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Aren’t the front pages and headlines glorious!

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SameyMcNameChange · 17/04/2025 07:23

I know there is a fair amount of bandwagon jumping, but it feels like the newspapers have finally read the room and realised that the SC ruling is welcomed by FAR more people than it disappoints. And so the front pages have smiling faces and headlines that would never have been published before.

Even, for example, the Metro which has had a pretty shocking record before has a pretty clear headline and a picture of smiling women.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/czd3jg60q4no

Front pages of The Times and the Daily Mail for 17 April

Newspaper headlines: 'Victory for women' and 'equity policies in chaos'

Thursday's front pages lead on the Supreme Court's ruling that a woman is defined by biological sex under equalities law.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/czd3jg60q4no

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lcakethereforeIam · 20/04/2025 22:11

Archive link for the above Times article

https://archive.ph/bYvvV

I wish the folx demonstrating would, if they/them can't be arsed reading the judgement itself, at least read an article like this.

TheOtherRaven · 20/04/2025 20:56

A good one that actually explains all this clearly including the issues for women

https://www.thetimes.com/world/ireland-world/article/uk-ruling-affirms-womens-rights-it-is-not-a-blow-to-trans-rights-zv2mf5znc

https://archive.ph/cSP55

NoBinturongsHereMate · 20/04/2025 19:29

Anyway, headlines: The Times SNP criticised for ‘snubbing feminists’ after Supreme Court ruling

https://archive.ph/Mo7Kf

Also notable for the contrasting claims of the 2 placards in the photo.

OneGreatReader · 20/04/2025 19:21

lcakethereforeIam · 20/04/2025 18:38

It's rare for someone to come back and apologise. I'm sorry for what you've been through. I'm not religious or generally vindictive but I dearly wish for a hell in which people who died unpunished for their crimes are burning.

My belief is that everything is One. This One is the same as our True Self. If we cause suffering to others therefore we are actually causing suffering to ourself. Although we may be able to convince ourselves during our lifetime that there are no consequences for causing suffering to others , in death, the illusion shatters and all the suffering that we have caused to others is revisited upon ourself.That is enough of a hell for me to imagine such people going to.

NoBinturongsHereMate · 20/04/2025 19:21

@OneGreatReader if you don't like politics, avoid the news, aren't familiar with 'Rose' and the other cases that form the background, and don't know what the related legislation says, how can you possibly understand the need for this ruling, why the case was brought, or what it means - both legally and emotionally to women?

lcakethereforeIam · 20/04/2025 18:38

OneGreatReader · 20/04/2025 13:35

I am sorry for any offence caused. I am also sorry to hear that you are also a survivor. I will try to be more thoughtful in my choice of words next time.

It's rare for someone to come back and apologise. I'm sorry for what you've been through. I'm not religious or generally vindictive but I dearly wish for a hell in which people who died unpunished for their crimes are burning.

KnottyAuty · 20/04/2025 18:05

OneGreatReader · 20/04/2025 16:57

The toilets are private not public so I believe the owner sets the policy.

Unfortunately if it’s a workplace the employer will need to offer a single sex option unless it’s a self contained lockable room.

OneGreatReader · 20/04/2025 18:00

Thank you for the clarification. I was going to speak to my manager tomorrow about this issue so this has clarified things for me.

OneGreatReader · 20/04/2025 16:57

BiologicalRobot · 20/04/2025 15:28

was only after the female staff were consulted by my manager and I was given the go ahead to use them did I start using them

Well now you know. If those toilets state Women or Female then legally you are not allowed in them. I also suspect the female staff were bullied and coerced to say yes. I assume you will stop using female single sex spaces now?
@OneGreatReader

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The toilets are private not public so I believe the owner sets the policy.

Waitwhat23 · 20/04/2025 16:41

And in fact, was every subsequent new female employee asked their consent or were they told 'this is what happens, it's been decided already'

KnottyAuty · 20/04/2025 16:29

BiologicalRobot · 20/04/2025 15:28

was only after the female staff were consulted by my manager and I was given the go ahead to use them did I start using them

Well now you know. If those toilets state Women or Female then legally you are not allowed in them. I also suspect the female staff were bullied and coerced to say yes. I assume you will stop using female single sex spaces now?
@OneGreatReader

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I think that’s a good point.
Was this agreed by all unanimously and freely?
Or was it presented as a done-deal with threats of disciplinary?
Or soft power of being excluded by colleagues and labelled a bigot?
How many of the group were genuinely free to choose?

RainbowZebraWarrior · 20/04/2025 15:50

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 20/04/2025 15:07

I think many of these men won’t accept ‘no’. Back in about 2016 I kept thinking that if I explained it well enough these men would understand the impact they were having on women and stop. It took a while for me to understand that most just don’t see women as real enough to care about and some actually relished frightening women and taking things from them.

it’s hard to say ‘no’ to people like that. Much easier to say ‘no’ to ordinary women who are in general reasonable. But the SC has made it clear that the hard ‘no’s’ have to be said now

Yep. I've had to unfollow a rather lovely gay chap on Facebook who I've known for years. He's been understandably championing gay rights for decades, but of course now he's all for Trans rights.

He's posted a lengthy diatribe detailing how upset he is at the SC ruling which is peppered with "I know some women feel there's a risk, but that's not my reality" He's literally said it about five times in his 'speech'.

All I see and hear from this regurgitated bullshit is:

But, but ME
But, but MEN
We really don't give a shit about women
I'm not a woman so I don't understand and don't want to

It's like like equivalent of 'I'm sorry you feel like that' in place of an apology or any real understanding or taking of any responsibility (in other words Fuck You and I'm not sorry at all)

Male entitlement really knows no bounds

And the absolute one thing I'd take from my five decades as a woman is that yes, Men really don't like being told No.

BiologicalRobot · 20/04/2025 15:28

was only after the female staff were consulted by my manager and I was given the go ahead to use them did I start using them

Well now you know. If those toilets state Women or Female then legally you are not allowed in them. I also suspect the female staff were bullied and coerced to say yes. I assume you will stop using female single sex spaces now?
@OneGreatReader

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/04/2025 15:08

It’s a harsh realisation, isn’t it @BernardBlacksMolluscs

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 20/04/2025 15:07

I think many of these men won’t accept ‘no’. Back in about 2016 I kept thinking that if I explained it well enough these men would understand the impact they were having on women and stop. It took a while for me to understand that most just don’t see women as real enough to care about and some actually relished frightening women and taking things from them.

it’s hard to say ‘no’ to people like that. Much easier to say ‘no’ to ordinary women who are in general reasonable. But the SC has made it clear that the hard ‘no’s’ have to be said now

KnottyAuty · 20/04/2025 14:56

I think it’s possible to comfort and say no. That’s where I’m at if people are respectful. Just like teaching the kids. They hear no. They are upset. Then we move on. Some will accept the SC and there will be some who don’t. Trampling all over all of us and they’ll unfortunately be on the wrong end of the law. Like Dr Upton they’ll end up named as respondents for creating hostile work environments for women and face financial & reputational consequences. In the end don’t we all just learn from the consequences. They’ve been slow to come but come they will. It’s going to be painful and public just like all the women who were put through it over the last few years. I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy but they will do it to themselves. Sad

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 20/04/2025 14:47

Just a reminder that we have a man on this thread who is using women’s spaces

he’s a man who has had a tough time and is deserving of sympathy. However his presence in women’s spaces renders them unusable for some women and impacts the privacy, dignity and safety of all women. I may be doing him a disservice, but judging by the tone of his previous posts I’d be surprised if he is going to voluntarily change his behaviour.

and this is the crux of the matter. Is the comfort of this man and other men like him the most important thing, or is it the privacy, dignity and safety of women?

OneGreatReader · 20/04/2025 14:45

2024onwardsandup · 20/04/2025 13:44

How do you know he was a man?

A very simple question which is the absolute and quite simple crux of the SC judgement.

I guess because if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck and quacks like duck it's a duck. I think that is how most people decided what the sex was of a person back then.

OneGreatReader · 20/04/2025 14:20

KnottyAuty · 20/04/2025 13:32

No. Rather in the same way that I’ve never done that with any women either. I’m quite busy and tbh until a few weeks ago I was in the BeKind mental space until I heard Dr Upton’s disturbing views espoused on the stand - no BeKind directed at women; zero reciprocity. I then took time to dissect my own attitudes and whether I was transphobic. And it re-surfaced memories of sexual assault and abusive teachers. All male of course but I’ve no idea if they’re now trans. That’s not the bit thats a problem for me - it’s the male sex. The entitlement. The taking what they want and sod the rest of us. Just like you e experienced. Some males will go to extreme lengths to get what they want. Unfortunately the people in your community who pushed too hard on women and didnt listen or empathise have done you wrong. I wouldn’t have minded what I’d regard as old-school-transsexuals (using old language for clarity) sharing spaces with women. Live and let live. But when people started losing their jobs for objecting to the trans people who behave poorly and risk losing jobs then thats hardened my opinion. Now I’m forced to say one line for all. It’s sad - but you need to get out and decry things and say not in your name. Have you read the details of Rose in the Darlington nurses case? Rose walked around in their boxer shorts with their penis prominently displayed.They asked the women why they weren’t undressing and spoke of getting their girlfriend pregnant. Until you get these jokers off your team, no one’s going to listen any more. People were liberal and they feel cheated. I wish you the best of luck

I am one of those old school transsexuals. "Primary transsexual" was what I was diagnosed as. Things were much easier and then. I lived in CA for about 20 years, after being disowned by my mother. I did not come back to this country until 2012. I was amazed and shocked by the changes that had taken place over here with respect to attitudes towards trans people. I have never had any say in determining trans policies. I actually hate politics and am not involved in the trans community either.

I know what you mean about the entitlement. I was sent to a top public school and was disgusted by what I saw and heard there especially the attitudes towards women. I could not wait to leave. I decided I would much rather be one of the oppressed than an oppressor. I would not have been able to live with myself otherwise. It has been interesting to observe how old male acquaintances have changed in how they relate to me. I am now assumed to be incompetent at everything.They just seem to think they are intrinsically superior. With respect to women's only spaces I started out by using the disabled toilet at my workplace because I did not want to offend any of the female staff. It was only after the female staff were consulted by my manager and I was given the go ahead to use them did I start using them.I don't know anything about the nurse Rose case. I try to avoid the news as much as possible. How you describe it though it sounds nauseatingly familiar.

RainbowZebraWarrior · 20/04/2025 14:20

BiologicalRobot · 20/04/2025 13:37

What part do you not understand from the SC ruling?

No rights were taken away. No rights were given. The law was clarified and it turns out organisations and government offices have been breaking the law.

That is it.

This really bears repeating.

For a certain group of people to make it all about themselves rather speaks volumes.

2024onwardsandup · 20/04/2025 13:44

OneGreatReader · 20/04/2025 13:02

Thank you for empathising.

I only learnt last week that the teacher involved was arrested about ten years ago and was charged with dozens of counts of sexual offences against pupils from my school. He escaped justice by taking his own life. After more than 50 years though I finally got validation for my memories. I have though two more memories from the same period of a far worse nature that I doubt that I will ever get validation for. Carrying such memories for so many years without resolution or validation is exhausting

I was speaking about myself and many other transgender women who I know have been raped - not all transgender women - when I made my original post.

Have any of you ever sat down with a transgender woman and told each other your life stories?

How do you know he was a man?

A very simple question which is the absolute and quite simple crux of the SC judgement.