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Anyone fancy adding their 2p to Rory & Alastair’s pod?

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SummerDaysOnTheWay · 23/04/2025 06:27

Rory and Alastair have deigned to discuss the ruling in their podcast… it would be great to see some more GC comments underneath this episode….

https://open.spotify.com/episode/7DXX2a9X5fxQSBc4ebRa2l?si=2hE1nB_lTXKgEysemtMlJQ

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NoviceVillager · 25/04/2025 22:49

Really disappointing, they didn’t bother to think through the challenge that self ID poses to policy making when people can say “I am in this [protected class] because I say I am”. Likewise they completely overlook the string of employment tribunals where women have been forced out for saying what Rory is proposing (or less!). I wonder if he will get pushback at Yale now he’s outed as a TERF. AC saying he’s got his opinion from family and friends was terrible! As if he’d say that about any other public policy issue.

Sidebeforeself · 25/04/2025 20:12

Fordian · 25/04/2025 09:46

I stopped subscribing a few months ago. I did laugh at someone describing Rory as ‘Florence of Belgravia’. He’s certainly becoming more pompous as he ages.

I now listen to The Rest is Politics USA, and The News Agents.

The blokes on The New Agents commenting on the ruling didnt exactly cover themselves in glory either .

JulesJules · 25/04/2025 15:41

I've just listened to the latest Double Jeopardy podcast, it was really good - Karon Monaghan KC was the guest and the discussion was a really clear explanation of the SC decision, especially spelling out the impact on lesbians.

CaveMum · 25/04/2025 14:00

Lottapianos · 25/04/2025 10:20

'I now listen to The Rest is Politics USA, and The News Agents.'

The News Agents episode about the judgement was really disappointing - Jon and Lewis honking on about how it affects only a tiny minority of people, and Emily not challenging them on that

Do TRIP USA discuss gender ideology at all?

Re TRIP US, they’ve not discussed it per se but it has come up in conversation where Mooch has said the fixation on identity politics by the Dems was a major factor in them losing the election.

MotherofPearl · 25/04/2025 12:50

Glad to read this thread. Just listened to the episode this morning and was seething at AC’s refusal to try to understand women’s concerns at all. Off to read the Suzanne Moore article - thanks for sharing.

CanOfMangoTango · 25/04/2025 12:21

I also stopped listening to TRIP a while back. For much the same reasons as a lot of you. Huge blindspots in their analysis and AC is stuck in 1997. The bloody sainted Tony the touchstone for everything. TRIP US is much more entertaining. I still listen to Leading sometimes though.

Also don't listen to the news agents any more, gave up on that around the time of those far right riots. Terrible analysis and Jon Sopel got on my tits.

EasternStandard · 25/04/2025 10:43

TonTonMacoute · 25/04/2025 10:27

Never understood how anyone could stand listening to those two, arrogant, self-important twats mansplaining anything in the first place!

Same

TonTonMacoute · 25/04/2025 10:27

Never understood how anyone could stand listening to those two, arrogant, self-important twats mansplaining anything in the first place!

Lottapianos · 25/04/2025 10:20

'I now listen to The Rest is Politics USA, and The News Agents.'

The News Agents episode about the judgement was really disappointing - Jon and Lewis honking on about how it affects only a tiny minority of people, and Emily not challenging them on that

Do TRIP USA discuss gender ideology at all?

Fordian · 25/04/2025 09:46

I stopped subscribing a few months ago. I did laugh at someone describing Rory as ‘Florence of Belgravia’. He’s certainly becoming more pompous as he ages.

I now listen to The Rest is Politics USA, and The News Agents.

Okayornot · 25/04/2025 09:37

TheaBrandt1 · 24/04/2025 21:48

They’ve lost me as a listener replaced with double jeopardy which was recommended on here far better

The Double Jeopardy podcast was excellent, which is hardly surprising since its focus is on legal analysis. The judgment is very clear, and AC’s “confusion” is either that he hasn’t read it or it doesn’t fit with what he wants the law to mean or most likely both. Plus he obviously doesn’t really engage on things affecting women. I really hate it when men try to talk about women’s issues only from the limited perspective of the women they live with and so have to interact with. When you research anything else you look to broader resources, so why not this? Because it isn’t worthy of your time? Because women should be a monolith? It’s lazy at best.

miri1985 · 25/04/2025 07:35

matresense · 25/04/2025 06:53

@miri1985oh interesting. Haven’t listened to that one - wasn’t sure I could take it! Is it worth it?

Not really, Doc Stock is mentioned briefly but there isn't any substantial discussion about what she faced or anything and no real reaction from Alastair.

matresense · 25/04/2025 06:56

And @miri1985i think what I should have said was “Rory doesn’t acknowledge, rather than Rory doesn’t realise” - I agree that he realises, he just doesn’t want to credit the women’s movement behind it

matresense · 25/04/2025 06:53

@miri1985oh interesting. Haven’t listened to that one - wasn’t sure I could take it! Is it worth it?

SummerDaysOnTheWay · 25/04/2025 04:39

matresense · 25/04/2025 01:39

i think that Alistair is trying to appease Grace and his family friends and really doesn’t care about the women’s rights issue and doesn’t want to understand it. He has been told that this is the “right side of history” thing to do, he is a very tribal person who can’t ever admit of a different argument and so he wouldn’t listen to any argument. It’s not got any critical thinking behind it. I was disgusted at the level of debate and the misogyny but not surprised. It’s really unkind to criticise a bunch of women for celebrating - these are women who risked a lot. And the both sides argument is just completely rubbish - I bet the “abuse” Alistair got on the trans issue was a few strongly worded emails from a few female listeners on the GC side, he never had to worry about his job or his physical safety, unlike the female campaigners.

Rory as usual thought he was brilliantly clever with his argument that if only everyone was as brilliant as him they would have found a compromise. What he failed to understand was that, in admitting that there are situations (he gave sport) in which he would treat bio women and TW differently, HE IS GC because biology matters to him from a policy point of view at least sometimes. Rory is a TERF. The argument is really, from that point about just how GC you are as to where you might draw the line. Rory doesn’t realise that just a couple of years ago it was very difficult to have that conversation at all and that it is only the work of a few very brave U.K. women that has allowed him to go even as far as his mealy mouthed comments. Rory obviously works in a sector in the US in which you are expected not to be GC, so really it’s about his interests and those of his friend who prescribed puberty blockers that I imagine is driving his circumspection. Not very principled.

Exactly this!

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miri1985 · 25/04/2025 04:36

" Rory doesn’t realise that just a couple of years ago it was very difficult to have that conversation at all and that it is only the work of a few very brave U.K. women that has allowed him to go even as far as his mealy mouthed comments."

He does though because in the Q&A ep this week, he referenced in relation to leftwing censorship how Kathleen Stock feels her career was ruined because she was speaking out about biological sex. Hes also referenced listening to the witchtrials of JK Rowling.

I think hes completely aware of the GC position and still tries to pretend like 3rd spaces is a compromise the TRAs would be willing to take and only someone as moderate as him could come up with it.

Its here from 11:35

matresense · 25/04/2025 02:57

@bibliotek

so what is the compromise? Having unisex third spaces has always been acceptable to GC campaigners - it’s the idea that all single sex spaces must be opened up and females deserve no protection from any male who says they are a woman (or signs a piece of paper and pays £10) because trans women are exactly the same as females that is the sticking point. Once you accept this isn’t the case and policy lines have to be drawn and it’s ok to debate how to draw them, then to be honest it is a smaller debate than the one that has occupied so much time because everyone is GC, it’s just a question of degree. You are, in TRA parlance “questioning TW right to exist” because you don’t consider any TW a full female. The issue that many trans activists have is that the general population pictures someone who has had all the operations when they are at their most accommodating, but that really is only 5% of the category. Those who are holding the placards saying “suck my lady dick” or similar are not going to win much sympathy and are only interested in full capitulation. So what compromises are available and who is going to agree them from the TRA side?

personally, I have no issue with using someone’s pronouns - I don’t actually believe anyone has change sex and no one can compel me to, but I would be polite and kind where I can. Where it matters to a situation that someone is female, I would expect to be able to talk about this, however, even if it is experienced as hurtful.

bibliotek · 25/04/2025 02:25

Radiatorvalves · 23/04/2025 09:15

Honestly… I have just listened and think it was nowhere near as bad as the comments above indicate. Broadly speaking (not having read the full judgement) I think the Supreme Court’s decision is correct. Do I think that means it’s the end of the debate - no of course not. You’ve got a situation that is horribly polarized and neither side can see any merits in the other sides perspective. There needs to be some form of movement / acknowledgment / recognition from each end / a sort of compromise for there to be sensible closure. And that’s pretty much what the 2 of them said.

Having said that, I’m now sadly expecting a pile on. I’ve lurked on this topic quite a lot and you don’t get many opposing views.

Agree @Radiatorvalves

matresense · 25/04/2025 01:39

i think that Alistair is trying to appease Grace and his family friends and really doesn’t care about the women’s rights issue and doesn’t want to understand it. He has been told that this is the “right side of history” thing to do, he is a very tribal person who can’t ever admit of a different argument and so he wouldn’t listen to any argument. It’s not got any critical thinking behind it. I was disgusted at the level of debate and the misogyny but not surprised. It’s really unkind to criticise a bunch of women for celebrating - these are women who risked a lot. And the both sides argument is just completely rubbish - I bet the “abuse” Alistair got on the trans issue was a few strongly worded emails from a few female listeners on the GC side, he never had to worry about his job or his physical safety, unlike the female campaigners.

Rory as usual thought he was brilliantly clever with his argument that if only everyone was as brilliant as him they would have found a compromise. What he failed to understand was that, in admitting that there are situations (he gave sport) in which he would treat bio women and TW differently, HE IS GC because biology matters to him from a policy point of view at least sometimes. Rory is a TERF. The argument is really, from that point about just how GC you are as to where you might draw the line. Rory doesn’t realise that just a couple of years ago it was very difficult to have that conversation at all and that it is only the work of a few very brave U.K. women that has allowed him to go even as far as his mealy mouthed comments. Rory obviously works in a sector in the US in which you are expected not to be GC, so really it’s about his interests and those of his friend who prescribed puberty blockers that I imagine is driving his circumspection. Not very principled.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/04/2025 01:03

MrsOvertonsWindow · 24/04/2025 21:18

Suzanne Moore has written a powerful piece about the 2 Prats in the Telegraph:

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/04/24/alastair-campbell-thinks-women-fighting-trans-activism/

Archive link

https://archive.ph/2MVs4

A most enjoyable read.

The only women acceptable are the women who say yes. Women saying no is not something these entitled men can compute.

so true.

SummerDaysOnTheWay · 24/04/2025 22:08

Ladybrows · 24/04/2025 21:26

Love this podcast normally, but so disappointed in the two of them when debating the recent judgement. They were mansplaining all over it. Privileged middle class (probably upper middle in Rory’s case) men wondering what all the fuss was about. I had to switch off. Alistair was particularly irritating. Can see why he was known as a bully in his day when working in Government circles.

He just sounds so ill informed on the entire subject! Smug mansplainer. So unimpressive.

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TheaBrandt1 · 24/04/2025 21:48

They’ve lost me as a listener replaced with double jeopardy which was recommended on here far better

NeelyOHara · 24/04/2025 21:31

They loathe women and really couldn’t hide it. Hideous.

Ladybrows · 24/04/2025 21:26

Love this podcast normally, but so disappointed in the two of them when debating the recent judgement. They were mansplaining all over it. Privileged middle class (probably upper middle in Rory’s case) men wondering what all the fuss was about. I had to switch off. Alistair was particularly irritating. Can see why he was known as a bully in his day when working in Government circles.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 24/04/2025 21:18

Suzanne Moore has written a powerful piece about the 2 Prats in the Telegraph:

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/04/24/alastair-campbell-thinks-women-fighting-trans-activism/

Archive link

https://archive.ph/2MVs4

A most enjoyable read.