Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Here's to the Mumsnet Terven - Roll of Honour

203 replies

TheHereticalOne · 16/04/2025 20:53

I've only just made it to Mumsnet after the decision this morning and wanted to congratulate to the marvellous Mumsnet Terven.

This has been years in the making and every one of you has resisted, in her own small or large way, the relentless gaslighting, bullying and Kafkaesque bureaucracy that tried to bully you out of saying or believing what you knew to be true and just.

I've seen Magdelen Berns rightly name-checked on X but I wanted as well to take a moment to acknowledge and thank the wonderful, clear-sighted, stiff-spined women on here who have tirelessly and patiently contributed to these boards over many years. Some are on the tip of my tongue (below) but I wonder if people would share the usernames that have stuck with them over the years. It seems like a good moment to reflect.

I'll begin with two stand-outs for me: Datun, RandomMess, LangCleg:

You have been a light for me (and I'm sure many others) in dark times when I would otherwise have felt shipwrecked alone on an island of sanity. Your logic and clarity have been a bulwark against a sea of insanity that I sometimes thought would lead me into madness.

And thanks to Mumsnet who steered a tricky course, especially in the early days of this when we had to behave like the bloody French resistance to avoid being sued to oblivion. Moderation was frustrating and we didn't always agree about the parameters but you doggedly kept the lines of communication open between us all here and I am so grateful.

Thank you.

Giant gins all round.

OP posts:
INeedAPensieve · 16/04/2025 21:23

Arabella Scott for me too. Also Datun and also Miss scarlet in the ballroom.

There are others too; waitwhat makes me laugh and of course RealFeminist.

I sadly wasn't around in the early days having only just peaked about 2.5 years ago so missed Langcleg.

Nauticant too for their stellar work setting up all those Sandie Peggie tribunal threads. In fact I'm raising a glass to all FWR posters. And of course, even though I was a bit later to this party so didn't know the original Spartacus ladies I want to thank them too. For Women Scotland met on Mumsnet, for understandable reasons they won't reveal their usernames so if they are still here, I thank them for what they achieved today. X

Meceme · 16/04/2025 21:16

FlirtswithRhinos
DeanElderberry
Helleofabore
MarieDeGournay

Forgive any misspellings or misplaced UC/LC I'm a bit giddy with the ruling toady. I didn't have high hopes but am happily proved wrong.
Have edited for spelling but Im sure its still wrong .... thank you for keeping me sane x

JellySaurus · 16/04/2025 20:58

ArabellaScot