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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
hihelenhi · 22/04/2025 13:43

Mistyglade · 21/04/2025 16:28

These trans activists are starting to give me a real guttural sense of fear, does anyone else feel genuinely scared of them? I’ve never felt frightened of anything before but this is all so unhinged I’m worried what they might try.

Yes, because as you say, they are utterly unhinged. Impervious to facts, sense, ethics, thinking exactly like the most zealous cultists... and (ironically for people who are always wanging on about this) busy "othering" . Many have got beyond the point that they can even see those who differ in their view as human beings. Even if they knew them personally before.

What I find terrifying—and I do also know some on that list personally, many are on the grassroots writing and poetry scene, even if they aren't 'big name' writers— is that they are perfectly happy to believe terrible things about women that many of them actually know and to claim such women hold beliefs that they simply do not, to allow lies to fester about them and to condemn them to a virtual witchburning on that basis.

Given that SO many of their beliefs are the opposite of factual, seeing that they believe nonsense so fervently that they actually think anyone opposing them is a "literal fascist" and are happy to spread and support that narrative, hound and target women who don't agree with them, and cheer on those who would commit violence on the basis of it, then yes, they are very dangerous. In the same way that throughout history terrible atrocities have been enabled once tribalism takes hold, among people who were once rubbing along perfectly well as neighbours.

And I think that guttural fear is perfectly natural. These are no longer rational people. Having to be VERY careful of what you say to whom because you might unleash real violence against yourself is not a normal state of being. This ideology and people's behaviour over it is one of the most toxic situations I can EVER remember.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/04/2025 13:06

Georgina Wright has not called or messaged her parents since Wednesday, the day the Supreme Court ruled that the legal definition of a woman is based on biological sex.
Wright, 23, from London, has been avoiding the argument she anticipates will eventually erupt when her family sit down for Easter lunch this weekend.
“My mum is an old-school feminist,” she said. “I get she’s from the generation where women really had to fight for equality but I just don’t think trans people having rights takes away from my rights as a cis woman. It’s infuriating having to hear their recycled arguments about loos and pronouns.”

So Georgie hasn’t called mummy and daddy for days because she’s having a hissy fit but she’s still expecting an invite round on Sunday for roast lamb, she doesn’t want to hear about second wave feminism at the table though, it’s just sooooo boring for this top class feminist 😂

Fgfgfg · 22/04/2025 12:59

WarriorN · 21/04/2025 12:21

Robin Ince

I know! Has he learnt nothing from all his time spent presenting the infinite monkey cage? Maybe they need to do a special episode for him on basic biology.

krustykittens · 22/04/2025 12:48

SueSuddio · 22/04/2025 11:37

I have hope that today's young liberals are tomorrow's middle aged conservatives and that their views change and mature as they get older.

Because let's face it we do all get more conservative and sensible the older we get and if / when we start a family. Not always, but that's a pattern I've noticed.

As long as any of these young people argue for male inclusion in women's sports then you just cannot give credit to anything else they say to be honest. Viva the supreme court of adults.

I have hope in the development arc I see in my daughter's friends. She is 23 and trans was THE buzz word when she was at school. Everyone talking endlessly about the trans issue and gleefully slapping labels on themselves and everyone else. She was also GC but kept quiet about it, but we have noticed that a lot of her very woke school friends have toned it down. They are rather boring 'cis' 20 somethings now, and while still quite woke, find that real life takes up a lot more of their time! Things have definetly been turned down a couple of notches and by the time they are 30, many may lean more toward the GC point of view. It has become a social contagion and I think a lot of the kids walking around saying, "I am a non binary trans person" are just going to find all this too exhausting as grown ups. I wonder if genuine trans people, who don't really feel as if they have any choice about their identity, are going to be relieved?

krustykittens · 22/04/2025 12:41

CrossPurposes · 22/04/2025 11:03

He is quite the disappointment. His ugly way of expressing himself is in direct correlation with the standard of his books over the years. Chaos Walking is a very moving book.

I adore those books and I won't get rid of them, even though he has proven himself to be such an ugly person. Unless someone has doen something utterly heinous, like Marion Zimmer Bradley, I try to seperate the artist from their work. But I would only buy secondhand, he's not getting my money! What I thought was really disgusting was a trans author who lectures asked on FB how they could use JK Rowling's work in their class without giving her any credit. One author feeling perfectly entitled to rip off another, because they don't like what they say! Sorry, I am derailing the thread now!

SueSuddio · 22/04/2025 11:37

EmpressoftheMundane · 21/04/2025 12:14

I don’t really care about this random group’s opinion, but this is worrying: https://archive.ph/eoDSN

The younger generation has a different opinion…at leadt on the surface. When I read the article, it seems they have misunderstood a few things, and if this “constructive ambiguity” was exposed. They might feel differently, although some might find it too difficult to change their minds for tribal/social reasons.

This is far from over.

I have hope that today's young liberals are tomorrow's middle aged conservatives and that their views change and mature as they get older.

Because let's face it we do all get more conservative and sensible the older we get and if / when we start a family. Not always, but that's a pattern I've noticed.

As long as any of these young people argue for male inclusion in women's sports then you just cannot give credit to anything else they say to be honest. Viva the supreme court of adults.

SerafinasGoose · 22/04/2025 11:33

ArabellaScott · 21/04/2025 21:10

Serafina, would you be amenable to making a thread to expand on this? I'd be really interested to hear.more, if you had the time and inclination.

OK - at some point, I will.

It's going to be tough to be succinct with this one!, so I'll have to find a way of condensing this stuff so that I'm not writing an essay. When I get a moment, I'll see what I can do.

Creepybookworm · 22/04/2025 11:28

PriOn1 · 21/04/2025 19:56

I can’t be bothered going back to check, but I think Daisy Meadows was on there too.

Edited

Daisy Meadows is not a real person. It is a group of ghost writers. If you are talking about the fairy book author.

viques · 22/04/2025 11:20

LaLoba · 21/04/2025 13:38

I only recognised a few names, and they did not come as a surprise.
Neil Gaiman must be gutted no one wants his signature anymore.

Didn’t Russell Brand write a book or two as well?

viques · 22/04/2025 11:13

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 21/04/2025 16:36

I don't think all the names are being vetted. Say this one out loud.

Took me a moment!

Tinyrabbit · 22/04/2025 11:11

Most names on that list are complete unknowns.
Disappointed in Caryl Churchill though.

viques · 22/04/2025 11:11

lifeturnsonadime · 21/04/2025 20:14

He's not on that list though so is he reverse ferreting I wonder?

Either way I'll never forgive him. He knows what a woman is.

They all bloody know.

viques · 22/04/2025 11:09

Really, really disappointed to see Caryl Churchills name on that list. Her writing has always been about strong women and she is of an age when she knows what struggles women have gone through in her lifetime (and in history) to achieve anything looking remotely like equality.

Most of the names are total unknowns - I don’t think writing a self promoting blog really counts as being a writer, any more than signing your name on a colleagues leaving card does - a few usual suspects , and the rest are rent a signatures, which means the few people , like Churchill, who are respected for their body of work should be ashamed of adding their names to such a barrel scraping list.

CrossPurposes · 22/04/2025 11:03

krustykittens · 22/04/2025 10:45

Patrick Ness is an obnoxious arsehole in general and is particularly toxic on this issue.

He is quite the disappointment. His ugly way of expressing himself is in direct correlation with the standard of his books over the years. Chaos Walking is a very moving book.

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krustykittens · 22/04/2025 10:45

Patrick Ness is an obnoxious arsehole in general and is particularly toxic on this issue.

NeelyOHara · 22/04/2025 10:43

Patrick Ness is gay, I met him once and whilst he was quite nice his partner was acting like a total dick to the staff, and Patrick seemed absolutely fine with it.
His judgement didn’t seem great tbh.

Minesril · 22/04/2025 10:22

CorvusPurpureus · 21/04/2025 13:47

Meh. We've got Rowling 👸.

Erin Hunter isn't even a person. It's a collective nom de plume - & they got rid of Gillian Philip for knowing what a woman is. Saved me a fortune, as dd1 instantly decided to boycott the bloody Warrior Cats books she'd been tearing through at a rate of 3 a week, which is roughly how fast they seemed to be being churned out.

I didn’t know that about Erin Hunter and it’s really upset me. DS has just started getting into those cat books. 😥

I’m astonished that Patrick Ness is on the list - he wrote a book about a society in which all of the men kill all of the women because they can’t read the women’s minds. And he’s not a ‘nobody’ author afraid of being ‘cancelled’, surely? It just doesn’t compute.

NeelyOHara · 22/04/2025 07:28

Aisling Bea can get in the bin then.

Mermoose · 22/04/2025 07:10

ManyATrueWord · 22/04/2025 06:54

Robin "science is important and most people don't understand it" Ince? Shows that anyone can stop thinking at any point.

Ince only ever saw science as a cool t-shirt.

ManyATrueWord · 22/04/2025 06:54

WarriorN · 21/04/2025 12:21

Robin Ince

Robin "science is important and most people don't understand it" Ince? Shows that anyone can stop thinking at any point.

allstarsuperstar · 22/04/2025 05:55

They just want women to know how very, very right they are without ever explaining why.

FrippEnos · 22/04/2025 05:28

I do find it interesting that a group with so little skin in the game, makes such a loud noise about it.

AlexandraLeaving · 22/04/2025 03:26

ArabellaScott · 21/04/2025 21:10

Serafina, would you be amenable to making a thread to expand on this? I'd be really interested to hear.more, if you had the time and inclination.

Me too

Grammarnut · 21/04/2025 23:43

MrsOvertonsWindow · 21/04/2025 12:15

I suspect there's a lot of self identified "writers" on there amidst some of the well know names. Of the "I read a sentence from a book aloud on tiktok" variety .

Quite likely. Also, there may be a sprinkling of those who sign because not to do so will be outing and that will affect their career. I belong to a writing group and have realised I need to be careful what I say and what I read out and what I might recommend - not very creative encouraging.

WarriorN · 21/04/2025 22:54

Didn’t believe Oli Lipski was real but yep, they is.