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Amendment to Data Bill to revert all gender markers and out all trans people

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bluegoldflow · 02/05/2025 22:07

Hoping this passes, it shouldn't be possible to change your sex (a biological impossibility) on legal documents. This would prevent men using this loop hole to erase their past identities and stop male crimes being recorded as female crimes.

Amendment to Data Bill to revert all gender markers and out all trans people
Amendment to Data Bill to revert all gender markers and out all trans people
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CleaningSilverCandlesticks · 07/05/2025 18:31

If Dr Upton had asked for separate changing provision then no one would have known he was trans in his scrubs. Everyone would simply have assumed he was a man.

SquirrelSoShiny · 07/05/2025 18:24

98% of trans people are 'outed' the second the person meeting them sees them / hears them. Maybe 2% of trans people 'pass' for ten seconds, then they move / speak / lift their disproportionately large or small hands.

No one should be able to use 'gender' to escape the consequences of their actions as their biological sex.

Imnobody4 · 07/05/2025 18:11

Ben Spencer is doing a good job.

Shadow Minister of State for @SciTechgovuk @DrBenSpencer speaks to amendment N21 in the @HouseofCommons #DataBill debate.

x.com/SexMattersOrg/status/1920119607139950600?t=Xr-u9wMeOt3ziXc0AoKQYw&s=19

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/05/2025 17:41

TruthInTransition · 05/05/2025 07:50

Your message unfairly paints an entire population with the brush of your personal grievances. That is not only irresponsible—it’s dangerous. You are attributing the actions of a few individuals, real or alleged, to an entire marginalized community. That’s not justice. That’s scapegoating.

I am a trans woman. I’ve been battered by a cisgender woman in a relationship. Should I now assume all cis women are violent? Should we judge every cis woman by the actions of Nicola Murray, a convicted child abuser? No. Because I understand that people are individuals, not political talking points or collective enemies. I am bigger than hate. I choose not to engage in bigotry, even when I have reason to feel hurt.

What you’re doing—making sweeping, incendiary claims about people you don’t know—is not just morally wrong. It could also be legally questionable. Do you have evidence? Names? Documentation? Or are you repeating narratives designed to inflame and vilify?

We must be better than this. Reducing people to stereotypes, projecting blame on entire communities, and justifying hatred with anecdote is not the path to progress. It's the path to division and dehumanization. You may feel justified, but that doesn’t make it just.

TW are more likely to be in prison for sexual offending than other men, and are hundreds of times more likely to be in prison for sexual offending than women.

Women are allowed to look at population-level statistics when assessing the risk that a group that is materially biologically different from us poses to us. Almost all males are born with rape implements built into their bodies and can leave us pregnant. This difference matters a lot when you are born with a babymaker built into your body.

There are times when "don't tar people with the same brush" and "treat people as individuals" is the right approach, such as in court where we treat all defendants as innocent until their guilt is proven. There are other circumstances where this is an irresponsible approach. Rape counseling centres, domestic violence refuges, dormitories, and changing rooms are examples of when excluding all males based on a class analysis of the risk males pose to females is not only justified, but is the only responsible course of action.

TheOtherRaven · 07/05/2025 09:03

You'd think actually at this point, when phrases like 'it's a minor administrative thing' and 'living with dignity' come up, there'd be large red flashing lights and sirens in the HoC as the Trojan Horse Fuckery alert goes off it's been so bloody often now.

TheOtherRaven · 07/05/2025 08:54

illinivich · 06/05/2025 22:06

You claim the word “woman” refers only to “adult human females,” as if that ends the conversation. But definitions evolve with society. Language is not static—it reflects how we understand people, experiences, and humanity.

Isn't this an argument against the GRA? If language evolves and woman no longer means AHF, then why would a man claiming to be a woman need female id?

That would involve logic.

You could also question that if the word 'woman' just means 'person of either (or many, depending on personal view) sex, likes pink and has long hair' what the word 'trans' can mean.

Transitioning from what to what exactly?

The 'evolves' gambit has been in play a long time, it's knackered and very elderly, and has been repeatedly debunked, as 'evolves' does not in fact mean the same thing as 'enforced by authoritarianism from the top down to try and wangle around other people's inconvenient needs, boundaries and protections in law'.

illinivich · 06/05/2025 22:06

You claim the word “woman” refers only to “adult human females,” as if that ends the conversation. But definitions evolve with society. Language is not static—it reflects how we understand people, experiences, and humanity.

Isn't this an argument against the GRA? If language evolves and woman no longer means AHF, then why would a man claiming to be a woman need female id?

CleaningSilverCandlesticks · 06/05/2025 20:43

Theft of language is an act of violence against women.

RedToothBrush · 06/05/2025 18:58

Women SHOULD 'gatekeep womanhood' whatever the fuck that means.

By that I mean the right to define themselves and not on behalf of others. That means if there is just a tiny minority not consenting, then men don't get to say they are women.

Women saying no is apparently repressive and unfair because these are men who believe they should have the power to define what a woman is and women shouldn't have that power.

That's why they say women have all the power. They don't. Women just have the power to say no and men don't like it.

And even then men will still be male cos they can't bloody change sex no matter how often or what matter they say they can!

RedToothBrush · 06/05/2025 18:48

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 06/05/2025 16:57

We’re speaking truth. And if that truth threatens your worldview, maybe it’s your worldview that needs to change.

My truth is that I have a son. His truth appears to be that he is my daughter. Whose truth is backed up by evidence? I'll leave you to guess. If the truth that is backed up by evidence threatens your worldview, maybe it's your worldview that needs to change.

Edited

"The world is flat."

"No it's not. There is evidence to prove it's not flat and instead is a sphere"

"You are wrong, I believe its flat. Your world view needs to change".

bluegoldflow · 06/05/2025 16:58

"Thing is, for all @TruthInTransition word salad, all he was doing was making a case for there to be social and legal recognistion of a group of people who identify with the social constructions around womanhood as separate from the needs and experiences of being female."

@FlirtsWithRhinos That really wasn't my impression at all, he was suggesting that the term "women" was a shared identity between actual women and like himself. The issue is that "women" isn't a social construction at all, it is a biological reality.

I might have see his point if he was saying that he felt that he shouldn't have to conform to gender norms of being a man if he doesn't want to, if he wants to wear dresses and high heels, grow his hair long or wear make up that is his business but none of that is what "womanhood" is. Womanhood is only being a human adult female, that is what woman means, womenhood is not separate from from being female it is one and the same.

If he wants to campaign for men like him to be accepted as unconventional males and to promote acceptance of men like him amongst other men in male spaces then that is fine as it doesn't come into conflict with women's rights and nobody cares about what he does.

The issue is that this isn't what he wants, he wants men like him to be seen as actual women within the law, i.e. suggesting that men can be women and thereby erasing what a woman is under the law. He wants access to women's spaces and he wants women not to be able to say no.

He says:

"We are not asking for special treatment. We are demanding basic human decency. The right to live authentically. The right to be recognized accurately. The right not to be misgendered or dismissed because of ignorance or prejudice.
To consistently refer to us as men is not only deeply disrespectful—it is discriminatory. It is a conscious choice to invalidate our identities and erase our humanity. If you refuse to acknowledge us as trans women, you are not just disagreeing—you are actively engaging in dehumanization.
This isn’t a matter of opinion. This is about dignity, safety, and truth. If your advocacy for women’s rights excludes trans women, then it is not truly about equality—it is about gatekeeping. And if your language reduces us to something we are not, then it’s not just wrong. It’s dangerous.
A just society is one that listens, learns, and evolves. It doesn’t cling to outdated fears; it builds a future where everyone—cis, trans, or otherwise—can live with respect, safety, and equality."

"The right to live authentically" This literally means they want to be recognised as women and have access to women's spaces.

"To consistently refer to us as men is not only deeply disrespectful—it is discriminatory. It is a conscious choice to invalidate our identities and erase our humanity."

But it is ok for them to erase what a woman actually is and erode our rights, safety and dignity? They don't give a shit about women which isn't too surprising because they are men.

"This isn’t a matter of opinion. This is about dignity, safety, and truth. If your advocacy for women’s rights excludes trans women, then it is not truly about equality—it is about gatekeeping."

He's right it isn't a matter of opinion, he isn't a woman, none of them are and they only gatekeeper at play here is reality.

There is nothing dehumanising or dangerous about stating facts, he's male and therefore a man but he's playing the victim to try and get what he want's i.e. to shut women up and gain access to our spaces and erase our legal protections.

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RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 06/05/2025 16:57

TruthInTransition · 05/05/2025 07:34

Your definition of “woman” may be based on a narrow, biological framework—but womanhood, like all human identity, is far more nuanced than anatomy.

You claim the word “woman” refers only to “adult human females,” as if that ends the conversation. But definitions evolve with society. Language is not static—it reflects how we understand people, experiences, and humanity. Once, “marriage” only meant a union between a man and a woman. Once, “voter” excluded women entirely. Should we have stopped evolving then too?

Trans women are not “twisting” words—we are living our truths. Recognizing trans women as women doesn’t erase or override anyone else’s identity. It expands our understanding of womanhood to include the diverse ways it is lived and experienced. That is not an insult—it is progress.

You say it’s “insulting” for trans women to be included in womanhood. But what’s truly insulting is the suggestion that trans women don’t deserve dignity, don’t deserve recognition, don’t deserve safety—because we don’t fit your personal criteria. That’s not about facts. That’s about fear.

The reality is this: trans women exist. We live as women, we are treated as women by society, and we face the same misogyny, threats, and discrimination—often compounded by our trans identity.

What you’re advocating isn’t about preserving language—it’s about exclusion. And exclusion, under the guise of “shared reality,” has always been a tool of oppression. It was used to keep Black people out of schools. To keep women out of voting booths. And now, it’s being used to keep trans women from being seen, heard, and safe.

You don’t get to decide who is or isn’t valid ANYMORE! based on your discomfort. Your beliefs do not override our existence.

Trans women are not erasing anyone. We are not stealing anything. We are demanding to live, fully and authentically, in a world that has tried again and again to deny us that right.

So no—we’re not twisting words. We’re speaking truth. And if that truth threatens your worldview, maybe it’s your worldview that needs to change.

We’re speaking truth. And if that truth threatens your worldview, maybe it’s your worldview that needs to change.

My truth is that I have a son. His truth appears to be that he is my daughter. Whose truth is backed up by evidence? I'll leave you to guess. If the truth that is backed up by evidence threatens your worldview, maybe it's your worldview that needs to change.

Merrymouse · 06/05/2025 15:51

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/05/2025 15:33

It’s what makes the GRA unsustainable in the long run.

That and the fact that sex discrimination is generally illegal, so there is no ‘living as a sex’; except when it is legal, which is only ever justifiable for reasons that relate to sex.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/05/2025 15:33

TheKeatingFive · 06/05/2025 13:18

I just don't understand how a right to privacy would apply when it is (generally speaking) glaringly obvious what sex someone is.

It’s what makes the GRA unsustainable in the long run.

CleaningSilverCandlesticks · 06/05/2025 14:05

TheKeatingFive · 06/05/2025 13:18

I just don't understand how a right to privacy would apply when it is (generally speaking) glaringly obvious what sex someone is.

I suspect the problem is these rights apply to the interaction with the State and organisations, not with individuals in daily life, and not enough consideration is made over how this creates clashes and nonsensical situations.

TheKeatingFive · 06/05/2025 13:18

I just don't understand how a right to privacy would apply when it is (generally speaking) glaringly obvious what sex someone is.

Grammarnut · 06/05/2025 12:40

PoisedRubyLion · 02/05/2025 22:59

Right to privacy and Goodwin?

The right to privacy cannot be absolute. In a medical emergency sex may be very relevant to treatment so it needs to be accurately recorded, for example.

SerafinasGoose · 05/05/2025 17:28

FigRollsAlly · 05/05/2025 12:28

Bumping this as it must be done TODAY and is a chance for us all to take action.

Thank you. Done.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 05/05/2025 16:40

Note: to avoid misgendering this post uses sex-based pronouns not gender based pronouns.

Thing is, for all @TruthInTransition 's word salad, all he was doing was making a case for there to be social and legal recognistion of a group of people who identify with the social constructions around womanhood as separate from the needs and experiences of being female.

And that might well be true and reasonable.

What he has not done is made any case for why recognising this group's existence has to mean female people should not also be recognised as a group with legal and social needs and rights, nor why the new group of people who "feel like a woman" should get to take over the name Woman and the rights, history, language and provisions that come with it from the female people to whom it has always applied and were the people who actually lived that history and whose needs are what shaped the rights.

Because like all TRAs his focus is only on the trans people's needs and wants. The needs and wants of others are simply not in his universe.

GailBlancheViola · 05/05/2025 16:38

Plus this isn't just about the different tactics, of women and TRAs, violent or otherwise. There is that, of course. And if anything proved our point, it has to be that these men are violent and are campaigning for access to unconsenting women.
But the issue is, we don't have to prove our point. Our point is, and always has been completely legal.
Men do not have the right to access women only spaces, and they never have. If you find that upsetting then you are supporting the loss of women's rights.
Because, they are pie. Men are either in, or they're out.
A lesbian is either a woman, or both sexes. Women's sport is either for women, or both sexes. And the same goes for changing rooms where women are taking their clothes off, and toilets, where they are specifically quite vulnerable.
Please, try and understand, women are not therapy for men. We are not here to fulfil their requirements. We're not their shield, we're not their comfort blanket, and we're not their mum.
it's completely unacceptable misogynistic, and bloody regressive to expect all women and girls to compromise their safety for the sake of a handful of demanding men.

This from Datun,

And this from TheOtherRaven

This is what you were marching for if you joined that protest. That women's bodies are something that you want enforced to submit to men's use, with women legally restrained and gagged from resisting. That's the truth of it however much you hide behind sad rhetoric. Your hands are anything but clean.

Tell me what is the difference between what you ileftmybafinNewportPagnell are advocating for and what the repellent misogynists of the Andrew Tate ilk are? You are both wanting women and girls to be nothing more than service units for the wants and desires of men and boys.

BingoWindow · 05/05/2025 16:29

My trans relative is really quite unpleasant.so.maybe that balances out @IleftmybaginNewportPagnell .

On the police searc, this has to be sorted sooner rather than later. Having recently transitioned my biological male 50 something relative is clumsily getting a massive kick out of wearing a dress. Women's toilets and getting humiliated in public. Getting a young policewoman to search him would definitely tick a box for him. Pleased to hear JK is on this one.

bluegoldflow · 05/05/2025 15:30

@IleftmybaginNewportPagnell It doesn't matter if your trans relative is a saint. The issue is that sex must me and has been clearly defined now in law to mean that only actual females can be women and have access to women's spaces. If we start saying that people can change sex when they cannot then sex becomes meaningless under the law and that completely eradicates women's rights and protections. There is nothing inhumane about making a male you the men's facilities and so the TRA's don't have a leg to stand on.

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bluegoldflow · 05/05/2025 15:21

@TruthInTransition Trans identified males are men, sorry but that is the truth. The word woman is not a shared identity with men it refers only to actual women, human adult females. Trans identified males are not women and were never legally considered women it was only the misrepresentation of the law by groups like stonewall, it was these clowns that lied to you.

Women do in fact get to tell men NO and yes we do get to tell you that you aren't a woman and that you cannot enter our spaces and our sports and you cannot represent us in anyway, no man can. They only reason you are here being so belligerent and showing utterly male sense of entitlement and misogynistic attitudes to women is because you know the tide has turned and women no longer have to tolerate men like you, the law and the authorities are now finally on the right side of history, our side, the side of actual women and opposed to transgressive males who shit all over women's rights and woman's needs.

Tran identified males are attempting to erase women because if a male can be a woman just by saying he is by taking cross sex hormones, developing gynecomastia, and undergoing body modifications the the word woman becomes utterly meaningless. So no you are not a woman, you never have been and never will be you can only ever be a man. Any claim you are a woman is a lie and any attempt to enter women's spaces is a deceit, a transgression of women's boundaries and ultimately abusive and predatory behaviour towards women. But then men like you don't actually give a shit about women do you? We are just props to men like you, a collection of body parts and tropes you feel you can wear, hmmm reminds me of a rather famous movie from the 90s!

Wear a dress all you like but as the law now requires stay out of our spaces, sorry fella but the jig is up, you will not win this one.

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AmaryllisNightAndDay · 05/05/2025 15:19

@IleftmybaginNewportPagnell I'm sorry you're upset. You're not the only one here with trans family members who we care about. It's in everybody's interest to have accurate information about biological sex separate from gender identity.

The Amendment to the Data Bill is a good'un, for your relative's sake too.

Datun · 05/05/2025 15:19

FlirtsWithRhinos · 05/05/2025 15:16

Be fair, this new clarification has made it incredibly complicated trying to find a way to continue to give the men what they want.

That's exactly it