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Nursery Pride face painting

220 replies

insomniaclife · 26/04/2025 12:55

Went to pick up three year old from nursery.
Staff and all kids in her class had rainbows painted on their faces.
“nice rainbows” I said. Staff said “we’re celebrating Pride”.

Is this normal? The timing seems odd - it’s not Pride week is it?

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Allseeingallknowing · 26/04/2025 14:20

MrsSkylerWhite · 26/04/2025 13:02

Some of the children will have gay parents.

So what? Their parents can do rainbow face painting at home, then!

Bluegreencat · 26/04/2025 14:12

It’s inappropriate. Stories about different types of families, yes absolutely as a pp said. What has face painting got to do with nursery education?

SammyScrounge · 26/04/2025 14:02

MrsSkylerWhite · 26/04/2025 13:02

Some of the children will have gay parents.

That is no reason to plaster the faces of the children of non-gay parents with adverts for
LGBT awareness.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 26/04/2025 13:53

MrsSkylerWhite · 26/04/2025 13:02

Some of the children will have gay parents.

Not without assistance

readingmakesmehappy · 26/04/2025 13:51

I might point out that three of the world’s major religions regard rainbows as a symbol of God’s covenant with mankind after the Flood, and that as a Christian I hope that that story was told as well. Otherwise it is a sacred symbol being appropriated….

PersephoneSeethes · 26/04/2025 13:48

Arran2024 · 26/04/2025 13:41

The nursery will be expected to celebrate LGBT +, different cultures etc. It will be part of their Ofsted assessment. All nurseries will do this or a variation on it. My daughter works in a nursery and it is pushed hard, even though parents do complain.

I would think this is a lazy misinterpretation from a political organisation like Stonewall etc.

In light of the Supreme Court ruling, I think it would be wise for education institutions to throw out any advice they have received from such groups/organisations because it would seem to be biased and possibly not legal.

TheCatsTongue · 26/04/2025 13:46

Remember the Pride rainbow has six colours, it is missing indigo found in traditionally seven coloured rainbows.

Do to the current backlash a lot of gay people don't associate with the rainbow, they're beyond it. Really it's just another over-commercialised symbol now.

EweSurname · 26/04/2025 13:43

Celebrate LGBT by reading stories where different families feature like ones with a single dad or two mums. Celebrating pride is not an Ofsted requirement!

SirChenjins · 26/04/2025 13:41

Ask them for a breakdown of all the other days they’re celebrating and how they’ll be involving the children. Make sure IWD (that’s the SC’s definition of women) is included.

Arran2024 · 26/04/2025 13:41

The nursery will be expected to celebrate LGBT +, different cultures etc. It will be part of their Ofsted assessment. All nurseries will do this or a variation on it. My daughter works in a nursery and it is pushed hard, even though parents do complain.

PersephoneSeethes · 26/04/2025 13:34

MrsSkylerWhite · 26/04/2025 13:20

So what’s wrong with acknowledging that?

So you have a story time about different types of families. The nursery doesn’t have to participate in political activism.

MrsSkylerWhite · 26/04/2025 13:20

Nousernamesleftatall · 26/04/2025 13:17

So?

So what’s wrong with acknowledging that?

lnks · 26/04/2025 13:19

If it was about the LGB I would totally be behind them but it’s only ever about the T now.

Nousernamesleftatall · 26/04/2025 13:17

MrsSkylerWhite · 26/04/2025 13:02

Some of the children will have gay parents.

So?

Myalternate · 26/04/2025 13:15

Perhaps I was a little quick to criticise the face painting but in mitigation, Pride celebrations very rarely separate the LGB from the TQ and I therefore, won’t apologise for my criticism.

Anyhow, unless they’ve asked prior to paint being applied to kids skin, they should get permission from the parents just in case a child has an allergic sensitivity to the paint.

lnks · 26/04/2025 13:02

Different parts of the country hold them at different dates as far as I know but I’m not aware of any happening at the moment. It’s a strange coincidence isn’t it, almost sinister.

MrsSkylerWhite · 26/04/2025 13:02

Myalternate · 26/04/2025 13:00

That would be the last time I’d have taken my children there.

The staff can celebrate their beliefs without involving children.

Some of the children will have gay parents.

minisoksmakehardwork · 26/04/2025 13:02

Lesbian visibility day is 26th April. I think there's a few lgbtq dates in this month from memory. Although pride month is normally June.

RipleyJones · 26/04/2025 13:01

I’m so sick of rainbows ‘being appropriated’ 🙄.

They’re rainbows. They’re an amazing beautiful thing 🌈.

I’m happy to celebrate rainbows and sunshine and rain. For their own sake - without them (sun and rain) we’d all be dead after all.

Rainbows 🌈 and bees 🐝 🍯 rule. So maybe you can divert the celebration to where it should be!

Myalternate · 26/04/2025 13:00

That would be the last time I’d have taken my children there.

The staff can celebrate their beliefs without involving children.