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Girl guides are not safe. Parents beware!

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HelenaTranscart · 25/04/2025 15:38

From James Esses:

A whistleblower from
@Girlguiding
has been in touch. Volunteers have been instructed that, irrespective of the Supreme Court judgement, boys who identify as girls can use female camp rooms and toilets. Worse still, parents must not be told.

This is a safeguarding nightmare.

https://x.com/JamesEsses/status/1915689045356654904

https://x.com/JamesEsses/status/1915689045356654904

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Datun · 25/04/2025 17:42

Cross posting there, Errol. I didn't get over my outrage over that twat for quite a few weeks!

ErrolTheDragon · 25/04/2025 17:35

IdaGlossop · 25/04/2025 17:29

It's good that no trans girl or woman has wanted to join, but it shows that developing a trans policy was performative - and an attempt to 'Be prepared'. I see the scouts have been captured too.

While your group may not have had any join, there’s certainly been at least on one TW in a senior leadership position - don’t know if still in post or not, as the piece says it’s not a post open to men.

https://whatisawoman.uk/MonicaSulley/

Gender identity ideology: The repercussions of a dangerous dogma

In 2017, Girlguiding changed their policy to allow anyone who identifies as a girl or young woman to join. From that time, Girlguiding ceased to be a single sex organisation. The change in policy was made after consultation with Stonewall and Gendered...

https://whatisawoman.uk/MonicaSulley/

Gundogday · 25/04/2025 17:31

Its takes a lot of clicking on links, but see below.

@IdaGlossop

Girl guides are not safe. Parents beware!
IdaGlossop · 25/04/2025 17:29

doodleschnoodle · 25/04/2025 17:23

As a GG leader, I do care but at the moment it’s purely hypothetical because we’ve never had a trans girl or woman want to join. Maybe if that ever happens it’ll push me to rethink but I think the chance of it happening, especially in the younger age groups, is pretty low for most units, so until that happens the benefit to all the girls in my units is definitely enough to keep going.

Male volunteers are allowed and have been for a long time. They can be unit helpers and parent helpers. So it’s not the case that it’s always women and girls at meetings and events generally.

It's good that no trans girl or woman has wanted to join, but it shows that developing a trans policy was performative - and an attempt to 'Be prepared'. I see the scouts have been captured too.

LostMySocks · 25/04/2025 17:25

As a Guide leader I am very frustrated with the policy. Fortunately it's not an issue for us locally. We know this as whatever anyone says leaders and parents would be highly unlikely to be unaware of the sex of trans girls.
I, and all the leaders that I know wouldn't allow mixed sex sleeping. That would be bonkers (potentially literally and even GGHQ talk about letting 'transgirls' use different facilities to protect their identity...)
The bigger issue at this age group is confused girls struggling to cope with changes in their body. As a leader I feel it is really important that we continue to stress that girls can do anything and to challenge the stereotypes that feed the gender movement. We're not a group for stereotypical girlie girls. We're a group for girls.

doodleschnoodle · 25/04/2025 17:23

As a GG leader, I do care but at the moment it’s purely hypothetical because we’ve never had a trans girl or woman want to join. Maybe if that ever happens it’ll push me to rethink but I think the chance of it happening, especially in the younger age groups, is pretty low for most units, so until that happens the benefit to all the girls in my units is definitely enough to keep going.

Male volunteers are allowed and have been for a long time. They can be unit helpers and parent helpers. So it’s not the case that it’s always women and girls at meetings and events generally.

ErrolTheDragon · 25/04/2025 17:21

IdaGlossop · 25/04/2025 17:14

I hope this isn't true. For the first time ever, I've had a look at the Girl Guides website. (I'm a former Guide and mother of a former Brownie.) There is no reference in the main sections of the site to female-identifying children. It is highly deceptive to allow them to join without a clear policy being published. Lady Baden Powell must be turning in her grave.

Edited

not quite in the filing cabinet guarded by a leopard but buried fairly deep

https://www.girlguiding.org.uk/information-for-volunteers/running-your-unit/including-all/lgbt-members/supporting-trans-members/

This guidance was developed with support from Stonewall and Gendered Intelligence.

Supporting trans members

What you should consider to support trans people within Girlguiding

https://www.girlguiding.org.uk/information-for-volunteers/running-your-unit/including-all/lgbt-members/supporting-trans-members/

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/04/2025 17:20

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 25/04/2025 15:53

That is official girl guide policy as it breeches the trans persons right to privacy.

God forbid a trans identifying boy's rights should ever be breached.

speakingofart · 25/04/2025 17:18

I’m a volunteer with GGUK and haven’t been told this ( and would be questioning it if I was!) Do you know where that’s come from?

MoistVonL · 25/04/2025 17:17

@LonginesPrime - I suspect the vast majority of groups are female only. My daughter got so, so much from her years as a Rainbow, Brownie, Guide and Ranger and Junior Leader. She had absolutely amazing experiences I couldn't offer her (and don't want to! I am not a camper!).

It would have been shame to miss out on all that on the off chance some ghastly entitled and tone-deaf parent tried to foist their male child into an all-girls activity. Cubs and Scouts are mixed sex for those who want it.

IdaGlossop · 25/04/2025 17:14

I hope this isn't true. For the first time ever, I've had a look at the Girl Guides website. (I'm a former Guide and mother of a former Brownie.) There is no reference in the main sections of the site to female-identifying children. It is highly deceptive to allow them to join without a clear policy being published. Lady Baden Powell must be turning in her grave.

LonginesPrime · 25/04/2025 17:12

That makes sense, @MoistVonLand @BaronessEllarawrosaurus- I guess in groups where it’s not yet an issue, it’s understandable that parents would want to cross that bridge if it arises in practice rather than letting their girls miss out on such a formative experience.

seXX · 25/04/2025 17:10

ErrolTheDragon · 25/04/2025 16:38

The only trans people who should be in a single sex organisation for girls are other females. I’m not exactly sure why they have different privacy requirements?

According to them: https://www.girlguiding.org.uk/information-for-volunteers/running-your-unit/including-all/lgbt-members/supporting-trans-young-members/

Both boys and girls can join if they are either female sex or have a female identity. Confusing but boys who say they're girls, girls and girls who say they are boys can all join... Yet they still call themselves single sex!

Supporting trans young members

Young trans members may be going through a difficult time - find out more about supporting them in guiding

https://www.girlguiding.org.uk/information-for-volunteers/running-your-unit/including-all/lgbt-members/supporting-trans-young-members/

MoistVonL · 25/04/2025 17:06

LonginesPrime · 25/04/2025 16:15

I doubt the parents involved will care, because anyone who’s still involved is obviously happy to ignore biological sex anyway.

Anyone who’d be bothered by this will have left the guides long ago.

Not necessarily - all our local groups were girls only, no boys-who-think-they-are-girls, and only women volunteers. The leaders were as GC as they come.

Until it became an actual issue, with a transwoman applying to be a leader locally or a boy attending, we were all happy to carry on as normal. No point denying the girls such a lot of great experiences and friendships when it was only ever theoretical (locally) that males could join. We hold out hope the policy will have to change in line with the SC ruling.

Our duaghters aged out of the movement and no males had applied during that time, thankfully.

Treeleaf11 · 25/04/2025 17:00

Who is going to enforce what the SC have said? Seems to me that a lot of organisations will ignore it. Surely it cant be up to individuals to take them to court one by one.

NPET · 25/04/2025 16:56

Absolutely disgusting.
Girls should be discouraged from having anything to do with the Girl Guides.

CautiousLurker01 · 25/04/2025 16:55

Beowulfa · 25/04/2025 15:47

If true, the Daily Mail will be on it.

My aunt was a devoted GG volunteer for many years and would be horrified at what it's become.

Am a former District Commissioner (as recently as 10 years ago) and am more than horrified!!

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 25/04/2025 16:52

LonginesPrime · 25/04/2025 16:15

I doubt the parents involved will care, because anyone who’s still involved is obviously happy to ignore biological sex anyway.

Anyone who’d be bothered by this will have left the guides long ago.

Not quite. I know the leaders at my local unit. I know all the guides are biological girls so don't have an issue with my dd attending, what she doesn't do though is go on camps or any other activities where I don't know who else may be attending.

This is something I'm open about with my daughter, she's a young teen and I do discuss trans issues with her. Explained about the Supreme Court judgement etc. Thankfully at her school there's no trans pupils in the lower school but she moves to upper in September so I'll be watching what happens then.

inigomontoyahwillcox · 25/04/2025 16:44

Maybe this should be one of the first 'post-SC judgment' situations addressed in court?

proximalhumerous · 25/04/2025 16:41

seXX · 25/04/2025 16:36

You forget, they are support humans and their privacy is unimportant!

Oh yes, silly me!

How arrogant of the organisation to still be doing this after the recent judgment.

ErrolTheDragon · 25/04/2025 16:38

proximalhumerous · 25/04/2025 16:31

What about the privacy of the girls the trans person is sharing a bedroom and bathroom with?

The only trans people who should be in a single sex organisation for girls are other females. I’m not exactly sure why they have different privacy requirements?

seXX · 25/04/2025 16:36

proximalhumerous · 25/04/2025 16:31

What about the privacy of the girls the trans person is sharing a bedroom and bathroom with?

You forget, they are support humans and their privacy is unimportant!

proximalhumerous · 25/04/2025 16:31

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 25/04/2025 15:53

That is official girl guide policy as it breeches the trans persons right to privacy.

What about the privacy of the girls the trans person is sharing a bedroom and bathroom with?

ErrolTheDragon · 25/04/2025 16:25

GCornotGCthatisthequestion · 25/04/2025 15:50

I would take things like this with a pinch of salt. There are a lot of people who like to create outrage.

Are you aware of any of the history around GG, or James Esses for that matter?