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“Why are TERFs so well organized compared to us?”

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TheIsleOfTERF · 05/05/2025 16:56

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/s/iQskn15N11

For anyone interested on theories of how TERF Island has come to be!

Get the bingo board out as it has all the classics!

-Housewives
-Lonely
-Jealous
-Funded by the right wing

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Serencwtch · 06/05/2025 15:08

Shadowsunray · 06/05/2025 14:56

Here's a selection in response to "I'm busy baking 50 sausage rolls for my Terf cell members who are dropping by later." :

WHAT!!! Only one sausage roll per person. Cheapskate. And with all that far right money too!

Don't forget to write the coded message in the underside of the pastry Jeannie.

Yo, Shelly. Don't forget the tequila for my cell. It was mezcal last meeting and no one was impressed. Do better.

"Ex-GC" 😆 That's not the way it works. There's no unpeaking.

Can I have your sausage roll recipe? I’m arranging a get-together with my sister terf cell members for Friday and was looking for catering ideas. I’ll WhatsApp you.

Shall I bring a pillow, I believe pillow fights are one of those things we women like to do when we get together?

I'll be there - identifying as one of your cell members, even though we've never met - answering the call to freshly Terf-baked sausage rolls.

I’m doing cupcakes for mine.

Oh, can I come? I have been looking for a cell but they are so well hidden, do you have tea? I can bring some balaclavas if you're short, maybe even some camouflage netting (my son has some left from army cadets, he won't mind) I will look in my garage for it and bring it anyway

I'm assembling 10 more patio chairs I got at Lidl last week, because I just don't have enough seating to accommodate my terf cell.

Brilliant. 😂

KnottyAuty · 06/05/2025 15:07

It's interesting because I'm trying to understand the history and it sort of fits with the depression over on reddit - tell me if I have anything wrong/vital missed etc:

The original trans campaigners Burns and Whittle (& others?) were just the sort of organised, middle class types minus the lawn boys and far right connections obvs who did the grassroots campaigning which led to adding the T to the LGB. They were organised and gained a lot of traction in westminster, and then funding and Stonewall's pivot... Those original campaigners pretty much got what they wanted with the GRA.... Burns claimed in an article that they stopped campaigning around 2012 - a coincidence that UK same sex marriage started in 2013? After which Stonewall seems to have worked out to monetise inclusion on a huge scale to prevent its own extinction. Then with the promotion of self ID maximised its potential market ... and into that environment young people emerged and thought this movement/direction of travel was inevitable/normal/right-side-of-history etc rather than a massive pyramid scheme ... So over on reddit I suppose it is a bit dark, because they thought it was an unstoppable new wave. Must be confusing as the tide has turned sorry about the watery metaphors

SidewaysOtter · 06/05/2025 15:06

Oh, and as for the reference above to a Reddit user called MimTheWitch, I can only assume it’s the same person as thought TERFs were hypocritical for using a barrister who’d gone from being a QC to a KC. Bless them, I think they thought the divine Mr Cooper had changed sex and no one had noticed…

(And absolutely nothing to do with it being a reference to the sex of the reigning monarch which changed in September 2022)

“Why are TERFs so well organized compared to us?”
MyrtleLion · 06/05/2025 15:05

Chersfrozenface · 06/05/2025 13:51

For those wanting a lawn boy, I think you have to order them from amazon dot com as opposed to amazon dot co dot uk, since they're not a thing over here.

P&P and customs charges will be a killer, though.

(And yes, 'boy' is an old term in English for a servant of any age, like garçon in French, but is very colonialist in British English, as in 'houseboy'. Much more used in US English - cowboy (obviously), bellboy, pool boy, lawn boy - not sure what that says about the USians).

Edited to remove annoying hyperlinks

Edited

Boy has racist connotations in America as confirmed by a Supreme Court ruling in 2006:

https://www.littler.com/news-analysis/asap/context-counts-word-boy-may-be-racial-epithet-work

Context Counts: The Word "Boy" May Be a Racial Epithet At Work | Littler

In a brief unanimous opinion, the United States Supreme Court ruled on February 21, 2006 in Ash v. Tyson Foods, Inc. that the word "boy" without any words modifying it, can be a racial epithet depending on the context, inflection, tone of voice, local...

https://www.littler.com/news-analysis/asap/context-counts-word-boy-may-be-racial-epithet-work

SidewaysOtter · 06/05/2025 15:01

CriticalCondition · 06/05/2025 00:10

Ooh, now that's a recipe I need! Would you mind sharing?

It's this one, the sour cream does give it a nice tang and extra moisture: https://www.waitrose.com/ecom/recipe/plum-vanilla-soured-cream-cake

MyrtleLion · 06/05/2025 15:00

Brilliant recognition of Magdalen Burns and the women from MN who set up For Women Scotland.

https://x.com/theattagirls/status/1919640292187115806?s=61

https://x.com/theattagirls/status/1919640292187115806?s=61

PerformativeBewilderment · 06/05/2025 14:59

@JamieCannister “As a result one GC is worth about 10 TRAs.”

I’m imagining a kind of D&D / RP game scoring system:

TERF - determination 10, organisation 10, free time 3

TRA - invective 10, misogyny 10, grip on reality 2

SidewaysOtter · 06/05/2025 14:57

ISaySteadyOn · 06/05/2025 10:53

I mostly lurk, but have plucked up some courage to post here. I was just thinking about the accusation that we are all bored housewives. Even if we were all housewives, it doesn't follow that we are therefore wrong.

As someone who, due to various complications in my life, is a SAHM and housewife, it's been interesting to read everyone distancing themselves from that accusation as though through housewifery, one's opinion and thoughts are less worthy. I'm guilty of it myself at times often starting my sentences with 'I'm just a housewife and even I...'

It was just something I noticed.

I do agree with you, but I think the TRA reference to housewives is an indication that they're seen as worthless, which says a lot more about them than the hypothetical woman in question. The reference to "bored" does the same (she clearly doesn't have a career, or interests, or even any thoughts) as does the reference to her husband fucking the lawnboy (clearly she's just a beard and/or stupid enough not to realise that her husband is gay, so even her marriage is worthless).

Misogyny through and through.

Shadowsunray · 06/05/2025 14:56

Serencwtch · 06/05/2025 12:50

Can you post the comments for those of us not on X

If these TERF - cells are so widespread how come there has never been mentioned on MN. Surely we're prime recruitment territory

It would be hilarious If it wasn't for the fact these people can't see they are in echo chambers & are actually influencing policy.

Here's a selection in response to "I'm busy baking 50 sausage rolls for my Terf cell members who are dropping by later." :

WHAT!!! Only one sausage roll per person. Cheapskate. And with all that far right money too!

Don't forget to write the coded message in the underside of the pastry Jeannie.

Yo, Shelly. Don't forget the tequila for my cell. It was mezcal last meeting and no one was impressed. Do better.

"Ex-GC" 😆 That's not the way it works. There's no unpeaking.

Can I have your sausage roll recipe? I’m arranging a get-together with my sister terf cell members for Friday and was looking for catering ideas. I’ll WhatsApp you.

Shall I bring a pillow, I believe pillow fights are one of those things we women like to do when we get together?

I'll be there - identifying as one of your cell members, even though we've never met - answering the call to freshly Terf-baked sausage rolls.

I’m doing cupcakes for mine.

Oh, can I come? I have been looking for a cell but they are so well hidden, do you have tea? I can bring some balaclavas if you're short, maybe even some camouflage netting (my son has some left from army cadets, he won't mind) I will look in my garage for it and bring it anyway

I'm assembling 10 more patio chairs I got at Lidl last week, because I just don't have enough seating to accommodate my terf cell.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 06/05/2025 14:44

Chersfrozenface · 06/05/2025 14:41

The thing is, Buffy and Wonder Woman, at least, are not normal human women - the characters have extraordinary powers.

In Buffy's case that is underlined in one episode where she is deprived of her Slayer's powers and almost killed.

I think her point was that they were super human and overpowered men. But therefore ordinary women should be at least as strong as men.

I don’t think it was a huge philosophical point, just her realising that she had been conditioned to feel like if she said girls were weaker than boys, she was somehow letting the side down.

Suszieq · 06/05/2025 14:42

It’s hilarious, joyfully hilarious how stubbornly small minded they are.

Firstly the image they have of terfs is hilarious. They have such a narrow minded view of women and those who fight for women. Because it can only be white middle aged women, no one else.

Also how misogynistic is that characterisation of terfs. Alas That misogynistic male spirit refuses to die in them!

And it’s the fact that they think they’re the majority. The world all over has learnt basic, universal evidence based biology. Feelings will not trump that. So it’s not terfs they have to contend with, it’s scientific fact in which we as a society base our reality.

But no, the issue is terfs. Not the men and women all the world over that believe in the biological reality of men and women.

Also do they not know that they’ve created this? They bullied and doxxed anyone who has a different view. They’ve been lulled into a false sense of security thinking they were the majority. They bullied us into silence but they should’ve remembered ‘better the devil you know’

Chersfrozenface · 06/05/2025 14:41

The thing is, Buffy and Wonder Woman, at least, are not normal human women - the characters have extraordinary powers.

In Buffy's case that is underlined in one episode where she is deprived of her Slayer's powers and almost killed.

SidewaysOtter · 06/05/2025 14:38

GreenFriedTomato · 06/05/2025 05:52

Yeah everyone comments that they barely have anyone at their protests and shit.

I imagine they are talking about Let Women Speak events and similar where the TRA outnumber them.

I also imagine that women who would like to attend LWS have other things on their plate as PP have mentioned such as work, children, caring responsibilities and so on.
Additionally they fear being outed as GC and the repercussions in their jobs. Fear of being attacked by TRA as has been observed many times.

And the numbers at TRA protests/counter protests seem to comprise of the same people being bussed around the country, and students and unemployed with plenty of time on their hands.

Most busy people can't spend every weekend marching around with megaphones but are active in other ways.

They're also making the mistake of assuming that vocal protests are what makes the difference. It's part of it, but most of it from a grass-roots point of view is writing letters, campaigning, leafleting, contributing to crowdfunders, responding to consultations and getting those in power to understand the issues.

None of that is achieved by standing in the street screaming that you want to kill people, no matter how beautifully made your tatty old bit of cardboard sign is.

AlexandraLeaving · 06/05/2025 14:36

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 06/05/2025 14:32

This wasn’t a trans-identified girl, I don’t think. Just someone who was commenting on the “girl power” etc narrative that pervaded her childhood. She was suggesting that she was encouraged by the media of the time to see women/girls as physically equal to men/boys. And that to say otherwise was somehow a betrayal of women.

I see. Thanks. Still a bizarre state of affairs.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 06/05/2025 14:32

AlexandraLeaving · 06/05/2025 14:26

Just checking… Buffy, Xena, Charlie’s Angels, Wonder Woman… these are fictional characters, yes? I’m sure your analysis is spot on, but are we really saying that the young TRAs somehow believe those are documentaries? Is their grip on reality so fundamentally weak? I mean, I guess it must be given the other fantasies they believe so passionately in but that is a really sad indictment of humanity’s critical thinking levels.

separately, the user names on this thread have really put me in mind to have pesto pasta with fried green tomatoes for tea. Do you think my lawn boy will be here in time to take care of that for me?

This wasn’t a trans-identified girl, I don’t think. Just someone who was commenting on the “girl power” etc narrative that pervaded her childhood. She was suggesting that she was encouraged by the media of the time to see women/girls as physically equal to men/boys. And that to say otherwise was somehow a betrayal of women.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/05/2025 14:30

Greyskybluesky · 06/05/2025 13:59

OK, which one of you wrote this:

"It is because they are real women and real women are actually organised"

🤣👏

AlexandraLeaving · 06/05/2025 14:26

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 06/05/2025 13:41

This is spot on. I think I said something in another thread about a girl on Twix talking about how all the women she saw on TV growing up were super strong - Buffy, Xena - and previous to that we had Charlie’s Angels and Wonder Woman. And they could overpower men. So ordinary women should of course be at least equal, physically, to men. And so then we get random girls on the street saying sure, if they trained enough they could totally fight [insert some male MMA champ here].

Somewhere we lost the understanding that what the Suffragettes were fighting for was equal intellectual standing with men. Not trying to say that there are no physical differences between men and women at all.

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Just checking… Buffy, Xena, Charlie’s Angels, Wonder Woman… these are fictional characters, yes? I’m sure your analysis is spot on, but are we really saying that the young TRAs somehow believe those are documentaries? Is their grip on reality so fundamentally weak? I mean, I guess it must be given the other fantasies they believe so passionately in but that is a really sad indictment of humanity’s critical thinking levels.

separately, the user names on this thread have really put me in mind to have pesto pasta with fried green tomatoes for tea. Do you think my lawn boy will be here in time to take care of that for me?

EdithStourton · 06/05/2025 14:15

MarieDeGournay · 06/05/2025 14:12

I thought when anybody here refers to 'The Queen', they mean JKR.
Is there somebody else, a pretender to the throne??Smile

That would explain it.

I could host this ere garden party, I have a lawn. The only thing is, I'd need at least three lawn boys for a week to give the place a good tidy up...

Chersfrozenface · 06/05/2025 14:15

Unless @KnottyAuty will be chatting with Camilla.

Pluvia · 06/05/2025 14:15

EdithStourton · 06/05/2025 14:10

I'm not sure how you're managing that, given that she is not longer with us.

Or has she perhaps just popped along to the golf course to check out the lawn boys?

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Um... Camilla is the Queen consort and often referred to as the Queen.

MarieDeGournay · 06/05/2025 14:12

I thought when anybody here refers to 'The Queen', they mean JKR.
Is there somebody else, a pretender to the throne??Smile

EdithStourton · 06/05/2025 14:10

KnottyAuty · 06/05/2025 13:23

I'm seeing the Queen next week. I'll put in a word. She might get us into a garden party.

I'm not sure how you're managing that, given that she is not longer with us.

Or has she perhaps just popped along to the golf course to check out the lawn boys?

Pluvia · 06/05/2025 14:07

Whoever she is, I'd like to buy her a drink.

Greyskybluesky · 06/05/2025 14:01

...and this:

"because of all this lunacy making all of us look bad, all the financial support is drying up, and you have nobody to blame but yourselves. stop worrying about people who are carving their own path, and start worrying about how you're going to support yourselves and show your Pride when nobody is willing to sponsor you. YOU need to get serious and organise yourselves instead of blaming everyone else for your failures, you kind of fucked it up for all of us"

Greyskybluesky · 06/05/2025 13:59

OK, which one of you wrote this:

"It is because they are real women and real women are actually organised"