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Is anyone else surprised that so-called feminists still think that TWAW?

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AnnaQuayInTheUk · 17/04/2025 18:37

Several friends who have been quite pro TWAW in the past are today posting all over social media that they are devastated by yesterday's ruling, that they are Trans Allies, that TERFs should be truly ashamed etc etc.

These are women who also describe themselves as feminists. I thought they'd be lying low today, or maybe even giving a measured response to the ruling, but it seems to have triggered them into an extreme of Trans allyship.

I'm having to hold myself back from.descending into a slanging match with them.

Is it possible to be a feminist and believe that TWAW or should you stop claiming that title if you won't accept the SC ruling?

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DecayedStrumpet · 17/04/2025 22:55

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 22:34

That's exactly what the ruling will do. Everything will be mixed gender because nobody will want have to decide who is and isn't trans or risk being sued for letting in the wrong person. Well done everyone!

Well yes mixed gender, but single sex.

Why would someone's perception of their own relationship to gender stereotypes have any relevance to the wider world?

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 22:55

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 17/04/2025 22:51

TW are men.

No point in wasting my time arguing with people so full of hate who spend their days bullying minorities. This is why people say you lot are like Trump supporters.

TempestTost · 17/04/2025 22:54

I'm not surprised. SO not surprised I'm not really disappointed.

For a lot of women being a feminist is really just part of identifying as a good person, they think being on the left politically is about being a good person, and that feminism is part of being on the left. What can you expect from people who think those on the right actually intend to be evil? With that level of political sophistication you can't expect much.

Especially for the younger ones, they learned little about questioning all narrative in school. What they learned is that people who don't accept political progressivism are bigots and that is the worst possible thing, except for being Not Nice.

And for many of these people, their model now is identity politics, and TWAW is kind of the highest expression of identity politics. Their feminism is in the form of id politics too.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 17/04/2025 22:53

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 22:45

You lot are literally on the same side as the Conservatives and Trump supporters.

You’re repeating yourself now.

Onthemarket2024 · 17/04/2025 22:52

I've unfriended/blocked 1 friend from childhood, and an in law through marriage due to posts on their SM today/ yesterday. I just cannot agree with their TWAW stance.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 17/04/2025 22:51

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 22:44

They're not men, they're trans women. Why are you so hateful towards tiny minorities who are already vulnerable?

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TW are men.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 17/04/2025 22:48

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 22:36

You must all be very proud to share the same viewpoint as Trump's supporters.

I’m so sorry but you’re a bit late, the ‘you’re all right wing, Trump supporting bigots’ threads were last week and we’ve dealt with them. Do you have anything original to offer?

We’re very proud to understand facts, especially of the biological variety, we know that people can’t change sex, so please feel free to debate with us about it.

MissWishaw · 17/04/2025 22:47

I've had 2 colleagues be very vocal on the twaw debate and how terrible the ruling has been but so many more people ignore it which I actually think means they still don't want to out themselves as gc
A real feminist stands up for womens right before all else surely. So these women are not feminists

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 22:45

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 17/04/2025 22:45

@LadyBracknellsHandbagg that's a good point.

I remember being very surprised years ago when a colleague told me he was a member of the Conservative party. I'm a social worker and couldn't get my head round the fact that a fellow social worker was right wing.

It's a bit like turkeys voting for Christmas

You lot are literally on the same side as the Conservatives and Trump supporters.

JumpingPumpkin · 17/04/2025 22:45

I have only had one old friend post about the need to support trans because of the ruling. I guess they have just gone along with “be kind” and never realised that Stonewall law was not real law. I’m hoping it’ll calm down after the initial surprise.

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 17/04/2025 22:45

@LadyBracknellsHandbagg that's a good point.

I remember being very surprised years ago when a colleague told me he was a member of the Conservative party. I'm a social worker and couldn't get my head round the fact that a fellow social worker was right wing.

It's a bit like turkeys voting for Christmas

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Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 22:44

IsItAllRubbish · 17/04/2025 22:43

I always think the women who pander to men are going to pander to them whether they’re in a dress or slacks. The pick-me-est of pick-mes.

They're not men, they're trans women. Why are you so hateful towards tiny minorities who are already vulnerable?

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 17/04/2025 22:44

FKAT · 17/04/2025 19:12

They're not feminists. They've co-opted 'brand feminism' to show they are Not Like Other Girls. But given that they have to check with men if they are allowed to have some of their opinions, that's not feminism.

They are like Edwardian ladies who don't want to upset their husbands with suffragette talk.

Or those posh dowagers who say 'well of course women have always been superior to men - we didn't need to demand equality!'

‘They're not feminists. They've co-opted 'brand feminism' to show they are Not Like Other Girls.’

This is spot on, it’s competitive behaviour in the hope that the men will pick them over women who can think for themselves and have opinions.

IsItAllRubbish · 17/04/2025 22:43

I always think the women who pander to men are going to pander to them whether they’re in a dress or slacks. The pick-me-est of pick-mes.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 17/04/2025 22:39

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 17/04/2025 18:37

Several friends who have been quite pro TWAW in the past are today posting all over social media that they are devastated by yesterday's ruling, that they are Trans Allies, that TERFs should be truly ashamed etc etc.

These are women who also describe themselves as feminists. I thought they'd be lying low today, or maybe even giving a measured response to the ruling, but it seems to have triggered them into an extreme of Trans allyship.

I'm having to hold myself back from.descending into a slanging match with them.

Is it possible to be a feminist and believe that TWAW or should you stop claiming that title if you won't accept the SC ruling?

If you cheerlead for something that is inherently harmful to women then you are not a feminist. If you believe people can change sex then you are not a feminist.

In my experience the women who spout TWAW know damn well that’s not true, but they don’t actually like women that much, so anything that curries favour with men against other women is a win for them. This isn’t a new phenomenon, there were plenty of women who actively campaigned against the suffrage movement.

SidewaysOtter · 17/04/2025 22:39

The internalised misogyny remains strong. As does the need to signal one’s virtue.

So tiresome but they’re best left to it, poor things.

NPET · 17/04/2025 22:37

I'm steering clear of certain "friends" until after Easter.

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 22:36

Delphinium20 · 17/04/2025 18:47

I noticed in my US progressive Democrat FB group there were two posts roughly the same time: one about illegal detainments under the Trump admin and the second about the UK Supreme Court verdict on sex reality. Over 1000 interactions on the illegal detainments, civil debate when others disagreed, not all in complete agreement on how to respond, but nuanced discussions. Rather robust.

The UK saying unanimously that men cannot become women: 63 emojis, 12ish comments. Of course, the commentators are all TWAW and those evil right wingers, look how Trump influences the world, blah blah blah. I think it's VERY telling that this predominantly woman's group is deadass silent on this topic. I think because those who are GC know damn well they'll get silenced or booted (or already have).

You must all be very proud to share the same viewpoint as Trump's supporters.

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 22:34

FizzingAda · 17/04/2025 19:38

On the World at One today on r4 (first item) the presenter (Carolyn Quin? Not sure, missed the info) interviewed an elderly transwoman waiting to go into hospital, who was worried about where he would be put. Then interviewed a doctor 'it's complicated'. She actually said, more than once, about mixed sex wards now being a no-no, 'can't we just rename then 'mixed gender wards', so they could still be mixed. Unbelievable 🤷🏼‍♀️

That's exactly what the ruling will do. Everything will be mixed gender because nobody will want have to decide who is and isn't trans or risk being sued for letting in the wrong person. Well done everyone!

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 22:30

Because believe it or not, not all feminists get off on bullying a tiny minority of already marginalised and vulnerable people.

Sounds like your friends actually have something called empathy for people different to them.

ThatPearlPanda · 17/04/2025 22:30

I think it’s interesting which of my friends and acquaintances HAVEN’T posted TWAW content. I think it’s because they privately disagree but for whatever reason don’t feel they can say so online.

RoundAndRoundTheTable · 17/04/2025 22:25

I had stepped off social media and particularly anything around the trans subject. Tentatively put a toe back in today and was immediately reunited with the utter vitriol from the TWAW crowd.

I have had a couple of “this is interesting” texts from friends, which I think is how a lot of women are trying to very subtly say they’re GC, when they wouldn’t even have dared to say it subtly before!

HermioneWeasley · 17/04/2025 22:25

WithSilverBells · 17/04/2025 19:07

I think the DEI folk will be the ones to watch. How are they going to spin this? Who are they going to take direction from? Will those who manage risk, including financial and reputational risk, start to take an interest in what their DEI departments are up to?

I’ve already seen some extraordinary mental contortions and bad faith interpretations of the judgement. I guess the DEI industry is panicking that the grift is up

porridgecake · 17/04/2025 22:21

I have just put the ITV news on and switched it straight off again. Lying is apparently fine and it is perfectly ok to spread misinformation.

NotMyRealAccount · 17/04/2025 22:21

I'm also seeing a number of women of whom I might have expected better rushing to be seen to massage the wounded feelings of thwarted men on social media. It's a little irritating, but, as they say on clickbait posts, I'll wait.