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Thank you MNHQ

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Blistory · 16/04/2025 15:20

I don't post much on here anymore but just wanted to take a moment today to thank Mumsnet @MNHQ and Justine in particular for standing strong over a considerable number of years.

I fully appreciate that not all Mumsnet members or employees held the same beliefs but in the fury of doxing, banning, and insults, MNHQ held the line to enable this space where women were able to have a discussion.

I know the arguments and concerns over the years but the fact is that this was the only public space for a considerable number of years where a conversation was allowed about what came to be known as gender critical concerns.

This was where women came to gather, to discuss, to learn, to be heard, to form new spaces, to support and to stand strong. It wasn't always a pleasant place to be but it was always a place that was allowed to exist. It stood against the pressure groups, the hate, the doxxing, the pressure of advertisers, Stonewall law and it did so by simply being allowed to exist. The women on here and in the wider world did the rest. It's easy to forget just how difficult it was for MNHQ to hold the line especially when being attacked by all sides.

Thank you.

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mrshoho · 17/04/2025 17:52

Does Ocado not remember what happened the last time it messed with FWR? If I remember they had to issue an apology blaming a junior customer service employee pretty quickly after 100s of orders were abruptly cancelled.

SidewaysOtter · 17/04/2025 17:39

Oh and Ocado? I was about to start placing the occasional top up order with you, but now you can FUCK RIGHT OFF.

SidewaysOtter · 17/04/2025 17:39

Thank you @JustineMumsnet I’ve had posts removed - removals that I vociferously disagreed with (sorry!) - but I did understand the pressures you were under. Or I thought I did, I now realise how bad it was.

Thank you for holding the line and letting us speak.

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PonyPatter44 · 17/04/2025 17:32

I cane for the fat balls, I stayed for the feminism. Thank you everyone.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 17/04/2025 16:56

Thank you MN.

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KateShugakIsALegend · 17/04/2025 16:50

Indeed!

Slave2thekitty · 17/04/2025 16:30

I'm adding my voice to the chorus of thanks to @JustineMumsnet and @MNHQ for allowing women to have a space to talk to each other. I initially came to Mumsnet for The Litter Tray; I stayed for the feminism. You vipers have guided me, reminded me I'm not alone; pointed me to gardening site; helped me write letters and made me laugh. Yesterday I danced around the house in happiness for all of us. Thank you! The fight is not over.

ScribblingPixie · 17/04/2025 16:22

Ocado? FFS! They have been pestering me for a while, offering me more and more money to go back to using them. Well, they can get in the bin.

MrsPeterHarris · 17/04/2025 15:22

Thank you @JustineMumsnet, your post has once again brought tears to my eyes on this topic! Massive well done to you & your team xx

ScribblingPixie · 17/04/2025 15:14

I agree, and I have appreciated it very, very much. To have it acknowledged in the Supreme Court that Mumsnet brought together the women who have achieved this moment must be very gratifying.

Datun · 17/04/2025 15:10

chilling19 · 17/04/2025 14:04

YES! who do they think their customers are? Also Marks & Spencer with their changing room policies.

Yes, in fact, almost anyone who considers advertising here, is doing so because we are their customers. It's foot shooting.

But I suppose Ocado got me more, because people will buy from them every week. Every bloody week!

Did they learn nothing from Budweiser!!

HarpQuartet · 17/04/2025 15:06

I'm another who rarely posts but has been educated by FWR, thank you.

Bobblebottle · 17/04/2025 14:58

I want to add my thanks to Justine and the women of FWR, including those no longer here. I'm incredibly grateful for all of you. I genuinely don't think we would be where we are without mumsnet.

chilling19 · 17/04/2025 14:04

Datun · 17/04/2025 11:15

Bloody Ocado? A few months ago?

Ocado

Who the bloody hell do they think keeps them in business???

It's extraordinary. Who managed to convince those spineless fuckers that ignoring millions and millions of women and their basic, really basic rights, was in their interests?

i'm really glad Justine told us that.

A newspaper called yesterday's decision, seismic. And it really is.

The door to the right side of history is gonna get pretty busy, my guess is that some grovelling is on its way

Bloody Ocado! I can't get over it.

YES! who do they think their customers are? Also Marks & Spencer with their changing room policies.

Madcats · 17/04/2025 14:01

[What have Ocado done?]

I am both proud and sad that FWR is pretty much the only forum that hasn’t buckled to all the bullying and threats; well done! I found it quite by chance during Bailey v GCC and Stonewall.

Onwards Vipers. Rejoice that you’ve graduated from being called racist nazi bigots to being Trump supporters!

LlynTegid · 17/04/2025 13:57

Many thanks from me too.

chilling19 · 17/04/2025 13:54

👍👍👏👏

ArabellaScott · 17/04/2025 13:53

Ocado don't seem to have tweeted since December.

https://x.com/Ocado

They can fuck off, though.

https://x.com/Ocado

WithSilverBells · 17/04/2025 13:49

Radicalised on Mumsnet👋Thank you, Justine

howard97A · 17/04/2025 13:48

Thank you, Mumsnet.

Willandra · 17/04/2025 13:18

AnneElliott · 17/04/2025 11:34

Similarly on Ocado I have a shop coming today that I can’t cancel but that will be the last one. Who do they think does the bloody food shop for goodness sake!

I do love a good boycott so would also welcome a list of those companies that don’t support women talking about matters that affect them.

Good idea!

To paraphrase Black Books, I wish I shopped at Ocado so I could stop.

andtheworldrollson · 17/04/2025 13:18

Thank you munsnet, Justine and all

VisitationRights · 17/04/2025 13:15

Many thanks to MNHQ 💐👏🙏

TheDefiant · 17/04/2025 12:29

And another thank you from me. I was a premium subscriber for a few years to say thanks (stopped due to CoL) though may restart. This site cost me a fortune in supporting legal fees though. Every penny well worth it. Thank you thank you to MNHQ and all the amazing women on here.

HandsomeCleverandRich · 17/04/2025 12:20

Thank you MNHQ. As an arts academic in one of the unis much mentioned in dispatches I’ve very much appreciated the space MN have accorded us all to discuss questions so fundamentally about us, which otherwise and elsewhere were so determinedly going on without us. Otherwise I often felt like I was going insane.

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