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Some strange contradictory arguments from the TRA side

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transdimensional · 22/04/2025 16:50

Claim 1: That it's unfair for TW to go in men's toilets because they're less safe there.

It's probably true that they're less safe there, but how does the conclusion follow? What about a gender-nonconforming male who identifies as a man (not as a woman)? He would still have to go into the gents' even if admission to toilets was on the basis of gender identity. Should he also go to the ladies' to be safe? What about various other vulnerable groups? Young boys, elderly men who may be frail without being disabled, or ethnic minority males in an area where a white racist movement is strong - maybe they would all be safer in the ladies'? But it doesn't mean that's the answer!

Claim 2: That there is no use banning self-identified TW from the ladies' on the basis they might represent a risk, because genuinely dangerous males won't care whether they're allowed in or not.
This implies that the ladies' toilet is no safer than the gents', and therefore it completely contradicts the first point!

Claim 3: That having rules about who can and can't enter the toilets will lead to a surge in TM and others being wrongly accused of being in the wrong toilets.

But even under the EHRC's and Scottish government's understanding of the law, there were theoretical limitations on who could enter which toilets (in theory you would have needed a GRC). So there have always been rules about who can enter. Does anyone recall a huge problem of false accusations before 2010 or before 2004? If not, why should it start now?

OP posts:
MommaSmith · 23/04/2025 13:22

ArmySurplusHamster · 23/04/2025 13:17

‘some people think [NB] are the most affected.

In which sense of the word?

Well, you could argue that they do not claim either gender. They’re not saying that they are something that they are not like trans people.
they just don’t feel masculine or feminine
but people are grouping both of them together and some of them probably don’t agree with being transgender and changing your biology

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 23/04/2025 13:20

LadyQuackBeth · 23/04/2025 12:29

The argument I'm seeing over and over, that I genuinely don't understand is "...particularly non binary people" tacked on at the end of a sentence about being erased,having their rights stripped away. I see this a lot from female NB people, what do they genuinely think they've lost?

They've lost the "most" rights, supposedly, but on reading it it looks like it confirms female NB people have had their rights around reproduction strengthened. Otherwise there were no special rights to being NB, fluid, questioning, GNC etc.The shades of grey were never enshrined in law, nobody thought they were but some people think they are the most affected.

Non binary people are not recognised in UK law at all.

They had no specific rights last week and they have no specific rights this week.

They do all, however, belong to the protected category of "female" or "male". Like every other bugger.

I would in fact argue that neither the Equality Act nor the Gender Recognition Act recognise non binary identities in any way, non binary people are less affected by this judgment than any other group.

RedToothBrush · 23/04/2025 13:19

ArmySurplusHamster · 23/04/2025 13:17

‘some people think [NB] are the most affected.

In which sense of the word?

Why?

They stop having to 'pick a side'.

The decision is pre made for them.

ArmySurplusHamster · 23/04/2025 13:17

‘some people think [NB] are the most affected.

In which sense of the word?

RedToothBrush · 23/04/2025 13:11

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 23/04/2025 12:16

I supervise PhDs

You win the thread!

OldCrone · 23/04/2025 13:08

theilltemperedqueenofspacetime · 23/04/2025 12:32

Jane Fae was on Jeremy Vine's TV show this morning, running all the usual arguments and getting a lot of pandering, and came up with a new one:

Jane knows an old lady (trans) who would rather die than be admitted to a male hospital ward.

OLD LADIES WILL DIE 😱

Which is strange because mixed sex wards do exist, and we grumble about them, but I've never heard a woman say she'd rather die.

Why is anyone pandering to extreme porn advocate 'Jane Fae' (formerly John Ozimek)?

Do you know how much of your porn is extreme? • The Register

Do you know how much of your porn is extreme?

If you've got the time, ask a policeman

https://www.theregister.com/2008/06/19/extreme_guidance/

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 23/04/2025 13:08

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 23/04/2025 12:16

I supervise PhDs

Woah!

were not worthy waynes world GIF
Igneococcus · 23/04/2025 13:06

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 23/04/2025 12:32

Christiane Nusslein Volhard has a Nobel prize in medicine, and she's a terf.

I have met and had dinner with Christiane Nüsslein Volhard although I was sitting right at the other end of the table (and I can do an Umlaut where required).

Orangemintcream · 23/04/2025 13:04

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 23/04/2025 12:57

I should say I have agonised endlessly over this issue because I know and love trans people. But in the end I can't get past the clash of rights - disability rights in particular. People with autism should not be reprimanded for saying a TW is NAW, for instance.

I do recognise some merit in some TRA arguments: I don't believe that "you can always tell", for instance, just like you can't tell if someone is wearing a good wig. I do think that people pass better than they did thirty years ago because of improvements in hormone technology and facial feminisation surgery etc. It sits at odds with me as a lifelong leftie to step outside the "be kind" camp. I have yet to see a TRA acknowledge any merit in TERF arguments though.

I certainly don’t believe you can “always” tell.

I think the vast majority of the time you can tell. The people who transitioned young are probably the most likely to pass, along with males with slight frames and women who are tall and muscular.

The older trans women you can nearly always tell.

MommaSmith · 23/04/2025 13:03

thedancingclown · 23/04/2025 13:00

All I am thinking is what on earth goes on in men’s toilets that makes them so unsafe? Is this a real issue? Accept children should not go in unsupervised but adults?

toilets are designed by sex (female/male) not gender, which is why there are no urinals in female ones.

Partner just says it’s dirty and you get some men looking at others parts at urinals which is why he uses stalls every time

thedancingclown · 23/04/2025 13:00

All I am thinking is what on earth goes on in men’s toilets that makes them so unsafe? Is this a real issue? Accept children should not go in unsupervised but adults?

toilets are designed by sex (female/male) not gender, which is why there are no urinals in female ones.

Hoppinggreen · 23/04/2025 13:00

MagpiePi · 23/04/2025 12:55

...quietly slides Royal Yachting Association Level 2 Powerboat Handling (Inshore Waters) certificate off the table...

<Waves certificate in sub floor preparation>
Although as I was pg it was decided it was better I avoid the fumes so I could only watch through glass rather than actually participate BUT then HR said that was discriminatory so I had to get the certificate anyway.

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 23/04/2025 12:57

I should say I have agonised endlessly over this issue because I know and love trans people. But in the end I can't get past the clash of rights - disability rights in particular. People with autism should not be reprimanded for saying a TW is NAW, for instance.

I do recognise some merit in some TRA arguments: I don't believe that "you can always tell", for instance, just like you can't tell if someone is wearing a good wig. I do think that people pass better than they did thirty years ago because of improvements in hormone technology and facial feminisation surgery etc. It sits at odds with me as a lifelong leftie to step outside the "be kind" camp. I have yet to see a TRA acknowledge any merit in TERF arguments though.

MagpiePi · 23/04/2025 12:55

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 23/04/2025 12:35

A Nobel = Mornington Crescent, game over. 😁

...quietly slides Royal Yachting Association Level 2 Powerboat Handling (Inshore Waters) certificate off the table...

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 23/04/2025 12:44

MommaSmith · 23/04/2025 12:41

If your going to refrence the 1.7% of the world who is born intersex as an argument for transgender people
Then why not consider the 3.5% of the population born with genetic abnormalities as part of science? People born with a missing limb, babies with 7 toes on each foot? Why are we not changing the normal common science to portray people being born with two arms and two legs

Totally agree, and can boost your argument by saying: the percentage of the global population with DSDs (disorders of sexual development, which is the current term, rather than intersex) is even smaller than you quote - it’s actually 0.018.

MommaSmith · 23/04/2025 12:41

MordantCarnival · 23/04/2025 06:22

"Gender ideology is built on a pack of lies and circular arguments."
- Circumfrences

I'm always baffled that a truly concerning number of people still think that xx to equal a woman and xy to equal a man is an exclusive default, and then go on to to erroneously cling to it as though it were scientific fact.

I don't know your educational background, but at my school we learned about intersex and chromosomal variation not being tied exclusively to pubescent development in Biology when we were around 14. It was pretty fundamental science, to be honest.

So, when you - and others like you - make statements like this I have to ask... how basic is your science, exactly?

"Claim 2: That there is no use banning self-identified TW from the ladies' on the basis they might represent a risk, because genuinely dangerous males won't care whether they're allowed in or not."
- Transdimensional

It's true that dangerous males will do precisely that, but the logical fallacy that this means women who were born as physical - physical, not biological (see intersex and chromosomal variation) - males will automatically present a risk.

As you rightly assert, dangerous men are not going to be deterred by a door bearing a sign of a person in a dress, but let's forego the bathroom entirely. If men intend to be predatory they need not use a woman's bathroom; they simply get a job in law enforcement, or work as a youth volunteer at a local church, or be your boss.

Let's be quite clear. This HC ruling has absolutely nothing to do with protecting women; you allowed yourselves to be led by bigots into alienating and scapegoating a vulnerable minority group who have done nothing to you and whose suffering you have neither the inclination or education to understand.

If your going to refrence the 1.7% of the world who is born intersex as an argument for transgender people
Then why not consider the 3.5% of the population born with genetic abnormalities as part of science? People born with a missing limb, babies with 7 toes on each foot? Why are we not changing the normal common science to portray people being born with two arms and two legs

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 23/04/2025 12:35

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 23/04/2025 12:32

Christiane Nusslein Volhard has a Nobel prize in medicine, and she's a terf.

A Nobel = Mornington Crescent, game over. 😁

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 23/04/2025 12:32

Hoppinggreen · 23/04/2025 12:18

We have a winner!!!! 😁

Christiane Nusslein Volhard has a Nobel prize in medicine, and she's a terf.

theilltemperedqueenofspacetime · 23/04/2025 12:32

Jane Fae was on Jeremy Vine's TV show this morning, running all the usual arguments and getting a lot of pandering, and came up with a new one:

Jane knows an old lady (trans) who would rather die than be admitted to a male hospital ward.

OLD LADIES WILL DIE 😱

Which is strange because mixed sex wards do exist, and we grumble about them, but I've never heard a woman say she'd rather die.

LadyQuackBeth · 23/04/2025 12:29

The argument I'm seeing over and over, that I genuinely don't understand is "...particularly non binary people" tacked on at the end of a sentence about being erased,having their rights stripped away. I see this a lot from female NB people, what do they genuinely think they've lost?

They've lost the "most" rights, supposedly, but on reading it it looks like it confirms female NB people have had their rights around reproduction strengthened. Otherwise there were no special rights to being NB, fluid, questioning, GNC etc.The shades of grey were never enshrined in law, nobody thought they were but some people think they are the most affected.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 23/04/2025 12:20

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 23/04/2025 12:16

I supervise PhDs

Oooooh! 😅

Hoppinggreen · 23/04/2025 12:18

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 23/04/2025 12:16

I supervise PhDs

We have a winner!!!! 😁

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 23/04/2025 12:18

MordantCarnival · 23/04/2025 06:22

"Gender ideology is built on a pack of lies and circular arguments."
- Circumfrences

I'm always baffled that a truly concerning number of people still think that xx to equal a woman and xy to equal a man is an exclusive default, and then go on to to erroneously cling to it as though it were scientific fact.

I don't know your educational background, but at my school we learned about intersex and chromosomal variation not being tied exclusively to pubescent development in Biology when we were around 14. It was pretty fundamental science, to be honest.

So, when you - and others like you - make statements like this I have to ask... how basic is your science, exactly?

"Claim 2: That there is no use banning self-identified TW from the ladies' on the basis they might represent a risk, because genuinely dangerous males won't care whether they're allowed in or not."
- Transdimensional

It's true that dangerous males will do precisely that, but the logical fallacy that this means women who were born as physical - physical, not biological (see intersex and chromosomal variation) - males will automatically present a risk.

As you rightly assert, dangerous men are not going to be deterred by a door bearing a sign of a person in a dress, but let's forego the bathroom entirely. If men intend to be predatory they need not use a woman's bathroom; they simply get a job in law enforcement, or work as a youth volunteer at a local church, or be your boss.

Let's be quite clear. This HC ruling has absolutely nothing to do with protecting women; you allowed yourselves to be led by bigots into alienating and scapegoating a vulnerable minority group who have done nothing to you and whose suffering you have neither the inclination or education to understand.

Are you not aware that sexual assault is often a crime of opportunity? It certainly was when I was assaulted in a unisex toilet space.

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 23/04/2025 12:16

I supervise PhDs

Merrymouse · 23/04/2025 12:05

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 23/04/2025 11:59

How do you know whether someone has "had the op" or not when deciding whether to let them into the women's changing rooms?

Also, the op involves significant surgery to the urinary tract, has variable success, causes infertility and more or less prevents orgasm.

You can’t tie somebody’s rights to having such surgery.

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