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Thank you MNHQ

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Blistory · 16/04/2025 15:20

I don't post much on here anymore but just wanted to take a moment today to thank Mumsnet @MNHQ and Justine in particular for standing strong over a considerable number of years.

I fully appreciate that not all Mumsnet members or employees held the same beliefs but in the fury of doxing, banning, and insults, MNHQ held the line to enable this space where women were able to have a discussion.

I know the arguments and concerns over the years but the fact is that this was the only public space for a considerable number of years where a conversation was allowed about what came to be known as gender critical concerns.

This was where women came to gather, to discuss, to learn, to be heard, to form new spaces, to support and to stand strong. It wasn't always a pleasant place to be but it was always a place that was allowed to exist. It stood against the pressure groups, the hate, the doxxing, the pressure of advertisers, Stonewall law and it did so by simply being allowed to exist. The women on here and in the wider world did the rest. It's easy to forget just how difficult it was for MNHQ to hold the line especially when being attacked by all sides.

Thank you.

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Iampondering · 17/04/2025 22:06

A huge thank you from me also, and interestingly in my professional life I've just concluded an ad campaign with mumsnet that I wanted to run precisely because of the voice you have given to women. Not that I told my company that was the reason 😂

littlebilliie · 17/04/2025 21:59

SometimesMaybe · 17/04/2025 19:27

I read a post some time ago which said “I was radicalised by mumsnet”. That resonated with me so powerfully. We are a force and as someone who hasn’t been able to speak out at work I feel empowered. Thank you all so so much.

Love this - are there t shirts or badges

CandidAzureBee · 17/04/2025 21:58

Thank you very much @JustineMumsnet. You and the team here have been such an important part of this - you really have stood your ground when it would have been easier and commercially better not to. Thank you!

WheeshtNoMore · 17/04/2025 21:52

Well said OP, and thank you MNHQ from me too.

ConstructionTime · 17/04/2025 21:39

There is a saying that writing is thinking, and people who can't find a beginning should just start to freely write down their ideas.

The format of this forum, and that there is a forum, with proper forum architecture, is so helpful. Discussions on social media or reddit or any other place are not the same because they do not have a forum structure. I still do not understand why so many forums folded because the unstructured comments in other places are not helpful for debates. A permanent, well-structured forum is brilliant for long-time interaction.

Many ideas are much easier to understand and to develop when you write them down and interact with other contributors. Having to explicitly write down your argumentation helps enormously with understanding of a topic. Especially such complex topics as are debated in FWR become clearer when people actively take part.

@JustineMumsnet

Ukholidaysaregreat · 17/04/2025 21:38

Thank you.

Datun · 17/04/2025 21:29

SometimesMaybe · 17/04/2025 19:27

I read a post some time ago which said “I was radicalised by mumsnet”. That resonated with me so powerfully. We are a force and as someone who hasn’t been able to speak out at work I feel empowered. Thank you all so so much.

A few years back, I went to a meeting where Maya Forstater was speaking.

When I arrived, she was handing out stickers saying 'Radicalised by Mumsnet.'

Then, it was slightly tongue in cheek, because TRAs had said this was a radicalisation site. You know, as an insult.

Now, it's a badge of honour 😁

Villagetoraiseachild · 17/04/2025 19:48

Your response @JustineMumsnet had me bawling again and I thought I was done for a while after yesterday.
Thank you so much for this space, for the freedoms it has granted, the sanctuary, encouragement and extraordinary education that is here.

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SometimesMaybe · 17/04/2025 19:27

I read a post some time ago which said “I was radicalised by mumsnet”. That resonated with me so powerfully. We are a force and as someone who hasn’t been able to speak out at work I feel empowered. Thank you all so so much.

Orangemintcream · 17/04/2025 19:19

I would also like to thank you. You supported the women when they needed it.

FamilyStrifeIsHard2Bear · 17/04/2025 19:13

Yes - this is one of the very few spaces where women can speak relatively freely on these concerning issues when many spaces were shutting down all discussion. Thank you MNHQ and Justine 💪🏻

sashagabadon · 17/04/2025 18:59

No more Ocado for me! Thanks MN

EasterParadeHats · 17/04/2025 18:53

I'm absolutely gob smacked.
Is this how low and dirty and vicious things got for literally wanting to protect women's rights and remove nothing from trans people I'd also like a list.
I absolutely adore ocado and I had no Idea Ankur this, in shopping elsewhere if this is still their stance.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 17/04/2025 18:53

I too thank MN, the freedom to express an opinion is a corner stone of democracy, and a Human Right, and there was a time when this site was the only place that was possible.

There was a reason why this ideology went so hard on the 'No Debate' doctrine, and this place was the only place that held out against that. 👏🤞😍

mrshoho · 17/04/2025 18:52

frenchnoodle · 17/04/2025 18:25

I'm pretty sure this is all part of the same thing.

It's just memories are short.

The one I'm thinking of was a good few years back and was connected to KJK's billboard campaign. I think Ocado wrote in support of the company who withdrew Kelli's posters. But they then apologised after losing loads of customers.

Testingmypatience1 · 17/04/2025 18:51

I wholeheartedly agree, thank you MN 🙏🏼
It was brave and courageous at the time, I remember it well, given the relentless threats, pressure and the challenges directed at MN and aimed squarely at free speech, the forum allowed all of us the safety to speak our minds and communicate our true feelings, therefore part of the reason why it launched so swiftly into the main stream.

I hope I will never witness such silencing again in my life time.

Thank you also to the intelligent trail blazers that educated us all so patiently year after year on MN - you know who you are.

LeSlogo · 17/04/2025 18:42

Thank you MNHQ!

paddingtoncoffee · 17/04/2025 18:38

@JustineMumsnet thank you so much for putting the heart of the site above commercial interests, so many have folded. It's obviously not over, but thanks to all who pushed for protecting rights for all, which is what the judgement made clear is the intention

Needspaceforlego · 17/04/2025 18:35

Needspaceforlego · 17/04/2025 18:23

@JustineMumsnet and @mnhq

Like most I didn't know what was going on behind the scenes. I've been on here about 10 years and had a fair few posts deleted- all is forgiven.
There are some very knowledgeable ladies on MN. I wasn't aware that women were being closed down on other platforms. Thanks you 😘

I will say I've name changed a fair few times, esp after a thread I'd posted was taken out of context by the Daily Mail!

Talkinpeace · 17/04/2025 18:31

I was banned for several years after making a Trans Comment (that I will not repeat)

I asked very nicely and was allowed back.

Mumsnet is a force for good. Justine is a shero.

Igmum · 17/04/2025 18:26

Yes, thank you MNHQ. You have provided a safe space for discussion barred elsewhere plus many quokkas. We are grateful.

frenchnoodle · 17/04/2025 18:25

mrshoho · 17/04/2025 17:52

Does Ocado not remember what happened the last time it messed with FWR? If I remember they had to issue an apology blaming a junior customer service employee pretty quickly after 100s of orders were abruptly cancelled.

I'm pretty sure this is all part of the same thing.

It's just memories are short.

Needspaceforlego · 17/04/2025 18:23

@JustineMumsnet and @mnhq

Like most I didn't know what was going on behind the scenes. I've been on here about 10 years and had a fair few posts deleted- all is forgiven.
There are some very knowledgeable ladies on MN. I wasn't aware that women were being closed down on other platforms. Thanks you 😘

KateShugakIsALegend · 17/04/2025 18:06

CaptainCarrotsBigSword · 17/04/2025 18:02

Jesus Christ on a bike, @JustineMumsnet - I always thought I knew roughly the pressures you were under from advertisers but that is just awful to read.

Mumsnet is a unique space for women and you have well and truly earned your place in feminist history.

Hear hear

CaptainCarrotsBigSword · 17/04/2025 18:02

Jesus Christ on a bike, @JustineMumsnet - I always thought I knew roughly the pressures you were under from advertisers but that is just awful to read.

Mumsnet is a unique space for women and you have well and truly earned your place in feminist history.

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