UK. Imagine them as regional offices, linking all the WI in its area with the NFWI in London.

Therefore, every single WI belongs to a federation. As an example: the "Guernsey Lilies" belong to the Guernsey federation, just like the Selby Swans belong to the North Yorkshire East federation and so on.

As a result, when a woman joins her local WI, she becomes a member of that particular WI and not her regional federation or the NFWI.

https://www.thewi.org.uk/faqs

Greyskybluesky · 17/07/2025 21:15

YourSnugHazelTraybake · 17/07/2025 15:07

Completely out of left field, and I'm sure many of you ladies much cleverer than me would know better, but since the member constitution bars men, and women pay membership based on that constitution then technically could that not constitute fraud? Or taking money under false pretences?

This question has been raised before but I'm afraid I don't know the answer. It's something they're going to have to respond to though. Lots of women (I'd say most?) joined on the basis that it's a WOMEN's organisation and that's what they've paid for. If it's now not a women's organisation and members want to leave and want their money back I think they are entitled to it - it's false selling!

The whole thing is a massive mess of their own making.

ArabellaScott · 17/07/2025 21:06

LittleBitofBread · 16/07/2025 14:19

There's a surprise 🙄

Oh, one of those consultations. Where they tell you what to think? The SNP are good at them.

YourSnugHazelTraybake · 17/07/2025 15:07

Completely out of left field, and I'm sure many of you ladies much cleverer than me would know better, but since the member constitution bars men, and women pay membership based on that constitution then technically could that not constitute fraud? Or taking money under false pretences?

ThatCyanCat · 17/07/2025 14:53

Marmaladelover · 17/07/2025 14:45

I am sure they would tell us that TW brains are different to cross dressers- wasn't there a study finding this bullshit recently?

If it's true, it can be used for diagnosis and remove any doubt. For some reason, there is no appetite for this.

Marmaladelover · 17/07/2025 14:45

I am sure they would tell us that TW brains are different to cross dressers- wasn't there a study finding this bullshit recently?

Rollstar · 17/07/2025 09:27

We need a flowchart 😂

Catiette · 17/07/2025 09:18

KnottyAuty · 16/07/2025 21:01

Well yes - but the definition quoted above doesn’t indicate the biological sex of the cross dressers. Of course the implied terms are that they mean males. But because they don’t include that in the definition they should be screening the members for “appropriate dress”. How do they decide if my cross dressing is ok? But a male in a frock is not? And how is that different to a TW? The whole cross dresser rule is a bit of a fuck up idnt it? Because logically any women would n trousers should be banned!? Why aren’t they policing that rule?

And if their response to that would be that it's commonly understood that crossdresser = male (= fetish), isn't that an implicit, unintentional acknowledgment of the risk against which "no cross-dressers" is intended to safeguard - the kind of men they could potentially be inviting in? How, then, do they distinguish the cross-dresser from the TW? We're back to "living as a woman" again, which it increasingly feels necessary (not just a gotcha, as they may argue), to insist that they can define, for (as their own policy on "cross-dressers" would seem to acknowledge) their female members' dignity and potentially safety.

Heggettypeg · 17/07/2025 00:25

Back in the sixties, a Welsh WI group rebelled over not being able to conduct business in Welsh rather than English. The upshot was a new Welsh-language women's organisation, Merched y Wawr, which grew rapidly, alongside the WI. So it's been done before.

Iamnotalemming · 16/07/2025 23:55

Tesseracter · 16/07/2025 22:38

Also votes in changes to the constitution etc tend to be done by a show of hands in public at the monthly meetings. Which means you’ve got to be seen to go against National (and whatever biased advice they’d give to go along with the vote) and ‘be unkind’.

The issue has not come up at my WI, and I’ll admit I’ve shied away from raising it. Though I was responsible for producing an equality and diversity policy, as we were told to do, and making sure it gets discussed at committee meetings. I completely ignored the trans question and we’ve focused discussions on issues such as accessibility for those with hearing loss and mobility problems. And yes, as a pp mentioned, it is ironical that one of the questions to consider that came from National was about what to do re male carers for members.

I do have my own line in the sand, and will leave if we have a transwoman join. It would change the whole basis of the group.

what I don’t know is if a local WI wanted to disaffiliate, if we can do so without disbanding, and reforming as a new separate organisation. I know of at least one that did some years ago (fed up of how much of the annual fee went to county and national). This might be important because what would happen to our cash? Can a local WI take its reserves with them if they disaffiliate.

My DM's local WI disbanded in recent years because all their funds were going on dues and they didn't see much benefit in return. As DM tells it, two scary women from the national organisation turned up to one of their meetings to tell them it was a mistake to leave and something they would regret. It only seemed to have the effect of steeling the views of those who were on the fence into definitely leaving! Couldn't tell you what happened to the fees, but they are now [village name] women's group, not WI.

Bannedontherun · 16/07/2025 22:41

Sorry accident

Bannedontherun · 16/07/2025 22:40

@ThatCyanCat

Tesseracter · 16/07/2025 22:38

Jellyjellyonaplate · 16/07/2025 09:42

Being cynical, I don't want a vote to the membership as there's so many BeKind women out there it would seem risky.

I'm gobsmacked they're carrying on when it's clear they have no legal argument that stands up to scrutiny.

Also votes in changes to the constitution etc tend to be done by a show of hands in public at the monthly meetings. Which means you’ve got to be seen to go against National (and whatever biased advice they’d give to go along with the vote) and ‘be unkind’.

The issue has not come up at my WI, and I’ll admit I’ve shied away from raising it. Though I was responsible for producing an equality and diversity policy, as we were told to do, and making sure it gets discussed at committee meetings. I completely ignored the trans question and we’ve focused discussions on issues such as accessibility for those with hearing loss and mobility problems. And yes, as a pp mentioned, it is ironical that one of the questions to consider that came from National was about what to do re male carers for members.

I do have my own line in the sand, and will leave if we have a transwoman join. It would change the whole basis of the group.

what I don’t know is if a local WI wanted to disaffiliate, if we can do so without disbanding, and reforming as a new separate organisation. I know of at least one that did some years ago (fed up of how much of the annual fee went to county and national). This might be important because what would happen to our cash? Can a local WI take its reserves with them if they disaffiliate.

Greyskybluesky · 16/07/2025 22:26

TWETMIRF · 16/07/2025 22:25

Easy, the one with meat and two veg!

The WI is not allowed to ask or assume though

TWETMIRF · 16/07/2025 22:25

Easy, the one with meat and two veg!

RareGoalsVerge · 16/07/2025 21:59

So they are a mixed sex organisation.

All female people are allowed to join.

Male people are allowed to join if they meet an arbitrary additional criterion which is not defined, which is expected to be simply understood, despite there being no universal agreement on what it means.

Dr Charlie Smith and Dr Alex Smith are married to each other. Both have short hair and exclusively wear trousers and Tshirts. They both work in tech and enjoy cookery, knitting, choir and bookclubs in their spare time. Neither of them give a hoot what pronouns are used of them and they are glad to both have gender-neutral forenames. One is male and one is female. There is no discernable difference between them in their lifestyle. Which one is living "as a woman"? How will the WI know which application to accept?

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