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Get the violins out - Stonewall is "in crisis"

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IwantToRetire · 24/04/2025 02:17

Our biggest LGBT charity is in crisis. Are we just going to let it collapse? LGBT people need armour; an organisation like Stonewall to act as a first line of defence

Stonewall, Britain’s largest LGBT organisation, is in crisis. It’s plummeting financially, with rounds of redundancies as funding cuts hit. And its credibility and influence is plunging amid a national and global backlash against LGBT rights.

This matters. If someone asked you to name the first LGBT organisation that comes to mind, I would bet my cat you’d say Stonewall. Since it was founded more than 35 years ago, the charity has become entwined in our country’s psyche, Parliament, schools, sporting and business sectors. But for how much longer?

However you feel about Stonewall, we need a conversation about the state of the biggest charity defending LGBT people. And we need to ask ourselves a question as the opponents of all kinds of human rights lie in wait: are we just going to let it die?
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To highlight one recent example of Stonewall’s seemingly waning influence, I asked the Government several times recently whether it has consulted with Stonewall over a proposed ban on conversion therapy since taking office. A spokesperson from the Cabinet Office declined to confirm whether it has even had any meetings with the charity about it, instead offering vaguely: “We will engage further with a broad range of stakeholders.” I asked Stonewall three times, but they did not provide a response.

Perhaps both sides are being coy or don’t want the public to know that they’ve met. But either way, this is as bizarre as it is concerning. Stonewall was once the charity that lobbied every MP in the country to help pass the same-sex marriage law in 2013. Now, it is unclear whether they’ve even had a meeting with the new Government over the psychological torture of LGBT people
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Should it die, many will dance on Stonewall’s grave. But then many would happily see the rights of LGBT people revoked too – thereby exposing how much a strong, influential organisation for this community is still needed.

If you think it should return to only representing lesbian, bisexual and gay people, then you’re ignoring not only the plight of trans people but also how intertwined all these rights are and how many government’s incarcerate people for laws that oppress every letter in the acronym – or pass laws like the Equality Act that protect everyone (until that is chipped away).
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Complete article at https://inews.co.uk/opinion/biggest-lgbt-charity-crisis-stonewall-3645337
Can also be read in full at https://archive.is/yGTYs

(If LGB people can set up their own Alliance, why cant trans people do the same?)

Our biggest LGBT charity is in crisis. Are we just going to let it collapse?

LGBT people need armour; an organisation like Stonewall to act as a first line of defence

https://inews.co.uk/opinion/biggest-lgbt-charity-crisis-stonewall-3645337

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DrPrunesqualer · 24/04/2025 11:23

Stonewall are bullies
The community need a Charity that acts like a Charity and understands the potential fallout of their views on others.
I don’t regard Stonewall as a Charity their actions are not charitable to all.

loveyouradvice · 24/04/2025 11:23

It would be such a relief to no longer have Stonewall on the scene.... but I suspect a few generous individual donors will rescue them.

Like many, I want to see the LBG Alliance flourish and I hope that Trans can create their own organisation from the bottom up.

I was amazed they were getting £500k a year from the USA government.

And like many I will be thrilled if This affects its ability to effectively lobby politicians.

VickyEadieofThigh · 24/04/2025 11:22

PerkyBlinder · 24/04/2025 02:40

If you give advice which is legally incorrect and the organisations you’ve advised then have to pay a fortune in payouts after losing multiple legal cases due to that incorrect advice then it’s no wonder organisations are going to avoid consulting you anymore.

THIS in shedloads.

Oh dear. What a shame. Never mind. As part of the L in LGB, I don't want any other hangers on. They can have their own groups with pleasure.

JeremiahBullfrog · 24/04/2025 11:20

There are quite a lot of LGBT people in this country, many of them quite well of them. There are even more "allies" who are desperate to go out of their way to show how much they love anything LGBT. If the leading LGBT charity isn't getting enough cash they must be doing something terribly wrong!

(Although on the allies point, I guess it's cheaper to put up a flag than to set up a long-term standing order, and the flags get you a lot more positive attention too.)

MariadeiMiracoli · 24/04/2025 11:16

If anyone would like to celebrate by making a small donation to LGB Alliance, here they are. Bev and Kate were dragged through the courts on Stonewall's behalf by Stonewall's friend, Mermaids. Many of us will remember the batshit Stonewall crew, including the support-mum and support-dog.

https://lgballiance.org.uk/donate/

DialSquare · 24/04/2025 11:15

It’s not like they weren’t warned over the last 10 years or so by previous supporters. They not only chose to ignore the warnings, they doubled down with their disgusting sexual racist comment. They have no one to blame but themselves.

ThatCyanCat · 24/04/2025 11:11

Those bananas are looking quite spotty, I'll make some banana bread with the kids after school. And that reminds me, I need to return those library books and pick up the dry cleaning.

FOJN · 24/04/2025 11:08

I agree with PP about the damage they've done to multiple groups of people. It will take years to clean up the mess they have made.

There will be many people and organisations who could have left a legacy to be proud of but will now be remembered for the self ID shit show, Stonewall is one of them.

I'll leave my tiny violin in its case, if Stonewall closes down I will not GAF.

MrsKeats · 24/04/2025 11:06

Can’t they start identifying as how they actually started when they were worthwhile??

DucklingSwimmingInstructress · 24/04/2025 11:04

WandaSiri · 24/04/2025 06:28

My violin is washing its hair. For the foreseeable future.

Washing its strings?

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 24/04/2025 11:04

Probably putting out this story to limit exposure to being sued for all the incorrect guidance it’s been handing out left right and centre to businesses and schools.

LGB Alliance are surely more than capable of protecting gay rights. Trans people are entirely separate-always perplexed why this group was linked, they have entirely different requirements re representation

EasternStandard · 24/04/2025 11:00

UrsulasHerbBag · 24/04/2025 10:53

In their arrogance they have caused severe and irreversible damage to many young people, they have persecuted lesbians and destroyed lives. They have harmed transpeople and their cause too by aggressively pursuing any dissenting voice. This is the crop they sew from #NoDebate.

And with this

EasternStandard · 24/04/2025 10:58

morningtoncrescent62 · 24/04/2025 10:43

Stonewall has no future. They lied about the law, and misled countless organisations into thinking that TWAW. They presented the law as they wanted it not the law as it was, declared that their (legally incorrect) interpretation was beyond question, and ruled that anyone disagreeing with them was ignorant or bigoted or both. If justice were to be done, they'd be sued to oblivion. Assuming that won't happen, they should be grateful simply to fade into that oblivion gracefully. Their day is well and truly over.

Agree

SidewaysOtter · 24/04/2025 10:56

However you feel about Stonewall

Well, what I feel about Stonewall is that they used to be an amazing organisation campaigning for the rights of gay people and against homophobia. They - along with many others - did a brilliant job. When I think back to the 90s compared to now, and how being gay is, in most quarters, completely accepted, it's a fantastic achievement.

But, having campaigned themselves out of existence, they cast about for a new cause which they embraced with alacrity. It's how we ended up with workshops on "overcoming the cotton ceiling" (aka bypassing the consent of lesbians as to who they had sex with). Likening people to "sexual racists" if someone didn't feel that those who'd identified into the sex class that they fancied were people they'd want to have sex with. And - IMO - being complicit with the bullying, harassment and silencing of gender critical people via their champions scheme, which made companies adopt Stonewall's policies and act on "breaches" of them accordingly. Then we have the concept of "Stonewall Law" which has become a byword for someone presenting the law as they'd like it to be rather than how it is.

So what I feel about Stonewall is that they're a busted flush who has wrecked their own legacy. And they've sold LGB people down the river by force-teaming them with the trans/queer identity crowd.

UrsulasHerbBag · 24/04/2025 10:53

In their arrogance they have caused severe and irreversible damage to many young people, they have persecuted lesbians and destroyed lives. They have harmed transpeople and their cause too by aggressively pursuing any dissenting voice. This is the crop they sew from #NoDebate.

Azureshores · 24/04/2025 10:53

I asked Stonewall three times, but they did not provide a response.

Probably off spending all that lovely money on a round the world trip before they're ordered to pay it all back as compensation!

What exactly have all the donations been spent on? Anyone?

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 24/04/2025 10:52

MarieDeGournay · 24/04/2025 10:10

It's great to see so many posters identifying that the trans takeover was what did for Stonewall, and LGB✂T is the only way forward.

I suppose our attitude here will be characterised as 'gloating', as was the reaction to the SC ruling. But honestly it's hard not to feel not just schadenfreude but a sense of relief that such a powerful organisation which has been misrepresenting the lesbian and gay community for so long, and exerting such worrying power over public life, is on its way out.

It has been ..what's the word I'm looking for? upsetting isn't too strong a word - to see an organisation that I supported, and that did great work for people like me, turn on us and force the terms 'lesbian and gay' into a dishonest, damaging, irrational and divisive entity called LGBTQ++.

It has been upsetting to see the rainbow flag, and its variants, dragged through the mud of public disdain when once, at a time when it was dangerous to show it, it was a bright spark showing support for lesbian and gay people in dark times.

Hey Stonewall - Go on now go, walk out the door, just turn around now
'Cause you're not welcome anymoreGrin

I agree with all of this. Not only have they been completely useless at battering us all into submission over gender ideology, they have completely failed the gay community, especially lesbians. But that’s what men’s rights movements do isn’t it? Good bloody riddance to them.

WitchesofPainswick · 24/04/2025 10:47

Stonewall were great with their campaigns for gay rights and marriage. But they did what they needed to do. Then they hung on, and hunted about for new causes. Which was a disaster.

It's like being sad that a Suffragists' charity is going under. Their core work is long done.

BelfastBard · 24/04/2025 10:45

NeedToChangeName · 24/04/2025 10:32

Fair enough, thanks for clarifying. I also donated

But, I still think that we might be in a different place if JKR had been pro trans. I'm really gratefully she wasn't. And her input has given a lot of publicity to the issue

I will be eternally grateful to her that she raised her head so publicly, knowing full well she’d be vilified for it. Admittedly, her voice put the issue in the sphere of those who might not otherwise have noticed.
But she was far from a lone voice, and there were many many other women who have been in this fight for a very long time. I don’t think those women would have backed down just because someone like JK Rowling might have supported trans ideology. Most celebrities and politicians refused to draw their line and support women, women faced overwhelming adversity in the face of a media and political class who blindly supported the erosion of our rights.

morningtoncrescent62 · 24/04/2025 10:43

Stonewall has no future. They lied about the law, and misled countless organisations into thinking that TWAW. They presented the law as they wanted it not the law as it was, declared that their (legally incorrect) interpretation was beyond question, and ruled that anyone disagreeing with them was ignorant or bigoted or both. If justice were to be done, they'd be sued to oblivion. Assuming that won't happen, they should be grateful simply to fade into that oblivion gracefully. Their day is well and truly over.

CautiousLurker01 · 24/04/2025 10:39

Datun · 24/04/2025 10:09

However you feel about Stonewall, we need a conversation about the state of the biggest charity defending LGBT people.

Reading something like that after all the years of no debate, getting women fired and arrested and helping to make almost the entire country scared to speak, I don't think folding is good enough.

They need to be sued, dragged into court, held accountable, and punished.

Not only is that statement fury inducing, people genuinely need to see how this process was even possible?

How did grown people, commanding the attention of the entire government, successive governments in fact, manage to promote an organisation, which was in dangerous breach of the law, whose ethos was completely self-contradictory, who financed themselves by running a racket?

Totally agree with this - [other] charities need to see that they will be held accountable and that their status or their [hopefully] noble aims do not exempt them from moral, social or legal responsibility. I’d very much like to see Stonewall and mermaids hauled over the coals as an example to others. And I’d like a review of charity law to ensure none can act they way theses both have ever again.

ladymalfoy45 · 24/04/2025 10:36

My tardigrade is using my violin.

thevassal · 24/04/2025 10:34

" I asked Stonewall three times, but they did not provide a response."
So they're completely useless (and rude) even to their most fervent supporters?

Apart from anything else, it's just unprofessional to not reply at all, not once, not twice, but three times. But, sadly, indicative of the
a) shout louder than everyone else
b) stick fingers in ears and hope will go away
strategy...

NeedToChangeName · 24/04/2025 10:32

BelfastBard · 24/04/2025 08:38

JK Rowling donated £70k towards a legal battle that cost around £400k… donations came primarily in the form of small donations from individuals, mostly women. I believe I saw Susan saying they looked at donations and the average amount was £37.
So to insinuate that JK funded the legal challenge isn’t accurate, and it’s something that does disservice to the thousands of women who supported the crowdfund because they knew how absolutely important it was.

Fair enough, thanks for clarifying. I also donated

But, I still think that we might be in a different place if JKR had been pro trans. I'm really gratefully she wasn't. And her input has given a lot of publicity to the issue

Shadowsunray · 24/04/2025 10:31

They should be sued to oblivion for all the harm they have done lying about the law.

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