Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Is anyone else surprised that so-called feminists still think that TWAW?

184 replies

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 17/04/2025 18:37

Several friends who have been quite pro TWAW in the past are today posting all over social media that they are devastated by yesterday's ruling, that they are Trans Allies, that TERFs should be truly ashamed etc etc.

These are women who also describe themselves as feminists. I thought they'd be lying low today, or maybe even giving a measured response to the ruling, but it seems to have triggered them into an extreme of Trans allyship.

I'm having to hold myself back from.descending into a slanging match with them.

Is it possible to be a feminist and believe that TWAW or should you stop claiming that title if you won't accept the SC ruling?

OP posts:
Thread gallery
6
StormyPotatoes · 17/04/2025 23:47

I’ve only had 3 people (all women) post TWAW posts - all expected. All three of them disregarded that this was actually about women, removed references to women and reframed it entirely about trans women (not even trans people on the whole).

But it was this one other repost from one of the women (a childhood friend) that bothered me the most (image attached).

“In a time of femicide… the government would be going after the people actually harming them”

If you want to do something about femicide, you need to be able to recognise it. Femicide only affects biological women - not men in any way, shape or form. But if we don’t have a clear definition of ‘women’ to mean biological women then femicide can’t even exist. It’s so obvious yet these fucking idiots post this crap (and note how really the framing at the end has fuck all the do with women really and refocuses back on ‘vulnerable’ group (the trans). This post quite literally uses women’s issues as a means to elevate trans people (exactly what they accuse this mysterious other group of doing).

It’s just so bloody stupid. All that’s happened is what the definition of women likely meant 15 years ago has been clarified (and of course it bloody meant biological sex 15 years ago. How could the legislators have meant anything else?) and these idiots have lost their collective minds fawning over these men.

Is anyone else surprised that so-called feminists still think that TWAW?
Bannedontherun · 17/04/2025 23:47

Lostmyusernametoday · 17/04/2025 23:42

Both women and trans women are so so so much more likely to be victims of horrific men (trans women proportionally higher)

Give us some data on sexual violence and murder of trans people compared to women.

i have in my professional past never seen data to back up what you say here

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 23:43

murasaki · 17/04/2025 23:38

Ah, a nice new drop in from the Reddit school of incoherent reductive arguments. Welcome, @Micaela64, prepare to have your arse handed to you by a bunch of knowledgeable posters with the law, science and statistics at their fingertips.

Have at it, people!

I wonder how many of these "knowledgeable posters" have ever even spoken to a trans person in depth or got to know them to try and better understand their experience instead of just reading about them in the Daily Mail.

Lostmyusernametoday · 17/04/2025 23:42

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 17/04/2025 18:48

In my opinion, no, it is not possible to believe that TWAW and still be a feminist. But that doesn't stop these people identifying as feminists. Much in the same way as...well, you get the picture.

I wonder whether they ever have a moment of self doubt.

Both women and trans women are so so so much more likely to be victims of horrific men (trans women proportionally higher)

murasaki · 17/04/2025 23:38

Ah, a nice new drop in from the Reddit school of incoherent reductive arguments. Welcome, @Micaela64, prepare to have your arse handed to you by a bunch of knowledgeable posters with the law, science and statistics at their fingertips.

Have at it, people!

Annascaul · 17/04/2025 23:36

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 23:35

Why, trans women never get attacked or verbally abused? Are you for real? Try getting out of your bubble and actually speaking to some trans people.

You said constantly, which is errant nonsense, however much you argue.

OdeToBarney · 17/04/2025 23:36

bringonyourwreckingball · 17/04/2025 19:19

I think I have fallen out hugely with 2 women I otherwise like, admire etc and would have described as feminist because they have been spouting the ‘be kind’ ‘most vulnerable’ shit all over our group chat without having actually read the judgment which yes, I have, because I am an employment lawyer. But apparently I am a hateful bigot.

Same. It's so depressing.

ZeldaFighter · 17/04/2025 23:36

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 23:30

Not at the moment because they're focused on rolling back the clock for Trans people. The rest of the LGBTQ+ community will be next. JK Rowling has already seemingly started ranting about asexual people now.

Dear Micaela64,

I care less about toilets than I do about prisons.

Do you think that trans women should be sent to a women's prison? If they have been convicted of rape or violence against women? If they still have physically intact male genitalia?

Should trans men go to a men's prison? What if the trans man still has intact female genitalia?

Once you've dealt with prisons, please can you answer the same questions re domestic violence refuges, rape crisis services, sports and changing rooms?

Thank you

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 23:35

Annascaul · 17/04/2025 23:33

This simply doesn’t happen. Stop your nonsense.

Why, trans women never get attacked or verbally abused? Are you for real? Try getting out of your bubble and actually speaking to some trans people.

Annascaul · 17/04/2025 23:35

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 23:34

Trans people are 0.5% so regardless of how you spin the statistics women are far more likely to be raped by cis men and if men are pretending to be trans women to get to women then that's a cis man problem, not a trans women problem.

It’s a male problem, and trans women are male.

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 23:34

BunfightBetty · 17/04/2025 23:29

Absolutely not true. You need to bring your understanding up to speed with facts.

There is no evidence that trans women offend at a lower rate than other men, and there is in fact evidence to the contrary. The stats suggest that trans identified males in prison are MORE likely to have been convicted of sex offences than non-trans identified men.

Women are demonstrably NOT at lower risk from transwomen than other men. And let’s not forget that trans identified males pushing boundaries by entering women’s single sex spaces makes it easier for other men to also access those spaces.

If transwomen are at more risk in male spaces (which is moot), then that is a problem for men to solve, not women.

I’d still like you to explain why you’re happy for women to be raped so that men don’t have to suffer hurt feelings. Why is that?

Trans people are 0.5% so regardless of how you spin the statistics women are far more likely to be raped by cis men and if men are pretending to be trans women to get to women then that's a cis man problem, not a trans women problem.

Bannedontherun · 17/04/2025 23:34

Not read this thread just popped up to say there are feminists and the other lot who are FEMMENISTS

Annascaul · 17/04/2025 23:33

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 23:26

For one it means constantly being attacked verbally and physically when they're just trying to go about their business. No doubt things will get worse now people are emboldened by this ruling.

This simply doesn’t happen. Stop your nonsense.

Grammarnut · 17/04/2025 23:33

Lovelyview · 17/04/2025 18:42

My DD has posted one of those on Instagram. We're going to have to agree to disagree. She's a biologist as well 🙁

Or maybe point out the inconsistency in her position. Exactly why are TWs women?

Delphinium20 · 17/04/2025 23:32

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 23:26

For one it means constantly being attacked verbally and physically when they're just trying to go about their business. No doubt things will get worse now people are emboldened by this ruling.

Can you please provide examples of the physical attacks? I certainly hope no one is physically assaulting transwomen as a result of this ruling. Have you heard of anything? If yes, please share as I hope the police can be called.

Greyskybluesky · 17/04/2025 23:31

It's like a bingo card on here tonight! What's the prize?

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 23:30

Lovelyview · 17/04/2025 23:27

Are you in America? There are very few people in the uk who are trying to take away gay rights. And no-one on this board is. A number of gay rights organisations gave evidence that the definition of woman is important in uk law because lesbians in particular were in danger of not being able to exclude men from their events & dating apps, etc. The Supreme Court judgement specifically addressed this issue.

Not at the moment because they're focused on rolling back the clock for Trans people. The rest of the LGBTQ+ community will be next. JK Rowling has already seemingly started ranting about asexual people now.

BunfightBetty · 17/04/2025 23:29

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 23:12

"99% of sex offenders are male"

And how many of those men do you think are cis as opposed to trans? Trans women are more likely to be victims of violence than perpetrators.

Edited

Absolutely not true. You need to bring your understanding up to speed with facts.

There is no evidence that trans women offend at a lower rate than other men, and there is in fact evidence to the contrary. The stats suggest that trans identified males in prison are MORE likely to have been convicted of sex offences than non-trans identified men.

Women are demonstrably NOT at lower risk from transwomen than other men. And let’s not forget that trans identified males pushing boundaries by entering women’s single sex spaces makes it easier for other men to also access those spaces.

If transwomen are at more risk in male spaces (which is moot), then that is a problem for men to solve, not women.

I’d still like you to explain why you’re happy for women to be raped so that men don’t have to suffer hurt feelings. Why is that?

Is anyone else surprised that so-called feminists still think that TWAW?
Lovelyview · 17/04/2025 23:27

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 23:14

Bless, you think the right wing will stop at Trans people

Are you in America? There are very few people in the uk who are trying to take away gay rights. And no-one on this board is. A number of gay rights organisations gave evidence that the definition of woman is important in uk law because lesbians in particular were in danger of not being able to exclude men from their events & dating apps, etc. The Supreme Court judgement specifically addressed this issue.

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 23:26

ClaudiusTheGod · 17/04/2025 23:21

How are they marginalised? What does this mean in practice?

I agree they are vulnerable, especially to terrible long-term health problems as a result of putting a load of drugs in their bodies that shouldn’t be there.

For one it means constantly being attacked verbally and physically when they're just trying to go about their business. No doubt things will get worse now people are emboldened by this ruling.

Delphinium20 · 17/04/2025 23:26

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 22:36

You must all be very proud to share the same viewpoint as Trump's supporters.

I really don't understand what you mean.

I didn't vote for nor do I support Trump. I agree with him on the gender issue: men cannot become women and they need to stay out of women's spaces and sports and that gender affirming care is child abuse.

I doubt I agree with Trump on much more. Maybe he likes sugar and cream in his coffee. We might share that. Or cinnamon rolls. I bet he likes them too.

Good goddess, does sweet coffee and rolls make me a MAGA Hat wearing Trumper? I wish I'd known! Red is not a good color on me. I might be doomed.

Greyskybluesky · 17/04/2025 23:25

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 23:12

"99% of sex offenders are male"

And how many of those men do you think are cis as opposed to trans? Trans women are more likely to be victims of violence than perpetrators.

Edited

You just said transwomen aren't men. You are contradicting yourself.

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 23:25

Fgfgfg · 17/04/2025 23:19

Do you not realise that some of the most vocal and active GC women are lesbians?
These are women who object to being called transphobic because they... shock horror...don't want to be in a lesbian only space or a relationship with a biological male. 95% of TW still have a penis, yet lesbians are being called transphobic because they won't accept that the penis owner is a woman.

They'll regret it when the right wing turns on them next. Or do they think they'll stop at Trans people?

ClaudiusTheGod · 17/04/2025 23:21

Micaela64 · 17/04/2025 22:30

Because believe it or not, not all feminists get off on bullying a tiny minority of already marginalised and vulnerable people.

Sounds like your friends actually have something called empathy for people different to them.

Edited

How are they marginalised? What does this mean in practice?

I agree they are vulnerable, especially to terrible long-term health problems as a result of putting a load of drugs in their bodies that shouldn’t be there.

Fgfgfg · 17/04/2025 23:19

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Do you not realise that some of the most vocal and active GC women are lesbians?
These are women who object to being called transphobic because they... shock horror...don't want to be in a lesbian only space or a relationship with a biological male. 95% of TW still have a penis, yet lesbians are being called transphobic because they won't accept that the penis owner is a woman.

Swipe left for the next trending thread