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Cisgender lesbian forcibly removed from toilets by male security after being wrongly accused of being a man

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Christinapple · 07/05/2025 15:51

This isn't the first time this has happened is it? I expect IMHO there will be more cases like this happening given the current obsession with trans people and how masculine or feminine people look.

https://gomag.com/article/hotel-guard-barges-into-womens-restroom-accuses-lesbian-guest-of-being-a-man/

https://www.thepinknews.com/2025/05/07/liberty-hotel-boston-bathroom-lesbian-trans/

https://www.msn.com/en-nz/news/other/same-sex-couple-demands-answers-after-hotel-security-threw-one-out-of-bathroom-thinking-she-was-a-man/ar-AA1Eh00e

"A woman and her girlfriend were thrown out of a luxurious five-star hotel after a security guard allegedly accused her of being a man using a female bathroom.
Ansley Baker and her partner, Liz Victor, were at the Liberty Hotel in Boston, Massachusetts, attending a Kentucky Derby party on Saturday.

The couple was using the women’s restroom in the foyer when they heard a bang on the stall doors, they told CBS News Boston.
Baker said she was in one of the stalls as Victor waited around the corner near the sinks. The hotel says that security was alerted by several women that the couple was sharing a single stall. Baker and Victor deny being in the same stall.
The male security guard allegedly began urging Baker, who was born a woman and identifies as a woman, to get out of the bathroom and accused her of being a man
“All of a sudden there was banging on the door,” Baker told the local news station. “I pulled my shorts up. I hadn't even tied them. One of the security guards was there telling me to get out of the bathroom, that I was a man in the women's bathroom. I said, ‘I'm a woman.’”"

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porridgecake · 07/05/2025 16:08

Hmm. I wonder if the security guard manufactured the situation in order to pander to certain people. Or the whole thing was staged. Nothing would surprise me.

Helleofabore · 07/05/2025 16:07

Christinapple · 07/05/2025 16:02

Trump's America. One could say they are just as "gender critical" as Britain is.

Then you are showing your ignorance again.

JanesLittleGirl · 07/05/2025 16:07

Christinapple · 07/05/2025 16:02

Trump's America. One could say they are just as "gender critical" as Britain is.

You do know that Donald Trump is no more gender critical than you are don't you?

BettyBooper · 07/05/2025 16:07

How did I know who the OP would be before opening the thread...? 🤔

PetaltotheMedal · 07/05/2025 16:05

"Cisgender" I don't know that word @Christinapple , please can you explain what it means?

frenchnoodle · 07/05/2025 16:04

Christinapple · 07/05/2025 16:02

Trump's America. One could say they are just as "gender critical" as Britain is.

And one other may say they are not.

Christinapple · 07/05/2025 16:02

Stepfordian · 07/05/2025 16:01

This was in America, where their politics are rather different to our own.

Trump's America. One could say they are just as "gender critical" as Britain is.

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andtheworldrollson · 07/05/2025 16:01

Slightly confused - banging on the “stalls” door suggests they were in the same cubicle which is not normal unless you have a toddler in tow ?

Stepfordian · 07/05/2025 16:01

This was in America, where their politics are rather different to our own.

MouseLouse · 07/05/2025 16:00

This is horrible. The increase in male bodies using the woman's space is what has lead to this unpleasant policing of women and their gender expression.

The security guard in this case however seems to be bang out of order, acting unpleasantly and creating a scene.

Once again though the toilet issue is a red herring, the real issue is male bodies in female prisons, in female hospital wards and other vulnerable spaces.

NotmeMother · 07/05/2025 15:56

Breaking News; a women who likes to look manly is asked to leave a women's toilet on another continent! Gasp!

frenchnoodle · 07/05/2025 15:55

Pink news, pink news..

I wonder why women are scared of men in their spaces?

Maybe because men have been invading their spaces illegally for 10 years....

Walkingonmoss · 07/05/2025 15:55

I will believe you are motivated by a concern for women, when you link to all the threads you have started about the negative incidents women have received since the loss of single sex spaces.

2024onwardsandup · 07/05/2025 15:54

Can’t recall this being an issue for the gazillion years when women’s toilets where always meant to be for women - why would it be a big issue now?

nocoolnamesleft · 07/05/2025 15:53

If men weren’t using women’s spaces, then no one would be suspicious.

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