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a list of men or companies who have stood up for us

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siucra · 20/04/2025 19:17

Like so many here, I have been disheartened by the lack of support from so many famous men, those I liked and or admired are now and will forever be in my blacklist. Same for companies.
This whole experience has been so hard and I thank all the incredible women who carried on and spoke for us...
However, who are the men who were on our side? Andrew Neil? Piers Morgan? There aren't many but would love to hear some names of those who put women first...

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Gansy · 20/04/2025 21:01

What an odd and random list of men.

Some wild barrel scraping for Tunnocks 😂

Mwnci123 · 20/04/2025 20:58

Shimmyshimmycocobop · 20/04/2025 20:48

I'm sure Tunnocks donated some boxes of teacakes etc to an LGB Alliance conference and then didn't back down when they were slated for it online?

I have an affection for Tunnocks based on a vague memory that they were good about something terfy once, so thanks for the particulars.

I remember when then Rachel McKinnon tried to get Specialized and Garmin to disavow Kelly Holmes for speaking up for women's sports, Garmin at least just ignored him (Specialized kissed his arse).

Lottapianos · 20/04/2025 20:58

'I love Douglas Murray-I could listen to him forever'

Me too. I don't agree with everything he says but always enjoy listening to him. I think that him and Brendan O'Neill really do understand the impact that all of this shite is having on women , and are disgusted by it. I think some men (Dawkins, the Triggernometry pair for example) aren't particularly bothered about women but just care very deeply about the truth

Didn't know that Ralph Fiennes was on the side of women with this issue. I fancy him more than ever now 😉

Theeyeballsinthesky · 20/04/2025 20:56

sunshinemode · 20/04/2025 20:55

Who is us?

You’re on FWR - take a wild guess!

rebmacesrevda · 20/04/2025 20:56

I had a quick look at Tunnocks website and it all seemed very heteronormative. Miss Glasgow (woman) wearing a Tunnocks dress, and football (mens) being sponsored. Their Gender Pay Gap report is on there, and it refers to men and women, but I didn't investigate their definitions of the words. If they are woke they've hidden it anyway!

elgreco · 20/04/2025 20:55

Robert Webb

sunshinemode · 20/04/2025 20:55

Who is us?

IButtleSir · 20/04/2025 20:55

teentantrums · 20/04/2025 20:30

Do you mean Esses?

OH MY GOODNESS I am mortified. Absolutely thought his surname was Essex. I apologise to everyone.

Pringlebeak · 20/04/2025 20:55

rebmacesrevda · 20/04/2025 20:48

Does that make up for "grab 'em by the pussy" though?

Well he's a massive blowhard and that's obviously not a nice thing to say. But perhaps actions speak louder than words in this case.

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 20/04/2025 20:54

siucra · 20/04/2025 20:31

Best custard. Will buy a big pot to support them.

Yes! I’d forgotten this scandal. The transactivists put heavy pressure on companies to stop advertising on Mumsnet.

So, big shout-out to Justine and co, and also to Bird’s Eye and all the advertisers who resisted. Does anyone remember the other brands who stood up to the TAs? They’re going on my shopping list.

And to all the men and women named or not named on this thread, who stood up for women during this time of madness.

Thank you all! And we will undoubtedly still have need of each other as the misogynists settle in to claw back some of the privileges they’ve lost.

Mwnci123 · 20/04/2025 20:51

YesYesAllGood · 20/04/2025 20:40

This is the thing, some men stand against it primarily because it’s harmful to women’s rights and some because the ideology is just so absurd.

Yes, and for some late adopters it's about self promotion or political expediency. Although I'm always happy to have more people on side, it's nice to remember the men who spoke up on principle many years ago.

Someone said Jonathan Ross stuck up for Glinner without being explicitly terfy, but actually I think he went a bit further than that.

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/04/2025 20:51

musicalfrog · 20/04/2025 20:39

In the context of this board he has.

Occasionally our interests overlap. Do not mistake this for Donald Trump standing up for women.

LittleBigHead · 20/04/2025 20:50

Some of the people listed have come to the cause quite recently.

So let's praise
Michael Conroy, who's been an absolute trooper on this subject for about a decade

Ed Skidelsky and the others from the Committee for Academic Freedom - not in MN purview, but quietly doing the work for the last 8 years or so.

Michael Flood

Jon Pike

And they're all on the Left (unlike Douglas Murray).

Cleebope2 · 20/04/2025 20:50

Doug Beattie Ulster Unionist MP. Stephen Nolan who led research into Stonewall

MrsMitford3 · 20/04/2025 20:50

I love Douglas Murray-I could listen to him forever

YesYesAllGood · 20/04/2025 20:49

Shimmyshimmycocobop · 20/04/2025 20:48

I'm sure Tunnocks donated some boxes of teacakes etc to an LGB Alliance conference and then didn't back down when they were slated for it online?

That’s what I was trying to remember!

rebmacesrevda · 20/04/2025 20:48

Pringlebeak · 20/04/2025 20:41

He literally signed several executive orders specifying among other things that there are only two sexes and banning men from women's sports.

Does that make up for "grab 'em by the pussy" though?

Shimmyshimmycocobop · 20/04/2025 20:48

I'm sure Tunnocks donated some boxes of teacakes etc to an LGB Alliance conference and then didn't back down when they were slated for it online?

Felinnefine · 20/04/2025 20:46

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/04/2025 20:34

Donald Trump does not stand up for women. Never has.

Edited

Agreed. However although his motives are suspicious, his actions mean that American girls and women in sports, rape crisis centres, breast feeding clinics, prisons, changing rooms, domestic violence units etc etc etc, don’t have to worry about billy big dick swinging his manhood around in their spaces. At the very minimum.

So although I would rather Biden / the democrats had supported women - he / they did not. And here we are.

Much like I’d rather Labour supported women, but we all know and evidence shows, they hate women. This latest ruling is making Starmer suck his thumb, but still he’s PM, an ex barrister he knows what he needs to do.

The question is - will he confirm agreement with the Supreme Court?

Orangebadger · 20/04/2025 20:45

Andy Murray has been very vocal defending women in sport.

MrsMitford3 · 20/04/2025 20:44

TeiTetua · 20/04/2025 19:26

Well, Graham Linehan of course.

Was coming on to name his as well.

He def deserves our thanks-he is fabulous and his support was at great personal and professional cost!

Mwnci123 · 20/04/2025 20:43

Colin Wynter KC

ThatCyanCat · 20/04/2025 20:42

Zachary Elliott (@zaelefty).

Pringlebeak · 20/04/2025 20:41

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/04/2025 20:34

Donald Trump does not stand up for women. Never has.

Edited

He literally signed several executive orders specifying among other things that there are only two sexes and banning men from women's sports.

Zelle70 · 20/04/2025 20:41

Douglas Murray
Jordan B Peterson
Rafe Heydel-Mankoo
The New Culture Form/Podcast of the Lotus Eaters
Konstantin Kisin (Triggernometry)
Francis Foster (Triggernometry)
Elon Musk
Adam Brooks
Alex Armstrong
Andrew Gold (Heretics)
Jack Jewell
Josh Howie
Leo Kearse
Andy Ngo
Tyler Fischer